I wish my girlfriend was a virgin. How to cope?

I wish my girlfriend was a virgin. How to cope?

bump

Think of her as a horny slut.

That's not helpful.

Why on earth would you want that

Underage horny slut?

dump her

Like seriously, it bothers me so much that it ruins sex. Like it was only one guy so she wasn't like being gangbanged but like it just ruins is, perfect girl and everything but that. For example, my first time with her she said "here let me put it in" blah blah because basically she thought she had "more experience". To this day she usually wants to put it in for me as if I'm twelve.

Mine was and i loved it

Because same people don't want their women to have had other dicks and cum in them. Fucking cuck

No sympathy for this betafag, jeez

Right? Like it's super childish to be upset over, and douchey if you mention it. But like jeez it kills me to think of her doing that to a different guy, it kills my mood and I usually think of it when we do it.

You Autistic faggot, I hope you fall in a storm drain. Bitch wants the D, give her the goddamn D.
Was she your first?

Your chances of finding a virgin are like hitting the lottery these days. Bitches give the pussy like giving out candy when they are young. Take what you can get.

Its the interwebs what do you expect. Seriously tho sexual partner numbers isnt what is important. If youre happy and she is to then the past shouldnt matter imho

Get over it OP you flaming faggot.

Yes let me just clear my mind of the thought of my girlfriend fucking someone else. Perfect, it's gone wow it was just that easy! Maybe I can cure depression this way.

I felt the same man, same situation actually, listen, this shit will be more common day by day, unfortunately you will have to cope with it, keep in mind there's nothing you can do to un-fuck your gf, but what you can do is talk to her to calm her tits, being with one guy doesn't make her an expert but is she keeps behaving like that put a stop to it ASAP. If she gets mad dump her, she was never meant for you, easy as that.

Most girls who say they are virgins, probably lied.

>Hungry
>Remembers to self I don't have money
>No more food needed.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with letting a girl point you in the right direction.

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does the idea that she had someone else before you bother you or is it that she thinks shes better than you/ you don't think you are as good as her?
if its the first thing then just think that she's o longer with him and instead chose to be with you :)
If its the latter than just have her teach you what you know and practice new things on her

Why would it matter, wouldn't you just have sex with her, taking her virginity? Or would you live in chastity to preserve her virginity? Either way, it doesn't change shit for you. Perhaps you should break up with her then start selling cigarettes at the high school to pick up girls and eventually wind up in jail when her parents find out.

Dealing with a virgin is a chore. Just be honest and tell her you wanna lead during sex.

No one is saying that

Develop a cuck fetish

Seriously just watch a ton of cock porn all the time

Pretty soon you'll be begging her to fuck a big black guy right in front of you

I mean you're totally right, I've gotten better at this since, we've dated for almost a year now. The thing is I just have like low self esteem and I don't have confidence, I feel like my dick is small as fuck and I never feel like I'm actually doing things right.

how old is OP?

Hardly the same thing or even remotely similar. do you not understand how virginity works?

Un-fuck her

you could grow up

It's like the idea of her before me, you're right on that. I'm gonna try to get over it before it kills my relationship it's just extremely difficult. I try to be more dominant but she's so difficult to work with during sex anyways.

because you have no imagination

name a more emotional experience other than going full faggot and fucking a little boy in the face and butt

I'm 19, I dropped out of highschool (sort of) I finished online, but it's equivalent to dropping out.

Lol you mean you can't handle your girlfriend being a human being with a past that doesn't involve you?

As I said, if she really loves you she'll understand what you're going through, if she keeps behaving like a thot dump her, I know it might hurt but you should worry about yourself above everything man, how do you expect to be ok with her when you can't be ok with yourself? Just think about it. I know you'll get over this eventually, it always happens.

>thot
Such a clunky term

That was not my post, idk who wrote that.
I can agree somewhat with their comment but I'm just upset of the idea, not the action. The like thought is in my mind and it ruins sex for me. I don't care if she did it, just the thought is bothersome because it turns me off.

Yeah, perhaps. I like to say that word a lot, my bad.

Every post and reply is not always directed at you, op. Sometimes we have conversions amongst ourselves.

Either accept her for who she is (guess what, any experiences she had sexual or otherwise, make up who she is too!) or don't and move on rather than having a half relationship for another 3 months before one of you breaks up anyway.


If I take you correctly, you were a virgin before meeting her so basically, it bugs you that she wasn't?

It's not like who ever she has had sex with before's dick is still in her. Just like who ever you have sex with after her.

Seeing as how you're probably in middle school, or maybe high school, the likelihood of your relationship lasting more than 3-6 months is in the single digits.

All girls and boys want sex at this age. It's the experimental age and staying with one person for long isn't really wired in. Yes, some do and a few even have long term relationships, but psychologically there is so much yet to develop in your brains.

The fact you have issues now to the point you can't cope with something like this just means you probably aren't going to last long. You'll feel really stupid in about 3 or 4 more girlfriends, but it'll be too late at that point so either you have to just accept her for who she is (her experiences as well! They are part of who she is), or move on.

Ok, I'll take that advice, I mean she already wears somewhat slutty clothes and talks to guys and shit and makes fuck tons of sex jokes and hardly fucks me much anyways, sometimes it seems she prob is cheating on me anyways.

for me its not about the "sex with other men", i just need her to want me first, otherwise you're some kind of cosmic run-off backup plan for her poor attitude, commitment and/or selectiveness

after I've fucked her first in every way I wanted, I'd give her up to whoever she wanted, then at that point the sex would be better than ever, since she has comparison to me and knows im better. but chose me first

>It's not like who ever she has had sex with before's dick is still in her.

science shows the cells stay with you

If you really like this girl don't ruin it over some dumb idea that's in your head. I get it it feels bad to think that at some point the girl you're with once gave herself to someone else but just know most girls loose their virginity quickly/ before marriage so you are lucky that she's only had one other person. Just tell yourself that that was the past and right now she wants you. She's letting you take her. And if you want to be more dominant with her just talk to her and ask her to experiment with you, I'm sure she'll be willing to try new stuff with you.

It's just... The word it means is in the acronym... And it almost never makes grammatical sense if you say the words they stand for, but oddly enough it would make sense if you just said "ho". Like when someone says "you're getting a thot", for example. The internet usually comes up with decent acronyms with some level of functionality.This one however, makes no sense.
/rant

listen op i know exactly what youre going through because im 28 and ive always had an issue with a girl's past. but ive also taken a couple girl's virginities and honestly it wasnt as pleasurable because i felt guilty for being a hypocrite, but at the same time it just ISNT as good as a girl with experience. look at it like this: a girl who IS a virgin may later feel resentful that she didnt sleep around more. BUT a girl who has PREVIOUSLY had experience are CHOOSING YOU over the others they have had. I hope that helps a little

You'll be ok man, i've been through this, and you will too, hit the gym, try to do different things, productive things and learn to love yourself first before loving someone else. Life might be a bitch sometimes, but there's nothing you can't handle. Cheers man, good luck and blessings.

That actually makes me feel a lot better. Thanks for support.

Haha you're right man, from now on i'll make sure to use that word properly. Cheers.

Ok... Then next, realizing she has a complex set of desires and goals in life, like anyone and they may not completely align with yours. If she's the one, great, but unlikely. Take life as it comes, roll with the changes, enjoy the ride, hold on loosely, etc etc. You can't always get what you want, sometimes you just gotta settle, or risk losing it all for wanting more.
And there's no shame in realizing shes not the one and you want something more. At that point you should be honest with yourself and her and move on to try and find what you're liking for.