Sup /b, I need your advice for something

Sup /b, I need your advice for something
So I've been with my girlfriend for more than a year now, it sure isnt much but for a retard like me, it's quite a big deal
We get along very well and have a great sex life, she met my parents and I met hers and it seems everything is fine, and it's also due to the fact that she has noone else than me and I have noone else than her...
Almost, because here's the reason I came here
There's this girl that really want to fuck me, it would only happen once, it's a tiny opportunity and my gf could never learn about, so by no means we would break up after it
On one side I think it would be fun to "experiment", have sex once with another partner,with little to no consequences
On another side I dont know how I will feel with my girlfriend after that, will I hate myself or anything ?
What do you guys think ? Btw I'm 19 gf is 18

If you think both of you would be comfortable having a discussion about you fucking her, talk to her about it. If not, don't do it. It doesn't matter that she doesn't know, you will know.

There's no way she'd be okay with it if she knew

Do you want to marry your gf? If you do, then don't sleep with that girl. Otherwise, do whatever the fuck u want

Trust me, you'll hate yourself.

Stop right there, if you have a good thing going, don't fuck it up. I can tell you from experience that guilt will come after you one day

Then if you give a shit about her and the relationship, don't do it. If you don't, up to you really

>have sex with another partner
Sounds pretty gay
>girls only want to fuck cuz you have a girlfriend
Trust me... it's hard turning down girls cuz you want to be loyal

if youre gonna feel guilty and fuck things up dont do it man, but if you can handle it I say go ahead, life is giving you an opportunity

I¨'ve done it a few times, Il promise you its not worth it. Im engaged and got 2 kids with her and the guilt eats you up every fucking day ma. Even in your dreams so abseloutely not worth if you love her

No, don't do it faggot. You see fag, the world is already a dark place, but if atleast some of us will do small good things, then we can make the world just an itcy bitcy better. Stay loyal faggot, and be a nice person. Love you - a guy from Russia.

Do it, because it will end your current relationship and this poor girl can find someone who isn't an utter shit.

Don't fucking do it. If you have a good sex life with your girlfriend, you stand to gain nothing from fucking some random slut.

Even if your sex life wasn't good, you'd still have a lot more to lose than to gain by it. Nothing good can come of it. Sex is cheap, good relationships are not.

Would you rather feel remorse for doing it or regret for not doing it ?

these people are all pussies go for what makes you happy and dont fall for made up ideas from the 1900's

OP here, I'm reading everything you guys say and it really makes me think
I wont fuck with her but I'd be glad similar stories if you have any
I like your advice, there's more to it than just sex

Watch a porno with your gf, the premise which is what you want to do (or as close as). Gauge her reaction

Do you want to have a baby with this gril?
then no, dont do it
keep trying to have a baby with your g/f

You want stories of people who decided to be an ass to their gf's?

Just want to know if I'm the only in that situation

>and my gf could never learn about it
She's going to find out when you break down and tell her yourself. If you're even half a man, the guilt you'll feel after pulling this shit will literally eat you alive.

Hit it.. hit it hard, then hit it again...

...

im with a girl now who i hav ebeen doing pretty slime
cheated on her multiple occasions( vacation in JA, hooking up n shit)
only fucked 2 girls while being with her
once in the beginning like a month in which did nothing to me guilt wise
and once recently, about 2 weeks ago, we are approaching a year in together.
it sucks cause she's naive to the fact completely.
but i don't let guilt get to me
(she is 23, i am 19)
at the end of the day user, its all what's between your ears
>mfw NOTHING really matters anyway

I'm going to say this for you user.

I was in a relationship of 3 years and met a girl who is now my current girlfriend. Lets make my Ex (B) and my current GF (A) The sexual tension with A was insane when we weren't dating and I kept having to hide conversations with A from B so that way I wouldn't get in trouble. After a while, things messily broke off with B and I started both A and I decided it was worth starting a relationship since we both were really into each other. I didn't have proper closer with B, she lived a while away for college and wanted closure. We met one night to talk it out and we did, but B became a crying mess that wouldn't leave me alone. B didn't know I had started a relationship with A, and hated A's guts. B wanted to have sex to nicely break things off with me, but I knew that this would be cheating literally a month into the relationship with A.

Long story short, I had sex with B one last time to properly and mutually break things off a month into my relationship with A. I was ridden with guilt and knew that one day I was going to have to tell A. It seemed like a small thing, but it's something that festers.

Got drunk on my birthday and accidentally told my current girlfriend I fucked my ex a month into our relationship. She forgave me, and I've never had the need or want to cheat since. It's an awful feeling and it will fuck up you and your partner especially if your current partner really makes you happy. Plus, the truth will always come out. Things like this don't stay hidden forever.

Good luck user, don't be stupid like me. You might not be as lucky to have a forgiving gf like I have. I'm doing stupid shit like that ever again.

Also to kinda followup on this. I was in a relationship of 3 years and still was constantly wanting to be with person A. Nothing person B did really felt good enough. If you're going to start wandering towards another person, you either realize that you aren't giving your current partner enough of yourself to commit to them OR you shut out the other person completely. I ended things off with B because of this reason, to give myself the space for A. Thats why things were messy. Haven't regretted it since and 100% believed it was the right decision for me.

I am married, I've done that shit and it feels fucking horrible very right after the last orgasm with the other one, it's not worth it...

it's normal. it will happen again and again, it happens to all of us anons or femanons.
It's part of life, some people cheats at its daily and do not give a shit if they lose someone, and there is a lot of loyal people out there

Been dating for 2 yrs. sex has died off. I waited a whole week before asking for bj. Took 4 fucking attempts and my dick feels like it's been thrashed by sandpaper (used her hands more)

I'd cheat given the opportunity because fuck this sexless bs. Not once has my gf just wanted to fuck or suck me on her own accord. If your sexlife is still there OP don't talk about cheating, ask if she wants to experiment or explore. Starting small like whips, choking, role play ect then build up to inviting someone around to share. It could backfire and she wants none of it or she wants strictly guys for 3ways

Hey op. I (might be) in the same boat as you, though not sure if other chick is really down to fuck. Either way i feel like there's a good chance if i try. I see her everyday and basically appeals to all my kinks, it's insane

I have a good sex life with my gf too, our relationship is good all around. I would not trade that even if all the best sexual pleasures in the world were right in front of me. Now i say this because I both value what we have and know that guilt will eat me. I'm not very principled but i try to be

Know yourself op, and act accordingly

YOUR AUTISM IS GOING TO FUCK THIS GOOD THING YOU HAVE GOING DONT DO IT OP STAY WITH GF !

>not very principle but I try to be
Exactly me there

It's situations like these I think that test what a man is made of. At the end of the day, the ability to resist temptation, be it wealth or sex, is probably one of the hardest skills a man can develop. But if you do, you become your own master and your actions won't be governed by shallow lust, but by what you think is right.

Then again, you can say life is short and pussy is a pretty solid raison d'etre

As someone who had a cheating partner: DO NOT DO IT.

Seriously. If you don't have an open relationship, don't fuck around with trust!!!

my gf and i are going on 2 years now, had similar situations where girls want me. I usually tell gf about girl in my english class that gave me her number, and we usually just fucking destroy her together. its quite fun really. boutta ruin another girls day on tuesday lol. ill lead her on, and then just shit on her with the fact that i have a gf thats hotter than her. we bond over this, and its better and more transparent if we do it together. dont do it as much with guys bc shes the type of girl to be very up front about the fact that she has a boyfriend so not many guys approach her, but when they do we do the same thing. i wanna marry this girl, and i dont think id like the feeling of guilt, or would want to do something like that to her.

My situation was/is different than yours.
Girl was off at college for the most part, I was back home. Doubt she was cheating on me, never gave me a reason to suspect it, but I'd be a fool to think it was impossible.
Anyway, sex life was limited due to distance, not exceptional when we were together, but gave decent head toward the end.
Decided to fuck a girl that was very flirty, did a few times. Drifted our ways. Forever grateful that it didn't end worse. Fucked another girl a year later. Might fuck her again if I get a chance.
Honestly don't feel much, even had my girl blow me the day after fucking the first
>stories online, I know
But our relationship wasn't that strong I guess. Probably due to me, she's a sweet girl. But she won't know, and it's ending anyway.
So it depends on how shitty you would think of yourself afterward. For me, I see it as whats done is done, yeah, I am a shitty person for not ending the relationship before I got with the other girls, but oh well.

You're 19 this relationship won't last anyway so go get your willy wet and film it or when your 18 year old finally gets filled with drunken penis and leaves you you'll regret it

Don't cheat; sex with your gf will lose all meaning. You can have meaningful sex with your gf... Why break her heart and betray yourself?

met a girl in cc. I was 2 years into a relationship at the time. Things escalated with cc girl and we had sex all over campus. Took her to a hotel and fucked for hours. She started to get sprung, so I knew i should start letting her down easy but easy sex is hard to give up. She realized she was sprung and cut me off. She soon after got into a relationship with a guy from tinder and now has 2 kids with him. Our fling was about 5 years ago. I'm now 7 years into my relationship and no one ever found out.

I recently started talking to her again since she broke up with her guy. Might hit it again, but idk if it's worth the risk anymore.