My girlfriend said it's cool I don't work since I have anxiety and depression andn shit, she said that she'll work and I can take care of the home junk like buy food, daily supplies, cleaning and shit. 5 years later, down the road, she says she can't love me if I don't work.
5 fucking years
took her 5 years to decide this major change in our relationship, now what the fuck do I do? I have no life experience, no connections, no job experience, nothing, still have anxiety and depression. She fucked my life up guys what the hell do I do now?
I told her yeah, I'll get right on that, but really don't think I could work reliably or efficiently anywhere. Should I just kill myself or is there an alternative solution?
Anthony Martinez
Here's your 2 options.
1 - Don't get a job, get dumped, be completely fucked with no life experience, no home, nothing.
2 - Get a job, earn some experience and skills, and start to develop your career and keep your girlfriend.
Either way you will eventually need to get a job.
Elijah Ramirez
I have anxiety and depression and work 40hrs a week. So do millions of others. What the fuck is your excuse?
Wyatt James
If this isn't bait, yes kys
Ryder Powell
Is this bait? Did you plan on just living off her the rest of your life?
Bentley Ortiz
You're a fuckin faggot who can't handle simple life tasks. Get a job at your local grocery store or something or kys and stop wasting your time.
Caleb Bennett
>anxiety >depression
Stop being a puss and get a laid back easy job. It's all your fault, not hers.
Aiden Jackson
I'm surprised it took her that long.
Dominic Butler
you sound like a parasite.
worse, you sound like a woman.
>wah wah, she ruined my life bitch you ruined your own life. if you're still depressed after 5 years it's because you want to be
Gavin Cruz
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Jason Wilson
>like buy food, daily supplies, cleaning
Not very depressed if you can do this shit.
William Johnson
you need to bring home teh autism bucks
Mason Scott
Get a job, you lazy fucking piece of shit. Your girlfriend should have dumped your worthless ass years ago.
Jason Robinson
satan trips whats wrong with moochin of a chick, theyve been doin it for millennia
Levi Wilson
mcfucking kill yourself fag. seriously? "I'm just soooo depressed and anxious, can't even flip goddamn burgers." fuckin waste of an existence.
Landon Allen
You know, stay-at-home dads are a thing, but you really should have been using that time to earn SOME kind of skill in case things didn't work out, which should have been obvious. Woman who wants the pants? Should have been ready for her to switch the dial at a moment's notice.
SO, either you love her and want to make it work by getting a job, which will subsequently fail your relationship because no one will be at home to tend to it and the sudden stress will drive her to reevaluate it all, or you can dump her, go find meager work, and work towards a skill or even a career.
Aaron Smith
Exactly. Get medication to fix your mental health and find a fucking job.
Chase Sullivan
>>>or he can hang himself, seems like the easier solution to being a whiney bitch.
Lincoln Ramirez
No fucking reason not work unless you are retarded or disabled
Ethan Sanders
It's not just mental health. See, I had a sexually abusive dad who also beat me and my mom. My mom is alcoholic and always wanted to keep me from leaving her so she would tie me down at home so I wouldn't go socialize. Not literally tie me, but just oppress me. so I found my girlfriend, she understood me and wanted to save me, but now 5 years later I guess she can't love me anymore. So I have to go live with mom again, and really would rather die but I'm not tough enough to kill myself.
Liam Gomez
You should have dealt with your mental issues earlier retard, gets harder the longer you leave it
But you do still have the option of just manning up and getting a job, the hardest part is just leading up to getting one, but you get used to that kind of life really quickly when you're thrust straight into it
Gavin Hughes
Just sound like a lazy freeloader get over yourself. She probably wants a relationship with an adult not a man child that can't take care of himself. Get a damn job.
Robert Davis
read above there's really nothing I can do about it. I won't be able to work won't be able to get help
just have to live on the streets or kill myself somehow
Benjamin Martin
Thanks all. I kind of agree, I am retarded and suck at life, a waste of life, I should kill myself just too afraid to. The advice here hurts, but I know it's just true. I am crying right now and can't think straight think I will go to sleep.
John Bailey
Hooray for equality amongst the genders.
Now you can do what women have done for generations, claim housewife status under common law marriage, and sue for alimony payments for the rest of your life. Even more of a windfall if there's a kid involved.
You couldn't further your career, or build your trade skills, because you were 'taking care of the domestic workload'. Therefore she can pay to support you for the rest of your life, based on the vacuum this time period created in your employable skillset.
Yes, this is really how it works, But no, you can't actually do this if your the 'he' in the relationship instead of the 'she'
Robert Flores
I thought I was unable to work due to severe anxiety and depression. And for a while, it was impossible for me to do anything. I started talking to a shrink and trying different medicines and eventually found one that makes me feel normal. Working sucks and it will be hard at first, but you'll be glad when you do it.
Basically, find a medicine that makes you feel decent and then get a job. You can do it.
Colton Butler
Atleast she is giving you a chance to change which means she loves you.
In most cases they have made up there mind already and leave or cheat on you then leave
Andrew Nelson
Ill bite.
• Dump that bitch. She will never respect you. She already decided you are dead meat. You lived like a woman and women don't respect each other. • Apply at the job agency right fucking now. Tell them your situation as you did here. They will find you something. • If you have no place to stay, work as a woofer until you can get your shit sorted up.There is always some place for extra farmhands. • Live and learn and never depend on a woman, nor on anybody else for your survival.
Camden Gomez
You should've been trying to git gud the whole time Get a job it's not that hard, as long as you don't have a major fuck up you won't get fired
Elijah Fisher
This must be bait. In any case mommy will take care of her baby boy
Oliver Sullivan
Stop being a fat fucking bitch and get a fucking job.
Jordan Lewis
>read above All I see is a block of excuses
Most people have had fucked up circumstances, you just deal with it
Mopping about the past isn't going to get you anywhere, you're perfectly capable of just focusing on moving forward and improving your life
Eli Jackson
You fucked yourself over. In five years, you didn't try to treat you derpression or anxiety, try to learn a trade or a skill, nor even get a part time job. Get your shit together.
Joshua Jenkins
She fucked your life up because, even though you had a free pass, you chose not to at least make a minimal change to better yourself?
Brayden Diaz
That is mental issues you fucking moron. Get a therapist, and start going the gym, research shows that exercise really helps with depression. On second thought just fucking kill yourself.
Jason Collins
You can save this, OP. You can get a job and be a contributing member of society. It may seem impossible, but you can do it. You only fail if you don't try.
Liam Green
Kekd at the white dude just standing there like nothing is going.
Luis Cox
i was in the same situation, oddly enough it also took about 5 years before she told me i had to get a job or get teh fuck out. I got a job, it sucks, but it sucks less than having to get a job because im homeless and alone.
Nicholas Sullivan
Dude, you fuckbois need to stop. THIS THREAD IS FAKE. It's completely made up. This situation isn't real. Quit responding, let it 404, and hopefully, he'll be inclined to make a GOOD thread next time.
Evan Rivera
bant?
Sebastian Parker
If you've gone this long with out a job, then I guess she doesn't care if you don't earn a lot. Get an easy job like pizza delivery
Brayden Miller
not that guy, but why WOULDN'T you want to just live off some chick?
Christian James
Yes. Try to tell any of this to the man hating old girls in charge of family court. We're all equals, but in family court women are more equal than men.
My uncle is doing extra hours to pay child support to a woman that is earning twice his salary and lives with her new boyfriend.
Justice system is your enemy in that case.
Jeremiah Bell
Just get a job fuck sake we all do it
Angel Allen
>I can't satisfy a woman so i refuse to believe that there are men good enough at sex to make a woman want to support them.
Blake James
he openly admits he doesn't do any of the stuff housewives do. he just sits on Sup Forums all day. get a therapist, get some pills, get a job.
Nathaniel Scott
Just break up with her. You're a burden. If you love her, set her free.
Jackson Morgan
5 years no experience. You're a burden. Start learning a skill, go to school, earn a living.
James Young
Eat shit. Let me fight the patriarchy and be a stay at home man
Leo Ross
Get a job, save up money for a while and then get yourself your own place. After that, dump her.
James Russell
how do you have any self respect? how can you call yourself a man?
Luke Thompson
You weak fuck. I want to park a bullet in my head every day. I don't have good days anymore. My mental health is deteriorating. I wake up. I get dressed, I punch the clock and fucking take hold of my own body and mind. I hate my life, but I grind through it regrettingly, but the shit I've done and knowledge I've gained is something worth being proud of. Maybe I will kill myself, maybe I won't. But I'm not gonna be a fucking lazy piece of victimized shit. Fuck your depression, get off your ass and go faggot.
Jayden Walker
do what girls do in that situation bitch and complain and act as if everything you do at home is the same shit as a fulltime job either way though your relationship and life is FUBAR. time to man up and learn how to live outside the safety net of a lioness. good luck user, most people can't cope
Andrew Powell
>She already decided you are dead meat. You lived like a woman and women don't respect each other. /thread
Daniel Wright
nigger do you know where you are? obviously nothing here should ever be regarded as fact. from the videos you see to the shitposts and their text do you actually go into threads and read on Sup Forums (Sup Forums of all places too) believing the shitbird shitposts that you read? common fucking sense, get some. dipshit
it's written at the top of the fucking page for a reason.
Liam Sanders
you still here? summer is over.
Joseph Reed
All those years you were the woman. Be a fucking man and work.
Dylan Hill
Anxiety and depression? Seriously, that's your excuse?
I have anxiety and severe depression. I pursue work until I land a job I need.
Fuck you, you lazy piece of shit.
Deal with your shit. Face it and overcome.
Bentley Rogers
OP is gay, you had a long time to change your life and make sure that she didn't have to have that burden. She actually loved you that long to support you but you did fucking NOTHING to change who you were or improve yourself. You're literally the definition of my ex girlfriend, she should actually dump your fat gay ass