Can we actually save ourselves from porn addiction or are we doomed forever?

Can we actually save ourselves from porn addiction or are we doomed forever?
I've tried NoFap several times and eventually failed.
My longest streak was just above 2 weeks.
Seriously, what would it actually take to quit porn and start living better?
My porn addiction is pretty severe and sometimes I just look at porn pics for fun, without even jerking off because I've already jerked off too much that day.

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I did nofap before nofap was a thing. Didn't jerk it for three whole months in boot camp. Guess what? There's no fucking point. Beat away.

There are medication options to help but like cigarettes; you just gotta ruthlessly do away with it. Join a sports or community club. Be too busy. it helps

I was very busy this whole summer.
Still jerked off 1-2 times a day.

how often do u jerk

3 times a day now.

ever had a boner or started fapping in public? no? be in public, idiot

The question is WHY do you feel the need to stop?

I feel like fapping and the type of porn I fap to is closely related to the neckbeard virgin culture.
I want to have a normal life.
I want to find a passion, be successful and start a family.
Jerking off to weird cartoon porn several times a day is holding me back.

That's my problem in general. I don't like being in public. I like being in my box, where nobody can see me jerk it or smell myself or any of the other weird shit I do. When I'm in public, and I catch a whiff of my balls, I close my legs.

AT HOME I RELISH IN IT
>MFW

Sounds like a case of regular showering.

I do shower regularly, actually. The problem is, I have two pairs of pants, and I hate doing laundry.

After a week of work, the ball smell is kind of in there.

Have you discovered uderwear yet, user?

I just found out that I didn't have a boner when I saw nude qt pics in /s/. I like them, I want to be with them and appreciate their physical beauty but my dick isn't rock hard. Is this because I only fap to hentai for 3 years? Should I do nofap until I become a horndog before naked women again?

Same here. Didn't fap for nearly 5 months thanks to Army basic and AIT. There really weren't any changes despite having the urge to do so 24/7.

Then do laundry more. I mean that is a pretty simple solution. If you want change in your life, you must get out of your comfort zone. You can't expect life to hand everything to you in form of easy solutions. That or buy more pants. If you are poor, then buy pants from second hand stores.

I am with you user.

About 3 weeks was my best streak, and the sad thing is I was feeling really good, getting alot of confidence back...then had to move to new city with new job, lots of anxiety sooooo...excuse to fap.

Pornographic video games are the real killer for me.

Who knows, dude.

Some say that NoFap is only the unwiring part. You also need to rewire your brain properly, I assume.
The only way to do this would be to actually fuck real women. This is the problem.
The majority of guys who first start NoFap are not able to get laid, especially on regular basis.
Just having a girlfriend would not be such a good solution either.
You would see her as your "salvation" of sorts and get really needy which would kill the relationship.

Anons do not understand.

Its not just about fapping, its about spending HOURS every day looking at porn, finding new porn, edging yourself, etc. Its a huge fucking time sink when you have a problem with porn.

This.

It also messes with your brain when you watch and fap to all that weird porn.
Severe porn addicts don't just fap to vanilla sex

Wearing a chastity device helps me not fap.

I don´t know why u would like to stop jerking off rather than learning self control but i would love to know the source of that hentai, i can´t find it for "matome hon"

What's seft control? Fap once a month or once a week?

It doesn't work for fap addicts.
If I last a week, 1 fap will only make me want more.

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Man these shit really kill my boner, I doubt I can evolve to the stage where I can fap to insects

Today I fapped to the idea of me being a girl used for insect breeding.

thats fukkin gay

Any expert in addictions will give u a concrete number of times, cause there isn´t, what they will tell u is that you should keep it at a level that don´t interfere in your long term projects (like study or socialize). The thing most of u are getting for total abstinence is abstinence violation (encyclopedia.com/education/encyclopedias-almanacs-transcripts-and-maps/abstinence-violation-effect-ave). You will fail once an then fap like a monkey. Also there is nothing wrong about masturbation, could be an addiction like wasting your time in this board, but is not that bad. Would be reasonable keep it at a moderate level. All the things you read here about total abstinence beneffits is just pseudoscience bullshit based on missconceptions. You will not get a job a girlfriend and a yatch by not jerking, in fact, making plans to get al those things and stick to them will lower the number of times you jerk off. Finally, whats the name of the hentai on ops pic?

It's not gay.
The hottest part is being a girl, being impregnated by animals and giving birth to them.

I want to be the animal instead and turn the girls into more animalistic the more we fuck

moar i've been looking for something new to fap to

More like this?

I want to dedicate my life to being bred by animals.
Here

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Dude.

That's all.

I know, right?
Sometimes I wonder how did I become so fucked up.
This is some next level shit.

I also have severe porn addiction OP, from what i've heard, you've gotta reboot for A LONG TIME. they say a reboot is about 90 days, but for some it takes much longer. People with fetishes for example like watching sissy hypnos, it can take much longer, maybe up to a year. It's really fucking difficult to quit once you've gone down the rabbit hole. But keep trying bro, there are those that have managed to quit, but you gotta really be determined to cut it out of your life forever, which is really difficult when you're on week 2, and the only you want is to fap. Stay strong my brother, porn wins when you give up.

I used to fap daily to sissy hypnos, femdom, cuck stuff, bbc worship, i often think my mind is past redemption, and that I may never be able to live a normal sex life again, but I still have the hope that if i manage a reboot i'll be ok, but it's probably gonna take me a year or more of NoFap to make it happen. Now I'm down to jerking off once a week, which is a start. You can do it man, you just gotta let these images and neural pathways that are now in your brain fade away with time, like an old trail that doesn't get used anymore, those pathways in your brain with eventually fade as well. Good luck bro, don't give up

yea that's really rare kink you got there man, good luck with that

that's becuse masturbation is a natural thing you fucking retard

>I used to fap daily to sissy hypnos, femdom, cuck stuff, bbc worship, i often think my mind is past redemption, and that I may never be able to live a normal sex life again, but I still have the hope that if i manage a reboot i'll be ok, but it's probably gonna take me a year or more of NoFap to make it happen. Now I'm down to jerking off once a week, which is a start. You can do it man, you just gotta let these images and neural pathways that are now in your brain fade away with time, like an old trail that doesn't get used anymore, those pathways in your brain with eventually fade as well. Good luck bro, don't give up
Man you're really fucked up. I recall that a year ago I fapped daily but now I fap twice a week to rule34, CoC/TiTs, pregnant sex and bestiality. I feel like I need to stop if I want to have a normal relationship with a girl but I don't know, I just enjoy my life for now. Maybe I will consider it when I'm 30 or so.

Thanks, man.
However, as I said earlier, we need to forge new pathways by having sex with women, or at least trying to.
When porn pathways weaken, you will still desire porn more than sex.
Your brain just doesn't know any better at that point.
Exactly, like wtf

Haha you have no idea how fucked up man, i've been watching this shit for 5 years now, I can't get a boner to anything vanilla, I have porn induced erectile dysfunction, I suffer from premature ejaculation. I horribly insecure about my average penis size because i've watched to many porn vids of guys with massive cocks. And not to mention I'm mentally ill and have been in psychiatry for the past two years, i have no job, I'm over weight and out of shape. I'm pretty fucked

This

it also leads you to weireder and wierder porn. I have trouble getting erections when having sex with women, but with men or women in porn is fine.

It's made me a pervert.

At this point your only salvation is half-baked nihilism user. You must make your brain think that porn doesn't matter because in the end it's just digital pictures and videoclips that will be deleted and forgotten one day. Your snacks, chips, soda, cheese and whatever don't matter because they will be thrown into trashbin and forgotten one day, you just eat two loaf of bread and canned food a day to survive.
Give it a try since you're mentally ill anyway.
You will know what to do when you wake up and feel empty.

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> be over 29 y/o but less than 32
> fapped whole life
> stole playboys from stepdad
> would you like porn_addiction.exe to boot on startup?
> this was just before broadband
> 56k pics from sexzool
> fap for next 16 years, sometimes 5 times a day
> still fap even with cutecute azn g/f
> she likes porn too, specifically lesbian bdsm stuff
> but caught her jilling to BBC DP twice
> hmm kinda concerning but oh well
> she sends weird cuckoldy msgs
> "i like really huge thick cocks"
> "i need one"
> we break up
> develop strong aversion to cuck porn
> focus on myself, gain 15 pounds of muscle over a year
> no longer skinny fat, girls mirin on the daily
> score with a chick off tinder/bumble/clover/pof once a month
> still fap.
> can only cum to lesbian rimjobs
> hmmmm

at least I'm not this guy, good luck with that

Thanks.

but hey at least you're not me
i'm this guy