What's it like going to a concert alone? A couple of bands that I like are coming to my town but I don't have any friends. How do I enjoy the music without seeming like a total sperg?
Have any of you ever been to a show alone?
What's it like going to a concert alone? A couple of bands that I like are coming to my town but I don't have any friends. How do I enjoy the music without seeming like a total sperg?
Have any of you ever been to a show alone?
its really not that big of a deal, just listen to the music and enjoy yourself and literally no one is going to be judgmental or anything unless you go out of your way to be a sperg
Do what you came there to do, man. Listen and vibe out. Talk to somebody if you start feeling social. I also wondered for a while whether or not i'd just look like a freakass if I went to a show alone. After having done it several times now I can definitely say enjoying live music is more important than feeling like a sperg-bot. Don't sacrifice fun because of insecurity, my man. Hit that show and vibe out
Going to a show alone is totally fine, nobody gives a fuck, and the music should keep you distracted enough that the people around you are useless anyway
Just go and enjoy yourself, no one will give a fuck if you're with people or not.
Last year I went to see Wilco by myself. It was kind of a drag, because I was alone the whole time, having a beer and shit. Once the band started playing I was completely into it, singing and dancing and jumping like nobody was there. Just stop thinking about how the others could judge you and you'll be ok.
I've been to shows by myself and have met others who do the same. It's actually more enjoyable in my opinion because the only person you need to be accountable for is yourself and depending on the demographic/band/group the audience becomes a community, making it a unique experience.
I'm always fine until the breaks begin. That silence makes my mind wander and I start thinking I'm a big fucking loser.
You get high and get laid
Music is only a small part of why people go to shows
No one is going to pay attention to you at a concert, they'll be too busy listening to the live music so do just and you'll be fine.