He was my everything and he cheated on me. Kinda wanna die

He was my everything and he cheated on me. Kinda wanna die.
What do Sup Forums?

Everything that I did was for him.We had so many plans.

If this is real, there's nothing you can do at the moment. Watch some anime or some shit. You just have to live long enough to calm down.

You're right. I've been at a loss of what to do all morning and I guess there isn't really anything to do.
Thanks

carry on bitch,
if you are a faggot, die

Keep living one day at a time. Pick up some litter. Start a feels thread. Learn how to be a complete person on your own before you love again. Yada yada. Sorry user

You first faggot. If you're telling people to kill themselves you have nothing to live for.

I just don't get why motivates people to cheat and not break up beforehand. I literally did everything for him while balancing work and school.
And she was fat, too. So it isn't like it was strictly a physical thing. I just want answers.

That's a non sequitur, faggot.

uR sPeCiAl someone

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its ok

There's literally nothing wrong with cheating. Are you in it for the relationship or the sex?

You have the entire site to be a faggot and you choose to do it here?

If you're in it for the relationship then as long as he or she keeps up the relationship you have nothing to complain about. If you're in it for the sex then you have no right to tell him or her to not have sex with others.

the honest answer is: men are dogs and they always want someone that they don't already have. and the relationship they are currently in gets boring fast for some. He didn't care that she was a fatty. Maybe she sucked his dick way better, you never know.

Your best revenge is to never speak to him again. move on and one day, years later. You will look back and laugh at why you ever cared about him.

DAMNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN

explain further op fag. go into depth, what does it feel like for someon.. somefag to betray you like that?

Find someone who deserves you. Be the you who correctly finds the right guy: it is ok to be discerning.

SHE? NIGGA SHE???? UN UH YOU JUST PRESUM3D THEIR GENDER

slut it up for a while, have fun

What're my odds of finding someone who wants actual monogamy?
I really don't know what I'm feeling right now other than my inner edgelord thinking it's time 2 die. I'm one of those disgusting romantic types, so a relationship like what I thought we had was my dream and I have done everything in my power to be the perfect girlfriend. It was a waste of my time.

Yeah living for yourself is way too hard. I only do things that keep me alive generally.

Just forgive him and open up the relationship. Or move on. Your choice.

Where are you from OP so I can know if its my girlfriend who's typing this.

Go get a home depot credit card so ypu can get a discount on the materials for a bridge you can build to get over it.

You sound like you could be the perfect girl for me, someone that lives to make your significant other happy. Sounds too good to be true.

dun die honey, just rejoice in the ani memes. everythings gonna be fine

Well this isn't cringey at all.

Up until this he did the same for me too. He treated me like a princess and we gave each other everything. That's how it should be, it was perfect. This was so unexpected and I don't know what changed.

You know how women have that inner conflict between desiring a badboy but recognizing that they should settle down with a loser who has a good job? Men have a different inner conflict.

They want to fuck all the time, but women, especially women in relationships, don't want to fuck that much. And they certainly don't want to do all the crazy shit from porn that every guy wants. Or indulge their man's fetishes. Most of them really only get horny when they ovulate once a month. So their "nice guy with a job" is staying with you even when you're a dead fish. And their "badboy" is fucking some rando chick who is "horny" because she has to be because she hasn't found a mate yet.

So the trick to keeping your guy faithful is to be a total whore for him. Every day, constant sexual subservience to his desire.

Or you're with a serial cheater, someone whose fetish is actually cheating on people. If that's the case and you want monogamy, just dump him and try again.

Oi you fucking cuck answer this

That's pretty bizarre. Maybe the whole "your relationship needs ups and downs to keep it fresh and exciting" is true for some people, which sounds pretty fucking lame to me.

Our sex life was great. We tried anything and everything together, so it wasn't that.
He's a cheating dick but he isn't a Sup Forums degenerate so no, I'm not your girlfriend.

Here's your problem. You tried for the perfect relationship and he got bored.

you fucking bitch, i cant believe you made a thread about me. on my way over were talking this out

lol what are you gonna do, break up with her????

Ahh the kids are up posting before school I see.
At least put in a little effort.

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get out of your basement kid, for real, your music sucks

its 1 am im stoned as bro gimme a breal

>Our sex life was great.
Was it? You sure about that? He cheated on you, remember?

Did you do lots of anal? Bondage? Occasional threesomes? Dress up in kinky outfits? Latex catsuits? Thongs every day? Drink his piss? Routinely beg for sex? Peg him? Have a closet packed full of sex toys? BDSM? Public sex? Voyeurism? Incest fantasy? Diaper play? Shit eating? Enemas? Blood play?

He might not have liked everything in the list, but I promise you he wanted more than you were giving him. The next guy will too. It's about trying to find a balance of how much you'll permit and how little he'll acquiesce to and hang around.

Men are fucking disgusting.

>Men are fucking disgusting.
Said the woman talking about using sex as leverage in a relationship.

i could get behind 3/4s of that. this man has a point i wouldnt walk from that setup

The sex life doesnt have to be bad for cheating lol, maybe he had the oportunity for other pussy and that urge for sex and curiosity of something diferent. If he cheats just leave hin with his new fat gurl. dont answare his apologies if there are some, he will cheat again probably

I'm not a woman, I'm a man. (Is this the first time a male has ever had to try to convince someone he's a male on Sup Forums?) I just know myself.

If diaper play and threesomes are what it would take to keep him around then I don't want him. But he could've broken up with me instead of cheating.
I'm not some Instagram cunt looking for a sugar daddy, I want something real.
I want the stereotypical housewife shit. I want someone I can take care of who also takes care of me. I want to be enough for someone.

Kek this is so weird I just got dumped for cheating, ermm I'll just say some things see if it helps because I suck at advice.
I loved the girl I cheated on with all my heart it was real love despite what I did,
I made a mistake but I suppose either the drugs I was on that night I felt like I was young enough and had enough of a future in front of me that if I didn't cheat (take the opportunity of extra puss) then some how as an old man I'd regret it especially as my girlfriend liked to party aswell and started to do it more than see me I assumed we weren't gonna last long and in a way I was right,
so don't take it to heart hurting you probably never crossed his mind at the time just kinda one of those things that's hard to think about.
People can be naturally selfish although you might be selfless and gave him what you could you don't know what he's like deep down...
you'll get over this in time I suggest doing things to gain some self confidence back like working out and reading (possibly educating yourself in areas you find interesting for me it was mindfulness) and what helped me through a few break ups was listening to Alan watts and smoking a lot of weed for a few months but ayyy I'm clean now and happy you'll find some way of coping, this pain won't be forever I can promise you that and nothing more, good luck sugar tits

People in Hell want ice water.

it´s your fault, not all, but some it is, if you pleased him and made him happy, he´d never cheat on u. learn from this and move on, or give him a second chance. Also grow up.

I mentioned this scenario in a previous post.
> Or you're with a serial cheater, someone whose fetish is actually cheating on people. If that's the case and you want monogamy, just dump him and try again.

Oh, you want something real?

Are you a romantic? How would you treat your perfect man?

welp, just go with care with men and hope to be lucky. Also try to know a little from previous relationships, but dont be a full retard stalker of the past cuz thats horrible

Yeah fuck off man. I literally already said I work and go to school. I'm in the medical field.

Makes me shudder kind of cringe

>Everything I did was for him
Well there's you're problem. Nobody is going to treat you with respect if you're living your life for someone else. Way to prove women think of themselves as mere add-ons to another's life

>If diaper play and threesomes are what it would take to keep him around then I don't want him.

It might not be diaper play and threesomes, but 99% of all guys want something off the list that you find disgusting. I guarantee it. Hell, for half of those fetishes I listed, knowing you find it disgusting is part of the enjoyment. Find a thread where guys are honest about anal. It IS the transgression, not the sensation. If ass actually felt better than pussy, the species would have died off eons ago.

So sorry, that's who men are. Find a neutered one if you want a docile asexual freak for a partner, but honestly those sorts of genes tend to not do well in the world we currently have.

true

You don't actually believe this do you?

kill yourself, one less salty little whore in the world, wemon like you want a good guy and etc... but you pass them up and instinctively chose the guy thats worse for you, me and a friend tested it on a few people, 9 times out of 10 the chick chooses the asshole.

TL;DR your mind set says you will never find a good man, kill yourself now

this is some bullshit

I'm pissy and hurt right now. I appreciate all of the genuine advice but we all know I'm not looking to fix anything right now, I'm looking to have my feelings validated.
I didn't expect so many thoughtful replies though and I really appreciate it. This did make me feel a bit better. I'm gonna head out now, thank you all

Boohoo girls don't like nice guys :( Like me. I'm a nice guy you whore :( why don't girls like nice guys like me :( you whore :( salty kill yourself whore kek
This made me feel better more than anything so far. I'm single and sad but at least I'm not a "nice guy". Thank you user.

Good luck. You'll probably find someone. When you do, remember to be his absolute whore.

Tits or get the fuck out I guess

Pics of you hanging yourself please, thank you

OP left so early...

I'll probably end up lurking for a bit. I just didn't see my sad shit going much further anyway.
And I'm tired of captchas

Find a nice loser to help you feel better :)

Holy hell I got a good kek outta that.

Probably cheated on her because she has a shit personality.

she should just hang herself if shes this upset over 1 guy

Nothing is permanent, everybody wants more, entropy is unavoidable. We are all just stepping stones to someone who is a better version of ourselves. Grow from the loss understand yourself and your place in the cosmic line otherwise you will dwell amd involve yourself in the endless cycle of love and despair be free from it. Emptiness is the way a mind void of sense but full of understanding. Lose is only rational when you believe this world is meant to be had or taken. We don't belong to anything not even ourselves. Time moves don't stay in one point forever or oblivion will follow.

Guys in my town are either crusty and old or feminine liberals. Finding a decent guy here is hard.

Probably left her for being a dumb bitch, statistically speaking almost all relationships and marriages end in break up or cheating or something of that nature, the odds are so against her its ridiculous, just find a good cock to ride for a bit and go with it, if hes good to you/your kid thats all that matters right? just enjoy the ride.

TL;DR find a guy, enjoy the ride till its over

Umm.....really no ones gonna say it?.....ill do iT
First things first
Tits or GTFO

lead by example fuck face,

tits dick balls ass or GTFO

I don't mind rude comments if you put in effort. Lack of originality and bad grammar gets you points deducted. This isn't hurtful at all, so points deducted for that too. Resubmit this with corrections for full credit.

Where do you live? America?

Cheating seems to be the norm there.

Cheating is so common, I figured it was only a matter of time ot happened to me. I didn't think it would be in my first serious relationship, with the first woman I truly fell in love with. It hurts watching someone you love cast you aside for some imstant gratification rather than stay with you. You need to move on let this make you stronger. If you can't, you were too weak to handle a relationship anyways

the fact you even took the time to write this shows me you care.

just kill yourself sweetheart its easy to do, like peeling a banana you know?

just grab a rope, tie it into a noose throw it over a tree or something, put your head through and jump off.

or just grab a knife and slide it across your throat or slit your wrists.

if your to much of a pussy for that, sleeping pills are easy to get ahold of :)

Is monogamy even a possibility?
All of those couples that have been together 60+ years, do you think they really had faithful relationships?

>it's HER fault that her partner moved on and cheated

kek

sounds pretty edgy

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worse.
0/10 see me after class

What are You out of 10?

LOL, yeah right.

Several Euro countries have outlawed paternity tests.

will do, ill bring the razor blades and pills to you if needed.

hell ill even bring the rope, or you can just jump off a building.

pick your poison :)

How come?

I've got a weird chubby baby face but I keep myself in shape to make up for it.
No complaints personality wise and I put effort into my appearance, so whatever all of that means.

>Looking for something real!
>I'm loyal, trust me!

You were always just a pump and dump, OP

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Take notes

Well you don't sound like your a rek maybe just young how old was your BF?

>I've got a weird chubby baby face

Of course you do

20

Probably wasn't interested in her. She seems like a red flag.

It's that really you/her?

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Red flag how?
Of course it isn't

>I want the stereotypical housewife shit. I want someone I can take care of who also takes care of me. I want to be enough for someone.