Anyone else have an overwhelming fear that they're missing out on all the things normal people enjoy in life and that...

Anyone else have an overwhelming fear that they're missing out on all the things normal people enjoy in life and that they'll continue to live a sad and lonely existence only to end up hanging from a ceiling somewhere?
Wat do?

nobody feels like that except you

Well shit

fomo is kinda gay

psychologytoday.com/blog/stronger-the-broken-places/201501/10-ways-overcome-fear-missing-out

How so?

If you mean like going out to parties, concerts, road trips, movies, bars or whatever corny social media shit you saw with some girls who don't talk to you but you want to fuck, no. Most people don't do that shit every day, or even every week. Save up your money, just talk to people more whether you're in school or working. Eventually you'll be invited to something and just be open and friendly. My advice is don't give your opinion but ask the kind of questions that makes other people want to talk about themselves and feign interest. They love that shit. Congrats now you got some drinking buddies. Repeat until you eventually meet some girl you put your dick in. When it doesn't work out after half a year, repeat. During all this you occasionally go out to parties, concerts, road trips, movies, bars, over and over until you die. My advice? Try to travel every now and then, either by yourself or with someone close to you, do a couple things you've always wanted to do but can reasonably afford, and don't let your life be boxed into the same town you graduated H.S. from. Don't kill yourself OP

I just finished my final year of school and I never got invited to anything/hung out with anyone despite having many "friends"(more like acquaintances). What do I do now? I don't know how to meet people or develop connections with them

i do but the thing is I know I won't enjoy it.

I kind of day dream about going to NY but I know If I went there I would just feel alone or get annoyed by the crowds. I would stay in my hotel room and wouldn't see the night life.

Nah Sup Forums is pretty much normal people now. Go to wizchan if you want company

cuz you're being a follower instead of a leader

I get that. Personally I wonder that if I magically became socially active I probably wouldn't enjoy it as much due to the the years of pent up resentment towards everyone or I'll be too worried about embarrassing myself that I wouldn't be enjoy it. However I'm sick of being alone 24/7 and its really getting to me so I don't know.

different user here
fist of all by doing what you like you'll run into people with similar interests
that being said there's nothing wrong with having internet friends, there's a start
as for not being invited to things, every party I've gone to has generally sucked the big time
but when I throw a party it's different and great
you need to ask people out to do things instead of waiting to get invited

Could you elaborate?

ehh a bit

fomo is as irrational as fearing others will miss out on the things you do
to miss out there needs to be a something to miss
there is nothing to stop you from living your life your way

Na, prolly won't hang myself
I'd probably snap and wander around before that happened

>normal people
wat

just do what u want, if u having fun doing it its fine

>do what you want
>nothing to stop you living your life
How do I even start with no interests or close friends?

>Normal people enjoy
>Normal people
>Normal

There's your problem right there. Lets go down that list shall we?

>Having more than 5 friends
No need, odds are you will grow distant from most of them anyways, but paying for stuff is always the best amirite?

>Owning a house
Nice mortgage you got there. Hows that 50+ hr/week job treating you?

>Finding someone
O look they cheated on you. Too bad you're too big of a pussy to leave them. Have fun raising your wife's kids. BEST case, you get to live a long life with someone who will eventually die right in front of your eyes, OR you die and do the same to them.

>Kids
I think I meant to call them money pits that will do nothing but disappoint you and kill you faster in the end.

Don't think of it as dying alone, think of it as maximizing your time and money on yourself and your own goals. When you get to laugh at all those "normal" people doing what others want them to do as you get to do whatever you want, its worth it. sure, it gets lonely every once in a while, but that's why you have porn.

Why is there such a social stigma around people who decide to live alone rather than do the normie things Talks about?

just think of first thing that comes to your mind when ur bored or want to have a good time, if you can do that thing go for it, no friends? you can always do something alone and find some other ppl while doing it, dont just give up coz ur lack friends, you never make one if ur not gonna do anything, im not social type and im 99% always alone coz i dont like adjusting to other ppl interests or plans, if they dont like what or how i do i rather do it alone

Not op here, but ive got the same fear.

I have countless fucking hobbies. Good lord.
Ive been around the world and ive seen things you wouldnt believe.

However, after so long, eventually you realize youre alone, and everything you do is alone.
Friends eventually disappear, and everybody no longer has free time. Yes, doing those hobbies is still fun and awesome, but I just wish I had peopl around to enjoy, and appreciate with.
They are all gone now.

You are born alone, and you will die alone.

Kinda
My solution is just hang out with friends more often and at least have more convos with other ppl I don't talk to often