>be me
>Be 20
>Have gf
>Get laid pretty often
>Gf is about 7/10
>Still want to skullfuck every girl j see in the Street but I don't do it
>Can't stop looking at other chicks
Am I a bad person? I have a gf and I want to cheat on her or get another gf. last time our relationship was in the shit, she started crying saying she doesn't want to leave me and shit and she likes me
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I think we'll be ok tho user
when did I type this post wtf.
My girl is just too vanilla and she has NEVER masturbated or watched porn so shes not very sexual
try some new shit with her? choke her? stick it in her ass? Bring in a 6yr old?
Ok
Do what I did, get yourself a woman who digs watching you fuck other chicks and ring her.
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highschool btw its true we're youngins and girls around here belittle eachother for masturbating and porn
Well for one you're a guy, looking at women is not a bad thing, and the urge to fuck isn't bad, you're probably young that thing is going to be hard 95% of the time and it's hard not to get horny when all think is about sex, that is perfectly fine.
If you are doubting you'r relationship, just break up and fuck all the girls you see. No worrying about how she feels and how you feel.
What is bad is getting in a relationship with someone, where you have to put in 100% of you'r attention and dedication to and throwing it all away, and all becuase you can't control the urge to fuck. Be a man OP and look out for you'r girl, don't be an ass.
Also if she cheats, and I hope she dosn't, don't go fucking othere girls and then saying "well if she did it, why can't I?" Just break it off and live you'r life.
my gf is same, wondering if cheating would be worth it but worried about stds
I'm kinda in the same boat as you but I feel like I'm in the more dark lost stage
>be me
>21
>have 6.5/10 gf
>sweetest thing ever to me
>new girl in my dependent at work
>remember each other from middle school
>slowly talk over the past few months
>last week or two, feel something different
>could tell today she is having some sort of feelings for me
>hair play
>everything in common
>instantly offers a video game for me to borrow
>immediately asks why I wanted to know what she plays for online games
>always have this big smile and an accented wave when I first see her, woring or not working
>short little beautiful thing
>doesn't cake on make up
>so curvy
>those eyes
>realize moth of my best friends are in the military
>one in Italy right now, time zone issues
>one just went to boot camp
>other works all the time at some shitty pizza place as a manager
>have no one to talk to about this
>don't even know what I am doing with my life anyway
>just work and talk to this chick when I can
>feel really comfortable and happy around her
>forget about problems
>forget about having gf
>leave work
>feel like a dick
What's worse I just feel like shut more and more. I feel really alone and shit, but what I'm around that chick at work I feel.....complete. I don't know, either to let it eat me up and hope the feelings go away or just try and feel things out.
I would feel like an asshole jumping to another girl, cause I got out of a 2.5 abusive relationship where the girl was crazy as fuck, and ends up fucking me over for some low life loser. I don't want to feel like a hypocrite, even tho I'm not mean.
Fuck I'm so lost.
Your relationship sounds decent with your current gf, but be honest with yourself - do you see yourself with her in 5 years? 10?
probably not, by how little you described her.
I know it sucks, but if you're not really feeling your current gf, you should probably break up with her so she can get someone who is totally into her, and you can get with the new girl, and you guys seem totally into each other.
Good luck either way you go user, it's a hard situation.
Try to spice it up guys. Talking might help. Just rub her turd-cutter while she is on top or choke her lightly. In my experience most girls have at least a little freak inside of them. My current girl is from argentina and our first few times sucked major balls, just not mine. Told her that I don't want her to speak any german (my native tongue) during sex, but to keep it in spanish instead. Told me she thought I wouldn't like it. Soooo much better now. The first time she called me papi while I was banging her, I came with the power of a thousand suns. Constantly texts me that I own her ass and a endless stream of nudes. Life. Is. Good.
no, you're not a bad person as long as you keep whatever rules you agreed to with your gf
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At least you're not me and haven't been dating her for 5 years
My gf is an 8 on a good day and a 5 on a bad day, and I've had like 2 opportunities to cheat but I just can't do it, I know I love her and I couldn't live with myself for doing it because I know she'd never do that to me. But god dammit I'm almost to my mid 20s and I've still only fucked her bc we've been dating since high school
I just don't want to die having only had sex with 1 woman my entire life, i wanna know what it's like to have the skank-banging stage of life that I missed out on
monogamy sucks
but so does fucking whatever comes in front o yo hard on
actions = consequences
living shitty life with girl you dont love = balls
jumping into office romance ha potential to go ultra-balls
good luck bro
but at the same time I love the shit out of my gf, i'm stuck in a fucked up situation
got nothing for you OP, but checked.
then man up and move on
not for you, but for her ffs
skank banging is but one part of life
if you live with someone you are ambiguous towards: imagine that playing out for another 30 years
I just went from being in an open relationship with one girl to a closed relationship with a different girl. I know those feels.
living a shitty life with a girl who you don't love is the opposite of balls. that's fucking awful logic
The thing is, I'm really bad at picking up on human language. I'm the type that just wants a straight answer or I'll be straight forward. But a lot of people don't do that.
Adding into what I said on how the chick acts around me at work, we wandered over to a chill guy that works in a different department. She then all of the sudden acts super calm and like nothing to worry about. One of her friends came over so we all had a bitch fest about a manager. But after that, the girl and I went back in our department and then she seemed pretty loose or whatever around me. Don't know how to explain it. Her mom works with us also, and I feel like since her and I have talking a little bit more her mom is extra friendly and descriptive about her brother too. But hard too tell cause I'm shit at body language like I said, and she is a super nice person too. Her mom has helped me out with a few things in the past to do with the store we work at(grocery/retail).
Since she goes back to school I don't see her much, only like two days a week now. So I don't know how I'll figure this out. One thing that throws me off, is I tried adding her once we realized who everyone was. Then I check about a week later, can't add her as a friend at all, only could message or whatever...then I check today and can't even find her on fb. Didn't bother making a fake just to try it. I could try and talk to this other chick at my work that I'm pretty cool with, and she seems to be good acquaintances with the chick, or I could go balls deep and try too make her mom accidently say something and spill the beans, if her daughter has a crush on me.
On the other hand, my gf is very sweet, alright looking, lots of sex, cares for me a lot. I do like her, but this other chick at my work is growing on me. I'm at the point of not sure how to feel. I guess i just feel more so lonely and lost. Lonely cause no friends, lost cause don't know who to vent too so I'm here.
Sadly he is right, I feel like a loser being in this thought process. I don't like hurting people and jumping girl to girl. Girls have done that shit too me, I wouldn't want to make anyone go through that sense of happiness then immediate doubt.
Plus I don't even know if this chick at my work likes me, or I'm just an idiot with bad human body language skills.
Op here
Little update
K actually met her at my mom's workplace. She works in a kindergarten (no, she isn't 6yo. She's 19). She just adores her and speak everyday
>Mom introduces to her
>I want to tap that
>Tapped that
>Ended up in relationship
>She knows my family, my family loves her. Her family wants to meet me.
I just want to kms. I have no idea what to do
I can't cheat in her, I can't break up with her, both our families will look at me as if I'm the devil.
I've been talking to this chick, pretty cute. We talk so much and so much shit in common. She's like a 9/10. Better than my gf in Evey way
Too many mixed feelings
Can't cheat, can't break up, but want to so dam badly
Also, I think what he mentioned by having balls, is being in a shitty fucked up situation and trying to play it out by ear takes balls, cause the easiest option it to either break up, or just go for that work pussy.
It's natural to be attracted to other people in a relationship. I'd even go so far as to say flirting is a good thing in a monogamous relationship.
The best way to tell if a girl is into you isn't body language - it's touch. Touch her, see how she responds. If you don't do it often already, start casually. Then escalate. Try touching slightly more erogenous zone, like the upper area of her thighs, or her side, or the small of her back. But it has to be escalated, not sudden. If she responds well to this... she's almost certainly into you.
If you think there's a chance you want to be with your gf permanently, but also a chance you might not be happy long-term, I'd talk to her about it. Make it a conversation. That shit is scary and a big risk, true - but if you guys are right for each other, you gotta have honest communication and the ability to work through some shit together.
I can't say for certain all of this is right for you, but that's what I'd do in your situation.
Well, I don't really get all hands or touchy flirty with girls unless they are my gf and stuff like that. This may sound weird but I find it odd when people do that and they aren't together. It doesnt freak me out, just confuses me enough to the point I don't really buy into it.
I've always read and been told the top three things in order is how she acts around you, how she reacts to you, then how she gets touchy.
But either way I'm not sure how it's looking so far, I know it may be too early in the game. But I want to have a way to be certain she does, as mean enough as it sounds...I'll figure out and do something about it. Cause I'm not just gonna up and dump my gf with the other chick not into me at all, I think that looks even cheesier or like "lol u got rekt". But if she doesn't, I'll still take it from there if I want to be with my gf. I'm not trying to base my final decision off of the girl liking me or not, I'm just really curious on how to figure out if she does cause it's make me think wonder, and confused. Also, I just want to get better at reading humans, I'm complete dog shit at that.
I know I need time to do any of this and figure out my thoughts.
I was telling you about doing the kino (touching) for the purpose of figuring out if she likes you. It's basically the simplest way for someone who is poor at reading body language. I gave you that advice instead of saying "just ask her out" so you can check while you're still in a relationship.
Just watch some youtube vids on browse reddit for advice on body language. You can find some good posts in the archives of various subs. I read a few books and took a college course on public communications, and my ability to interpret body language increased by quite a bit. You gotta practice too, though, always.
Still, even if you're figuring out your thoughts - once you're a little more sure, consider talking to your gf and putting things on the table. That's what a rock-solid relationship would do.
>19
>with gf 2 years
>she’s pretty hateful
>don’t have much in common
>different humours
>some reason attached to each other
>cheated this year for the first time
>fucked a chubby girl
>flirt with girls for over a year
i don’t think i feel guilt, just more worry that my gf of the other girls all find out about my relationship
i know i need to end it with my gf, i’ve tried and she sort of.. wont let me.. i know it sounds weird
I'll definitely look into that. But on observing body language, do you have any tips and tricks what to possibly keep an eye out for?
As for the status for gf and i, that is where I want to end up regardless is talk things out. I want my thoughts collected before making a decisions I know would hurt something or regret in the long run. (Not cheating, wouldnt ever do that).
Honestly man, I think a lot of it is just innate. I was always good at interpreting body language, I was just a total shut-in in high school because I had independent schooling. I'll give it a shot, thoough.
Eye contact is a big one. Is she confident about giving you eye contact, or a little shy? If she's shy about eye contact with you but nobody else she knows well, she's probably into you. Does she laugh at your jokes a lot? If she does, try saying something that isn't that funny to see if she laughs. Stuff like hair twirling is basically a dead giveaway unless she typically does it. If you're sitting in a group and her knees are pointed towards you, it means her attention is on you. Touching is a really, really big one, but it seems like you guys don't touch each other often.
But yeah, don't cheat. Fuck cheating. You owe it to yourself to make sure you're making the right decision, though.
This ironically happened to me also. I would say end it. The chick I was with for 2.5 years was fucking nuts. She used to be so hung up on me, made the mistake, flirted with other chicks. Everyone found out and for some reason she stayed with me. Probably cause she was desperate, didn't know if she had the magic touch yet, and was new to the state.
In the long run it came back to haunt me and karma took full fucking course with full force. After all my fuck ups, I realized how much she means to me. In the end, she dumps me for some greasy mother fucker she was flirting with behind my back, talk so much shit about me before breaking up, and came back to apologize and admit she is a useless whore. Funny thing is I was her first.
I don't feel bad about treating her like shit now and taking her virginity.(so she said) I just feel bad I went against my own morals and promises never to be a piece of shit.
I got my shit together during the relationship with attitude, and after the break up I hAve my life together more than ever before.
She ends up being the loser, and I in a way gets the last laugh.
I'm not saying it's gonna be exactly the same scenario, or not insulting you. But if you want to avoid the tear jerking karma situation, maybe sooner the better.
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i wouldn’t care if we broke up or not really, pretty numb to all of it at this point, and she doesn’t like to show emotion (daddy issues that she won’t admit) except when i try to break up with her (happened a few times...) she’s hysterical, and ngl when i’m face to face with her she melts me, but it’s lust
It does sound innate indeed, we just kinda realize we knew each other in middle school, laugh about old momments, talk about old acquaintances. She even said that at this old Halloween party we went to(they would do dumb boy vs girl shit) and they ended up abducting me when I went into a dark room to find my shit. She said she remembered that and remembers thinking "he is a funny guy" so I was like that's interesting too remember lol.
But she doesn't seem like the touchy type to just anyone. She does eye contact for the most part but i do notice she looks somewhere else. Even tho our job has to do with a lot of stock, and moving around, she tends to try and face me some how but eyes are looking at mine half the time. We talk about video games a lot, and I say the most dumbest things with out even realizing it, that's what I mean I feel so comfortable around her. She tends to laugh at the corniest stuff. Then with the hair twirl, that was a knew one I picked up today, so I don't know if it's too soon to call it. But she seemed to twirl her hair pretty intently a few times, and how I noticed is like I said, she never done that one around me before.
You stopped her from being stuck in her head, trying to translate shit to say. So now she can focus on being a slut. That was genius work, user.
Well if you know it's lust and this is how you feel. Just dump her and do whatever your heart desires. The chick I had was kinda the same way, at first she was way over to emotional, then eventually became a controlling heartless fuck.
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pretty similar situation, without the cheating on my end.
The girl was young and immature, wasn't she?
Even if you start to get to know them, they change. Better to find a 25 year old or older who has shit straightened out. No kids and no stds is what's important. I don't care if she has had a medium amount of cock at this point anymore.
You're young, libido is still high. So is your gf's.
Yeah, she probably likes you. I've done about all I can for you man; the rest is up to you. The last thing I can do is recommend you look into the sub /r/seduction. Read some of the top posts, compare your experiences with her with their tips. Use those tips to look for any signs you may not have recognized.
It's kinda fucked up, she was 14 and I was fresh 18 when I met her, but I didn't know her real age until I met her parents a few weeks into dating. It worked out cause our dad's where kinda bro's back in highschool.
At least that shit show ended months before turning 21, I got to enjoy a good birthday with out some cut yelling into my ears. I've tried finding older chicks, they reject me kindly but in a way still fucking immature as hell. I tried a 23 year old, looks looked good. Was chill, bought me stuff, bight her stuff, spent the night all the time at her place. Make out a few times take out time. Get a random phone call, "sorry i don't think I can see myself with you" crying and all this shit....I just sit there and go...wat...it looked clear to me and I said fuck it. See girl on Facebook ebook that I remember seeing at my cousins funeral(I know weird as fuck) I add her, she messages first the usual "who are you?:)". Usually when that happens to me I'm in it to win it. She ends up remembering me, talk for a few weeks, just before I get to ask of she wants to hang out(in some sort of nursing program so hanging out was weird to plan out) she decides to throw some trivia my way. "So user, if you remember from your cousins funeral, what was I wear?:)" well that was a weird question. But I swore I remember black dress....nope...asked if she remembers what I wore. Total obvious mood chsnge. Went from all the emoji shit too, "oh..tie shirt, black pants." I said okay and Continued the cinversation. Pretty much after that day she doesn't say anything, tried talking to her one day a few months ago. Ends up being rude as fuck and say "sorry for bothering on your shit day, I'll leave you alone" her reply was "thanks" lol'd and starting to realize, the only time chicks "act mature" is when they want to impress an older guy. The last chick that put the icing on the cake. I'll type that out in a sec.
Now that I think of it there was two others. The first one was at least a year or two older than me. We hit it off real well defiantly like my taste in music, looks, hobbies etc. Doesn't talk to me at all or respond for the next few days. Doesn't even tell me what she does for work or daily basis other than her music taste and interest in cars, and her dad would find me cool. Says "uh sorry I'm at work" alright thanks for being descriptive about yoyrself. Doesn't say shit as she is going to parties and stuff....oh god no not one of these...starting talking about how much of a guy is a sick to her on snap story. Kinda fish it out of her and it wasn't me(wasn't a duck up until this moment) decide to say fuck it and rake her over the coals. Kinda went full Sup Forums yard on her saying maybe if you weren't a bitch, we could of worked out, or better yet you wouldn't be botching about a guy like that, acus her of lying some more, she gets pissed, said she doesn't wanna be with a guy that doesn't respect her, say it doesn't matter cause you never take to me anyway, she screenshots the whole thing. So do I. I go back and reread it when I have a clear head. I basically looked like a pissed of guy that had to be an as hole to get answers. She just looked like a cluesless fuck that wantss to try and skimp around on not being honest. Last chick is kinds fucked uo the most. Meet through mutual friend. Hit it off pretty well, says she will hang out. Says she has to go to guy friends house because ex bf is being a dick. Hour goes by, two hours she starts becoming a half hour late and so on. I try and text her, she gets all weird and shit. So I decide to call her and ask her well what the fuck(I would like to do something else maybe other than wait?) Guy picks up. Says she is busy hang up. Doesn't register. Call back, guy picks up again, tell him not fucking around put her on the phone.one more part.
He tries laughing it off and says same shit, tell him to fuck off and put her on the phone. (It's either hang it with her or go smoke with buddies, wanted to get an answer before it's too late.) Says fine and she finally grabs the phone and says sorry he does this all the time to me and it posses everyone off. Tries to say he is like a brother to her blah blah blah. Eventually the chick says she is coming over. She does. Hang out for a bit, she wasn't in the mood much like we talk about sex but she was like nah. Clicks in my head, you did fuck some dude when you are supposed to be "making a relationship" with me. Say nah fuck this(kinda gross) pretty much figure out a way to get her to make out, next thing you know I got my hand down her pants and my dick going right down her throat. Bust that fucking load. Never talk to her a again after that. She tried talking to me, she got a bf, broke them up, then blocked her forever. I know it was really childish, but after that chick I realized that older chicks, are just as fucking retarded as a 16 year old.
Kinda funny I saw this chick the other day that works at tropical smoothy right by my house. Didn't know who it was taking the oder go to the window, we both lock eyes, gives me and order and I just go.
It feels like she does but I'll see what I can do. I appreciate the help. But before this thread parts ways, you're talking about a subreddit on their fours or whatever? I've only been on there a handfull of times.
Yup.
reddit.com
Here's a random thread I found by searching "read body language". Sometimes threads will have a small tip, sometimes, there will be a comprehensive guide. I use it kinda like google, with the inherent advantage that people aren't making money off your clicks so advice is typically way more grounded. Get creative with it, reddit can be super powerful if used wisely.
That's pretty awesome, much appreciated.
One more thing I forgot to add. I do remember at one point mentionin to this chick I have a gf, and her mom as met my gf when we had to come into work to buy something. So either they all forgot, or she doesn't care hoping for the best, or it seriously is one of those natural things.
I cheated on mine, you'll never be satisfied if thats what you're thinking.
Your urges are more about you and less about her.
Cheating usually seems appealing until you shoot your load. If you really love your girl then the moment you cum inside someone else, all the rationalization you used to get in this situation goes out the window.
Done it a couple of times over the years with different GFs. I suppose you could say it's good in a way because you find out whether you do really love your girl.
Honestly, chicks are more into guys with boyfriends. There's a lot of psychology behind it, but it makes sense if you think about it. Doesn't mean it's true for every girl, though.
My gf is a dirty as fuck slut, loves choking, spanking, mirrors etc
If anything, regular sex makes me want to fuck other girls even more, and I get really keen on girls who are different to my GF, she's a petite brunette so tall blondes with big tits get my attention 110%
I figure this is all part of exercising male self control, so happily day dream about fucking other pussy but ultimately take it out on my gf each night.