Wtf do i do...

wtf do i do? my long term gf just told me she wants to be a surrogate for someone else's baby (maybe someone that can't get pregnant or a gay couple). She says she loves the feeling of pregnancy but does not want any more children.
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Why is this a problem for you?

congrats user, you and your girl are having a baby
>but it's not mine
oh sorry to hear that your gf fucked another guy...?
>mfw

My gf toyed with this idea too. I told her I don't agree that anyone can be merely a surrogate womb and that emotions get involves, that by her choosing to be involved she would also be choosing for me to get involved and I am not OK with that at all. I basically said it would have serious concequences for our relationship and no factor would ever take those concequences away from the decision.

Sucks to be you. She's going to be a she-beast for a year, and she risks perma-fat following the baby. Just say no, dude. Go.

That's not how surrogacy works. She would either be artificially inseminated or the doctor would implant an already fertilized egg.

If she's asking to be a surrogate, and that's all, I think that's fine.

If she's asking to be a surrogate as an excuse to fuck somebody, dump her, because that's not how it works.

That's borderline cuckery. She wants to have a baby just not yours

I would tell my her to go ahead and enjoy having someone elses baby and no boyfriend

This is the perfect opportunity for you to trade in your used model for a new younger NOT BAT SHIT CRAZY one.

I'm also kinda afraid that she will not want to give the baby up because of extreme emotionally attatchment

tell her you'll make her pregnant and they can have the baby.

If she's going to have a baby that doesn't have your DNA tell her to fuck herself because she's single now.

If it's not her egg, and she's just a carrier, in the US the courts have rules that the surrogate mother has no rights to the baby and that the agreement made before pregnancy stands.

If she was artificially inseminated she has full rights until the baby is formally adopted by whatever family.

Then tell her that you're rationally thinking about it, but that it's not going to work out, because she is too emotional.

You either choose to get cucked, or you leave.

This is a shit test you are not equipped to handle, as evident by the fact you posted it here. So, if you don't want to be a bitch slave the rest of your life, you're best option is to bounce.

Don't personalise it. Say the emotional bond between biological mother and child is downplayed by the system of surrogacy, and you don't agree with it. They can adopt a child if they want one. Put your foot down ethically don't make it about your GF flaws. Do the opposite, validate her compassion but say no for your OWN compassionate reasons.

Yo man surrogate mothers make like 40k a year for sitting on their ass growing a baby that they don't have to take care off. That's nine months of enlarged titties and unprotected sex that some infertile couple is paying you for.

make sure you can fuck her when she's preggers otherwise out the door she goes!!!

are you at least getting money

Eh, well, I can respect her decision to do as she will with her body...

FROM A DISTANCE FEW KILOMETERS AWAY!

Assuming this isn't a phase that she should be persuaded out of, I recommend that you dump, fast. Why the fuck and how the fuck would someone like having a small creature grow inside of you?

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In all honesty your girl friend sounds fucking crazy op. Plus me and my ex girl friend had a baby and her body got fucking rekt after birth strech marks on the sides of her stomac pussy is hanging out the baby sucked on her tits and destroyed them. I had to brake up with her was nasty

she just wants to do her part in destroying the white race

Are you serious?

That's a hideous thing to do, cut off your balls and cock, because someone who does that does not deserve to call himself a man

My wife did it. Gave birth in March.

>IVF implant
>zero connection to baby
>did an awesome thing for a couple well be friends with forever
>got $45k tax free

Inb4 cuck
>days the virgin neckbeard who has zero idea if how these things actually work.

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don't act all noble chicks are shallow as fuck and would do the same if a guy gained some weight

That shit's fucking disgusting, user. Tell that bitch it's either you, or the bastard implanted baby.
Oh yeah, and enjoy her blown out, stretchmarked stomach and vagina afterward if you decide to be cuck and go along with it.

She just wants to cheat on you without technically cheating on you.

It makes her petty self feel better about it. She wants a different dick and cum in her. Dont allow it. It will fuck up your relationship.

But she is the mother of your child, though.

By seperating, you'll give your child a huge setback in his/her life. The lack of stability and a decent father figure is detrimental

She's likely already pregnant from fucking around and needs an excuse.

most likely this lol and she doesn't want to lose the baby or you

>Hey user? I want this guy i know to fuck me and cum inside me until i get pregnant, is that okay? Its just so that he can have a baby of his own and he wants me to be the birther, is that alright?
>You actually have to think about this

First off neck yourself and take a shot of whisky and put some hairs on your chest

Second once your done with that, tell that bitch she can FUCK OFF. Unless she's okay with you fucking other single girls that want to be single mothers so that they can get pregnant? I mean you're just doing them a favor! right?

Tell her no and make it a HARD NO. Like non negotiable. Put your foot down. She will (or should if shes not a crazy bitch) respect you in the relationship and politely tell the other party they will have to keep looking for a surrogate.

If she doesn't respect you and keeps pushing and pushing the subject, she's already too far gone. Wether you say yes or no shes gonna fuck him anyway, if you say yes she'll tell you and if you say no she won't.

So basically all in all, tell her to keep her legs closed and open to you and only you, or she can take her pregnancy desires right out the door.