What does sex feel like? I've never had sex before and lately I've been stuck in my room...

What does sex feel like? I've never had sex before and lately I've been stuck in my room, listening over the wall to my roommate having it every two weeks.

it's like masturbating except instead of using your hand you use the inside of a girl's vagina

Is it better than a hand?

So, like a meat fleshlight?

If I could arrange a series of sandwich meats into a vagina shape, would that be the same kind of sensation?

you could fill a gatorade bottle with ground beef and fuck that

Overrated user, weed and masterbation is better

Is there a particular lube I should use to help my little dicky slide in easier?

Or like, ranch dressing?

It's WARM.
Like it was something I never thought of but then i put it in and WARM goodness. Way warmer than your hand.

just spit on your ween

microwave your hand

Like a bag of sand.

just lost my virginity last night, it was kind of awfull and we were way too drunk.
alcohol makes it easy to get sex but very hard to have sex.
anybody interested in greentext story?

Sex with ugly girls is pretty none eventful, sex with a girl with a nice face I enjoy though, or that northern Irish girl I fucked just because she sounded hot, the actual feeling is just warm and wet that's literally it watch all these faggots tell you it's the best thing in the world

Do it. Might be a fun read

Ayy lad, go for it.

Its simultaneously overrated and the best thing ever.

If you're using a condom its overrated. If you're raw-dogging balls deep, then its pretty much the best thing there is.

But I prefer balls deep deepthroating and blowing loads down a throat than a vag. When they risk suffocating to take your seed, keep it.

Depends. I dont think the feeling itself is what makes it feel good, it's more the fact that you're fucking a hot girl. If hot girls didn't exist i'd much rather jerk off. The feeling itself is like putting your dick into something very soft, warm and wet but much looser than the average jerk off grip of your hand.

alright, am typing it while hungover and with barely any sleep
>be me
>meet grill
>the whole event seems perfect, like we were destined to meet
>go out with her, my brother and her friend
>we start kissing
>alot
>I've become what I resent most, a chad
>feelsgoodman
>can't fuck so decide to meet again
>day after we talk a little online and shit seems to be going downhill, but turned out she was just nervous (so was i)
>be yesterday night
>we go out, have a drink
>too much

cont.

If you or someone you know is trying to stop fapping raise your hand. Ok now how many ppl are trying not to have sex with their bf or gf?

Sex with you bf or gf is natural and it feels amazing . It's not just the genital Stimulation it's the connection between 2 ppl.

Just focus on foreplay and they lube up pretty good by themselves.

Go for it, user kun.

it's like a giant, warm, slimy fleshlight that also sometimes smells. It's pretty nice to pound female pussy like a wild animal.

It also gives you a mental comfort. Fucking fleshlight or sex doll may fell a little... sad. And you may think that you are a loser. Pounding female makes you somewhat an alpha male that can be okay with himself.

It also can give you complexes if you cum too fast or can't raise your weenie.

thats anal on your pic user

If you're in love, probably the one of the best human experiences; equitable with an LSD trip corresponding to themes of elevation, exultation, direct emotion, higher consciousness, etc.

if you're a girl don't expect much from guys. sleep with a girl its way better, they'll actually want to focus on you cumming too.

Is it hard to stick it in? I mean, does it slide in without effort?

sex is a little different every time as there are too many variables. the true difference from masturbation is just emotion.

mood x shape x lubrication x position x temperature

masturbation has the basics of male pleasure. if you want it to feel more like sex then simply add one or more of those variables.

you can never experience the feeling of "sex" without actually having sex as the act requires atleast two bodies. get a hooker.

Can confirm.
I've fucked, taken acid and both at the same time.
Pic related, found it in a thread a short while after and it almost gave me flashbacks, it's exactly how it felt if it could be put into an image.

Depends on how hard you are and how wet she is. Foreplay.

it depends. If female is not aroused, she have a little pussy or she doesn't fuck in like a week/month (and her pussy is not stretched) it may be a little hard. You will need some foreplay and maybe lube.

I don't have any problem with sliding inside my gf when she is even a little aroused, but first "thrust" is quite uncomfortable for her. She needs around 5 - 10 seconds to get used to shape and feel after i put it in and then it's down the hill.

If I'm had and she's not wet, will it still go in? Or will the dry skin prevent it?

>we get drunk but not yet to it's peak, that was still to come
>she tells me how nervous she was, and how much she likes me etc
>get home, asks me where my room is
>tfw I have a one-person bed
>tell her we should go to my moms room
>feel like a fucking 12 y/o but rent is expensive dood
>get naked on the bed, start kissing
>drunk has hit it's peak
>don't feel a thing, lucky enough to even get hard
>condom is tight as fuck, she says fuck the condom
>trying not to show I'm a virgin, she asks if I'm a virgin, says she's one but not sure if she said it out of sympathy (probably not considering alcohol)
>slide it in but too drunk to keep it there
>don't feel a thing
>she gives me head
>don't feel a FUCKING THING
>kissing still feels good even though she just gave me a blowjob
>decide to give her head, do some weird shit with my tongue, kind of save the whole thing
>from this moment I can't even remember shit, take her home, kiss and go to friends' house
>talked a little this morning, shit seems good
>don't know how to approach her next, I wanna go out with her but I really don't want to get drunk again

It can be hard to find, depending on the girl. Careful not to poke their butthole, they don't like that, and most won't put it back in their mouth after its poked their poophole.

For lube, just put it in her mouth first. It'll make sure you stay hard, especially if its your first time, and lube it up. Women don't always get wet prior to sex, but some do.

You can try using your fingers to prep her, but you have to be really, really careful. A nail scrape internally or externally, or being too forceful on the clit can really turn her off to sex and pretty much kill the mood.

Source: I've done all of these things. Learn from your mistakes, if its a girlfriend (especially if she has about as much experience as you do), she'll understand you're both learning each other's bodies and laugh off most of the clumsy mistakes. If she's experienced, she'll get pissed and just go fuck a chad, lol.

To be honest, going in dry feels great for a male, but painful for the woman. It wets itself after a few pumps.

girl from asked me if I was a virgin, tried to avoid the question a little by saying how drunk I was, she asks again and tells me she's a virgin. how likely do you think it is that she told me that out of sympathy?

I have had sex with a piece of meat. You get a big piece of meat (doesn't matter what animal but I used pig) make a hole that fits your dick and warm it up with some warm water. The water also flushes away all the blood and meat juices. Than you use some warm lube and go to town.

It feels better than a flashlight and pretty similar to a real pussy.

its not as intensive as you'd think in terms of stimulation once you get over the taboo of it. still good though, but think of it like playing a game with a friend, the game is fun, but its better if your playing with someone whos also fun

I've done it before because the girl was really impatient, but it doesnt feel good before she eventually gets wet. But if she's completely dry it really wont get in and it will hurt too much for both of you.

1st do not jerk off ever again till it feels again.
2nd ask her to go out for some food, you can drink put keep a lid on it
3rd go fuck you cant get any worse.

Also who cares if she was sucking your dick kiss her anyways. Now if it was some other dood well

Eh, its hard to say. A lot of women think that men don't want women with too many encounters - we all want virgins. Which, is true to a point. Most of us don't really care, but most would prefer the fewer the sexual encounters they've had the better.

She may have said she's a virgin out of pity/sympathy. But let's put it into perspective.

1. Does it matter? Do you care if she's a virgin or not? Its okay if you do, just be honest with yourself. Now, technically neither of you are virgins in any case, even if she wasn't before
2. Did she bleed during sex? Virgins can still break their hymen in other ways (dildos, other objects, etc.) despite never having sex. So this isn't a sure-fire thing if she didn't bleed. However, if she did bleed, she's either a virgin or on her period.

If you plan/expect to date, its important to be open about things that bother you. Maybe not right away, though - it may scare her off. Some people prefer to hide how many encounters they have had, both men and women. I've always been open about it, and expect it from the women I've been with. My first ex had been with two other guys, and I was a virgin. It bugged me til the day we broke up. The next girl I dated was married, fucked 20+ guys over the course of 3 weeks, and it didn't bug me at all. My wife was next, and had very little experience with one guy that I stole her from. Sometimes it bugs me, but it has no right to because I've slept with more people than she has. We're open about it, and she knows pretty much everything I've done with the people before her. I wouldn't really recommend that route, but we like to be open.

Does saliva help?

I know this makes me sound like a fag but when you're in a relationship it gives emotional boost and when she's hot it gives ego an boost. The physical side of it is good too. The feeling of warm skin on yours and another person letting you be with them at the most intimate level.

Do you have your eye on anyone? Make the move dude, don't be a pussy. If it works out you could experience all this stuff

Can the ego boost be substituted with an emotional boost? I case the girl is not as pretty.

Yes, definately. I never have sex with a girl anymore without eating her pussy first, it's more natural than spitting as some girls find that a turn off. If you learn how to eat pussy right, she'll treat you like a god, i'm not joking.

I would prefer it if she was a virgin so I couldn't be worse than the dude before her.
she was drunk (she drank the same amount as I did, and drunk people probably don't consider saying things out of pity
and she did say she was scared of bleeding, she didn't though

fuck yeah dude, holding her body in your hands, grabbing her ass, hips, neck whatever, feels so good man. you really lose yourself in the moment

not really. It dry really fast. Natural juices from cock/pussy or lube (like ones that Durex make) are a lot better.

warm your hand up in a bowl of hot water until its very warm and jack off with globs of lotion, there you go kissless pussyless virgin.

Yes. I've had that with a fuck friend, but it feels much better if she's hot, you get both. I'm never facking anything less than a decent looking girl again.

why not jerk off again?
also, I got so fucking nervous about meeting her again, I didn't even feel like having sex during the day before we met

This is true, BUT, she will get wet naturally one things gets going, so when the little effects saliva has wears off she'll already be wet. I've never had any difficulty with that. However nothing substitutes lube.

Yea. Sex is an important part of relationships. It helps to grow emotional bonds. Thats why fuck buddies find it hard not to catch feelings and so many fags get friend zoned.

The ego boost from a casual hookup can last anywhere from a day to maybe a week. It'll make you feel like women find your attractive and give you more balls to pursue it harder

Any tips if I can't get it up at the moment of truth?

Because when you jerk off too much to porn you get numb when you're drunk. And if you didn't feel like having sex it's because you're nervous and dont want to fuck it up.

Is it true you can't go back to normal sex after elevated sex?

kiss her intensely beforehand and finger / eat her out until you get hard, otherwise jerk off your soft dick, it should naturally get hard. otherwise you should go see a doctor

Sex without condoms > jerking off > sex with condoms

I wouldn't worry too much about being compared to other guys. Will they do it? Probably. Will you sometimes be better, of course. Will you sometimes be worse, of course.

The married chick I dated for a few months (the 20+ in a few weeks) had been with guys smaller than me and bigger than me. Of course, she said I was the best and I didn't believe her. They all say that, whether its true or not, so try not to think about it too much.

One thing about sex is that it is different with each person. I've only slept with three women, but they all like three different things, in different positions, at different times, and different frequencies. You will also be different compared to other guys they've been with. Everyone has their own tastes, and its important to fluctuate based on your partner's needs. To put it into example, the three women I've been with are: a) Touching my boobs once makes me want to fuck instantly b) Don't you dare ever touch my boobs, I hate that and c) You can play with them if you want, doesn't matter to me.

Huuuuge difference. Especially as you transition partners. I was with (a) for a while, so I learned, as my first experience, that giving a lot of attention to boobs during sex was necessary. Go into relationship with (b) and instantly get yelled at for touching her boobs at all. You have to learn on the fly, and so do they. (a) sucked my dick from the right, (b) sucked my dick from the left (I don't like it this way, and its a lot harder to finish) and (c) does it in the middle.

Everyone does things differently. Its always a learning process, no matter how far in you are.

that, sadly, depends on her.
if she isn't willing to forgive and help calm you down so you don't feel pressured, you're gonna have a bad time.

Dont jerk off unless it's a few hours to a dey bafore you're expecting to have sex.

Learn to eat pussy, if she's screaming from pleasure even before fucking her it's a huge turn on for most people.

Dont put her pussy on a pedastool, if you're nervous its very hard to get it up.

If all else fails, laugh it off, be honest about why and try to pleasure her instead, it'll make her want to come back for more and give you another chanse.

fucking a pussy is kinda meh sometimes
but nothing can beat a blowjob and jizz in the boobies

It feels like jacking off but more effort put in to it. Honestly is overrated. Blowjobs on the other hand are the shit

Once I had sex normally I realized it wasn't all that great. Then I started dating my ex-girlfriend and sex was amazing. To each according to his own experience, I guess.

Nope. Not in my experience, and i've fucked on multiple drugs.

You just have to remember that it's two completely different things, i miss it when i think about it, but to me it made regular sex feel more spiritual, i got a deeper level of connection when having regular sex because i learned from it instead of wishing for it to be like that every time.

This one is a tough one. If its a first time encounter, you always want to be hard so you're at max length. Guys fall into either a) showers or b) growers. Meaning they are either like 2 inches and get hard to like 6, or are soft at 5.5 and get hard to 6. Growers are more self conscious of how small they are while soft, so they want to make sure they're hard before the first time the girl sees it.

I've only had this happen once when early on in a relationship (it happens all the time now, because I'm used to sex - and my wife knows how big I am soft or hard, so sometimes I'll get it hard myself or just have her do it), but in a different scenario. When my wife and I started dating, we took a shower together pretty early on. Unfortunately, it wasn't a sexual shower, so I had to force myself hard mentally and with stimulation on our 8 foot walk to the shower, lol. It worked, and I managed to stay half-hard the whole time, but it was a chore. Most women know that a lot of men grow when they're hard, so as long as they've seen you at full mast, they don't necessarily care what you are at your softest point. But it depends on the girl. If she cares, move on.

TL;DR: Try to self-stimulate if the moment and her body aren't doing it for you. It really depends on what your fetish is as well. Some guys just don't get it up for sex, because its not their fetish. Now, you don't NEED to perform your fetish to have a good time. But your fetish is what it is for a reason, it's going to be your favorite thing (if you have one).

how much does dicksize matter anyway?
mine is about 15cm, and the condom I wore felt fucking tight so it's probably not that small, nor too big (which I'm OK with)

if you fap a lot you probably unconsciously grip your dick pretty fucking hard, harder than a vagina could ever grip it, so the fucking sensations are kinda numbed. Which is good for her, and sucks for you.

If you stop fapping for some days/weeks you'll regain sensitiviy

or you could try anal, the ring is pretty tight at the beginning but after that is looser than a pussy tbh

Do what feel right. Do what feels nice. Don't be a pussy. If the girl doesn't want you to do something then she will tell you.

It's like a car. You're the gas pedal, you move forward and do whatever feels good and that means for her too. Make her feel good. She's the break pedal. She will stop you if she doesn't like what you're doing or wants you to do something else. Don't think about it too hard. We're animals at the end of the day, just do what comes naturally. You can add techniques when you get a bit of experience

>listening over the wall to my roommate having it every two weeks.

>be me
>working/living in silicon valley in the 1990s
>not many available girls for young 25 year old men
>live in apartment, old men live on other sides of me
>not much action in my apartment, none at all in theirs
>get back together with my college girlfriend for long distance relationship
>fly her out for a week of heavy, loud, constant sex
>chilling at home one night after she's gone back home
>trying to sleep before work the next day
>hear a knock on the door next door
>hear female voice
>soon, hear sex coming from bedroom
>sorry about that old man. Um, I guess slip me the bill under the door next morning.

It matters to a degree, but also depends on the woman. It doesn't matter as much as guys think it does, but there are limits. You'll often hear how people talk about the G-Spot being 2-3 inches in, which is true, but that doesn't mean a woman will get as much enjoyment out of one that size. Some will, though.

Women like different sizes. 6 inches (15cm) is about the perfect size, because that's about how far the vagina goes before you hit the cervix. Hitting the cervix is extremely painful for women. So 5.5-6 is perfect, because you get to go balls deep, fill them entirely, without hitting the cervix. I'm the same size, and all three women I've been with say I'm the perfect size, even the ones who have had bigger. Because the bigger ones hurt.

Girth can be important, but there is still too big and too small. If you're average, you have nothing to worry about. Do I wish I had a bigger dick? In theory, yes. Because then I'd be showing it off trying to get it sucked all the time, if I was single. But, in practice, I'm fine with where I'm at. I'm all about balls deep, primarily deepthroating. Most women can't deepthroat 6 inches, let alone 8-12. So if I was bigger, it'd be even more difficult for me to find what I like.

Condoms being tight can depend on the condom. My wife and I recently tried a new kind and they were huuuuge. Just literally ziplock-bag huge. Couldn't feel a thing. They were thick and had way too much loose baggage. We went back to our standard kind that we've been getting for years, and it fits just fine. The bareskin ones feel great, because they're really thin and tight. But they break very easily. I shredded through the last one we used, luckily before cumming. But we had to stop, pull the shreds of condom out of her vag (this happens often, don't be surprised when you have to pull condoms out of a girl's vagina, they get stuck in there), then continue.

You really want to know?

Place your tongue between your bottom lip and your teeth and gently move it side to side. It feels like that but for your dick

Is there really little resistance like that? I've always though it was rougher around the sides and not as smooth.

SAUCE

yeah I'm super conscious about my dick size, when I look at it it doesn't seem as impressive as pornstars I see on pornhub, but when I look in the mirror it looks pretty decent. also I'm a major grower, my dick is incredibly small when it's flaccid, it's scary

Never been someones first so I can't speak for that but provided you are doing everything right (which is pretty easy) then there wont be any resistance

Don't be too worried. I'm like 1-2 soft, then grow to 5-6. A lot of guys are like that.

Gotta find a girl who doesn't want a big dick. aka a smart girl who knows that tearing and non-stop cervix pounding makes for a bad night, lol.

Lol, this is a perfect description.

different topic; what a good idea for a date without too much alcohol? I was thinking about a restaurant/movie hit her with the combo
but sitting a table for an hour triggers my autism and I'll be boring her out of her mind.

if she's properly lubed up it's going to bet wet, smooth and yielding. I've lost a couple boners because of the expectation of tightness.
at least in my experience she needs to gather some sexual tension before things tighten up.

Girls are different though. I'm a bit over seven inches, and I can hit my (Viet) wife's cervix if I go all the way. But there was this little Filipina I was fucking for a while, tiny girl, and I couldn't bump her cervix even if I tried. Some girls just have deeper pussies than others like some guys have longer dicks.

Condom size can be an issue - supposedly if you get ones too big they can slip off, and I know from experience that if they're too small it makes your dick feel constricted and just ruins the experience. I can get Ansell Skyn condoms in the right girth.

I've had girls say shit like, "You're gonna split me in half with that!" so I guess I'm at least reasonably thick, but none of them have ever had a problem taking it in their pussies. Some girls have had trouble getting their mouths around it though - blowjobs can suck if you have a fat cock, I'm sure it's much easier for a girl to work over something thinner.

it feels like taking a shit but reversed

>Don't be too worried. I'm like 1-2 soft, then grow to 5-6. A lot of guys are like that.

I'm that way.
Unfortunately, I've had some chicks abandon sex before I get to the final growth length - that sucked a lot.
But eventually I found a cute woman who had a smaller pussy, and thinks I'm just a bit too big for her.
That's even in the Kama Sutra - that there are large dicks and pussies, medium, and small, and people need to make an effort to find each other out.

Yeah, if she's completely comfortable with you she'll loosen up a fair bit. That's why the first time you fuck a girl, she'll usually be tighter than on subsequent fucks. She's gonna be a bit nervous going with a new guy. On the second fuck, she's already more relaxed and confident.

That's also why the tightest I've had was a hooker. She wasn't into it at all, just lubed up and jumped on, pussy wasn't relaxed/loosened up at all.

Honestly? I'd recommend making her dinner (so you don't have to wait at a table making small-talk) and watching a movie in your house. It's more relaxing for both of you, and will let her know you want to spend time with her, not money on her. Taking women out a lot gives the expectation of getting taken out a lot sometimes. Then you're in for a bit of an expensive relationship.

The best advice I can offer is to trim your pubes, and wash your balls, butthole, belly button, brush your teeth, use mouth wash, and make sure you wash your hair.

If you can't cook, order a pizza or some takeout. Don't try to do any of the movie moves like yawning and sliding your hand over her. Just play it by ear and see what she is comfortable with. Be okay to let her make the first move. This does not mean let her come to kiss you first, if you notice her moving closer, or shifting a bit, try to reciprocate. Don't expect sex on the next get-together because you had sex last time, she'll be able to tell if you do and it can turn her off to it.

Just try to enjoy the company and the time together, and sex comes on its own. The women I've been with were all made aware that I would wait as long as they needed to, until they were ready (which actually means like 30-180 days, depending on the girl). All of them made the decision to be ready within the first week after that. They want to know they aren't being used for sex. If they feel secure and that its their own decision, it comes pretty quick.

That's why I prefer blowjobs. Head feels much better than vagina. But... the idea of inserting my dick inside a woman (especially the way it looks, as if I am defiling her) is what turns me on than actual sex.

Agreed. Even at 6 I've hit the cervix a lot on one girl, and never got close on another. Everyone is different, general rule of thumb is around 6.

>That's why I prefer blowjobs. Head feels much better than vagina.

IMO:

great head > any sex > average head > any handjob > poor head

I've had 3 girls that gave great head - boy oh boy are those in my spank vault

Yeah, that would suck. I've been pretty lucky with managing to get hard when the moment called for it early on. Now, sometimes I'll just lay on the bed, completely soft, and put my little dick in my wife's mouth until it grows to max length lol. Not something I'd recommend until you're comfortable with each other.

Yea, exactly.

i don't think he is asking how homosexual sex feels like.

Trips replying to trips!

I've only had really good head from a couple of girls. Good sex is better than most head. But most head is better than shitty sex with condoms that are too tight.

>I've been pretty lucky with managing to get hard when the moment called for it early on.

Smart.
The worst one I lost was a really cute chick that I had been messaging/flirting with on a local BBS before the internet.
We'd met at some parties, but always were dating someone else.
Then at one party we were both available and decided to hook up.
She literally shoved her hand down my pants when no one was looking, cupped the tackle for a few seconds, and then ditched. Never even had a chance to kiss or feel her up.
>mfw I don't bother finding a george costanza gif

This. Blowing a load down someone's throat in 69 while you hold their head down as deep as you can go is literally the best feeling I'll ever encounter in my life.

I'm obsessed with blowjobs, primarily deepthroating. Sensual blowjobs are alright as well. Its a lot easier to be terrible at blowjobs than terrible at sex. A lot of women are terrible at blowjobs. Too much teeth, not enough tongue, can't go deep enough but don't know how to work the tip well enough to make up for it, don't swallow. Lots of ways to ruin blowjobs.

For vaginal, they can just sit there and dead-starfish and you'll be able to nut most times.

In my opinion, handjobs are where women fuck up the most though. I've never met a woman who could do a decent handjob. In fairness, this is primarily due to our hand stimulation that we're used to being from us. Your dick is actually accustomed to the shape and size of your hand. Right hand, from this exact angle. Women are not usually in the same position, they're typically doing it from the side or below, while we jack off from above. They can't feel what's going on, so they either deathgrip you or don't apply enough pressure. Some think going fast is good, but too fast sucks.

vanilla sex with qt is squishy and nice but roastie smash is hard and evil :3

yeah I actually want to avoid sex for the next date to show that I'm actually interested in her (inb4 whiteknight)
except the problem is I have a really hard time keeping a conversation going. for example last night we went to a poolbar. just playing pool and when there's nothing to talk about I can start talk about pool.

>great head > any sex > average head > any handjob > poor head
Fully agree, current gf is pretty bad at head (it's still nice, but she cannot make me come from it). I'm working on it but for now I prefer sex

That blows. But, dodged a bullet probably. If she's pre-checking for large dudes, she's either fucked a lot of black guys or at the least will probably have been with guys a lot bigger. And since she's still looking for guys with big dicks, she only wants those.

Should've shoved your hand down her shirt. But, then all of a sudden you're a rapist and in prison for life.

Nice dubs.

For me is: sloppy blowjob > any blowjob > doggy style vagina sex > anal sex > normal sex

My best blowjobs in my spank mental vault:
>blowjob by grateful crack addict
>blowjob by drunk girl in a stair case in New Year's Evw after she confused me with bf
>My first time
>Blowjob cumming in mouth of a girl without warning her.
>Married woman

It's nothing special. I lost my virginity a month ago and was honestly underwhelmed.

asian americanon here
what if I'm not a show-er but also it doesn't grow much? Am I just fucked? Also, does being Asian basically make me undateable for most girls?

damn for me it's just
girl > guy