Is it possible to be a virgin for 30+ years and still maintain a good sex life later?

Is it possible to be a virgin for 30+ years and still maintain a good sex life later?

I am a fatass and any girl I meet immediately friendzones me. Currently working my ass off with exercising and dieting because I want to change my appearance. I need to lose about 75-90 pounds, which is going to take a long ass time (1-2 pounds a week to avoid saggy skin).

Is all my effort in vain though? Even if I became attractive, I'd still be a 30 year old kissless virgin. I'd be a completely novice in bed, and it's harder for older people to learn new things.

Anyone successfully change their life around?

I successfully changed my life around, in the opposite direction. Want some advice?

yes it is possible. youll have to break some mental barriers, with putting the pussy on a pedestal

jesus i already felt like a wizard when i was kissless on my 15th. Al my friends where getting those nice sweet kisses. Idk man, you should've bloomed by now, i mean i bloomed at 18, and considered that late.

You'll probably be fine, just be confident its pretty much all you need. For the sakes of Sup Forums sharing my gf

That sucks, sorry man.

Better having had some than none.

Most people lie if they are a virgin, but it's pretty common to see virgins (both male and female) well into the mid 20s.

30 is pretty rare though, but I do know two ~31 year old virgins and both of them are skinny and attractive. One focuses on his job, and the never wants to meet new people.

a-sexuality excists yeah. Weird though, since us humans, mammals, are pretty much programmed to propagate.

Yeah, I think about that too. I am 25 and trying to lose weight, but getting women isn't the first thing on my mind. If anything, I want to keep lifestyle illnesses at bay.

Perhaps one thing that bothers you is that what if you feel demotivated down the line and start thinking "what's the purpose of all this"

To stay away from that I would suggest you to change your mindset. Do whatever you are doing for yourself. Your well being. Don't do it so that you could become acceptable for someone to fuck.

The best things about having a fit body will be - being able to wear good clothes, feeling confident, more stamina to work hard, a longer life

Pussy will not be your biggest prize. It'll be good but it will not feel like "this was worth all those hours in the gym"

Whores!
35 virgin here to wash away your sins

The fact that you dont get that sex is a natural thing and you just need to act naturaly is what is slowing you down

>Currently working my ass off with exercising and dieting because I want to change my appearance.
mah nigga. you can do that.
one of the best decisions in your life, you'll see.

24 y/o virgin

Just gonna make some money and fuck hookers

level 33 wizard reporting.
up until like 22yo i was just a shy bastard, who couldn't talk to women (had a few supershort relationships though). then i decided i want to travel anyway so finding a girl would just probably fuck my plans up.
and here i am, 33 and traveling... might find someone around here, heh.

>Pussy will not be your biggest prize. It'll be good but it will not feel like "this was worth all those hours in the gym"

Honestly, I am not doing this just to get laid. My main priority is to find a girl interested in me enough to wash away my loneliness. I want to be in at least one serious relationship before I die.

losing your virginity feels like bags of sand on your dick

I have friends that did that when younger, and they are all super lonely and depressed now. Most people need human connection after awhile.

Are you saying it feels like you accomplished something big, or literally saying a pussy feels like bags of sand? haha

Congrats on wanting to better yourself, faggot. Once you get to your ideal weight and get some confidence, download Tinder and upload new pics of yourself. Have a couple of alcoholic drinks to get more confidence and try to spit some game. You dont want to try to fuck a girl you like for the first time so Tinder will be perfect cause they dont know you. DONT fall for a Tinder whore. You might have to go for the niggers to begin with and then work your way up. Knock out at least 10 Tinder whores and pick out you pros and cons of each session and fix what you did wrong. Double wrap condoms for less stimulation. If you cant get a boner due to nerves, just say you got whiskey dick or some shit. They will be mad, but might give you another shot.

>I'd be a completely novice in bed,

Relax, fucking is hardwired into your DNA.

It's not a high skilled job.

Congrats on your turn around. End you'll get a GF, just make the change.

Either you go full virgin for life or ur just a monkey nigger and roast in hell

lost my virginity at the age of 30 when I already started to lose hope
Im not much of a catch and have a mild social retardation when it comes to women
add on top that age is starting to show (slowly starting to go bald and gaining weight)

randomly met a cute chick online who was into me for some reason and it all worked out

honestly dont lose confidence. I think thats the biggest hindrance at this point. sounds like a cliche but trust me there are definitely chicks out there who want your D as well
you dont have to be perfect by any means

btw the sex was underwhelming but I will cherish it for the rest of my life still
getting a hooker is a bad idea imo

So I'm 24 and lost my virginity a few weeks back, wasn't a big deal.

Girl was MUCH more experienced than me and was happy to show me the ropes.

You'll do fine OP, just remember the two rules:

1. Be attractive.
2. Don't be unattractive.

Honestly, it's not the end. Motivation and strong mental will push you through the weight loss, however it's also important to start gaining weight in muscle after you're satisfied with your goal, otherwise there's just no point, being too skinny can suck too.

Also, is it really just 1-2 pounds a weak you can lose before you see your skin being saggy and stretched out?

Stop being a fag and little bitch.
I didn't lose my virginity until 36 and it was only because i conned a girl into sex.
I'm 42 now and fine.

Hugh Hefner was a virgin till he was 22. Old people fuck like rabbits. youll be fine.

I feel so bad for you, holy shit. At least know you're helping others by posting this, by pushing all the youngfags on this board to do better so they don't end up like your sorry ass. You're saving the next generation, user.

I kost my virginity at age 32 and am now happily married to a woman who lets me fuck her in the ass and call her my cumslut. Anything is possible. Girls don't have to like you and most girls won't fuck most guys. But here is a girl out there who will fuck you. Don't lower your standards. Eliminate them alltogether. Once you have gotten in there, you will see that it's no big deal.

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>I kost my virginity at age 32 and am now happily married to a woman who lets me fuck her in the ass and call her my cumslut

what a beautiful story

Even at 1-2 pounds a week, saggy skin will probably be unavoidable when losing 75+ pounds but it will reduce it.

Saggy skin requires surgery to fix, so it's better to actually STOP losing weight if you start seeing lose skin, and let it catch up. If you lose it to fast, your fucked.

I'm level 48 and the answer is no. 35 years of frequent masturbation to porn star imagery and wilder and wilder fantasies needed to keep it fresh means I can't even get it up for normal women, let alone the wrinkled, scarred, stretch-marked kind that is all that's available to me. Doomed to be forever alone.

Ummm... Thanks?

>let alone the wrinkled, scarred, stretch-marked kind that is all that's available to me

That's how I feel at 30. I want to bang 18-22 year olds but that's just not possible at my age unless I am super fit. I feel like I missed the best part of life. Even if I lose the weight, I will never look amazing with my shirt of because of stretch marks and being fat my whole life..

I did get a handjob about a year ago, and like you said, didn't finish. Her arm got tired and we
gave up, I blamed it on whisky dick (I was super drunk), and never saw her again.