Sup Forums this is so fucked up

Sup Forums this is so fucked up
After 17 years of being married I found out my wife is cheating on me

You only got two choices now.
1. Kill her and the dude who fucked her
2. Kill yourself

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Time to cut her out your life

Women are biologically inclined to seek out other mates, it's a part of nature that keeps the genetic pool of a population diverse to better the survival of the species. This is the harsh reality of life, people like to think we're the type of species that mates for life but we're just not. The sooner you accept this fact the easier it'll be to accept what happened to you.

The coin toss said option 2

This'll make ya laugh.

that fucking blows dude, how long has she been cheating?

>implying humans abide to all urges they have
I hate to use that word, but that sounds like cuck logic.

Cheat on her.
Better yet, take a shit on her face while she's sleeping and drive away to a different state.

it's not easy when u have children

so, to you humans are polygamous?

what the fuck

for all I've seen, for the last 8 months

do you know the dude she cheated on you with?

17 years holy crap... how did you discover she was cheating user?

Sounds like some shit a loser or cuck tells themselves

Use it as an opportunity to get into the swinger community. You can't honestly say you're aren't ever attracted to other women...

maybe go to counseling and try to work it out, I don't have any other ideas :p

Not saying all women are gonna cheat on you or anything like that, just that if some bitch decides she wants to spread her genes like nature tells you to there's no reason to get upset about it, only a cuck gets depressed about getting cheated on

Get out newfag

Don't revenge cheat on her.

>Just leave.

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Leave and take or leave the kids
Don't stay with her
The kids will be fine

It's perfectly fine to be depressed if you've been with them 17 years and are emotionally attached. Sure, go bang some hot sluts and get rid of that depression real fast. But it seems like op is just finding out he was cheated on so obviously there Will be some emotional turmoil. Just because it may be normal for cheating to exist via natures laws, its normal to be upset over losing a long time partner. Cuck

Nope, apparently he's a guy that goes to the gym with her

She was acting weird last month, so I found out the unlock pattern of her cell phone to see what she was hidding. One day while she was in the shower I took it and found the chats with this 19 yo guy from the gym

Idk, maybe there's a possibility to save the marriage

That sounds too cuck. Like, I was so rejective to that sexual fetish and now the irony of life makes this

don't get depressed; function.

search your soul

there has to be a way of finding the one that got away.

Hey man if you wanna cry over a cunt then go ahead, be a cuck about it that's your choice

does she know you know? if not one night pack your shit and go and leave divorce papers ghost her ass and don't tell her why it hurts her more because her mind will race for answers on why you left and she'll never have that closure feeling

he has kids tho

go see a lawyer

Finally someone who understands, seems easy but it isn't
All the people here say that because they weren't part of something like that

When that "cunt" is the mother of your children and means 17 years of your life, I don't think is cuck to cry

No she doesn't
That mental torture... I like

depends on the age of them and it'll be settled in court

> (You)
it's all a mental game ghosting is the worst thing you can do it'll cause her so much stress and will break her down with the constant what did I do wrong? there's no possible way he knew I cheated and it'll just race but think of your kids too...

>weren't part of something like that

Something like what? Something that ended in her betraying you in the most violent and intimate way possible? It was all a grand ruse OP. A grand, grand ruse. Cut her out.

Best to get everything off your chest, you make it clear to her that she fucked up hard by cheating on you with 19 y.o, the marriage is gone, her cheating is always going to be a part of your relationship. I understand you have children, but your mental health is important. Don't want to end up doing something stupid.

Something like that happened to me after four years without kids and unmarried.
Must be horrible in your situation.
I'd say do this
How old are your kids? Just tell them some bullshit story about you having to leave for some amount of time before you do it. Obviously don't mention anything about her.
At least you gain the mental upper hand when doing this and maybe a few days to cool off in some motel, get drunk and try to have at least some sort of time for yourself.

Doing it like that would also be pretty shit as it'll probably end in a fight and imminent divorce, which will fuck with the kids.
Ghosting her with the divorce papers will at least get him some revenge and time to think how he will handle this I'd say. But I'm just some dude on the internet.

It's so weird how something that seemed everlasting lasted from a day to other.

They're 12 and 5. Yeah I don't think there's a chance to save the relationship

In the divorce you are going to lose 3/4 of your shit if she cheated or not with kids involved

Rejoice. Tis time for liberation my friend

>12 and 5
Telling them some shit story could work out if it's a really good one. Or maybe just tell them the truth in a way like "I need some time for myself". Don't mention anything about the cheating and her to them tho that would be a shit move.
Then it's probably time to adapt to a new life, if you want it or not. Take care of your kids, but try to have fun by doing all the stuff you couldn't do when married. Enjoy having more time for yourself and your interests. And time to develop new interests.

Get a couple of these and time it so that when she come home you are balls deep and have the divorce papers taped to the bed room door.

Else your other option is to take her on a "vacation" and let her have an "accident".

Good luck

You realise that the only reason people can cheat is because you aren't close enough to be honest with each other about what you are both looking for in life.

Everyone wants to fuck other people, and if people were just honest about that then everything would be much easier.

Polyamory ain't for everyone, that dude is being an ass about it, but it makes sense to be honest enough to fuck other people if you want to.

That's what I'm afraid of, I had a friend who divorced a couple of years ago and lost almost everything

And leave the kids behind? I don't think that's a smart move

Omg finally someone makes me laugh

Do you hate her user?

If she's done it once, there's a high probability of her doing it again. Once a cheater, always a cheater. She's probably cheated on you before with other guys.

I feel sorry for you user, I wish to find a woman to spend the rest of my life with but these days loyalty is just too rare. I can't stand the thought of building up a life with someone and dedicating your lives to each other and having it blown to shit. But my friend, if this is bait or not, you need to be the upper hand in this situation. It hurts like hell and it will scar you, take a lesson from this. You already said you dont see a future anymore so best thing to do is gtfo. Start maximizing life for yourself and enjoy everything to the fullest, show the bitch that she threw away something good. Make her feel like she has no place in your life anymore, either she will feel fucked up about it or she won't care. If she doesn't care then there was no saving to begin with. Good luck user, i wish the best for you. Don't let a bitch make you a bad person.. at least not to others. One thing though, dont fuck up your children

Dude get evidence, dont make a fuss, get a lawyer and serve her divorce papers.
Dont make a scene and already apply for custody.
let you lawyer do the work. If the judge sees that you did it all legally and gave no reason for them to dislike you it has a chance to come out good.
It's fucking hard believe me I know but try and not be emotional in it. Be a well oiled Robot for your kids sake. Not to mention itll make her hurt seeing you in control of the situation.

Also a good start to revenge is posting some nudes

The worst thing is that i don't know, she gave me the best thing in my life that are my children, she's so beautiful that one of the things that I'm afraid is that I may not be able to get someone gorgeous as her

Maybe, I should find out that too

Man you touched my heart. Thank you so much, felt like an advice from a friend

Transfer all of your funds to your parents account, close all of the accounts that she has access to that have YOUR funds in them. Completely cut her off. Get as much evidence as possible and transfer everything that's possible to transfer in your parents name so she GETS NOTHING in the divorce proceedings. Good luck user, and don't stay with her she basically cucked you

Unrelated
>I fucked my friends girlfriend.

How bad am i?

Rate on a scale of 1 to 10.
1 = not even a problem
10 = Isis/korea nuking planet bad.

Think of it as a fresh start
God speed user

Said the nigger. Alright OP here is what you do. Act like you dont know and when she least expects it order 2 of the finest black escorts on this side of the rockies and tell them you want them screaming bloody murder while you fuck them and make sure you do it when shes gone and time it so you are fucking them in the living room when she arrives. Film her reaction and tell her you have been fucking hookers all over the house RAW for the past months and tell her to get tested asap. All while apologizing. If she then admits she has been also fucking around just tell her you know like its nothing but stress the part about getting tested. Works everytime.

U sound like a faggot

If you didn't fuck her in order to get access to nukes and nuke the planet, then it's 2. As in, no one cares, but you're still a huge douche.

Tomorrow I'm going to see my lawyer, but getting evidence is not so easy I think

i don't have any I think, just normal pictures

what the fuck, no no, no black escorts

I dont know what your financial situation is, but you might consider getting a PI for a couple of weeks to do light surveillance. Evidence can go a long way to keep YOUR money and belongings in a divorce.

You have access to her phone. Screen shot, send them to yourself and then delete to messages. Not hard, Ive done it before.

My uncle told me when I was young, "a hitman is cheaper than a divorce."

Adults are talk here kiddo. Its past your bed time.

Ha! this mildly looks like my father if he had brain damage. and younger...

Mine used to just gurgle at me, he was crippled in a hospital bed

She's not easy with her phone, and she deletes the chats as I saw, I could get it and luckly she would have some photos and messages from the last weeks

That's a little fucked up dude

Why exactly did you want to marry?
Tell me you at least got a prenup!

Dumb ass fell for the marriage meme
now suffer you beta

sorry for coming into this late op

have you thought about things from her POV? maybe some details that might give you some insight as to what lead to this?

its hard trying to decide how to handle this situation. you can leave her and share her with the kids, or stay with her and forgive her but might live with that nagging feeling in the back of your head.

last decision is stay together till the kids move out, and try to separate yourself emotionally over time so that when you finally split you will be ready

Using Sup Forums disqualifies you as an adult.

'yeah it is fucked up, but he isn't wrong.... divorces are the number one reason people hire hitmen, 2 kids, probably if youre making 60k a year thats 500k over 18 years, do the math with whatever their ages are. Or 50k to be widowed. Use your head user, for once.

I've seen this three times the last two days. Lost my shit every time, it's gold

Tell her you been cheating for some years with other women( even if not true) if she say she was cheating too( in a guilty way) i guess you can fix your relationship. Anyway the only thing that matter its your kid he will be the most affected

Just disappear one day. Don't say anything. I can make your social go away too. Finger prints? What prints? You can be who ever you want.

Fuck I only see shitty answers here. Just do the manly thing that is beating her for being a whore and kick her out... everything else is bullshit. And please make yourself a favour and don't trust a woman again...

I had this happen to me but only with a gf of 3 years

user your situation is alot different.
first get proof, hire a private investigate to get photos, evidence.
Talk to a lawyer immediately.
Smile and nod for now and don't let her know that you know (most important)
just go about life as normal
Yet have that smirking knowledge that you will blindside her completely with divorce papers.
Work with your lawyer once the investigator has the evidence your case needs.
I'd say go stay with friends or family after you hand her divorce papers. Just walk out. blindside her.

After that you can either go through with the trial or emotionally blackmail her hardcore into counseling.

FIRST TALK TO A LAWYER
GET A PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR
DON't let her know you know
LET HER THINK SHES CLEVER, it will feel good knowing that you are smarter than she think she is. Also try to realize that for now shes worthless and it does not matter that shes cheating. When shes begging you to take her back you'll know I was right.

I've read all your posts.
Just don't let her know that your emotional. pretend like nothings wrong until you spring your trap. It will make the pain of waiting in knowledge so worth it in the end.

Look man, I don't know what I'd do in your situation, that's fuckin rough. And this will sound harsh but, I think your best option is black mail. Get as much evidence of her cheating as possible, stockpile a shit ton of it, if you can talk to a lawyer about the possible outcomes of a divorce. Depending on your state the infidelity will give you grounds to take the kids and most of the joint assets. Then take this information to her and tell her if she doesn't play ball she will end up with nothing. It's both a way to keep the family together and show her you are a fucking man. It's a power play but, one you have to back up with a hate fucking. The hate fucking seals the deal. it should keep her in line at least until your 12yr old graduates.

I can make him vanish, without a trace.

ADDADDADDAAADADAA

well, we were dating for 4 years, we were through tough times together. She was funny, intelligent and by far the best ass I saw in my life, I definily had to be with her for, what I tought, was the rest of my life

Her POV? Idk what happened in her head, if it was a lust thing or there was any love in there, I don't know, it's so confusing

This makes me remember something that happened years ago with the car. It was a little hitted in the passenger door so I tried that psycology of "it was me" to see if she said that was her. She didn't, she tried to cover that up. The point is, I don't think she would confess she cheated that way

might have been because a new person was attracting her, she may have just been bored, could have been frustrated idk what your sex life is life.

I would talk it out. ask her what was going through her mind. blowing up and holding this over her head wont make either of you happy. its either forgive or split. idk. could be worth a second chance. if you were in her shoes is that what you would want? or you may need to end it for your personal health and sanity because that is a lot to deal with in a marriage

sorry to hear about this op

Hey /b closeted black man here where can I find a master like this all sexy and grown to rape my faggot nigger shithole on and on while slapping the back of my head choking me slamming me everything I would drink his piss let him fart in my stupid nigger slave faggot mouth nothing ever turned me on more than the fantasy of a white master raping molesting and beating me but nobody ever knew how could I meet white men in secret preferably older ones to make me their worthless littler nigger slave faggot?

OP here guys, you won't believe it but she just told her friends from work invited her to a spa session this weekend. She's asking if it's a good idea to go, I said yeah sure but now I know that this may not be a spa session

Sounds logic, but
>Works everytime
Not sure if wtf or kek. Both I guess

Why would you say its a good IDEA.
Go with her. Or plan some shit.
Hire a freaking PI

Confront her ass.

She said no problem with me going, but someone has to take care of the kids. She knows that I'm not going at the end or she is going to a spa

Maybe I can get information with her friends
This are the supposed "friends" that are going with her, and she's the one on the left

Idk, we fucked almost every week or two weeks, that's being sexual active?

Is it a a nigger? A shiny black bull or a gangsta?

ohhh friends idea is good but they may tip her off too

also idk, i havent been married before so i wouldnt know what "average"sex life would be at that point, it was just a thought

Kill that fucking bitch and the faggot she's fucking.

One grave far out in the desert. Dig deep.

I laughed.

I know this is bait but no, at least she's not a nigger lover

That would show that she's been telling people to lie to me because she was doing something else, that would be 2 birds for one shoot

ahhhh i see, got it

do you have any connections that would be maybe more empathetic to your situation though?

and say that you figured it all out, do you think youll just get engrossed in investigating and compiling evidence to drop on her at one time? seems like you might be leaning towards a full on investigation kinda thing

No. In the recent years jews have spread this sense of urgency that women somehow have this right to cheat on their husbands when they suddenly feels a part of their life isn't being completely fulfilled regardless of the consequences to family and life.

They have made women feel some kind of empowerment over not being faithful as if this is some kind of positive accomplishment. It destroys the family life and it will spread to men everywhere preventing positive families from being developed. You are have been played by the jews attempting to destroy all structured life for the foreseeable future. They want to cause dysfunction in future children for generations to come and make them easier to control.

It sucks man, but the only answer is a grave made for two.

Cucktober hits hard for some

Spotted the jew.

This dude.

Hire a PI and you'll have that evidence in a short period of time. You already know where she sees the guy and her gym habits are probably pretty regular. Easy mode evidence.

Alex Jones? Is that you?

Who cares. It means you're free. GO get some hookers and blow.

OP sorry to hear the bad news. Best advice is figure out exactly what is going on. It may hurt but you can't make such a big decision without good info. So the lawyer / PI advice seems a good place to start. If she is going for a spa day that requires both an appointment and (typically) a credit card payment, for her and all her friends. These are easy to verify. If she is driving to the spa her car should be there (or at the friends house), another verification. If you share a phone plan it should be easy to see who she is talking to by checking the online bill (unless they only text). If you find out who the gym rat is, its easy enough to also find out where he lives. If you have to confront, best way is when she is with him, and bring someone who can take pics and be a witness. My brother had this happen. Messed him up for a year. Since the divorce he has become happier than ever with a women who adores him. So don't give up hope.

>After 17 years of being married I found out my wife is cheating on me

hahahahahahahahahahahaha

Yeah, you're right, maybe after getting evidence

I don't think they make out or something in the gym, some people know us there, would be too stupid

So it has to be an easy job for a PI I guess. I know who is the guy but don't know where he lives. The only thing I'm afraid of is going too far on that confront, I mean, if I already knew his house I would go and kick his fucking ass right now
Thank you

Cheat on her with that guy.

Type in his name with words last known address and state or city. When you get white pages, instant checkmaye or a few others you can just give them two bucks for his address.

First thing you do is call a lawyer. Ditch the ho now after you get a lawyer. Or she brakes up with you and gets half