Why are you still thinking about her Sup Forumsro? It's time to let her go

Why are you still thinking about her Sup Forumsro? It's time to let her go.

because I loved her and still care

no u

I am fine faggot. Dumped her and hooked up with a trap. Living in Heaven.

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Two years into my marriage, I worked with a woman with a beauty that ripped my insides out. I wanted to stay married and I suppressed my infatuation. Had I acted on it, my face would have likely been slapped and my marriage ended. Somewhere deep down, I lived for the last 45 years feeling that nothing was ever settled. I do a search of her name, but I get no results. She probably married.

Yesterday, I saw her in a dream with one other person, who I know is dead. It was just a dream. Should I be irrational and accept a dream to be as factual as a press obituary notice? It would be no less a fantasy than my imagining that I had a chance with a woman whose name is always followed by a sigh.

>It's time to let her go.
Indeed it is.

Because you just brought her up.

Fuck you op

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fail. she was redheaded. as far as i can remember though

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Because she's a 10/10 to me, her body is my type, she's got literally the same diagnosis as I do (borderline and severe depression, both of us were in the nut house at some point), and she's mad into memes, vidya and anime.
I once said that I will marry the woman who spends her time exchanging memes with me.
And that's what she started.
I met her in school, we lost contact due to her ex having been a prick and a very jealous guy.
So when I was checking my contacts and deleting old ones, I accidentally called her, stopped the call, and explained that I pressed the wrong button. That's where we started talking again. And it grew up to her sending me memes to me, and me sending her memes, while talking about all kinds of stuff on the side.

When I first met her, I felt like fate put things together for me.
This time, it feels the same. I delete a boatload of contacts and she's the only one where I push the wrong button?
At some point in life, you stop believing in coincidences.

I just feel like she's the right one for me, and that happens once in 5 years to me, tops.

I need some advice Sup Forumsros.
How do you know she's the one? And is it worth ruining a friendship to get her?

>she's a 10/10 to me
I think that's the litmus test for true love.
It's been 10 long years and I'm still hopelessly in love with her. Just wish I could work up the balls to tell her

Well guess what, I'm dating someone else and she isn't and she's so fucking jealous. I'm so attracted to her but she already broke my heart once and she will do it again.

There is no such thing as the one, and no it's not.

If you're willing to end a friendship because of vagina, then you're a shitty, unprincipled friend.

there will be plenty of "the ones" in life it's not worth ruining long friendships for pussy

Because she's having my kid op
But it sucks. I Fucking miss her so much (right)

But I do like her. I don't think she feels the same way about me. So, do I just suffer in silence and keep the friendship alive?
I want more than that with her. I wish I could have more than that with her. And people will pity me thinking I'm friendzoned if I'm seen with her. I don't want people to pity me as this sad friendzoned guy either

Op time to take her life and yours to live together in death

>not having to look after an expensive, time consuming crotch droppling

Dude you lucked out

I met her while in grad school. I was in my mid 20s, she was 16. I smartened up and didn't try anything then; didn't need jail on my tail. Still, we talked for ages. I had such a huge boner for redheads.

Fast forward, we fell out of contact for a couple years. She sends me a message, saying shes gonna be in my city for a weekend. We meet up.

She's even hotter now. I flirt a bit, she flirts a bit. After she goes back, I tell her it was nice to see her, and that I regretted not hooking up whit her back in grad school.

Turns out she was head over heels for em for ages. We keep talking and she eventually moves to my city (she was 21 then). We date for like two years.

Shit was cash while it lasted. Sex was hot; she was nerdy and insecure as fuck. Totes fell hard for her.

Still, I got too kinky for her. She started feeling less attracted because I was into some shit. I was also a tool and kept her at arms length, when I should have smothered her in attention.

But hey, thems the breaks. I would have liked to marry that girl, but I goofed, hard. I wont forget, its a good lesson for me. I wont make the same mistake twice.

Going to see her tomorrow. Still hopping for a FWB type deal. Why are they all fucking crazy?

I wish I looked at it that way, she's literally killing me and putting me through hell. But I never had my father around and it was a shitty time. Promised myself I would be a better Uncle Phil

Oh, sorry I misunderstand.

By ruining a friendship, I thought you meant by going after a friends ex GF or something like that. That shits not cool.

So you mean ruining the friendship with the girl you like. My advice would be to take a break from her for a while, until your feels subside. Getting hooked on another girl may help with this. Unfollow her of social media so you aren't reminded of her all the time, don't hang out with her for a while if possible. If she asks, be straight up and tell her you just need some space for a while.

Then once your fee fees for her have reduced, you can try being just friends again.

cos she still contacts me "secretly"

>until your feels subside
Do they ever?
Oh god. How I wish this could've worked out user. Oh btw, we're friends with benefits for now and will end our friendship anyway after a while. It's for the best I feel but I do get to enjoy her body before she leaves anyway.
But I wish that she loved me. She specifically told me she didn't. That sucks user.

I'm an Alpha male Sup Forums

And girls want to fuck alpha males. Let it piss you off as much as you want, but you know it's completely true. That girl you like who is kinda cute in a weird way, but is totally sweet and you have the biggest crush on? The one who keeps going back to guys who treat her wrong for reasons you don't understand? The one who calls you up at 1 am to cry about how her boyfriend hasn't called her in 3 days, and no matter how long you listen to her, she'll never think of you as anything other than asexual? The one who will curl up next to you on the couch, hug you close, kiss you on the cheek, and never let you fucking touch her beyond that?

Yeah, I'm fucking her.

The hot girl who won't even look at you when you nod at them and smile? The one who laughs when you trip in the hallway and drop your stuff? The one who comes up and coyly aks for your help with her homework, and then pretends you don't exist once you finish?

Yeah, I'm fucking her too, even harder.

The geeky girl you think might be enough like you that you have a chance with her? She plays Warcraft on your server, and watches anime, and reads comics? She's so incredible and you just love her so much but you still haven't worked up the courage to tell her how you feel about her?

Guess who just sucked me off and told me they'll always love me?

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Yes they reduce. I have ex GFs that mean nothing to me now.

If by "leaves" you mean going for uni... it's best that things don't go further. Shes going to have more dick at uni than you'd care to know about.

c-cause it's my gf..
She's at work, but... you're teling me at this very moment she's FUCKING SOME OTHER MAN IN GOD DAMN CLOSET?! MOTHERFUCKER

because she's hot and sucks dick like a pornstar

Hahaha the alpha male theory. Can't read a bigger shit than that. You just don't know how women works. If she doesn't love you then she doesn't love you, no matter what you will do to make her love you.

No, I meant I tried ignoring her because of my feelings towards her for years. But still she stuck around
And she thinks sexual activities are trivialities that ruin a friendship. I think otherwise.
So, after we do our thing, we're not going to speak to each other anymore. 5 years of friendship just gone. She's the closest one to me but I think this is for the best. We've about this but my feelings for her won't change and her feelings for me won't change. So, that's that I guess

Is she 15?

because my dumbass texted her a song yesterday

Jesus Christ. So beta

And what's more? I laugh at guys like you. When you cry about how much girls treat you bad, and wonder why they can't just see that you're a nice guy who would always treat them right? I nod and tell you to hang in there, you'll find someone right for you someday, don't give up hope man. But inside? I'm laughing my ass off at you you pathetic fuck. Every girl you set your sights on, who isn't a disgusting pig-monster, I'm going to fuck 6 ways from Sunday before you even tell her you think she's cute. I won't bother trying when you finally settle for that 350 pound girl who works at Hardees, you can have that. Anything else I'm going to cum on her face before you get those lips near it. And the biggest reason I laugh? It's not me doing all this. It's the girls. When you cry about how lonely you are? Or talk about how you just want to curl up and disappear, and all that emo bullshit? You're triggering her "Don't Fuck" instinct something fierce. You're a miserable weak coward, why would she want your genes? Feel free to buy her a new computer and help her decorate her apartment, you're great for that. But her baby-maker is barking orders at her, telling her to wrap her legs around me and hold on for as long as she can. She needs it, on a primal level you'll never get to see first hand, even if you do get a chance to fuck her. Sooner or later one of them will lay back and spread their legs, but you won't see any hunger in their eyes. They won't beg you to love them forever and make them yours. You won't know what it's like to see her animal side needing you as much as she needs to eat and breath.

I'm currently seeing an amazing girl, 10/10 in every way. She's so far out of my league I'm afraid she'll be gone soon, I'm not sure what she sees in me. I'll contriboot some feels for you tho.

this +1

>my wife would kill me in my sleep if she knew

I raise you this

I have never Fallen in love with anyone

don't

bu..bu....but you need the despair to fuel the rage when you hunt down her and the faggot she moved on to.

I hope never to.
But sometimes, the way people talk about it, I think it'd make me even more of a poet than I am and in more pain than currently. Oh well

Please breed my gf with your superior genes

then you just have a battle between logic and rage all the while depression continuously slides in. i'd rather not have gone that far.

I raise you the fact that the first and only girl I've ever loved left me and cut contact after 3 years because she had muscular dystrophy and didn't want to drag me down as she got worse. She died last April and I didn't find out till this January when her parents mailed a letter to me that she had written before passing saying she always loved me and how lonely she was without me and how she hoped i had moved on and hoped i was happy now. Stop cutting onions faggot.

OP, you touched everybody here with a simple meme. Use your abilities for good. Don't start making ads

>there was never a her

Sorry user. I wish I could experience love like you did because it sounds like it was what people call true love.
I think my life would be richer after this experience but who am I to live your life

She broke up with me, im like a solid 8 or 8.5/10 on world scale so chicks are already flocking to me. Cant even jack off at night im so sad. Was hanging out with friend (she definetly like me) earlier just getting food because I was lonely. End up walking around downtown together, go back to her place, make excuse to leave, forces me to stay a little longer, phone dies cant call uber, she pays for my uber, pride cant let a woman pay for my uber, tell her ill take her to dinner, she tries to kiss me before I leave, she thinks we are about to get into a relationship. The thought of a relationship makes me want to puke

So you think if the girl you see is the most beautiful person you will ever see then its love?

I feel sorry for you man, but its also one of the worst things that can happen to you.

So why do you feel sorry for him?

Because she would have made me a better person than who I am today.

Here's the kicker: last time she sent pics was of her and her husband and their kids. Her husband could be my brother we look so alike. Pic related.

I have gone NC since then.

I'm married now to a good woman so Fuk her.

>one of the worst things that can happen to you
Describe for us plebs please

Turned 22 today

That's possible the creepiest pic of the day

No reason to be sorry, I'm just happy I had that much time with her. It broke my heart when she left and I tried to kill myself when I got the letter. It really does give you a new appreciation of what life can be. Good and bad. I used to think the 'better to love and lost than never loved' was bullshit. But after a few years I understand. Don't fret Sup Forumsro, I'm a fat neet with the amazing girl in the first post you replied to. You'd be surprised what's still in store for you.

Thank you for your perspective user. It made my day a little bit more tolerable.

I genuinely don't believe I can be loved. I've had girls who told me they love me but I just don't believe them. These issues I think stem from when I was raped as a 9 year old. I'm a guy for reference. So, I just close myself up and don't let anyone in. Nobody should get to see the ugly in me

I wish I could still see the beauty of people. My definitions of beauty have been replaced by her imagery. I can't look at other girls the same anymore even though she doesn't love me

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