Love thread. post ur dreams/ breakup stories/ happy memories/ sad memories. feel like feeling a lotta emotions tonite

love thread. post ur dreams/ breakup stories/ happy memories/ sad memories. feel like feeling a lotta emotions tonite.

My past two ex's (First was 2 years, second was 1 year) ghosted me.
Gave them my everything.
I guess genuine love and care isn't attractive anymore.

me asf

she contacted me the other day after two years of silence to apologize, so i said nah fuck off i needed you two years ago when i was hurting. you don't get to apologize when it's convenient and have me accept it

Maybe it is enough, you just need to really show you are genuine

i love little girls
i want to hug one

fuck, i wish i was strong as you. knowing me, if i was you, i'd probably come back crawling right away.

You can't help it and are that way, but do not act on it.

i just want love like everyone else

Good job for telling her to fuck off. She doesn't deserve to be free of that guilt.

i hate these threads, buncha faggots. but posting cause im wayy fucked and thinkin of my sleeping love

>one true love in HS
>autistically confess to him via Snapchat
>he's straight

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I am in a relationship that is like a dream and love everything about it. I'm very used to people not wanting to stay with me in anyway, and the fact I'm the only one in love makes me feel all the feelings I have been trying to stuff away with being friends with a lot of people.
I feel like I look like an ass, but if I talk to a lot of people and seem aloof then I won't bother them. The person I'm dating makes me feel like I won't be alone, but I'm fucked up and feel like I'm going to fuck myself over believing that

ouch. how'd he respond?

how'd ya know you're the only one in love?

yeah it felt great. she hurt me a lot with her games

Maybe there is other options? What if you find someone who appears young but is not?

They told me they do not love me, and has been honest about this the whole time

one day you'll meet a girl so beautiful, she might not be your "type", but she will make you feel like everything has come to place, i wish you the best of luck bro

then why are you still with her? you should cut it off before it gets worse.

>my wife and child surprise me last fathers day
>take me out to seattle
>rode the ferris wheel on the port
>hit fishermans wharf
>awesome comic shop
>buys me shit
>dinner at favorite mexican restaraunt, jalapeno margaritas all night
>get home, dance with my daughter to her choice disney soundtracks
>know that life will never get better so memorize every second
>passionate love making after daughter goes to bed
>wife falls asleep in my arms, telling me how amazing of a husband i can be


Its still my favorite moment. 2 years later and i will still fantasize on that day, everyone deserves that level of happiness at least once in their life.

Girl and I first meet 4 years ago when she transferred to my uni. I noticed her eyeing me from the start, always giving laughing at my jokes, just obviously very attracted to me. I also had a crush on her but made it not so visible, due to my insecurities. Fast forward to 6 months ago, I finally ask her out. Our relationship has been amazing so far. Right now I'm studying abroad until Christmas and she's back home, god damn do I miss her.

there are no substitutes or alternatives. i'm not mentally ill enough to create an imaginary waifu and too mentally ill to court a single mom.

i'll acknowledge your trips but what you're envisioning is not beautiful to me.

As cheezy as it is. You gotta love yourself first- Or find someone who's patient and caring enough and to help you learn to love yourself. Know that if you find them, don;t cling to them and depend on them for everything.
Gotta know how to deal with yourself first.

But you'll find someone one day user.

i fucking cried reading that holy shit i am pathetic, that's a dream come true.

They don't care and don't love me, therefore my guard is never completely down. It makes it so the arm's length away never changes so I can act like a dick without necessarily meaning to or realizing how much I am, but in the moment it feels justifiable because I want them to be pissed off and hurt with me like the way they make me feel. That doesn't excuse the way I act and what I say, and it seems like I'm getting worse. It feels like I keep challenging them and trying to show them they fucking do, but it just blows up in my face

I'm from Seattle so I know the places you're talking about. I took my gf on the ferris wheel a couple months ago. I hope her and I can achieve what you and your wife have bro.

in my opinion, i think you should break up with her. instead of wasting your time on her you can be spending it on yourself and finding someone you'll love and be loved by

I'm so happy for you user. You deserve it.

This sounds like it's out of a fairy tale. You're lucky. I just hope the distance makes your bond stronger.

He let me down kindly, "haha I don't swing that way but we can still be friends" or something of the sort. I don't have it on hand, as I deleted my Snapchat immediately thereafter. Upstanding guy, I was really convinced that he was gay by the fact that he didn't have a gf.

Since he's off to college in the North and I'll never see him again, I guess I can post pictures of him online now. I feel like such a stalker for having them on a Drive file, even though I've totally moved past it.

I'm in love of a red heared gal, but for her, we are just friends :'c

Every day I'm falling deeper in love with my gf. I'm putting all my thrust in her, all the plans for the future. And if she leaves me then I die.

>have

Had Sup Forumsro. The point of that being youll know when the moment comes, when you will never be happier, and you better cherish every second of it. The shit dont come around twice

Im so torn between staying in love with this girl and not. We were best friends for 13 years (loved her all 13) and then we started dating, 3 months later we broke up. The love I feel for her is so genuine it feels like a part of me. But if she doesnt feel the same way now, can or will she ever?

>But you'll find someone one day user.
thank you for believing in me user...

Wanna divorce my wife and marry a woman who enjoys receiving oral.

I have a crush on a guy, I'm a guy too, and he's sexually confused so I'm just sitting there like

That's a sad reality, fuck. My girl and I have a long way to go though, and so far it's just going up. I'm definitely going to cherish it, she's the best thing that's ever happened to me.

It's possible, but you shouldn't cling onto just that girl/thought alone

Us :-(

really fucking pathetic m80

I have been spending it on myself, and it feels like now we are distant maybe that's just me. I mean, I know a break up would probably be something that fixes shit and gives time, might even be for the better at this time. But I can't, even a bad day is a good one with them. I don't want us to be sad or mad anymore, and I want to think she thinks the same. Unless it really is time for quits, but I think that is up to her. I love her too much to let her go. I know the saying, but I don't want to not be her's. I want them to be mine and for us to be goofing like usual, to just understand each other, and be alright. I want to be able to go and hug her, kiss her, and talk to her after a long day. I just don't know what she's thinking and she usually doesn't tell me unless its generic, and that's why I feel upset and like we can't figure things out.

If we're saying this in the same context user, I too would love to have a daughter. A small young girl which I could just dump all my love and heart in to.

i used to put daisies on my ex's hair, i miss him so much. he likes someone new now and she's white and a brunnete (which means i am nothing compared to her automatically) certain words like daisies, freckles and blue just brings tears to my eyes. fuck i miss him so much. i remember when he'd look at me so lovingly, but every time i see him now, i am just a stranger in his eyes. and it fucking hurts so much, i'll never find love again.

Quads speaks truth

I completely understand that would be the most reasonable thing to do. But ive been in other relationships before, and what I feel now isnt the same. It feels like more than everything, like it has become a part of me.

whisper lewd things in his ear and grope him - both in public

make him realize that he's a faggot and your bitch at the same time

talk to her. right now if you can. nothing will ever get fixed if you don't, you can't just keep assuming. best of luck to you, please take care of yourself user.

depends on how you broke up.

sure. platonic familial love would be really nice too. just as nice i think. i don't think i'll experience that either. i'm not really sure why i go on living. webm related. watching it makes me hurt inside every time.

all my relationships so far have been banging hoes or micheal scott tier autism/sadness
i just want to settle down and have comfy gf and im working on it rn im just scared ill fail with her even tho we hit it off great and already banged because lads what ive learned is sex does not equal gf

All of my stories are about friend zone! should I kill my self?

sometimes when its done its done just look back on it fondly and dont confuse the happiness you had during that time as directly associated with her it can make you obsessed with her rather than the feelings you felt in general

no!!!!!! you will find someone believe me!!

no just be confident and keep talking to people its only 30% looks 60% confidence 10% hope!
theres someone for everyone

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best of luck to u!!! take care of urself!! (and your girl)

wow, I was specting somthing like "go ahead you fatass" but thanks guys... really nice of you :)

I do! I've loved and cherished every moment I got to spend intimitly with her.

I just feel like after so long and after i tried so hard to make things work im still unwanted.

Im just so done. It hurts so much to love her this way, but the thought of loving anyone else hurts so much more.

why does it hurt to think of loving someone else? (i felt the same way after my ex and i broke up, but now i don't anymore). see things from a different perspective. if she didn't love you and you were still in a relationship, you'd both be hurting each other. what matters is that you put your all into it, and you tried. you can say that you tried and put effort. now it is time to accept that you were not the ones for each other, i know it sounds cliche, but time will heal your wounds.

this thread was perfectly timed. I've been lying to my 1 year gf about being sober for about a month now and I couldn't keep up with the guilt especially after making my friends lie to her for me too. I recently just told her everything, she's asleep of course but I sent pages of texts to explain why I've been so fucked and why I've been so insecure about all the shit she's been doing and all the shit she's done to me in the past that's led up to this. So now I'm waiting for her to wake up in an hour or two to get in to this massive fight. God i fucking wish i just smoked and forgot about this again smh thanks for this thread OP

best of luck to you user.... i hope it goes well

Good luck Sup Forumsro. Honesty really is needed to keep a relationship going long-term. If it's meant to be, she'll be upset at first but be willing to work with you to get better. You have to try to get better though, for her.

thanks Sup Forums, wholesome b is the only reason i come back i feel like. I have a feeling she'll want to work it out but, there's gonna be a lot of distrust for a while.

Someone that broke my heart sends me a message that they missed a lot me after being away. It awoke my feelings back for them. I don't know what I should do to be frank. It's half and half with all of it.

don't do it.... they're only coming to you because they are bored and just want someone. be strong..

Then why doesn't she admit it?
If it's like this why doesn't she say it?
Or do I also have to do that, so I'm the one to leave?
To show when they are feeling apathetic, that I was the one who was stupid and ugly and annoying and I was the one who threw in the towel?
No. I am not going to give them the luxury of that, if they really don't then they can say it to my face and we can go from there and break up. Or maybe I'm right, and we will keep dating and communicate better and finally stop feeling intimidated by each other. To trust one another and not act the way we were taught. To stop bullshitting and say how we feel and just carry out our days being happy. They just have to admit it. They have to fucking suck it up, look me in the eyes and tell me they love me. Then it will all be okay, if they can't then it is going to keep going at the rate it is. I know it can work, I know I can feel better about everything and stop getting upset. I just need that, that's what I need. Either way we will be fine, but that's what needs to happen so we are not in purgatory.

I'm about 80% sure I just watched a porn of my ex-girlfriend who I'm still in love with getting fucked by an old man.

Don't spring that shit on her when she wakes up. Make a better moment of it man. Tell her you want to talk to her about something difficult for you - when the time is right for her too.

i said that too in the text smh "im really sorry im making you wake up to this" I've been pushing this moment back for too many nights, I forced myself now or else I wasn't gonna for a few more weeks

I'm sub, also I'm literally a twink, I'm 5'5" and 120 lbs. And he dislikes himself greatly for this, his parents are Jesus fags, and he's residing with them currently. A think a gentle approach of waiting for winter and then hugging for warmth, and then eventually snuggling will work just fine. When two guys spoon both of them getting hard is almost guaranteed.

fuck me she just woke up and saw it aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa wish me luck Sup Forums

how can you be only 80% sure? you know what your ex looks like, right?

How can it be easier to talk to them? I feel like when I do it still doesn't come across and they still do the thing that hurts me, then says they don't understand or I said nothing. So I gave up and keep trying to be okay, then they do something that really upsets me and I act impulsively

>wife let another touch her tits, flirting with the idea of cheating.
>I had been a dick for awhile due to some person issues, she wanted friendship... the guy wanted tits. It was a trade.
>I found out about it, and decided to change, when to a marriage guy with her. We both worked shit out.
>There was a time when it looked like it might end. She didn't know if she could trust me to be there for her, and she didn't know if she could let her guard down with me again.
>I didn't know if I could forgive her.
>We have a wonderful daughter, and I didn't want to divorce.
>Went the whole Summer with no sex, wondering if my entire life was going to get flushed. Hell, even wondering if I should flush it.
>Nothing seemed right, it seemed I'd regret any choice I made.

I pushed through it. Took some time apart. We kept seeing the marriage guy. Eventually we got back together. Some very hard talks, some very honest conversations.

>Now I'm getting sex or a blowjob every day, like it was for the 10 years before our shit time.
>She is completely opening up to me.
>We are happier than I can ever remember.
>Our daughter is thriving.
>Tonight she was telling us all about Sunday school at the family table - and I was so happy holding my wife's had I was crying manly tears.

if you've told them about it and they still continue to do it, they are not worth your time.

don't wanna break the wholesomeness but don't text her. facetime/call her or some shit after she reponds.

update us!!

Maybe it's best but damn it hurts to think about it. Being away I started to do stuff that lessened the pain of what happened, just the thought of them actually thinking about me when I didn't of them kills me a bit.

I love my gf, and I am so damn happy that I have someone who looks at me and sees me and thinks to themselves how much they love me too.

October is going to be our 4th year anniversary and the relationship keeps getting stronger and better. I love having someone to grow and share my life with.

its their problem honestly. i think about my ex a lot but i don't expect him to do the same, people move on. and you should too.

Dreamt about my ex, I was at her place. Just sitting on the floor talking, when suddenly she reaches over and starts kissing me. I kiss her back and then push away, saying I still loved her. She kinda sat there and said oh, then asked me to leave.

It hurts more now even though it's been a couple of months since we broke up, and I see her selling art to get her new boyfriend a gift.

best of luck to you user!! i wish i could have something special like you

reminds me of when i came over my ex's house and we fooled around (making out and all that jazz) i initiated it, and truly felt no love whatsoever during that moment. but right now i'm kinda in between.

3 years of my life, since High school Grad, been with the same partner.
Last few months they've been reclusive so I ask if they need to talk about something.
"I'm not attracted to you anymore user"
"Can I fix it? What can I do?"
"Nothing, really. I still care about you though"
We decide to work on it emotionally.
I speak up a month or two later to ask if there's still a chance of recovering.
Turns out she pretty much didn't know how to say it and had been waiting to completely dump me.
"I'm just not romantically interested, please, move on, you deserve better than me"
I was a good boyfriend but I'm nothing without my generosity, and I don't know if I'll ever find someone I trust enough to get this attached to.
I wanted to marry her, and I still do.
Hope the feels are worth as much to you as they are to me, board.

I'm in love with a woman that I can never have. We've known each other since we were 15. We both dated other people in high school. I left to join the military when I graduated, fought in Iraq and Afghanistan. She went to California, started a new life, married a guy and had a baby. She called me on her wedding night and told me she loved me. We still talk, reminisce, talk about trying to be together one day, but I know it won't happen. I'm going to finish scholarship on the GI Bill and become a colege professor. She's going to raise her family. I'll die alone. Gonna miss her when it happens. Gonna be glad it's over though.

I'll see, I'm too stupid at these things, I'll resume back to the stuff that kept me from them. I'll try, user...

Does she still love you? LIfe's crazy, man. You gotta decide how important she is for you and fucking go for it.

fuck. that must hurt so much. i wish you good luck user... please take care of urself and know that you will love again..

good luck!! please take care of urself and if you do think of her from time to time, don't push it. if u want to cry, then cry, cry until you can't anymore. but please don't hurt yourself.

you sure she's in love with you or just toying with you? does she love her husband as well?

Lmao she doesn't feel guilty

One of my biggest fears is my gf randomly telling me she's not longer attracted to me. There's no signs of that at all right now, just my anxiety disorder randomly makes me think this. Does anyone have any experience with just losing attraction to someone you once felt extremely dear for? Right now I couldn't ever see myself randomly stop loving my gf, she is what I live for and me for her.

She loves me. We met up a couple of times after I got back to the states. We had sex, confessed all our feelings, but neither of us is going to blow up our lives. Just a missed opportunity.

Ive been with a few other women. Wasn't the same after the war though. Sounds like bullshit but it's harder for me to be aroused or happy now. Don't think I can honestly love somebody now. More like I could be a good husband, fix sinks and make money and say all the right words, but something is messed up inside me.

my ex just ended our relationship abruptly with me. 3 times. one day, someone can just wake up not loving someone anymore (and it fucking hurts so much if you're that someone) but most likely, it is small problems being ignored. so if you have any problems please communicate. and sometimes they just lose attraction, it just happens.

im working on it fuck meeee
aaaaaaaaa she has a bad history, a little crazy so its not going so well so far, its going fucking terribly actually.

I have lied to my boyfriend a lot saying I suddenly don't care, don't love him, and argue we should break up. I never mean it and I just want to feel like if I push away I won't be surprised when he leaves. He just really hurts my feelings, and I hurt his. I'm not going to give up but I need to know he feels the same. I feel like I have been being a prick, but I just need him to look at me and let me know how he feels. I know he feels the same, but he never says it. I need him to feel as vulnerable as I do.

Thank you, user, I wish you the best as well. Now I'll go and fix this problem.. Take good care. Maybe we will meet again, one day.

if you want this relationship to work, you have to speak up.

she's having a panic attack. she wont let me call her. she's scared its her fault and im going to leave her

If you love him stop hurting him. Trying to make him feel vulnerable so you can feel loved is wrong. Stop it.