Has anyone here talked to someone they hadn't met before at a bar/party...

Has anyone here talked to someone they hadn't met before at a bar/party, and on the same night or soon after that had sex with them?

I'm a virgin so no

yeah. college parties man. that's what they are for.

how did it end up in sex dude? I've never made it to that :(

>college parties
this

Yup. At least 4 times I can think of right offhand.

confidence, dont be an idiot. if you are an idiot, be a funny, confident idiot and get her/him a few more beers.

maybe I should give this a try. 20 yo virgin right here bro

yes, 10 times maby

I was 20 when I first got pussy. Thank god for sluts + booze!

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oh i dont feel so bad now. tell story of when you first got pussy plz

Sheesh, only like every but me seems.

do want.

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Yep

yep that's called a party, smashed it

Me, several times. It's mostly about logistic and don't drink too much

logistic?

moar

Yes, it used to be the main way to meet girls...

29yo male here and I've had women figured out for a long time.
It *is* confidence and here's why:
99% of women will have already made up their mind of whether or not they are willing to have sex with you within the first few minutes of meeting you (ask any girl after you sleep with her, this is true)
Think of it as the first few seconds with guys, only for women it's minutes.
Knowing they've all made up their mind, if having that confidence gets you 50% of the women who are already willing to bang you, that's a lot more pussy than you think.
>13 years of experience sleeping with women "out of my league"

That's the "secret" and it's not that complicated.

That said, NO MEANS NO, no matter what you choose to assume. Know your boundaries and don't be an autist.

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20, desperate for pussy, shy as Hell around girls, in college, contemplating suicide if no sex by 21.

Total insane crush on Girl A, who flirts lightly with me, but has bf. One night a few of us are drinking, hanging out, and Girl B shows up. She is A's cousin, who I've never met before, not really hot, but plain-looking, not bad.

Well we proceeded to play some drinking/sex-dare game, getting REALLY plastered but it was my first time to even really kiss a girl....We "hit it off" and went to my place to fuck. I was so grateful I cried, pathetic as that is. We continued seeing each other about a year, and it was almost always, dinner>movie>fuck. We really had very little in common, no emotional bonding. In many ways it was my best relationship because no head games or drama, just pussy.

I learned later she was a serial-slut, who liked to have short term relationships just to fuck shy/needy guys, and I am almost sure her cousin A, who I was crushing on, set her up with me to throw me off her trail.

Sorry, I'm not good at story-telling....

Met my wife at house party,fucking her raw 4 hours later. We've been together for 7 years now

I was in foster care for truancy when I was a teen. After a few weeks, a qt appeared. We went for a walk on her first day, and within 45 minutes, she was sucking my dick. The next day, we snuck into the basement while people were upstairs, and fucked each others brains out.

A couple of weeks ago, at the bar, I met another qt redhead. Talked to her for awhile, and she said she was leaving, asked me if I'm coming with. Fucked her brains out as well.

Do this shit plenty, went to UMD and SDSU, SDSU girls gave out like no other
Also pretty attractive dude with tats and workout plenty and not autistic
Definitely girls i wouldnt date clearly but nice to get a nut bust and never talk to again, unless the pussy was bomb

Care to share a bit more details? Like what kind of stuff you talked about when you met each other, doesn't have to be everything just some of it.

Fucking a girl in the bathroom is not an option, you need to live close to the venue or have a room and bed ready (if it's a house party). Find some random excuse to isolate her, such as tasting a wine at your place or whatever.
Keep it light during the whole process, as if nothing special was happening

A friend of mine invited me over, and I met her room mate, who I married. We got buzzed walked to a bar, and somehow got separated so it was just the two of us. Ended up being an impromptu date, we hit off real well, kissed on the walk home etc. Get home, and being the gentleman I am, i get ready to sleep on the couch when my future wife's tells me her bed is more comfortable. I'm not an idiot so I follow her upstairs and before we are even in the room she is trying to take my pants off. 5 minutes later, she's on top, naked, and I'm balls deep inside her with no condom on. She leans over and starts really grinding on me, telling me she wants to feel my fun inside her. 2 kids later the rest is history.

College Parties all the time, the bars not so much. It feels different and its a little more mature but its happened a few times i guess.

Idk i tryed somany times and 0 luck. Not even with girls i knew, all guys say they did it but i just do not beleave...

Hate to be finicky, I mean what did you talk about, in the conversation you had before you had sex, just an example or two.

Yes. I met this Australian girl at a party. After 3 min she asked me to walk her home. Within 5 we were kissing somewhere and 2 hours later we had sex. Keep your hopes up my dudes

Ugh, this makes me reminisce of all the college days. So true, and so innocent in a way haha.

We just flirted a lot, I spent a lot of time trying to check out her cleavage, she spent a lot of time trying to show me. Same thing you always talk about the first time you meet a girl, not consequential. Jokes, compliment her, what she likes to drink, what was she doing etc. Small talk with women has never been difficult for me though.

Bump

It was a blast of a 1 night stand, that turned into me spending the weekend, that turned into causal dating, that turned into marriage and 2 kids. Wouldn't trade it for the world. Random chance got me I voted to a party by a friend I hadn't seen in 3 years and I ended up meeting, fucking, and marrying her roommate because of that incite.

I agree with this to an extent. I do think as a guy you have to be reasonably good looking & look after your appearance.

Also be realistic, if you rate yourself a 6-7 out of 10 then don't spend your life only going for 10/10's cuz you will never get laid...or get laid maybe 1 in 20 times

I've 29 and had one 1 night stand.

That being said though the older I have got, the more confident I've become. I look back and think "wow I could have easier fucked that girl" but was a virgin faggot at the time and had no confidence.

I've slept with 5 girls in my life with one 1 night stand.

Currently married to girl I've been with for 9 years

absolutely - as long as you take care of your appearance and have confidence you WILL pull.
Even if you get turned down 5 times before you find the 1

Fucked a girl who only spoke French (leaf) and we couldn't even have a convo. It was fabulous

There was this girl I had fucked off and on for a few years. She had a boyfriend and I had a girlfriend. One night, years later, when we were both single, I go to the club with her and her roommate who was celebrating her birthday. The roommate was cutish. A little chubby. At the club, this girl is reaching down my pants. She was drunk, and kept saying how tiny I was. Great for my ego. Anyway, we all go back to their place. My friend was also drunk. Friend pulls me into the bathroom and begs me not to fuck the roommate. She gives me a bj to make sure. I figure the roommate wasn't interested because I'm hung like a gnat. We watch TV, then the friend passed out. Boom. Roommate jumps me. Worst sex ever. No one ever talks about it again. I still don't know if my friend knows what happened.

I've have about 40 one night stands throughout college. Usually they turn into something for a little while. some were amazing and some were meh, its just all part of the experience and throwing yourself out there. For example, the first time i ever had chance at a one night stand was in highschool, hell the girl even invited me into the shower with her and we didn't end up really doing shit.
However,
>Went to college
>joined a fraternity
>parties and made it a mission for the first two just to go up to girls

Been fine ever since and it gives you confidence to talk to women in general you dont necessarily need to have a one night stand.

Nice quadz

Coworkers, parties, customers at work. It's really not hard. Majority coworkers honestly

I'm the one you replied to- I agree to go for the number you're at out of 10, or a little higher
But one thing that distinguishes me from most guys is I never settle and fuck someone lower than me just for the number
People who fuck for quantity are insecure or have issues and need the sex

But lets be honest, its nice once in while to have a 5 that goes nuts on ya.

Dont be a herb

I say this because there was once I was even called a faggot by all my friends because I turned down this girl who wanted the D because I wasn't attracted to her whatsoever
Joke's on them though because I get plenty of fine pussy.
Never a need to settle if you're secure and know what you want

True. And fat chicks really do give the best head.

My soul about left me after this one chubby chick gave me head. Hell i went back a few times just for that XD

They're so thirsty for the cock too.
She'd grab my package in public places sometimes

Aaahahahah holy shit

Cunt go to a club..what the fuck did you think they were for?

Go to club
Get pussy drunk
Fuck pussy

Key points

- have a bed Inside 15 minutes from the bar. Any longer and she may sober up long enough to realise what a bad decision she's about to make

I've done it a few times, I'm tall and good looking and not skinny so that seems to help. I wouldn't recommend trying to pick up girls at a bar or club because if you even do go home with them they're most likely complete skanks that do this every weekend and it makes you feel like you're just a ride at a theme park that they just wanna try out and then go on different rides. What I like is finding a smoking hot 18 or 19 y/o at a party that isn't a complete thot and not drunk out of her mind and just strike up a real conversation with her and ask her for her opinion on things and give her complements. Offer her whatever booze or bud you're partaking in as well. Make sure your body language isn't aggressive or awkward but clearly interested and try to get a hand around her waist. If you tell them you have a cute dog or that you know shiatsu massage that helps a lot too, gives them extra incentive to go home with you. I have the added bonus of my whole social circle knowing that I have a huge dick, because once I'd fucked a couple of the girls in the group word started to go around.

Yes. Somewhere around 10 times (I'm 24). I'll tell my story here for you because I get the sense it might help you.

I used to really lack confidence sexually, despite being attractive and generally someone people enjoy spending time with. It took me many tries to lose my virginity because I was so nervous that I couldn't get a boner (watching porn also fucks you up in this way). Each time this happened, I would be so humiliated and embarrassed that I would actively sabotage any woman's attempt to fuck me for the next few months. Eventually, what "fixed" me was opening up to a girl and telling her how nervous and frustrated I was about it. She agreed to help me be laying naked with me and not putting any pressure on me to perform; basically helping me get comfortable being naked and intimate with a woman instead of freaking out about "how I looked" or "not living up to her expectations".

The most important thing to remember is success with women can be LEARNED. It's a SKILL, not a TALENT.

Keys to success:
-Honest, vulnerable communication: you have to say what is on your mind. Don't be afraid to tell a woman straight up that you like her. Don't be afraid to share your opinions. Put yourself on the line. Be the first one on the dance floor and dance like crazy by yourself, unashamedly.
-Extreme non-neediness: even though you told that girl you like her, you are not attached to her opinion of you. She likes you? GOOD. She doesn't like you? GOOD. You don't compromise your values or sense of self-worth for ANYONE.

There's a lot more, so I will refer you to some great resources:
-Models by Mark Manson
-Real Social Dynamics youtube videos
-The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida

Good luck.

Whenever I have one night stands there's usually gratuitous drinking involved. I'm not saying drinking alone will get you laid, but having fun can.

Unfortunately in your case, since you have looks, you've actually always been 90% there. Your social anxiety just held you back.

Sex is as shallow as it sounds--If you're attractive chicks WILL want you as long as you don't fuck it up (e.g. like how your anxiety did)

Even more so, if you happen to be a girl's type, that's a slam dunk.
You can even fuck up a bit and she'll still want you at the end of the day.
So finding out a girl's type or what her exes looked like is so much of a bigger deal than people let on

Hey user so you also went through a spell where it was harder mentally to get a boner too? Man, for like 5 months with some girls id get all nervous and it would take me a bit. However, with some i was more comfortable. God it was so embarrassing for some reason.

Yup. I know 11/10's that would turn down the biggest studs until they met their "type". Really is that shallow.

Yeah. Had lots of one night streams.

Just keep the conversation as casual as possible. Keep her laughing,and if you ever get stuck on not knowing what to say.........just follow the FORD method.

Talk about her Friends, Occupation, Recreational interests and Dreams. Thatll make sure shes engaged for a while,and that you are showing an active interest in her.

>NO MEANS NO

Ahahahahahaa

Fucking amateur. Get the fuck out of here.

Your right, looks do matter, and I think every guy should do as much as they can to improve that(hit the gym, groom, develop good style), but I try to de-emphasize its role because some guys will use their looks as an excuse to stop trying.

Yeah dude, it's embarrassing because it makes you feel like your not a man. There's actually a sweeping epidemic of ED in young men. Most people say it's because of 1) porn warping arousal patterns, and 2) feeling pressured to live up to ultra-high standards. For me, it also depends on how well I know/like the girl. I have trouble performing for one-night stands with random chicks because I'm honestly not that into them. I've actually stopped sleeping around like I used to because I feel that its eroding my integrity and devaluing the gift of my sexuality.

i've never met someone i thought i liked enough to do so

opinion

>Visit friend at uni
>im 22 y/o virgin at this point
>meet his house mates
>introduce myself as fish pocket
>go to the bar with them
>his house mate is grinding on me
>autism isnt striking me for some odd reason so i buy her a drink
>go back to their house and fuck her
>put my name in phone as fish pocket
Introduce yourself as fish pocket OP has a 100% sucess rate for me

yes pic related

I agree with the porn issue but I think its more of a mental thing of thinking on how it should go especially if you dont know someone. In my case, some one night stands would be amazing during those 5 months because the connections was right but other times it would take me a bit to get up because the connection wasnt great. Yeah I mean the value of sex goes down if you sleep a lot but if you wait for those great connections it is absolutely the best.

cringe

stop speaking your dreams out loud nigger. 99% of this fucking thread are virgins

this
>fucking cpatcha getting on my nerves too

is this for real?
I'm a 20 yo male and really considering suicide if still a virgin at 21.

dude don't kys wtf what if you end up meeting your dream girl when you're 22? I bet you'd feel like a dumbass for offing yourself

second this bro

Hand to heart what happened.i had a shit few years, and this night is literally my the ing point. With her help finished college, got a great job, have 2 great kids. Couldn't be happier. Don't an-hero, you never know when you are going to meet someone who changes your life.

yes, it's how i got aids

do big dick help? im only 4 inchs.

Dream girl and all those shit are actually all in your head.
Also, You don't have to kill yourself as long as you have two hands.

What are you actually DOING to get laid? I have news for you: being passive is not going to get you laid. Get out and socialize. Talk to girls on the street. Practice hitting on them. Go to the gym.

>but its hard

It's a hell of a lot better than being dead.

Fucking retard

You are fucking retard

this is one of the best replies on this thread. thanks user. would you care to share any more advice please? thanks in advance.

Twice... One night stand with one, been married to the other for 6 years. You win some you lose some

But you do have to kill yourself, cause you're a fucking retard

It's called being self-dependent.
Ass.

this is something I will remember. Thanks user.

Fucking retarded ass. Kys.

Listen you're a fucking retard

literally the only way I get laid, my advice to you is just wheel and deal, if a girl hangs out with you for more than a brief conversation you're live

Fucking retard

>Has anyone here talked to someone they hadn't met before

Guess I'm out

then simply buy a pussy to unvirgin you if its that important

are you autistic?

I can't understand what you are saying over the sound of how FUCKING RETARDED you are. Stupid is as stupid does Mrs. Gump

you're um........ retarded,

thanks for your reply user. it's just seeing some of my friends happy in relationships and I want to be happy with a girl :( its horrible :(

went out with my friend and his girlfriend and her friends, we get super drunk and i have the best friend bent over in the kitchen completely naked fucking her while everyone was asleep in the living room literally 3 hours after knowing her