Anyone in a similar situation?

Anyone in a similar situation?

>Be me 32yo, sadly single again after a long relationship. So used to live with my gf, everything is depressing.
>Tried tinder during the first months, had a few hookups, nothing special. 20 matches or so, not bad specially when living in a small town. Decided to uninstall it and try to live on my own
>10 months later, present time. Feeling so alone, friends are living in other places or have their own lifes
>Install tinder again. I woulnt mind to have a couple of drinks or nice conversations with a girl. Two days and not a single match. Same profile, different pictures, nothing.

Why is this happening? It seems the more alone and depressed you are, the more the world tries to crush you. Im even thinking in writing girls I ghosted during the past months.

35, haven't dated in 12 years, haven't even thought about it in 10, don't miss it even a little bit

I wish I could stop thinking about girls, but Im used to always have one girl around.

On the other hand, they always have everything so easy, even if they only want them for sex, its always easy mode

Maybe stop looking for the Internet (especially Sup Forums) to help solve your problems.

Go out and do things and meet people for fuck sake, you dork.

This

Also Tinder is worthless, too much work for little gains. Unless you're an ultra chad you're not gonna be slaying pussy on that app. It's far easier to meet women IRL than dating sites.

OP here its not that easy, I know Im going to sound depressed with this, but :

>Actually going to the gym, not the best place for meeting people or starting a conversation with a random girl
>Going out alone isnt the best option neither, approaching a girl or a group of people looks like you are a stalker unless you are a 9/10
>I entered a whatsapp group with people making plans like bowling, watching films or going for a nature walk, went with them 3 times, everyone is about 40-50 years old, luckily I met this 28yo girl there 7-8/10, hang around with her for 1 month, made out, slept together, talked about a relationship, chat a lot, started meeting a lot of times since then and last week she just vanished claiming she doesnt have the mood for meeting
>I work as a freelance at home, so its always harder to meet new people this way

yes, tinder really sucks, all the girls I met there were just random sluts or uninteresting girls playing to be something more, also, lot of ghosting and chad requirements as you say

I dont really know what else I can try, I have plenty of hobbies and things to do by my own but I just reached the point of depression staying at home. At least Im not drinking .. yet.

adopt a pet. your brain just needs stimulation

Alex?

Problem is that you're living in a small town. I suggest moving closer to the urban area if you want to meet girls in the dating age. Since you work from home that won't be to difficult to do.

Find a cute poor girl and spoil her. You spoil a cute poor girl and she will be yours forever. Don't even have to spend alot of money either, cause they are used to men not spending anything on them

who is she again ?

Daniels ok now I remember
nvm

Thats what Ive been trying to do, but right now I just cant, Im sadly attached to this small and shitty town. I used to live in larger cities and everything went smooth there, I know thats the main problem.

Theres also another thing that upsets me, my exgf left me and in less than a month she already found another replacement. Its always so easy for girls its just insulting. I know, she may had him from before breaking up, but you know what Im meaning.

no idea, just a random girl from those pics you shouldnt share threads

> no idea, just a random girl from those pics you shouldnt share threads

no she's a pornstar dani daniels

How random or strange is to text a girl I met 2 months ago who I stop writing without a reason? She insisted on me but I wasnt feeling like replying.

I have a couple of girls like that and those are currently my only "options". Well, theres also another one, meeting with this 3-4/10 fatty who wants to be with me, but thats never an option, specially going out with her where most 'known' people go

Hey dude, i know it sometimes looks bad, but the truth is: its shit for everybody, there`s no such thing as a an easy life. Even the Chads of the world have tons of issues like the fact that the one girl they loved went away with a business exec. or an artist or whatnot.

Now about the solution to your issue, from what i`ve discovered in my life: if YOUR ok, things start to roll. So i sugest you go to a therapist if you have the money, one you`re ok internally, girls will start to notice you somehow, people will want to hang out, things will click. And even if they don`t, you wont care

Thats what Im trying to do, even while being alone I keep studying and trying to get a better job, more money, started to go to the gym, have a better diet and so on.

It gets hard specially during weekends when you have to stay alone at home and you dont really care about watching a film on your own because loneliness. But I guess I should focus on me instead of keep chasing girls.


On the other hand, 1 month ago my exgf wrote me again
>Hey OP, how are you doing? are you in -the same town- ? how about if we meet some of these days for talking?

Didnt reply her, she is still with her replacement guy, on a serious relationship, but there are times where I think about bending on my knees and try to get her all over again. I know this would be a huge mistake, but at least I woulndt be alone

go to a bar

Don't you have friends who you can hang out with? I'm getting the impression that you're the type of guy who's always in a relationship and all your friends happen to be all your ex's friends.

not anymore, and you are right, most of them disappeared when I lost contact with her.

the other ones are married, live abroad, have kids or those kind of things. I also lived in many places so I have friends scattered all around in other cities so thats not an option.

Thats why I tried joining that whatsapp group, but hanging around with 40-50 parents isnt the best thing, specially when they are not really interesting or have a nice conversation. Not a lot of options to choose from

Got ya beat OP. Had argument with Mrs 3 months back, she left with kids to diff country to move in with mum. Lost job due to being fucked up about situation. Now living off savings. Waiting to sell house and move as hate being stuck surrounded by memories. In addition, this is not my home country and I don't speak the language. House was bought as a project to flip for extra cash.fun times.