Being dumped after 6 years

Being dumped after 6 years.
I'm shaking over how sad I am.
Tell me your situation. How did it get better? How did you achieve closure?

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that's about my posture haha

No I do not want to kill myself and I wouldn't want you to do it either ok.

You had more than most of us fuckers. I'm 26, never got laid. Be happy with what you have been granted with.

get anything off ur chest to your ex and then go find other chicks thats the only way

I'm not asking to compare it, and you should feel better because it is either to never have loved at all than to have loved and lost.

Everything ends.

Fuck you dude for we do not know each others misery. Let's both go out and face the world.

Get over her faggot. You probably fucked up the relationship.

I'm sorry to hear man. I'm 24, got into basically the first relationship of my life with a girl last year that basically broke my heart. Was a virgin for 22 years, started having a social life and sleeping around, then her. On and off with her for a while and I'm just finding it hard to be myself again. I lost alot of my humor and confidence. Its not her fault really, but just kind of shows how far I have to go and its been hard. I'm really hoping I turn my life around again soon

remember u had happyness before you met her

most people are traitors

the sooner u forget her and move on the better

dont waste years like i did

we all die alone u dont need anyone.

IMO Just look forward to the opportunity to work on yourself. I mean, sure, it sucks... but like... You can do a lot of stuff while only having yourself to answer to.

There's no easy way. It's just some shit you gotta get through.

The important thing is not to get bitter. It's going to suck for a while, but there will come a time when you're able to let go and move on. Just accept things for what they are and learn what you can from the experience. It may not feel like it right now but you're going to be fine.

You just have to stop being a faggot.

Time, my dude. Cliche but true.

Your body is currently undergoing the physiological equivalent of a drug withdrawal. The good news is, it's much easier to get over someone than a heroin addiction, so you're already ahead of the game.

Take it easy, make no sudden life changes due to 'epiphany's' (just your brain fucking with you in most cases), just chill and get some serious you time in.

This too shall pass user.

time, alcohol and fuck every bitch you can find.

i'm 23, my life was perfect, I had plans for the future, the only thing I didn't have was a second plan. She helped me get over depression and a lot of mental issues too.
I had so much motivation to better myself for our better future and have placed complete trust in her.
I trust all people, but now I see I would've been better off just trusting a random stranger on the street.

Wha?? Why did you use a screenshot of your phone with a picture in the middle of it as your image?

Yes, OP, broke up with a girl after 9 years, 4 year have passed since this and I still feel strongly for her, I doubt that'll ever change. But time simply nullifies the pain & sadness and eventually opens you up to other, possible opportunities. You might not ever feel the same way about someone else, but you will move on.

you cant put all your eggs in one basket. Open your heart again. Just let it take some time

Get focused on something else, a hobby, perfecting a skill, online dating... anything. That's what I did and it helped a lot.

Man how old are you? I still remember my exes and wonder.

If you do not place all your trust in someone, is it still love?

Drink a beer, have a cigarette. 3 years from now you won't have any romantic emotional connection to the person according to science. Just chill. It gets better.

29 years old now. I'm too young to be condemning the rest of my future and trashing it over a girl. Besides, the relationships you encounter later in life are the ones which tend to last longer, even if the 'honeymoon period' isn't as good.

this guy, and dubs speak

closure is the most important thing. you feel like shit because she left you. but you will come to accept it and move on once you realise that you can't make someone do something they don't want to do.

get everything off your chest to her, if she's still willing to give you the time of day. everything mean everything, because in the future shel probably want nothing to do with you.

the worst thing is when you've moved on then you realise that not everything was as it seemed when you broke up, and then she refused to meet or talk, which leaves all these questions in your head. You're over here, but having these questions unresolved will consume you, have to find a way to put it at the back of you head or out completely. once that turns into hate or anger, then it will constantly crop up in your daily life, which is not healthy.

good luck with your situation

also heres a tight body to help get your mind off things!

you can place all your trust in more than one person. Just do your best to make sure they are the right kind of people.

You two are right. I will say and ask everything. From my 2 previous exes I still have a lot of questions and unresolved things but they want nothing more to do with me. I want to speak about why these things happen I know I was giving it 100% in terms of bettering myself and trying to keep everyone happy. The only one who ended up not being happy is me.

Step 1: Weed
Step 2: Whores
Step 3: Talk to your friends about what you DONT miss about her. Dont be annoying, but get stoned and get something off your chest once in a while

i've closed with my my ex 1 year ago after a 7 years old story,you just have to resurrect from all the shit and insist in elevate yourself,find what's gone wrong with your ex and why that story came to an end,and obly yourself to start again even if it looks impossible,now i do sport and try to be fit,i try to have better relations with other people(while i've always been a solitary asshole),i try to overpower my shyness,and so on,sooner or later you'll feel better,just insist.

It gets better. It helps to go get some new pussy or companionship. But don't let yourself fall in love.. work on doing things that make you happy. And as long as you get your confidence back you never know she might want to suck your balls down her throat. Slut

I feel your pain, i been in a relationship for 4 years with this girl, was a long distance type deal and we would visit each other often, we were planning a whole future together, living together, kids names all that shit, she finally moved real close to me to the college 25 mins away from where i live,, (moved in august)
everytime i go to see her there she stood me up with some bullshit excuse and now recently shes been ignoring me, i dont even know what dorm she lives in, she hasnt been replying to my texts, and todayher phone number changed,, so she practically ghosted on me without no word. Either she died or either she moved on that quick and is gonna hit me up after getting a new guy, or couldnt take the pain of telling me were done, idk, i knew she loved me based on all the intimate things she told me about her, our connection, and all the times we had, but now i just question everything.

Last relationship I had was with the woman of my dreams who left me for a dude that cheated on her.
I made a bet with a friend she'd be single again within 3-4 months. Now my friend owes me 5 bucks and she's been trying to get my attention again.

But, I never really got over it aside from the fact that I've realized for a long time that women are impressionable whores, following the masses and not worth the time of day to pity losing them, because getting them can be influenced by how shitty their day was.
Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks, OP. Stay strong.

i broke off a 6 year realtionship also, a week ago.. im either over it and fine, or the feels still havent hit me, but it is what it is. just get over it, move on, drink/cry if you need to and live the rest of your life, single life has its benefits. also fuck some bitches but dont rush a relationship, and get to a gym ASAP

i beta'd, don't beta.

Been 4 years since my breakup, had what i thought was the perfect girl but iv met someone new that goes way beyond. I was used to being repressed and limited but now im free, fuck all the time, shes cool about everything i do, and actually takes an interest in me and my hobbys.

Its tough getting over someone, most people go through it one way or another but at the end of the day youre human, just try to keep your mind off it.

>theres plenty more fish in the sea, just keep lookin user, and goodluck.

there is no closure you just have to sew yourself back together and hope it holds

hey ive all ready been through so much shit dude, ive died twice got dumped by my soulmate for the dumbest fucking reason after 5 years in the fucking hospital. the second time i woke up from an induced coma i realized something that made my life fucking awesome. i realized that we have unhealthy irrational desires that we have been taught to have from a young age, we are taught we need love, that sharing blood means something, that we need to be respected, that we need to have a job and study when reality is. none of that is true. you dont need shit. you could just walk off and do whatever the fuck you want, you are the one who decides if anything means anything, all desires and bonds are irrational and you can leave them all behind and be fucking free. just let go from all that senseless shit, you did not need her, you dont have to grief, you dont have to anything, you are free ffs. once you let go of all your irrational desires and bonds, fuck man. nothing really matters and you just get to be happy doing whatever the fuck you want, im a fucking chef dude, the only happy one. let go

I had a relationship of 13 years which we were married for 5. It's been six months now and I still miss her everyday. She moved on. I hate it that she fucks like 4 - 5 guys a week and that she confronts me with that. I'll never get over her this way and I'm depressed as fuck.

This
Take it easy and take care

It's been quite good 5-6 years since my ex girlfriend broke up with me, she herself was not very truthful with who she really loved as she loved someone else and not me, she just pretended to like me for a short space of time when we started going out which only lasted a couple of weeks. But she was probably my real first love, she on the other hand was a bitch and it wasn't a proper relationship on her part because of how long it lasted but before then when we were just friends I didn't understand at the time that she just wasn't interested. She was a real drama queen and some of her selfish actions led to me becoming heartbroken and depressed. I was alot younger at the time like 13-14 so you can imagine that nothing felt proper but I still got over it despite the depression. She's not always on my mind anymore like she used to be, instead my goals and personal achievements that I wanna make come first and always first. I don't think about her anymore in that way, sometimes on the odd occasion I will kinda have a flashback of certain events that would lead to a breakup and sometimes I wonder what she does now that I'm out of her life.

Yup typical
you know what it is your overlying upon her that drew her away
She needs the guy to be her rock, not the other way around

In all fairness to summarize it wasn't a real relationship, it was just a girl playing games making someone bordeline depressed.

When are we going to make /wf/ for whiny fucking faggots who complain about how they got dumped/love a girl? If it's not a trap thread, porn thread, gore thread, or fucking celeb thread - it's one of you vaginas lamenting some fucking broad. Please neck yourself.

I've been dumped and cheated on after five years, I knew her my whole life and she was the love of my life.
That was six years ago.
Op, if you truely loved her, there's never any closure. You'll think about her everyday for the rest of her life. Welcome to hell, Op.

Briffault's law
Learn it, apply it, adapt to it, use roasties or love them but stop deluding yourselves about their true nature

Why'd she dump you?

Awesomesauce
You dont walk away from the bond to your children though

because he's a giant pussy prolly lol

>prolly
Dude, just kill yourself.

Dude she is wrecked, she just doesnt know it yet. She wont ever get a guy to commit to her who's half as good as you.
Dumb bitch confusing cumdumpstering with value. Let her crash and smile.

Stop being such a faggit

Find someone new. With your experience, you'll know what you would and wouldn't want. This really helps. I know what I'm saying, earlier this year I ended a relationship lasting for 15 years and now I'm perfectly fineand happy with another girl.

We have kids too. I'm waiting for it that she crashes. She's totally hollowed out and focuses on two things, her career and sex. The stupud thing is, I'm thinking more about her than myself. That shit is becoming an obsession.

This guys gets it.

Although there may be some exceptions to this, they only confirm the general rule. And it's damn hard to keep looking for a diamond in the gutter when you keep getting fucked up over and over again.

been there dude.
was together 7 years, turns out she's a cheating whore.
i drank (drink) a lot, now don't feel much of anything.
put time into work, getting fit, whatever floats your boat. go see a hooker if you need to, they care as much as you do.
it doesn't get easier, but you get through.

No. It's better when something happens than nothing. You will feel like shit for 1 month then you'll figure out why it did'nt work between you and her. If it was a great relationship you'd be still together, you are not, move on.

>closure

what is.. closure .. ?

>

It doesn't get easier if you drunk like a retard. I can smell of you feel like shit but there a plenty of guys who recovers well in few months

thats because you dont want to, but you fukn can

i always cheat on whores before they cheat on me

if they cheat i can say oh well
if they dont i still got pussy

You got dumped and turned to Sup Forums?

Nobody deserves to be with something as lowly as you

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this will help :)

i coped. i didn't top myself, and i'm still functioning. it hasn't taken over so that's a win against the bs.
point to OP is, sometimes there is no closure. sometimes there's just living, even if it isn't with her