Anyone here having very hard times in finding a new girl after being breaking up with your girlfriend?
For me its the worst part about a breakup, feeling lonely again and knowing I can stay single for months. Time runs fast and I feel like Im wasting my whole life like this
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For me, the worst part is when her faggot ass family and friends continue stalking me both online and in real life LOOOOOONNNNNNGGGGG after we've parted ways because they want her to mean more to me than she did even though she's on par with a used napkin.
This is the main reason I haven't left my overweight gf
You could also become more independent and not be a bitch about it.
It's the worst. And the worst part is she usually starts fucking other guys within a couple of months and my dry spells are usually at least 6 months long.
I feel like I'm a decent enough looking guy, 6'2" 160-165, not a total skeleton, but certainly no gut hanging out. Home and business owner, dope ass corgi companion etc etc
I feel like finding a new girl could be pretty easy if I were the kind of guy that wanted the bar/club harlot, but I'm the kind that gets hopelessly hooked on someone even though the ship has TOTALLY sailed.
I'm even still hooked on a girl that I cut comms with 2 months ago (she broke up with me in Dec). She said she just couldn't see us ever dating again because I reminded her of a really shit time in her life (her sister died while we dated). Still hung up on her because I keep hearing shit that gives me even the SLIGHTEST glimmer of hope.
She works with the wife of a good friend of mine and they wen't out to lunch. Friends wife told her "you know you really fucked up in letting user go". She broke down in the middle of the restaurant crying saying "I know"
Someone end me
Worst thing was sleeping alone in a bed when you are used to sleep beside a person for not than 3 years.
But fuck that shit, found someone new after a month and leaving that cheating ex-GF slut was the best thing i've done for a long time.
I took care of someone for four years, and they broke up with me while I was at work, took everything out of our shared house, and replaced me in a month. The trick to feeling okay about stuff like this is to realize that now she's his problem. I do whatever the fuck I want, and I take my time finding someone new because I'm not a heartless asshole.
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Do what I do: Cut all contact with whoever you're still infatuated with. Delete all messages. Live your life like 4-6 months. Working out is fucking great to get your mind off shit and build confidence.Get laid if at all possible. Then re-engage as a friend. Makes you feel like a champ and you have no interest in her at that time.
Not a cuck. Just literally know when to cut ties and say, hey, you wanna date a janitor, go right the fuck ahead
I just got cheated on and dumped from my 3 year relationship two days ago, so I feel your pain. Worst part is, I'm living with my parents again, no job, and don't even have any friends here. I don't think I'll ever have a relationship like this one again. We went on incredible adventures all over the West Coast and up to Alaska together. No idea how I'm ever going to be in another relationship that compares. Even the dog that I'm keeping reminds me of her.
I already have deleted her from my life, but I still talk about her to my friends, that's when the story of the restaurant came up. I've deleted texts, emails, phone numbers, everything but still can't let go. I just can't get her out of my head.
Same thing happened in high school, gf broke up with me and even through two other girlfriends (one of them turning into a wife, then ex-wife), I still thought about her and couldn't get her the fuck out of my head.
OP here
had to return to my parents house, I dont have friends here anymore as most of them are married, living their lives or working abroad in other places.
I dont have a job neither, lost it too so Im trying to stand up again and do something of value, but its really hard. I have a lot of hobbies, but trying to watch a movie or seeing that one we were waiting together to be released is too depressing. Watching porn is almost impossible because I keep thinking of her all the time, so its better to disconnect my mind if I start thinking things like that.
I installed Tinder but Im not good at taking pictures and faking social life, dont have an instagram account neither and most of the girls there arent really interesting, its been 24hours and not still a single match. Im starting to believe I wont get new girls.
Depressing and horrible times.
I only broke up with my girl a few weeks ago, so I kind of understand how you feel. Just need to take some time, there's no point rushing into another relationship.
The most important relationship is your relationship with yourself.
You should abandon the conditional feeling.
I am happy when I have this or that.
Learn to be happy without a condition and a new world opens up for you. Seriously.
The best relationship is the relationship with your inner being.
The most important one.
So stop focusing on the past en feel good about the future. Know that things are always working out for you.
Things are always working out for you
Things are always working out for you.
Feel it user...
The present reality doesn't mean shit.
I installed tinder after too, It's pretty shitty tbh, I can't imagine meeting someone on there. I know I'm not ugly, I'm in decent shape but I just have no confidence, can't take a pic of myself at all.
Breakups just shatter your confidence.
The fucking dog man.
My wife and I picked up this little guy when he was 7 weeks old. After the divorce I thought it may have been a mistake to fight to keep him, but just a couple months after that Roy and I got so much closer. Little bastard is my co-pilot now, I take him anywhere and everywhere that I can. SO glad I fought to keep him. I'd be in a world of hurt without him for sure. He kept me active in a dark fucking time. We started going hiking 3-4 times a week and to the dog park almost as much.
While the wound is still fresh don't try to suppress anything. It simply doesn't help. Get drunk at home and blast Tom Waits or Chris Stapleton. After a few weeks/a month has gone by, then you can to avoid the feels
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>In a land there's a town, and in that town theirs a house and in that house there's a woman, and in that woman there's a heart I love, I'm going to take it with me when I go.
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No joke though, get it out. You need to, and you need to be talking about it to someone, even if it's a professional. I thank god I did after the divorce.
You'll make it user
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Try Bumble, I've had *much* better luck on there
It's good to find a new one before breaking with current girl. Yea, ik, that's what assholes do.
I wish I could have more friends or social life, its far better and easier to me if I meet girls in real life rather than online dating.
Hanged around with some people I found in a website looking for more people but they were just depressing, old dudes, divorced women, uninteresting topics and ugly and depressive people in general. I think their way of life was even contagious -If I was seeing with them I wont be able to reach better girls anymore-
So at the end Im alone at my own jail. Talking to strangers or going out by my own its not really a solution, I dont really know what else to do.
Tried to talk or iniciate some conversation in the gym but.. thats not really great.
You need to remove the idea that your life is meaningless without a woman in it and / or that you have no value without a woman if you're not involved with one.
Im not really looking into a new relationship, but having a girl here and there for these bad times really helps, even if its only for some drinks or casual chatting. I dont really care about sex right now, if it happens its just fine.
The real problem is Im feeling like shit, Tinder rejection also made it worse. Before this girl I got 15 matches in a small amount of time, in a small town is something not bad. But right now and after 24hours not a single one? Thats really crushing for me
Yeah dipshit it's called "getting over it"
Stop looking for new girls and instead just do activities that make you happy. The girls will follow as a byproduct
I haven't wanted to date again because I remember how annoying and clingy girls can be when you're dating. Fuck that, haven't had a gf in probably over 3 years and I'm not, looking for one any time soon
The grass is always greener...
I've been in a relationship for 12 years, and I'm miserable. I just want to be alone and have more time for my hobbies. :-(
fucking faggot can't be by himself, needs constant validation
man up sissy boi
You say that until you only have time alone.
No joke, going to parties alone, leaving them alone to go back to a house that's empty. It doesn't get a whole lot worse than that, and I'm a pretty solid introvert...
My problem is even after 3 years i cant get over my ex... Shes so perfect in every way, but i fucked it up. Now im with my current girlfriend but i just cant get into it like i did with my ex.. Fuckin feels bad man
No shit, the grass is always greener.
So much this. Even though break up was so hard on me, her family and friends were annoying as shit, whenever i go out with some other girl that are my friends not even on a date, her friends would hit me up with message that i am bad person cause she is in pain and i should feel bad, even though i didnt go out after a break up with another girl for 9 months.
exactly my point of view.
Are you dating her because you like her or are you dating her to try getting over your old ex? Cuz that's part of what people refer to as "having baggage"
>broke up with gf few weeks ago
>already got 7 girls to hang out with
>mfw I'm fat and ugly, but great personality and for some reason that seems to be what girls want right now
I can't explain it, but for some reason I'm getting all the pussy. I've had one girl tell me she likes when we hang out because I'm not thirsty and she is usually the one sitting in my lap first and kissing me.
Where you meet these thots?
Do you have a job or a degree?
I do like her, just not as much as i liked my ex. My ex is the only person ive told that i love them.
same, preach brother
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Stop being a bitch. At least your both still alive. Let her be happy and be happy for her. My girlfriend of going on 5 years diedalmost 2 years ago. Life has been fucking hell ever since. I even tried dating again but i dont thinl I'm ready for that yet...
you sound like a looser, no wonder she cheated on you. get you life together go work, buy expensive stuff and get a girlfriend. being a bitch wont help