How do you deal with a girl that got raped and her mother dying when she was young?

How do you deal with a girl that got raped and her mother dying when she was young?

Rape her mom corp

>Life sucks. It's harsh. Tough shit.

travel back in time and fuck her, then kill her mother

Just that, you deal with it. If you like her then listen and be there to comfort her. That literally all you can do

In what sense?
Are you fighting her in a boxing match? Trying to court her? Are you asking how to be a shrewd negotiator in a business deal with her?

Deal with has many meanings.

She's gonna have rape fetishes now

you just don't. leave her alone and don't be pityful if she wants something from u

You dump her faggot, ain't no even crazyer than the "normal" crazy woman gonna stay around me.

Do some research on borderline personalities too while you're at it.

In my expirience there's little to no hope. Had a friend in a similar situation and she slowly got more and more of a victim complex. Nowadays she can't even tell right from wrong.

rape her and tell her "momma loves you bby"

We both like each other and I just don't know what to do and how to comfort her

Yep. The answer is rape as much as possible.

Not your job to be her psychologist. If you enter in to a relationship acting like one it will fail spectacularly.

She shouldn't want that from you either if she's well adjusted. Sure, be there for her and stuff, but you can't just "fix her"

it isn't your job to "deal with" anything, if she needs your help or support she will come to you for it. other than that, respecting boundaries is the most important thing you can do in delicate situations like this.

you're not gonna fix the problems by talking it out, either. that's a job for a professional and if you want to take responsibility for "dealing with" this, that's gonna be your best bet.

Really? I mean to be fair she said she likes it when men are dominant..

Are you two already particularly close friends?

If not, why do you know she's been raped?
Does she go around telling EVERYONE this?
Is she looking for attention?
Just think about it is all

Oh yea most rapes result in the fetish.

Well at least she's already broken in.

I know I can't fix her but maybe I can give her happiness to let her forget for a time
Yeah I can't just talk her to being fine about her past but I just can't sit there and let her be sad over it
Yeah we are pretty good friends(made out with her and then dated) and she only told me and someone else. more people know about the mother thing, about 8

Watch animu

Put your pengas in her.

You don't. Find an undamaged girl.

Fuck her silly ass brains out, day and night. Never marry her. When she finally gets too fat for you to stomach just be like,

"I cannot believe anyone would rape someone as fat and ugly as you. Just the thought makes me want to vomit. I was stupid to think you'd ever fix yourself."

Pretty much guaranteed suicide and you're free to find a new cunt.

watch movies like Girls With the Dragon Tattoo with her and record her reaction and post it to pornhub plz

You don't. You find one with less baggage.

Abandon ship

christ wat is all this fucking horseshit

Ex gf was raped and her dad died 1 year ago. she is pretty traumatized and ye the only sound advice so far is to listen to her and be there for her.
Just try to sympathize with how she feels, and tell her itll get better.

this is good advice except say this and leave her while she's still pretty skinny to make her anorexic

then get back together with her making her feel like you were wrong and you could never get over her

leave with the same excuse again

now your job is done

My ex has a similar background. Raped young, mother OD death, father never been there.
It's not worth it personally. There will always be some fucking issue that'll rise. She's damaged.

The most difficult thing is we live 9h apart at the moment due to a year abroad, things suck especially since us texting now is very rare

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This. It's not men's obligation to be Captain Save a Hoe.

Be always there for her and let her rape you

If you guys arent attempting to communicate with each other, then it will be difficult to continue your relationship.

you needa be talking and share mutual attraction.
I am sorry brother but it may be coming to a close, godspeed

>cumming to a close

bitch that pusk pusk closed long ago

Most therapists agree that exposure therapy works to some degree. You should rape and then kill her to slowly make her feel comfortable with rape and death.

am tryna be nice to user

WOW what a nice guy you are for letting him this his long-distance relationship with a rape victim perhaps might be slowly unraveling

OP she is dead to you. Move on.

OP here, yeah to be fair he said the same but just trying not to hurt my feelings but yeah she is dead now. I think I'll slow the texting down to make myself fade out and once she is here again we can try again

You don't, the damage is already done so don't expect you as boyfriend to fix her. Move on.

words of wisdom

Don't slow the texts down. Be real you cucking fuck nugget. "Hey, I feel like I have moved on from this relationship. It will be for the best that we both part ways. I wish you well in life. Excelsior!"

Or something like that.

Well I mean I can save that puss for later, I don't wanna throw that easy friendship plus away

yeah okay, keep your doors open for that likely mentally ill rape victim that you have a long-distance relationship with

that won't be a waste of time, energy, or anything

I wish you well in life. Excelsior.

Now dude once she is back in a few months I could still keep up that friendship plus and she doesn't talk about those 2 things often, she just doesn't talk that much, like an introvert; so it's not a waste of time