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>no feels thread
Let's get one going boys, gimme all the feels you got
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>no feels thread
Let's get one going boys, gimme all the feels you got
she never loved you and she never will
while you cry for her
she's smiling for him
Are you the same faggot that has been shit posting with that picture for weeks now.
There is a pattern
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you are only happy in your dreams, while you are with her.
>caring this much about a woman
lol retards
no one will care about you, even if you want to
lovers are stupid to you, but your hate will never compensate your envy
OP here.
>meet girl on tinder
>she lives 20mins drive away
>cant drive - going to take lessons soon
>she has a lot of personal shit going on
>all i can do is text her and try and be there for her
>always failing to feel useful
>keep trying to make plans but she keeps curving me
>she still somehow finds money to buy cigarettes and go out drinking with friends
>she's in an alright place atm, still giving me bullshit reasons to why she cant come see me
>her friend insists she likes me
>she's had abusive boyfriends in the past
>she's all fucked up
>rejects affection, difficult to work with, super fickle sometimes
>i'm trying my best to be strong and wait for her to get everything sorted out so she can see me
>don't know if i can wait
>fell for her and promised I'd be there - but she's really making it difficult
>and the worst part is, its not her fault
>she fails to see the true nature of her parents despite how dysfunctional they are
>alco and ptsd, frequently kicking her out
>she's all kinds of messed up
>but i want her to be mine
>so far i've been going up to the town she lives in, but now I dont have money and she's avoiding coming to me
>feel like she doesn't care nearly as much as i do
>feel useless, unwanted
>literally have nothing in my life atm other than her and school
life is not sad, you are sad and no one can fix it
i have loved and lost, no need to lose more.
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i just wanted to make op sad
op is already sad
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just go to her, 20 mins drive is not to much, ask a friend to take you there or your parents, or take a bus without ticket.
those are just excuse to don't do nothing cause you fear the fact that she can reject you
I have to stay home on Saturday to look after our dogs while my parents are away - so I invited her over.
She's too stubborn to ask her friends for a lift, and keeps saying she won't have money for the bus/taxi to mine.
I'll have money soon to pay friends for lifts up to her again, but at the moment dude, there's nothing to do but feel like she doesn't care.
i am really really sad and there isnt much i can do about it..
you take care about someone that don't care about you.
is like you are not caring about yourself, it's not her misstake, it's just yours.
My closest friend stopped talking to me about a month ago out of nowhere. I desperately tried to reach them and messaged their phone a lot thinking at first that I did something wrong, and then thinking something horrible happened to them. Fast forward to two days ago and I messaged them one final time, thinking they wouldn't respond. I get a message from them telling me to never message them again. All I want is a close friend that won't abandon me. Is that so hard to ask for?
My neighbour's dog is barking all the time.
The council won't do anything about it because the guy is an actual retard.
that's not feels dude - the poor guy probably finds his only solace in that dog
I quite like your frog picture.
Sort of in the same boat as you man, been for a while now. Feels pretty shitty man, I feel like giving up and moving on with my life.
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I completely get you on the giving up part.
But she really needs somebody who won't just give up - I don't know if I could face myself for giving up.
And she's like perfectly my type, the issue is her mental health and fear of repeating past mistakes.
Sometimes, I just want to die and not have to stress or worry anymore.
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I always feel like I'm so outgoing, so caring - that everyone always asks me for advice or shares their woes with me...
But nobody ever asks me how I'm doing.
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What it is like to have feeling ?
How do I let a girl know that I'm scared of falling in love with her if she doesn't love me back?
How do I subtly ask if she wants a relationship with me?
I don't really WANT to give up either, but I can't help but feel like an annoyance when talking to her. Not to mention she's got a bad habit of flat out ignoring my messages from time to time and that really doesn't help either
>tinder
lol
dude, girls like that have a bunch of guys like you lined up waiting to give them some free shit for attention.
All the "personal shit going on" are excuses to not waste her time with you unless she has some need of you. Don't take it personally. Find someone worth your time, ffs. Or enjoy pining for this girl without any reciprocation.
No matter what I try, I can't feel happy.
If she wanted to be with you, she would.
Sick of hearing all the excuses. Honestly, think about it. If she wanted to be with you, she would. find someone who wants you. Try dating someone you don't even like that's madly in love with you to see the other side of this coin and what it's like to have to make up excuses so you don't feel bad about hurting some poor desperate person's feelings while simultaneously trying to advance your personal situation and find someone you actually like.
Girls get constant attention if they want it. All they have to do is accept it. By now there are almost no damsels in distress that aren't in distress out of their own machinations.
> tfw third worlder
No one will love me like she did. And she hasn't loved anyone like she loved me.
I'm broken, I'm damaged goods. I'm faulty. I'm a mess. I'm fractured. But I guess I'm whole. And your love has helped me believe that.
I wish you had never left. Wait, let me rephrase that. I wish I had never let you go
It's tough, user. It really is.
Time heals all wounds - but the wait is the hardest part. :(
Because you're a sadboi faggot trapped in your own irony
>How do I let a girl know that I'm scared of falling in love with her if she doesn't love me back?
You don't, what the fuck, dude, that's not even something in her control, that's just you exhibiting attention seeking behavior. Have an executive, internal decision-making process in place for that, don't shovel your own insecurity on your partner.
>How do I subtly ask if she wants a relationship with me?
It's not that hard, you just have to show your hand. This is why the cliche "love confession" is so dramatic. It's because the person confessing their love first, has a lot to lose. It's just: "I care about you, and I'd like to be exclusive, will you be my girlfriend?" kind of thing. You're just being neurotic
Bowl filled with antifreeze will do the trick
How do I stop being a sadboi faggot of there's nothing that makes me happy?
I'm feeling so sorry for myself user. I need a shoulder to cry on. I feel helpless and I'm sorry for letting these things out, letting these emotions get the better of me
Might not seem like a very big deal and it probably isn't, but I found out my gf's been getting into trying drugs and shit, really didn't expect her to be the type to do that shit.
Yes, I have those insecurities user. But, it's because she keeps messing with my mind. She keeps giving me mixed signals and shit.
I don't want to embarrass myself and fall into heartache again
>I'd like to be exclusive
We already are exclusive. We already are doing relationship-y stuff. I'm just scared of having my heart broken. I wish she would confess first so it'd make my life easier
Enjoy a trip together, be glad your girl isn't a boring cunt and try out new things with her.
I get you man - I have nobody to lean on either. I can't cry. I know it's okay to cry - but I physically cannot move myself to let these emotions out.
I'm the OP, I feel so washed out - I've been trying so hard for nothing.
She isn't replying - probably got into another fight with her parents, went out for a drink without telling me she wouldn't be replying, or she just doesn't know how to respond to me telling her how I feel - so she ignores me, pushes me away.
The only thing that can fix this is having her - which she makes difficult - or giving up and moving on, but at her expense.
I'm pretty much left to choose her or me, and I don't know whether I value future me over current me or not.
Some times the best of you isnt enough
Either find a purpose or it's. Pretty simple. But most likely you got so into your facade that it has become your reality. Stop listening to vapor wave and let go of your ego. Ha ha charade you are
It depends what drugs user.
Big Ecstasy thing going on here in the UK - that shits popular as ever, therefore, a lot of cheap shit going around which is dangerous.
Cocaine is big here too, but that stuff'll always kill you if you're not careful.
Heroine you gotta back the fuck off from instantly - that shit ruins lives.
Dude, if you're already exclusive, what the fuck are you doing in an exclusive relationship with a woman who you can't say "I love you" to? ffs, how does that even happen?
And dude, the potential for loss is always there, you can't avert it. The thing to do is focus on what you can control. You can't control her deciding she doesn't want to be with you anymore than you can control the weather or another driver crashing into you on the highway.
>10 years ago
>bout to go all the way with first girlfriend
>moment of truth comes and she undoes my jeans
>Reveals my dick standing 'proud' at just shy of 4 inches
>fucking laughs
>I don't try to have a relationship until a year ago
>fall in 'love' with a nice guy
>I'm fine with butt stuff so i figure i can make somebody happy that way
>no he wants to be dominated
>I get drunk enough to tell him the bad news
>he slowly starts talking to me less and less
>breaks up eventually
>Find another guy, very sweet person
>Has in my opinion the perfect dick
>Is a switch but leans submissive
>Wants to see mine
>I make up an excuse as to why i want to wait
>the last week has been filled with nothing but dread for when I have to break the news to him
>trying my hardest not to drink because of it
I hate myself.
We're operating with fine lines which are disappearing every second under the veil of a friends with benefits relationship.
I asked her out years ago and she said she just wanted to remain friends. That one hurt too much user.
Now, I'm pretty certain we've gotten closer, and our bonds have strengthened but I don't think her feelings will have changed for me. Can they?
Vapor wave is life.
But I guess you're not wrong, it became my reality to be sad and depressed, because I was for so long. I guess I forgot how to feel happy.
>fwb
oh shit, dude, I don't associate with those kind of girls. You''re on your own. I've never had a serious relationship with a girl that didn't include overt romance and the explicit discussion of a future life together.
When It comes to women, I don't play. It's all or nothing.
What you said, I can relate so hard to it.
I wish there was a magic pill which could just make me forget every painful memory I have. Just wash my mind out. Wipe it clean.
I guess the only pill we have is bitter. It's reality. We have to deal with situations as they are user. Not based on how we want them to be. We need to fix ourselves before we fix someone else
I know user. I made a mistake. I never should've gotten into it with her. Because she's clearly not made for that. And she spoiled me. She's making me feel things she really shouldn't. At all.
The old saying goes both ways, you know. Why should she buy the cow when she gets the milk for free?
Or you're dark and brooding to make up for a lack of personality and latched onto an obscure aesthetic to give the illusion that you're actually interesting. Little do you know that you're existence is now cliche and ironic. You sound like 2 friends I used to have
Well dude, if she's already getting what she wants out of you: your attention, your sexual energy, your time, your good thoughts and feelings, what incentive does she have to lock herself down with you?
I can't get into a girl who doesn't love me. Being loved is very attractive. When a girl ignores me, it's a major turn off. Know well what leads you forward and what holds you back.
You're both right. Any idea on how to fix this?
But we are exclusive and she told me she can't think of me with any other person. The thought "repulses" her apparently. I just don't know what to do. Being stuck in this limbo
Food and sex are as dangerously addictive as any drug, and you young people need to be firmly aware of the fact. It's easy to hide behind rationalizations, but being real, food and sex addiction are as major social issues as the opioid crisis.
Damn dude, you need some clarification. You are saying that she is saying things that someone would say if they want to be in a relationship.
FWB by definition is not exclusive, so forgive me for being completely fucking confused as to what the fuck you're saying. FWB is specifically NOT exclusive. It sounds like you need to, at least pretend to be a grown ass man and talk to this woman and tell her how you feel.
Or just keep doing what you're doing and stay confused. It's your game.
I'm not dark and brooding, most of the people I know think I'm happy and a funny guy.
No one knows how I really feel.
So, she can't think of herself with another person? That was your cue to say the same thing to her and gauging her response, ask her to be your real girlfriend.
If she says any of that shit regularly, respond accordingly, don't just sit there and brood on your insecurities and indecision. Jump to address these issues plaguing your emotional life.
We didn't get into it expecting things to become like this. It just happened and we asked for exclusivity after 4 or 5 times of seeing each other.
Why can't women make the first move? I'm a coward and she knows that. She called me that ffs.
I'd like to see a pic like this from the opposite sex's point of view too, as the shoe fits both sexes.
lol, dude, it sounds like she's sitting there giving you green lights. I don't know what else to tell you except man up, bro. By any technical definition, she is your girlfriend if you are exclusive sex partners, even without romance.
I can see it too user but that fear of being manipulated is keeping me from going for it
i fucking hate this world and his society.
I wanna live forever in a forest; the city is cancer to me
Well, go for it, dude. buying land in the countryside is a solid order of magnitude or two less than buying anything in a city.
I used to live in the middle of a major city, but it was driving me insane. literally. And everyone around me even if they were too dim to realize it. I study anthropology, and recent data shows a CLEAR correlation with per capita increase in rate and incidence of violent crime and mental illness. Humans never evolved to live in the kind of conditions that exist in major inner cities today.
Just to clarify what I said, the increase in violent crime and mental illness correlates with higher population density centers. The more people per square kilometer, the rates of mental illness and crime among all of them increase dramatically beyond the rate expected based on population alone.
a good god would give them jam everyday..
And evolve a mindless slug, that all it can do is bask in the sun and suck up nutrients?
Nah, dude, we're going somewhere, and inequality and scarcity are the tools to refine this species into something that is fit to be Earth's seeds.
It's that snowflake mentality that will keep you down. Other people experience the same thing. They just don't throw a 24/7 pitty party for themselves. Get out and build some self esteem
Only fits if you're a promiscuous whore. Those women clearly want to be treated like trash and the only way a relationship with that kind will work is if you don't care
well