Spousal rape discussion thread. Anyone ever done it? Stories? Results? Long-term effects...

Spousal rape discussion thread. Anyone ever done it? Stories? Results? Long-term effects? My wife had become a frigid old twat and I'm considering drastic measures.

Pic unrelated, but it's a nice ass.

Really, nobody?

We had sex first the first time in a while a few nights ago. She warned me her pussy was too dry and she might only be able to go for a few minutes, so she tried to suck my cock for a bit first, for the first time in years. She was never anything special with her mouth, but she at least used to be competent. This was awful, like she wanted to be anywhere but. Did eventually fuck her at the speed of a somnolent tortoise for 5 minutes or so and blew as fast as I could before she said she was done. Shit sucks, man. One of these nights I'm going to snap and roll her onto her belly in her sleep, yank down her ugly pajamas and rip her pussy up.

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Anything to contribute or just an interested observer?

Have you tried not being a fucking loser? I get sex whenever the fuck I want it because I know how to turn my girl on.

Too bad. I'd hoped with all the bitter old married anons here that someone would have at least considered it.

Attraction cannot be negotiated.

Go better yourself. Lift. In doing so it'll employ a bit of dread which will cause the hamster to spin.

When that hamster stars spinning she'll employ her only utility to ensure her selfish security using the only tools she has available: 1. Emotional manipulation (shit tests) and 2. Sex.

Profit.

How long have you been with her? How many kids does she have?

14 years, 3

Saw part of a guys trial for raping his wife. They lived together and everything slept in same bed. The officer testified, like a show on COPs for a domestic, excpt she said rape. He was facing 40 to life no parole. The officer said she had no scratches or anything but said he admitted to it at the time.

Tried this. Got in pretty good shape. Started bringing her flowers every week. We always had a pretty equitable split of duties around the house, but I started trying to help more. All the shit you read. Nada.

Done once, felt like shit after

Ironically it's the sex she wants to have anyway.

Wow, lucky you. What do you do to turn her on?

Story? Greentext?

Got to be hard to prove without physical evidence of violence. Stupid guy for admittting it.

>>Started bringing her flowers every week.
>>split duties around the house.

That's your problem user.
It's you focusing on what she's said is the problem. If you're buying her flowers and helping her around the house you haven't read shit.

Go read 'No More Mr Nice Guy.' All that "I'm doing shit for her," is one part you feeling shame and one part trying to negotiate for sex.

You said she just fucked you right? You must want a porn star wife. I think you may have highly unrealistic expectations from your porn addiction.

married life is miserable enough without giving mrs hitler yet another thing to harp on about

>you raped me, my pussy's sore
>yada yada yada

Really? You think sex for 5 minutes more than once every couple of months and a half-assed blowjob for the first time in years is a reasonable expectation for a healthy sex life?

Thats a quick divorce.

this

She doesen't want you anymore because you are a low test cuck

He is having dissatisfying, shitty sex; where one party isn't engaged.

It's sex from her part to placate her husband's wants. She doesn't understand why she doesn't get dripping wet when he walks in the door; he doesn't understand why passionate sex where both parties are having a go is off the table...

Explain?

Well, there's this.

In a nutshell

From a person who prob has unresolved conflicts with you yeah.

No. It's you regaining your masculinity in behaving like a man. If she's over 40 (and they live in a state without lifetime alimony) her chances of finding another individual willing to care for her needs is slim to none.

Her cunt is just broken, obviously. That and it seems she has no libido. Get that bitch to a doctor, there are a million reasons why she might be dry or have no libido.

I'm kind of lucky in that it's actually a turn on for her (being forced). I've forced her a couple of times, but not full on "rape" yet. Preggo right now, will wait for her to recover before getting rough.

Wow, took longer to get that insightful response than I expected.

Meh, we both have good paying jobs. She'd be just fine if we divorced. And she's not over 40, but close enough.

Have you ever thought maybe you're boring the fuck out of her sexually or that she's cheating on you?

>>Explain?
The explanation is better articulated in that text (I think its a grand total of a 6 hour audio book) than I could ever give you.

How much time do you dedicate to yourself throughout the week without the thought of, "I hope this won't make my wife angry?"

Be honest with yourself, how "in-shape" are you? A lot of it is understanding what her attraction to you actually is (pro-tip it isn't because you're a "provider") and where it may be lacking.

Could be due to a misinterpretation of masculinity due to the ongoing warping of it from a feminized perspective. Could be that you're fat. Or it could have nothing to do with you and her brain could be fucked up....

Fucked my wife a few times when she was passed out drunk. I don't feel bad though if she was concious she would have been backing up on my cock anyways.

There's some other minor stuff where she plays hard to get and I slam her on the bed, ripping her panties off, gritting my teeth saying "GIVE me that pussy" on some super cringey shit but that actually turns her on and makes for 10/10 sex.

I hate to be the one to break it to you user, but voluntary near-celibacy on part of a spouse is just the tip of the iceberg. If she is "frigid" as you describe her there is more in her mind that requires fixing that you, her, and especially both of you together have not addressed carefully enough.

It sucks that it has to be this way, but while sex can work as a defusing device for you as a male, females of our species have more often than not learned to prioritise things differently. Chances are you need to use
>your words
and not
>your dick
to solve things.

Talk to her, be honest, be open, and most of all be willing to compromise. Remember that a marriage is nothing if not a long term padlock made of pure 100% stainless compromise, and that itself is the key to resolving any issues that stem from unresolved emotions (and resulting unemotionality).

>Force
>Not rape

Explain

She almost certainly is bored. Shit, I certainly am. I've tried to spice things up, to get her to open up about what she might be missing to little or no effect.

There's essentially no chance she's cheating. We work in the same building, and pretty much know where each other is 100% of the time. One of the reasons I don't cheat.

Horseshit.

His words won't solve shit. You're not going to be able to rationalize or negotiate her desire. Biology doesn't work that way.

dude just divorce her already

Tfw you come to Sup Forums for a good old fashioned rape fantasy thread and get a self-help book.

Kek

>erpretation of masculinity due to the ongoing warping of it from a feminized perspective. Could be that you're fat. Or it could have nothing to do with you and her brain could

If anything OP needs to stop focusing on whats wrong with his wife and dedicate his time to improving himself. If she gets the hint that he is suddenly more attractive to other females her mechanisms will go into overdrive trying to, "figure out what his angle is," which naturally turns into locking that shit down sex.

There's a reason why there are so many failed marriages even after counselling. Men and women don't "speak" the same languages when they're talking to each other.

Blowing it out in the open is going to clamp that pussy shut faster than superglue.

this to start, followed by a visit to docs/shrink to rule/sort out issues if needed.

This is the guy I really want to hear from.

Yep. Start the documentation early so when she decides that she has had enough, and is no longer happy there's a big long paper trail of contempt on the part of the wife for when he gets absolutely raped in court.

Ok she's in a rut then. Take her on a vacation--- nothing expensive--- even just a surprise day trip.

If she isn't cheating on you now, she is close. It sounds like she is completely detached emotionally.

I've ran into this same thing with my wife. She started flirting in front of me with other guys which had NEVER been an issue in 11 years of being together. Tell me if you fit this profile:
>been together long time
>used to have amazing sex
>very loyal, hardworking couple
>you feel like you're just dating/married to your best friend

Yeah? Then change. Start complimenting her for no reason whatsoever and make her feel like the most amazing woman in the world even though we BOTH know that's not the case.

Random surprises are good. I mean out of the blue stuff-- completely random. Taking her to her favorite restaurant won't work because unless you've only been together a year then you've done that plenty of times before...

Ok... what's in it for you? The best fucking 10/10 fuck every day get pussy just because she wants you to cum in her sex you've ever had in your life. The kind where just your hand on her hip makes her shiver. The kind where she will start riding your cock or sucking you off just to thank you for being a good "daddy".

tl;dr: Be nice to your women-- make her feel amazing and your sex life will be better than ever

Well, hold her down by force, force her into the bedroom, etc. But by the time we got to the actual sex she was usually into it. Once she wasn't and I stopped. This is before I knew what I know now.

Seriously. If I wants marriage advice I'd have gone to a counselor. Started this thread hoping to hear some rape stories, or at least from other anons who have considered it.

I've done it to both my current and ex wife. Wtf are they going to do about it?

The feels

My wife lets me fuck her but we use lube. Ever since we had my kid she's been more frigid than a nun. It's ridiculous. Sometimes I'm forced to finger her in her sleep to start the warm up process. Shit happens. It's life.

Stories, please.

Sounds like my situation.

anyone got any storys?

I think that sounds like a plan dude, you've got to do something about it, she's your women and you should be banging her every night. Make sure you don't have a political discussion about whether she wants it or not. Just take her by the hand and walk her to where you want to fuck her and the way you want to fuck her and make sure you never ever explain why you changed suddenly or behaving differently just be vague and say I don't know it just occured to me today when I was at the shop or some other nonsense.

She might resist or make excuses if she does that just walk away and come back at some other time and try it and while you are not fucking her you should be visiting your local brothel and fucking girls there until she comes to her senses and complies.

kik me rasnap

just post it here.

Need stories

My ex didnt like analsex, more like hate than dislike really. One time I was really horny but she was on her period and didnt want to have sex. But she eventually gave in, but I didnt want to fuck a bloody pussy, so I started to finger her ass, she was first a bit uncomfortable but then after a short while she started to moan. I thought here ok I here I go and begin to put my dick in her asshole. But then she started to squirm and said it hurt after my tip was inside her ass. She keep saying stop, stop please. But I was like, fuck it I'm not gonna stop. So I pushed my dick all the way in and fuck that ass. It was so good, I fucked her for a good 5 mins before I couldnt hold it anymore and blew my whole load in her ass.

Nice. Any blowback from her afterwards?

She probably wouldn't have blown him after that, she was probably pretty upset

Um no, she was mad as hell. "That was mean" She said.

I guess that's what I meant. I assumed she didn't suck your cock afterwards. I meant were there any long term consequences?

...

Done it twice. Things got really awkward for about a week and I basically spent that time pretending to be really sorry and making it up to her and then she got over it. I don't think she'd forgive me if it happened again though.

The first two times were definitely worth it

I'm sorry to say there's really no big hot story or anything. In both cases, they just said they didn't want to do it and I said well we're gonna do it anyway and I held them down and penetrated them and within 30 seconds they were getting into it; every time they came before I did. The first wife would complain a day or two later, but I really didn't fucking care. The current wife cried a little once afterwards and said that she hadn't wanted to do it, but she was getting off… They liked it. They liked it and they knew it.

>be me
>20 years married
>she's gained a lot of weight
>she's got low libido
>I usually meet up with other women
>she's ok with this
>arrive home drunk
>no action at the bar
>she's looking sexy in beer vision
>fuck her from good
>she's crying
>gets dressed runs out
>goes to her sister
>comes back in the morning with breakfast
>she now initiates sex.

story

I mean yea, she didnt trust me when we have sex and everytime and I wanted to try something new she was afraid you know. I did it one for time, and she was really upset that time. She was distant afterward for a while before everything when back to normal. Goddamn I miss that ass.

OP.. first hand experience here... bro in law is serving 15 yrs in prison with 10yrs probation for some choking and a forced blowjob.

It happened he was guilty as fuck but the only evidence was a log she kept of the abuse on her phone... Not worth it. Find a better way.

>>fuck her from good
???

Winrar

Does taking your wife's ass against her will count? I've done it a couple of times. She never used to agree to anal so she had to be out of it before I can get in there.
I gave her a double dose of sleeping pills then went to town. After I'd done it a few times, she just started letting me do it. She still hates it but at least she's awake and reacting now. To be honest, knowing it hurts and she hates it is half the fun.

story

I've done it quite a few times, wife always gets sore at me for a few days afterwards but has never stopped me.she works early mornings, I work evenings so we get to see each other for 30 minutes days we are working.

I just the itch for hard fucking and if she's asleep I'll take her. There's always a bit of a struggle until i penetrate her, even then she tries to slip me out.

Been doing this since we've been dating. A few years now.

First time we were already having sex and I got carried away. I was fucking her from behind and then called her a whore which she didn't like. We stopped and she told me not to say that. I apologised and we carried on. I feel brave so I start fucking her harder and asking "like that you cheap slut?". She gets pissed and tries to stop and this is just making me even harder. I fell on top of her and keep ramming away and she's begging me to stop and sounding genuinely upset. I remember saying "no you're gonna get what you deserve you fucking whore" and she just bursts out crying (like really properly crying) and stops fighting me off. This sends me over the edge and I pull out and blow my load up her back. Like it was a fucking huge load too, all in her hair too lol.

Anyway, I roll off and she just gets up and stays in the bathroom for hours. She eventually comes out and I apologies and she asks me not to talk to her. She spoke to me after a couple days and then after about a week we were relatively back to normal.

Don't know if it will mean anything here in Sup Forums, but try talking to her communication is key if you need further help try marriage counseling. For me, my wife was just stressed for a good month after that we been having sex anywhere from 5-6 times a week at least.

Just remember this will only work for so long. And will likely be stored away in her bank of shit shes got to use against you, to be brought up again.

My wifes libido is like a steam engine, (her own words) seems slow at first but once shes hot look the fuck out.

Try finding something that excites her... just hope its not A BBC in your ass that does the trick

If we're in bed and she says no, Ill start masterbating without her, she always rolls over and watches and within minutes gets dripping wet. Just cant do it all the time gotta use your tricks wisely

>It's too dry
Fuck that shit, break out the astroglide newfriend. Makes the driest surface slippery as fuck. Or this is her way of saying she has you by the balls and there is nothing you can do about it.

You can be a bitch and claim she's abusing you because she won't give you sex but you'd be laugh out of town. If she said you wouldn't give her sex and claimed abuse you'd get hung by your balls.

Tl;Dr

OP's wife have officially and legally cucked him. If he tries anything to take care of his needs he's fucked.

yea pretty much what happened the second time I fucked my exs ass. We were having sex, and I got carried away, I was fucking her from behind. She was really wet, and my dick was lubed up pretty good by her pussy juice, so switched hole. She started to say no, no, no! But I just ram it in and fuck that tight ass. She was screaming and crying, please stop and all that. I pulled her hair hard at the same time and came hard in her ass, best fuck of my life.

Don't be nice to her, treat her like shit, passively though. Let her know you don't need her dry cunt

Second time happened when we'd been out to a meal with some of her friends who I can't stand. I was already pissed because her friends always shit on my job because they're all in some form of medicine except for me. Wife didn't take sides but she didn't defend me either, she laughed it off and that got me mad.

Fast forward a few hours. We're back home and we're a little tipsy from drinks. She patronises me by asking if I'm "all upset" because of what her friends were saying earlier etc. Long story short, she ends up blowing me to get me relax.

I'm still mad though and I start pushing her head down and she keeps telling me not to do it. The last time I do it, she bites me enough to get me to release her head and she starts to shout at me when I just hit her with the cleanest slap I've ever made in my life.

She looks at me in shock and before she can say anything I've dragged her by her hair onto the bed and and got on top of her (she's face down), yanked down her panties from underneath her skirt and then started absolutely hate fucking her while calling her every shitty thing I can think of.

I blow my load in her and immediately feel horrified. I get off her and start apologising and trying to kiss her but she shoves me away and goes to the bathroom - same aftermath.

Got half a chub here, more?

Nah that was the last time. I feel like if it happened again I might end up single

Good story user, that was hot af.

As a lifelong christianist, I regular beat my wife before sex, often during. That's what the Lord requires to get women to submit to their man just as their man submits to the power of Jesus's penis in their ass (metaphorically). Of course my wife doesn't like it, especially if I draw blood while caning her ass, but she can take that up in prayer later and let god sort that out; it's not problem, I'm only following orders from the Lord himself!

Many times with my ex and a few with the current girlfriend.
Been dating ex for a few years but not yet living together. I go over to her place horny as fuck right after work one day. She is cleaning and walking around, I ask her if we can have sex tonight right as I walk in. She says sure we can but later babe I am busy. I move in like I am going to kiss her but instead grab her and force her over the back of the couch.

She struggles and pushes me back but I rip her tights down and unzip my pants. Her feet are stomping at mine as I enter her dry cunt and she complains about not being wet and begs me to stop. I rape her and eventually she gets wet, about that time I cum in her and pull out, pretend like nothing happened. She strips naked and begs for more sex, complains I raped her after. My solution? Did it again.

I'm having the same problem with my girlfriend. We live together for 8 years,and to be honesc i cheated on her with escorts multiple times. Because for the last two years she has becomed a frigid bitch,who only fucks me maybe once a week. She doesn't sucks my dick anymore,and wont let me spread the paint. SO i cheat on her with escorts,or other women i get the chance to fuck.

I hate that reasoning.
> just treat her like she's the best thing ever, even though you know it's not true
Yeah, reminds me every time of what she's not and how I have to lie to her and me to keep up the fassade of enjoying being with her.

> just make sure she feels comfortable
I wish women would be half as interested in making men feel comfortable with sex, than men are in making women feel that way

> what's in it for you?
Oh woaw, now I get to train and condition a bitch so she'll have sex with me. Shouldn't she just want to have sex with me, without me using psy-ops to get her horny? Isn't it also her problem, she doesn't get horny? Shouldn't she know best what turns her on? Nah, leave it up to the man to try and switch everything around until she starts to drip.
Can't expect a woman to understand her sexuality, they're all children anyway, right?

>having kids
You did this to yourself retard

There are clearly emotional/relationship issues that lie beneath her frigidity and your infidelity that aren't being addressed

Don't rape your wife. If you aren't happy and aren't going to be, just end your marriage.

Does she know?

That is not a nice ass

She tells me to come to bed if I want more, go in and she is bent over playing with my cum in her. Refuses to suck me off, spits me out of her mouth and begs for a pounding. I give it to her until she cums and we lay there panting.
She tells me I cant do that to her and it was rape. I tell her she is my gf and there is no such thing. She looks confused but then tells me that I was only able to rape her because I caught her by surprise and dares me to try it again.

I pin her down and get excited when she fights back, we wrestle until I am in her then she tells me I won and can stop. I keep going and she struggles for a minute before laying there and telling me to do as I please.

well,i'm unfaithfull because of her. If she was not such a frigid dry bitch,going to escorts wont be the case

Some partners just have mismatched sex drives. *Most* couples experience this to a great degree. You are right about comunicating (but not "talking," that does not work.

Pick up "How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It," take a *serious* look at what *you* are doing to cause this problem (Are you asking for what you want? Are you putting her on the defensive?), and try to change *that* first.

Also, /r/deadbedrooms.

Just go find some other woman/women to fuck. You'll be happy. Your wife will be happy that you aren't bothering her for sex any more. And you are spared the expense of a divorce.

Fuck all these guys who are telling you how to get your wife back in the mood. Fuck that bitch. She's reneging on the marriage deal. Don't be her Lando and pray that she doesn't alter the deal further. Get a side bitch and be done with this.

Yeah you still don't get it. Dig deeper, she's not frigid without reason

When you do more chores, you get less sex. That's just the way it is. The opposite view comes from repetition and isn't supportedby evidence.

Ahem...

>But now a new study in the American Sociological Review casts doubt on the truth of this happy feminist idyll. Men routinely doing “female” chores appear to have less—not more—sex. According to the authors, Sabino Kornrich (Center for Advanced Studies in the Social Sciences, Madrid), Julie Brines (University of Washington), and Katrina Leupp (University of Washington):

Couples in which men participate more in housework typically done by women report having sex less frequently. Similarly, couples in which men participate more in traditionally masculine tasks—such as yard work, paying bills, and auto maintenance—report higher sexual frequency.

Nice to hear a success story. Good job, user.

You are blaming her for your actions.

> don't be her lando and pray she doesn't alter the deal further
Nice one