What do you do, when you've been single for 10 years because you're unable to have romantic and sexual relationships?

What do you do, when you've been single for 10 years because you're unable to have romantic and sexual relationships?

What do you do when you're slowly but surely losing all friends you ever had because you never want to go out and basically talk to no one anymore?

What do you do when your family either bothers you or lives far away?

What do you do when you don't enjoy college anymore, hate your part time job and don't know what you wanna do for a living anyway?

What do you do when there's pretty much nothing left in your life that seems to have a point or gives you pleasure? When you just spend hours playing video games until you're numb enough to forget the rest of your life?

Do you kill yourself?

Other urls found in this thread:

dothethingneedsdoing.com/start-doing
twitter.com/SFWRedditVideos

>when you just spend hours playing video games until you're numb enough to forget the rest of your life.

Hey mate sorry to hear you're feeling this way, believe it or not you're probably addicted to video games. I know it sounds stupid but you'd be surprised how common it is, try put your PC, consoles whatever the fuck away for a week or two and try being productive, go outside get some sun. What have you got to lose if you're gonna neck yourself anyway?

idk it's only been 6 years

No m8
you just
>still hope to find love without forcing it, but not doing nothing either
>go out and socialise with you friends and/or make new one
>you just don't see them often
>realise ur fked m8. No really go for a degree or find another job depending how school is in your country
>If you have no interests, that gives room to new occcupations
>also, eat a dick faggot looser and man up

Thanks for your reply. I don't think I'm addicted to video games because before I started playing more again, I basically spent my free time lying in bed either sleeping or doing nothing. And felt the same as now, just even worse.

>What do you do, when you've been single for 10 years because you're unable to have romantic and sexual relationships?
The same thing I've been doing with over 30 years being single. Ignore it and drown myself in other things.
>What do you do when you're slowly but surely losing all friends you ever had because you never want to go out and basically talk to no one anymore?
Abuse my power on the Internet to remind myself that I'm important and then end up talking to people irl again.
>What do you do when your family either bothers you or lives far away?
Bother: ignore
Live far away: I don't like my family
>What do you do when there's pretty much nothing left in your life that seems to have a point or gives you pleasure? When you just spend hours playing video games until you're numb enough to forget the rest of your life?
Start working on something. Get a community off the ground. Write some code to solve my own problems.
Productivity helps.
>Do you kill yourself?
I don't, but you're just about to.

That's fair enough I didn't think so either, I use them as a way to unwind or de-stress. I run a business and I don't get much downtime and it's hard to "switch off" so video games are great to distract you. But I've played them my whole life and can get sucked in sometimes and spend 12 hours straight playing before I have to admit to myself that it's probably becoming an issue again and stopping me from being social or productive.
I've always been able to tell when something is bad for me and lay off it before it gets bad, be it drugs, gambling, drinking, even fapping/porn.

Maybe you're not addicted to them but I can promise you they're not helping your situation.
If you can or them all away for two weeks and be stiff with yourself with routine.
Get up and go to bed at the same time every day / night, eat 3 relatively healthy meals a day at the same times and maybe try get a bit of excercise / sun.
You will definitely feel better and want to do things, you can only stare at walls for so long.
Don't listen to all the bullshit from people that go fkn lift weights bro and be fkn alpha bro, chicks love muscles bro. These cunts are retarded, only other gym fags like their muscles and lifting weights doesn't make you alpha.

Honestly give it a try man, I mean what have you got to lose?

I suppose I should try to go out more often... but it's been so long since the times I went out for no specific reason other than go to university or work that it makes me anxious every time. Some weeks ago I went out with a childhood friend one night because she really wanted us to and I didn't have the heart to say no and being among all that people just reminded me of how much I dislike it and never go out in the first place....

Sounds like you've got a bit of social anxiety, it gets easier the more you do it. But getting my license and a car was the big turning point for me, not really sure why but I found it a lot easier to go places.
Maybe you should try find a reason to go out, I always go to the pub on a Friday and have a few beers and play some pool, started going by myself but now I see the same guys there every time. Just gotta keep talking to people and you find talking to people easy and you make friends.
Have you got any other interests or hobbies? Or any kind of sport you like to play?

Turn your life upside down. I don't know how long much time you got left in college, but if it's just a year or so, just fucking bite the bullet and power through. If you have several years left, consider dropping out. Throw away that computer, it's making your situation worse. Get a new hobby with the spare time, eat right, exercise. Force yourself to socialise, you might also try talking to a friend and tell them how you feel. They will most likely try to help you if they're a friend.
Ever heard of the 12 step program? The last part of the program is to help someone else get out of trouble. Consider going to homeless shelter and volunteer.
You got so much more to live for man, you haven't tried it yet. Even if you don't believe it, you're family would be devastated by your loss.

I used to draw and write, but I don't really enjoy drawing anymore and write only rarely. I guess I read a lot apart from playing video games. Sadly I don't enjoy doing most sports a lot even though I even have stuff to work out with at home.

You sound like a really cool guy with a very good job and accomplished private life as well. I admire that you just went out on your own until you made friends there. It seems like a near impossible scenario for me. Were you more secluded as well back in the days?

Op it's called depression they make meds for it and you can go see people and talk it helps. Ok I'm poor and can't afford it cut I can afford college then that's on you.

Also women are not worth it at all. If she already has kids keep on moving. Use them don't keep them. The pain and suffering you will go through is the worst.

just go to festivals, there will always be local festivals if you keep an eye open. There you will find friends

That's cool man, have you thought about maybe going to an art class or something? Or a book / reading group? You'll always be able to find people with similar interests and hobbies, you just have to start looking.
I'm pretty happy with who I am and what I've accomplished but it wasn't always like that, I had a few friends in school but wasnt overly popular or anything, I started to be a bit more secluded later on in school when all my friends would go to parties and I was scared to talk to girls so just stayed home and played video games. I guess that kinda got worse til I dropped out of school and kept doing it and became more and more of a hermit.
I eventually got my license and went and got a job, and then made friends and came out on the other side pretty much a different person.
I'm still young 26, I've got a pretty successful business and I'm married with one kid and another one the way.
Just gotta find things that bring you happiness and try and have some for of routine and balance in your life.
Speaking of which I actually have to go to work, I hope it gets better for you anyway man, you seem like a nice dude and I'm sure you've got plenty to offer the world before you leave it.

just keep on keepin on
unless you feel you truly have nothing to live for

You turn yourself into a sociopath, a god.

...

Thanks for replying. I have 2 years of university left if everything goes the way it should. I'm currently doing my Master's degree and should start looking for a job in my field, but since I'm not entirely sure what I wanna do and have always worked in the same place so far, it really isn't a fun thing to do. I have heard of the 12 step program, but had completely forgotten about it. I'll look into it, thanks for reminding me.

Thanks again for talking and I hope things keep looking up for you. It's inspiring to read how life can change and turn for the better like this.

I just lie to myself every waking hour that things will get better. I know things won't get better for me but I continue to lie that things will.

Why do you think they won't get better?

become an anti facebook hacktivist

75% of earths population has that problem,
you only see the positive people shining, the others hide away, which makes you think you're alone in this, but you're not.

What everyone does is just keep on going and just hope for the best, hope for love and acceptance, because you can't force it. Some get it, others die alone.

find something to fixate on. become obsessed with a small purpose...perhaps learn to code...maybe learn to make knives...maybe get a 3d printer and learn how to use it..maybe become obsessed with drones....find something stupid and burrow into it.

lol, no not 75% its way less.

also - smoke weed 3 times a day. morning, noon and evening. just a small puff. dont get ripped. just relaxed. i promise it will help.

If you don't count thirld world countries yes

Become Oblómov

make memememes

Do something once a week for yourself...get a haircut, sit in a sauna, etc. You will learn to love yourself again simply by carrying out small acts of self love. When you love yourself, others will be attracted to that.

You change what you've been doing

dothethingneedsdoing.com/start-doing