Making a change fellas...

Making a change fellas. I've come to a time in my life that I need to make change cause I'm not as happy as I know I can be. I'm gonna start hitting up the gym and start a healthy ass diet. Also, I'm quitting drinking and keeping my weed smoking for either right before I work out, or at night before bed. I also, wanna save as much money as possible. I've been banging some chick cause she's easy but I literally feel nothing for her, so she is gonna be outta my life. What do you wanna change Sup Forumsros? Any tips? Stories? Suggestions? Pic related: The type of chick I want chasing me once I get my shit together.

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When I wake up in the morning that is what I'm going to look like.

What do you look like now? lol

A hairy dork.

lulz

gonna be a hairy dork as a girl too

Weed often killed my motivation for the gym. Good on quitting drinking and cutting down. As for the girl, if you enjoy the sex and are not misleading her, don’t feel guilty about continuing.

Hit up /fit/ and read the sticky. Literally do nothing else while you’re there. It’s good to store some of that stuff in your head.

Yes.

Take it easy.

Thanks man, I was planning on like having everything ready and as I'm out the door taking some giant rips. I literally live like 100 years from my nearest gym so I'm just gonna walk over there.

And as for the girl... I'm not mis leading her but I also know just fucking her is doing something to me mentally. Kind of like when you jack off to some real fucked up shit and then you have a lot of regret after you blow your load. Same idea but with this chick. Also, the best sex is when you have someone you actually care about. So I'm trying to have a more fulfilling life I suppose and banging this chick isn't making ME happy.

Try to smoke a couple hours before actually sleeping. Will make for a more relaxed sleep. E.g. light at 22 go to sleep at 24.

Same boat nigphew. Woke up being 30 and had to wake up to some real shit.

>try to fix a minor problem by making a much bigger one

Well he didn't say he wanted to quit, which is obviously better, I just have the impression, that smoking directly prior to sleeping, makes for an uncomfortable night and leaves you tired in the morning.

my bad user, misread the original post

Try to make an imperial fuckton of money.
It will make everything easier.

I have an oil pen so I put a dab in there and I can literally smoke on that 1 dap for like 15-20 minutes. Usually after that I get pretty tired. So its not like a ton of weed but it gets the job done. Plus if I'm not smoking all the time my tolerance will go down.

Any suggestions on how? Theres a quote I heard and I can't remember where but I try to live by it:

>Life is a shit sandwich, so the more bread you have the less shit you have to taste.

You seem very superficial, OP
The kind of chick you want are most likely stupid bitches with ego problems, as well as gold diggers and cheaters
On second thought, they'll be perfect for a cunt like you

watch the french movie "blanc" = "white" by kieslowski on how to make a fuckton of money

I'm not superficial by any means. Its just my taste in women. And really its not like I would base my decision purely on looks but an attraction is an attraction. I'm probably the least superficial personI know to be more then honest. I just want a chick I can shroom with and get deep with. I also want a chick that loves to laugh. A chick with no drama and also more of a homebody down to earth person.

Is it about selling Cocaine lol. I don't wanna be a drug dealer.

If it’s fucking with you, it matters.
Do you try to meet new women? I found my last two gf’s on Tinder. The current one has lasted six months to the day and I’m in love.

I ate 3 peanut butter cookie core ben and jerrys not 10 minutes ago.

>No, I broke up with my ex ( i loved her), got really depressed and just stopped caring about anything.
>I didn't work for a year.
>I made ends meet by selling weed and selling art pieces that I made ( i would have art shows and make a grand or so).
>So I painted a lot while I was in this dark time.
>Then I starting drinking a ton.
>Got WAAAAY depressed. And thought that banging would make me feel better.
>So I called this girl I new from my past and I would have sex with her on occasion.
>But it just kind made me feel worse.
>I was having suicidal thoughts... so I decided to do some shrooms.
>Helped me sort out a lot of shit. Feel a lot better.
>Did more shrooms
>And more
>The deeper I went the less connected to people I felt
>Feel like everyone is fucking brainwashed.
>Got somewhat apathetic
>Started drinking more
>Stopped shrooming
>Started focusing on pure gluttonous selfish sex and lifestyle cause my happiness is my happiness
>Started to enjoy being apathetic
>After a few months of binging on life... decide to do something different

And that's kinda where I'm at. I have a lot of potential but I waste it being in my own head. The shroom trips made me realize what I needed to fix but thinking about fixing them made me feel shitty. So I just need to man up and get my shit done. Art is my driving factor in all of this. I don't wanna be working in the restaurant biz all my life and I know I can turn things around.

So will I friend
I left the gym 3 months ago after I realized how fucking pointless everything is and how I cant fix my life
I still cant change that feeling and its something that doesnt let me sleep at night
I started eating like shit and put on 20 pounds
All of my grades started falling and I havent left the house for anything but school since
God I wish I were dead

RULE #1:

TITS OR GTFO FAGGOT

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See the gym should be used to help your brain out. Everything is pointless, but at leas you can feel as healthy as possible while everything is pointless. Makes things a little easier.

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I have a question: What is Esoteric Rightism

Good shit right here. I like the viewpoint, but I feel like the only way to stick it to the man is not have any Kids, so they cannot enslave them and have them paying off their debts. I also don't want a family. I feel like my sword to fight back with is the paintbrush, and I feel like I need to paint what I see that will hopefully have some type of impact on someone else. But I need my mind body and spirit right in order to find my peace.

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This right here hit home. Its like I wanna actually go out and die... not just wait for it to creep up on me.

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Keep em coming.

You and I are in remarkably similar places in life. I’m just a few months ahead.

As you from the future, all of my advice to you is exactly what you would imagine yourself if you tried to guess. It’s not the what, but the how, that is difficult.

Changing habits. It’s not going to be a perfect transition. It’s not like a light switch you can just flip and walk away from happier. But that’s human. That’s you. That’s me. That’s everyone. Don’t expect yourself to be the Elon musk type to get everything necessary done and more. Remember, he benefits from the pressure of having people he cares about rely on him. For now, you don’t.

Part of the reason my own awakening even lead to any change was having my girlfriend here to remind me of what it was all for along the way. Without someone like her, I would have done it. But I would have been a lot less real about it.

Try to find a way to stay real bro.

You can do both, user. The more responsibility, the more living, the more life, the more joy and the sweeter the death. You just have to focus, plan your days, and stick to your schedule. Try and schedule one hour of art per day, or more if you can. Children are not supposed to become the center of your life, you can still be a professional and even have hobbies that you get good at.

Then die into your life, over a period of a hundred years. Sit down and write down what's important to you and what you want to do. Then identify actual actions that will be required to fulfill those goals. Then write out a schedule starting from the moment you wake, until you sleep. Schedule everything you need to do in a single day that has to be accomplished for your goals to be achieved. That should definitely include a half an hour of weightlifting; two, ten-minute periods of quiet introspection, watching your mind yet detaching from what you see; an hour of reading, any book will do (preferably non-fiction); ten or so minutes of journal writing at the end of the day; eight hours of work, or six to eight hours of hobbies and errands on a day off; one or two hours of studying if your engaged in some kind of academic program or have set a personal academic accomplishment to be reached; the rest should be fluid for interactions with friends and women.
This is more than enough to feel alive. But remember, you absolutely must control your drug usage, it is a trap. And absolutely no porn, this is another strict rule you must follow for any of this to work' fap to memory or imagination, it will help your subconscious mind send the desire out to the cosmos, to be returned back as a real lover, anyways. Not to mention the fact that women will become your sole desire, and natural charismatic instincts will activate.

I like that. It's like being accountable and having a driving force. I need to definitely work on those things. I think just knowing I can be happier is my driving force. I know that my lifestyle now is boring and unhealthy and sad. Its meaningless.

So just the idea that my brain will feel better, I'll feel better, I'll look better is enough to make me wanna change. I've been putting it off with the excuse...

>one more time of getting hammered and binging on food and or banging this chick. One more time.

And after every time, a little more of me dies. Wasted energy.

Dude, honestly the best advice I've ever gotten... probably in life to be more then honest. Especially the no fapping thing. I mean, I've looked into that and was kinda practicing it for a while but I got caught up with it again. The whole idea of happing to memory or imagination to work with the cosmos is genius.

The 100 years thing with scheduling is also great advice.

Thank you very much. I appreciate you. I still don't think I want a family though. I have a dog and I know how much I care for her. I can't imagine having a kid and loving the kid more then my dog. That's just too much. But I wouldn't be opposed to getting married to right chick and adopting... trying to help someone else out in life that is already here.

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Aside from these two fundamental and absolutely iron-clad rules, being a) no drugs or alcohol (once a week is ok, just no getting smashed) and b) no fapping to porn (fapping good, porn bad) there is one more rule and it is the most fundamental and base rule of all:

100% morale

No matter what is happening; no matter how convinced you are of the opposite, never stop glowing from the inside, never stop smiling to yourself. It befits a man to be merry and joyful, all of his days. No other creature can grasp this bliss, and it is yours by birthright. Keep the flame alive inside of you and whenever it goes out, catch yourself and remember the rule:

100% MORALE, ALL THE TIME, NO MATTER WHAT

With this you may lead a woman, your children, a tribe, a nation, an empire, nature herself will bend to your will: because you are the stronger, the unbreakable, the ceaseless, the one whom the goddess looks to for steadfastness when she, even in all her power cannot cope. Men cope. Such was the world you lived in carved from the hazard of raw nature by your forefathers. Go forth, o' man . . . an live a glorious man's life once again in this kingdom we call the world.

Yeh man I did pretty much the same thing, with the weed I found it's better to save smoke for after a workout as its like your rewarding yourself, I found smoking beforehand makes it harder to make yourself go but that could just be my lazy ass

You see, the problem with that is that most people make drastic changes to their life which, like all things in nature that sprout up quickly, do not have deep roots and do not last long. How many people out there get a gym membership for 6 months and only go 3 times?

The change you are seeking must start by changing the way you think. Your thoughts, like all patterns of behavior, are a product of repetition and reinforcement. If you really want to change, you are going to have to go about the work of conditioning yourself to follow new, better patterns. Start picking up some practical philosophies (Sun Tzu's The Art of War and Machiavelli's The Prince are great starting points) and start reading and re-reading them until you start to see the world their way. You need to put new ideas and new ways of thinking about them in your head.

Also great fucking pic... that shit was so fucking epic. A New Man is Here. Fucking beautiful.

I've been trying to make it in the music industry for 4 years. It's all I really have my heart in and if it doesn't work out, I'm probably going to kill myself because I'd rather not spend a life of working jobs I hate. I'm really trying to give it my all, I really fucking hope I can do it.

Dude the whole morale I've got. Even when I'm not in the best of mindsets I can still make some twisted joke and laugh at the absurdity of life. It is my humor and my fighter inside of me that has kept me going. I've been thru some shit, like I'm sure others have, but I really shouldn't be on earth anymore...

that being said, being through such crazy shit has made me realize how "funny" things are... thats why that NEW MAN pic hit home. It's like I've when I hit rock bottom, I found a shovel... So normal life stress is funny to me. I think its hilarious. My sense of humor is my survival.

Dude I think if you shoot for your goal, you may find another more suitable path. I don't know how much you believe in how the industry is truly controlled... but I do, and the shit you actually have to do to "make it" seems horrible. I feel like you can find a nice little niche in music that will make you some bank.

Not having a child is fine, user. It would be a shame to miss out on your talents because of domestication, it would be a crime on us all. It's just that, I think you could do both.

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But follow your own heart, you will be right and are always right in that regard. Children can and do ruin unique and talented people. But try and think about your future, user. It is unwise to have children in middle age; for both your wife and your child.

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Dude, I'm a really spiritual and philosophical guy. I was turned on to both of those books because of my admiration and respect for 2pac. I've read those books several times. I understand what you are saying when you are talking about having roots. I have depression issues and drug issues as well. They go hand in hand in my experience. The root of my problem is my depression, which I have been taking control of the last year of my life. And I feel like Im out of the dark cloud. I feel like its time to make the positive change.

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>Pic related: The type of chick I want chasing me once I get my shit togethe
You want some ugly, washed up whore who fucks black guys to be chasing after you? Not gonna happen faggot.

> communism doesn't require sacrifices for the greater good
Yay, buzzwords

ha ha ha. this actually made me laugh bro. Welcome to the party. Shit posting is allowed cause I understand it.

Everything ok?

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I do support most everything in the imagine.
But it starts out ranting about communism and goes on how, in a good society everyone sacrifices a little, for the good of the nation. Which... pretty close to communism.
I think he's looking for another term, I mean, there are a lot of people like that, who quite enjoy and flourish under capitalism. The economic system doesn't necessarily dictate how the people see themselves as part of the system/country.

Just seems very
> everything I don't like is communism

I really don't know why people argue over this, since there's literally nothing you can do to change this besides moving to a country that is already under this practice. People fight about the most irrelevant things.

It is juxtaposing communism with fascism. So indeed there is a bias against communism in particular emanating forth. Now, you say that there are many people who flourish under capitalism and don't give handout, but they are taxed, user, and their taxes are handed out to those who do not produce. The productive are forced to pay for the unproductive, at gunpoint, we are sliding towards communism, user. You world needs you.

Things that affect you are not irrelevant, you demoralizing shill. It is important to have a vision of the world you want to live in, so that your subconscious is properly informed by your heart and you can manifest that world around you through your actions and interactions with others. You also pass those values on to your children, and if they are worthy values, then your children will improve them and pass them on to your grandchildren and so on. Such has the world already been improved before your very eyes. You are a liar, a coward, a fool or any combination thereof.

Yeah, sucks to live in a democracy. You have no way of influencing politics.
> tfw it's pretty much the truth

I was referring to undesirables, that are flourishing under capitalism as well, with their 'i deserve everything' and 'i can be/do whatever I want, I'm free' mentality.
Thus showing that it's not a problem that solely comes with communism.
I never intended to talk about productivity in capitalism/communism.

I've been there with depression before too, it's important to recognize that sometimes you'll get set back, but what matters is what you do on a regular basis in the long run. I also recognize that's a lot easier said than done, it's not like it's some kind of beast that you can go kick the shit out of and be done with for good. Just keep on adding up the positive changes in your life and keep reading.

>not debating productivity
Ah, my misunderstanding. You're right, there are a lot of commies in america, living the commie dream, except it's in a capitalist country and they're trying to spend equally what is not produced equally. Tick tock. (pic related)