I need advice Sup Forums

I need advice Sup Forums

How to act after a first date?
I think it went fine but I dont really know, she said it felt the same like when we were talking with whatsapp and time flew.

Should I wait for her to write first? Should I ask how she felt?

I'll tell you anything for more of those fucking tits

Now: "I had a great time. Have a good night"
*do not message her first for the next 5 days*
6 days later: Invite her out as if it were an afterthought.

Don't let your desperation show. Don't worship her

Thats what Im trying to do, I wish I could tell her all the things I wanted but that would look so desperated.

She went to have dinner with her best girl friend, I know she told her about me other days, but there isnt a message yet from her. Nothing.

Im going to wait until tonight or at least 20:00 or so, and then write her.

Read this advice again. Do NOT do otherwise.

You're clearly obsessing over her. Stop that.

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I know that Sup Forums
Tried to watch something or do other things and I keep checking the cellphone all the time.

Honestly I dont know if I could wait more time, Im going to write her after lunch or something like that.

I really need to know how it went, and maybe if she isnt writing me is because she didnt like it as much as expected... so its better to know sooner than later. Maybe she is thinking the same from me and doesnt want to write first.

Just chill and organise another date later. That is pretty much it. Don't overthink it or you've already lost her.

tell her that you had a really great time with her tonight and would like to see her again

Goddamn it, OP.

NO. Do not do that, you fucker. Go watch some porn, rub one out and realize how much you're trying to fuck yourself over. Women smell desperation from a mile away and once they do, they want nothing to do with you.

she's probably thinking the same dude. just message her those old ways of waiting 5 days etc are the old ways. most girls need assume these days

Fine, whatever. Go make an idiot of yourself over text and watch her go silent on you. Can't say you weren't warned.

5 days is a bit long and I, personally, believe in the 2-3 day range. Also may need to consider what's next -- if you want to go out again on Friday, you can't ask Thursday night...

Ok guys, here are the facts :

>Been talking for a week. It seems 1 month as we talk a lot, for hours every day. So many things in common, talk about anything until 3am or so.
>Sent her a few selfies, she likes me, "so handsome". Says she has a smile everytime she sees a message from me.
>"You attract me and you are so intelligent, but well, lets meet up first and see what happens"
>She already told her best friend about me and friend replied "looks great, wish you both like each other!"
>After our date yesterday she said it felt like when we talk online, and we'll have another date for sure.

It seems pretty fine, but I fear this could lead to a friendzone or something like this

Text her consyantly and be a turbo cuck
Say if she doesn't give you succ you'll an hero on the spot

>but I fear this could lead to a friendzone

Which is precisely why you flooding her with beta praise will do you no good at all.

>6 days
>thinking there's a rule to dating
you're pathetic fucking WEEB

She'll probably be getting stuffed by some nigger in 3 days or less XD

My fucking sides user...top kek

Try to enjoy every moment, and take it day by day. Statistically it will end in someone's heart break.

What if night arrives and still not a response?

5 months ago I meet a girl, had a drink and arrange a second date. That time we kept talking a lot, invited her to my place just for see a couple of projects (I have to admit I wasnt really interested on her). She left my house at 21:00 or so.

Didnt write her. She didnt neither.

Guess what happened? She disappeared, none of us gave the first step.

If you continue texting forever it does kinda kill it. You need to keep having those IRL interactions. Fact is there is no arbitrary rule to this, except that yeah, show some interest but in a way that isn't too needy and that will keep her excited about you. That's something that you will have to feel out yourself. To me you seem a bit too desperate bruh, and may need to work on building some worth outside of wanting a relationship. So, if this goes sideways because you're overthinking it, then use that to LEARN something. Sounds like you don't date that much. My advice is put yourself out there and date a bunch. You get experience and more idea of what you like and also you realise that girls arn't that special.

Thanks, Im going to wait and try to look Im busy or doing other things instead of thinking of her all the time. (Even she said she was thinking of me during all this weekend).

Sadly I came from a failed relationship of 6 years, dated a few girls and they came well, but most of them decided to change opinion or have second thoughts out of the blue, so its always a lottery with them.

Only easy girls are single young moms and chubby, and those are not my type.

That 2-6 day rule exists to keep people like OP from spilling spaghetti everywhere.

>What if night arrives and still not a response?

See? Just look how eager OP is to fuck everything up.

Keep talking like you always have, nothing has changed just because you met in person, if it wasn't a boring, awkward, shitfest; then continue on making the usual jokes and getting the usual responses until you find an opportunity to meet again or it comes up naturally in conversation and fucking TAKE it. Whatever got her to chance an outing with you in the first place is more than likely going to bring her back if you show the same level of interest but only escalate when you are within physical contact and shit should go smoothly.

Thats what Im going to do, keep talking like always and show everything went fine. If I suddenly start acting in other way or showing doubts she might notice something happened.

We usually talk after lunch or dinner, so lets wait. She already said about meeting other day because yesterday it was just a couple of hours and time flew away.

What worries me is that other girls sent me messages after a first date and telling me how it went, how they felt or if it was the same that they thought of.

cont.
She went dinner with her best girl friend and all she said was -still with her-
>"Todays conversation was in person! :)"

which is a pretty average reply

c'mere slut

I would just take action if she is responding with positive feed back and mentions possible physical meetings in the near future anyway, just reciprocate and offer to hang out again if she shows any sign of willingness. Offering to meet up again while providing good and interesting ways to spend time together will tell her exactly how you feel about how the situation went without blowing smoke up her cunt.

This is also good
Look man dating is hard, sometimes you just don't connect or you do and it fizzels out through no fault of your own and then the unrequited shit. All you can do is put yourself out there keep getting better at it and keep having a life of your own. You came here looking for advice to affirm what you were going to do. All I'm saying is TONE IT DOWN. Get some self faith bro

And I don't know about easy girls being single mums man. I've fucked some pretty fine ladies with in an hour or so of meeting them. But then again I sort to improve myself through trial and error and putting myself out there and the results are finally coming in. Not always but it's fucking cash when it does.

IRL oldfag here. Every woman/girl I know thinks that a couple of "had a nice time" texts the next day shows the right level of interest. Yes, flooding her with insincere "OMG!! it was the bestest" is probably going to turn her off, but this whole "waiting XXX number of days" is, in the opinion of actual women, BS. She already knows, if she went out with you and talked to you, what kind of guy you are and texts (unless they're totally stupid) aren't going to get you "friendzoned". I would be a lot more concerned about appearing to aloof or actually disinterest, so pick a spot in between and just be yourself.

you're supposed to wait exactly 8.34 days before contacting her again, fucking noob. no wonder you're on here instead of getting laid

hey, if she doesn't text you at all today its safe to say she isn't interested and was just too scared to tell you. wait and see if she texts you. do not text her.

OP here again

Im going to write her in 3-4 hours or so. Tell her about yesterday and how fine I was. I know she is the kind of girl who waits for the guy to make the first step.

Im older than her, -7 years- so she also sees me as someone interesting and with a life. But the reality is I spent the whole morning at Sup Forums, trying to read something and worrying too much about her.

Im just going to continue being me. Same texts messages, same hours, same everything.

I just hope these things didnt change and she still thinks the same.

Should I ask her how she saw me, if she felt good, or even if she liked me? Or thats too beta to ask?
Normally these kind of things end up appearing but Im not good at catching them

You're not "supposed" to do anything. Girls aren't computers, they're people and they know when they're being "handled" according to some stupid guy rule.

I'm here for the lulz, kid, don't worry about my romantic life...

Sooo much insecurity....

Nah that's not beta. Girls like when you want to know their opinion of you. It shows you're a suave supreme gentleman.

youdonevenkno

Assume the positive until told otherwise. I wouldn't ask these things because I should have been able to read her well enough to know.

kek. OP insists on doing the wrong things so I'm gonna give bad advice from this point forward.

Funny... i have the same pic saved to my phone...

Trips of truth

Take 6 or 2-3 day advice user. This isn't purely because of mom's spaghetti but in this time she will be gathering opinions off friends.

Girl I'm dating now who's a pretty straight forward type I asked what happened after we first went out, her response was she asked her friends what to do, if I seemed alright etc. Wasn't immediate and any approach before a few days later she'd of probably panicked and given some kind of excuse that I'd of moved on from. If after a few days you get a no go response said friends probably blew you out of the water and you never had a chance anyway. GL OP.

Well her best friend told her "let yourself go if you are feeling well with him", that was before meeting I dont know what they were talking the moment after we met.

Who knows, she said everything went nice, and it would be hard to had a bad date after all we talk these past days

This waiting is really killing me

t. virgin

>dubs of purity

Faggot.. be cheeky and ask her what shes wearing.. when she replys.. say.. no i meant underneath

lol