Did a "good deed" yesterday,but i feel bad about it

Did a "good deed" yesterday,but i feel bad about it.

Am I fucking retarded?

What was your "Good Deed" user?

What was your good deed and what were you expecting would be the outcome from it?

Give us a sign of life op, waiting around in a slow thread while you try to compose a green text or something doesn't inspire patience.

Was at a party,and this guy blacked out.
Someone called 911 and asked for an ambulance to get the guy some help.

But when they arrived his asshole friends told the guys in the ambulance that they would be escorting him home and there was no need to take him anywhere so they backed off.

Meanwhile the party ended and they just sorta left him there,all puked up and unable to walk and shit.

Me and a few friends of mine picked him up out of there and we just wanted to get him to the station where he would catch a bus home,but the guy could barely speak.

So we were at a crossroads,friends went the other way and I was left to go on with the guy.

Meanwhile he's puking all over the place and shivering,it's cold as fuck outside but i give him my jacket,buy him some water and something to eat.

So I was supposed to carry him to the station and just leave him there but instead I carried him home in the middle of buttfuck nowhere,and then spent 2 hours trying to get home out of said buttfuck nowhere.

I don't even know the guy.

What makes you feel bad about it?
I mean sure doing all of that shit for a virtual stranger must suck, but at least you know you've done what you could to ensure his over drinking didn't fuck him over.
You did the decent thing to do user, people around you might no applaud you for it, but that just makes you slightly more compassionate than them.

doing the right/good/best thing never feels good. it's a paradox. if it felt good, there would be so much less bullshit in the world. you aren't fucking retarded. you're a proper human being.

It just sort of feel like I shouldn't have done that,I'm not that good of a person.

And it's not the first time that i feel bad when I do something good for someone.

I always get the mild feeling that I'm being used when i try to help,even when i have my motive

Never said it didn't feel good,I wouldn't give it a second thought if I felt nothing.

But instead I felt BAD about it.

Your friends are shitty people.

Ask yourself this, if you were in the sick dudes situation, would your friends leave you to die? Find new friends user.

Maybe that's what's creeping up on me?

The fact that my friends didn't go with me?

Maybe that's why i feel bad,but then again they had to help out another guy,but definitely not all of them,there was like 7 of us.

Well you did it, so you clearly are.
Being reluctantly good is still being good.
You saw a situation where everyone were acting like selfish retards and you decided not to join them.
They did kind of wipe off a bad situation onto you, but answer me this, would you have been able to live with the conscience of knowing you left that guy in the middle of nowhere to fend for himself in that condition?
That feeling of being used actually comes from being the one decent person hanging out with a group of narcissists.

It's common for large of groups of people to be unresponsive to an emergency situation because everyone else assumes someone else will step in and deal with it.

But your friends point blank refused to help someone who could well have choked to death and died. You did the right thing user, but be-careful around your friends. They seems to have a genuine disregard for human life.

It would be bugging me for a while but then I'd just figure out someone helped him or something.

Maybe I do have kinda shitty friends....

Hey thanks /b,don't feel that bad about it now,when you put it that way.

Or you might just be a bit more mature than your peers.
If you're in your late teens/early 20's, you and your peers are still being affected by the hormonal change in your brains that will end with you turning into adults.
Most teens have a sociopathic period because of the ocean of hormones their bodies are swimming in.

>Maybe I do have kinda shitty friends....

It's a hell of a thing to wake up and realize that; just don't forget it.

Might be,we're all 18.

To be honest i already knew that from the beginning,just didn't really want to tell myself that.

user. You broke some barriers within yourself, nice work. It’s hard to tell when someone truly needs help versus then being an opportunistic fag. This situation you saved a guy from countless medical bills and made sure he got home just fine.

Just keep a hold of that decency user, your friends will have to grow it in the future if they wanna be successful, you just have a head start.
Also if you keep doing good things and don't expect thanks for it, people will eventually recognize you as the good person you are.

yes, I feel great when I do good deeds, to the point where I'm a bit addicted to the high it brings, oh well at least I'm not addicted to crack.

Holy shit didn't expect /b to be this good,was half expecting to be called a faggot instead of this.

Browsing Sup Forums is like panning for gold, you gotta sift through a bunch of shit in order to find nuggets of gold.

Faggot

Now you're happy user?
Take care

Now it's a real thread,thanks.

Of course you didn't, man; no one wants to think their friends suck or are actively bad people, especially when they're your primary (or only) friend group. It can be next to impossible to get away from them without moving to another city.

Another user mentioned the late-teens/early-twenties hormone tsunami; while that can explain away a lot, quite a few of the people who are shitheels in that age bracket don't grow out of it.

Don't shy away from being a good person just because your friends are assholes. You feel "bad" for having done a good deed because you don't have any examples in your immediate sociality of people who would appreciate it (and would probably make fun of you for doing it, maybe call you a fag?). Do good things when they need to get done and tell anyone who won't help or tries to slag you off that they're pieces of shit.

Good luck, son; don't let the bastards get you down.

I'm the user who mentioned the hormone tsunami before, op could even be a good influence on his friends if he consistently does the right thing and asks his friends if they would like to be left on their own in a condition like that.
I know some great people now, who used to be shitheels. Almost everyone of them turned a new leaf after being exposed to people who gave them a new perspective on what the right thing to do is.

>Almost everyone of them turned a new leaf after being exposed to people who gave them a new perspective on what the right thing to do is.

And that's how it works. At least, that's how it's supposed to work.

"The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing."
Op in spite of inherently being a faggot according to our rules, is one of those good men.
And luckily he didn't do nothing, he did something.

OP was a good guy

Hopefully one day they turn,they're all very likable despite being assholes.

Just keep doing your thing op and the people who are worth being around will gravitate to you and emulate you.
Also don't try to force anything on them, just try to appeal to their better nature.

Non-human tier