My girlfriend just put me in the friendzone. Literally an hour ago. She said she just wanted to be friends.
We just signed a one year lease for a new apartment two weeks ago. After we finally got everything moved in and situated, we met our neighbors and went to a few parties we were invited to. She started spending a lot of time with the girls that live in the apartment across the hall. She spent the night over there last night and tonight was the first time I had seen her since then. When she saw me in the corridor, a weird facial expression formed on her face and she grab my hand and dragged me into our apartment. She said that we needed to talk. She told me to sit on the couch and then she sat down next to me. She told me how much she loved me and that I've been a really good boyfriend, but she said something happened last night and she can't deny that it happened. Apparently, one of the girls across the hallway has a brother named Steven. She and Steven spent a lot of time talking last night and really hit it off.
I started to get really mad. I interrupted her, and asked, "Did you fuck him? She said, "No, but I'm going to."
I was speechless. After a few seconds of silence, she told me that she slept with him on the foldout couch that night but swears they didn't do anything sexual. She claims that they just talked all night. She kept going on and on about how amazing Steven is and how smart he is and how attracted to him she felt. She said she was really tempted to fuck him and was proud of herself for not caving to the temptation. She wanted to talk to me first. "I have too much respect for you to cheat on you, user. I wanted to break up with you before I have sex with him, so that we can still be friends."
She's over there right now and he's with her. What am I supposed to do?
Dominic Thomas
Leave her obviously. Just move on, move out, and forget she exists.
Brayden Gutierrez
You know exactly what to do, user. Walk in there and kill both of them.
Levi Jones
Go over there quit being a pussy be a man take her and fucking cock block that steven fag right in front of his face don't be the cuck instead you should cuck that faggot
Jonathan Cruz
Ain't been in your situation but I don't think anyone would want a friend like that best thing to do would be to just pack your stuff and make sure shes there when you do it speak to your land lord ect and say that your moving out and that the rent will be paid by her and or/this steven guy ect and just dissapear from her life. Girls like that are just there for the thrill ect he'll use her and toss her aside and she'll come back running and try to get back with you but just utmost refuse it and tell her to fuck off and tell her she should have made that decision and not just fell for some other guy after 1 year of dating. Hope i helped Sup Forumsro!
Xavier Moore
this
Cooper Jenkins
Kick her out.
Evan Long
What are you doing user. Get your ass the fuck out of there, move out, get a new place, leave her and cut all ties with her, she's cancer.
Christopher Price
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Caleb Carter
hard to understand but this. gf left me for another guy and he raped her several times so when she came crying back to me I shut the front door on her and it felt so fucking good
Gabriel Edwards
Find a new girl and fuck her. Bring some random whore in as often as possible. Make yourself disgusting to her in that regard. Or say that it's fine being friends but you still want to fuck. Make it a three-way
Zachary Taylor
Bitch
Connor Flores
look for true love.
Thomas Adams
Holy fucking newfags, this pasta is like 3 years old give or take ? Literally not a single post calling him on it ?
Fuckin christ I need to get past this site.
Brayden Robinson
OLD PASTA FROM 2011, HOW HAVE COME TO THIS
Jaxon Sanchez
No worse of a feeling than heart break user. Pack your stuff and move out asap. Dont worry about the bond or anything to do with the lease. The first few months are the hardest but things do get better. Hit the gym and surround yourself with close friends snd good people. The best thing you can do now is better yourself and when she comes crawling back because Steven just wanted to get his dick wet, crush her heart by showing her youre a better person without her. All the best, and remember always that your Sup Forumsrothers are here
Ayden Myers
Hey man, just a quick question: are you also a trump supporter and stuff?
I am starting to think the userbase of Sup Forums has gradually change overtime, and no oldfag is left
Nicholas Smith
nothing you can do op, she is attracted by her pheramones, i had a girl that fell inlove with this guy and would do anything for him, basically even die for him, she is not thinking straight, but you cant change that, how old is she btw?im guessing 18?
Justin Clark
do this
Brandon Green
FUCK THE LEASE
if thats whats on your mind, fuck it man. You could be alot worse and still dealing with that shit in a few months.
GTFO now, sleep in your car w.e.
If you have any liquid funds shared between you, take all that shit ALL OF IT and sell it at a local pawn shop.
Connor Scott
"I love you user. However I just met someone else a few days ago and already love him more then you and want to fuck him."
Simply leave her, let her know how immature she is with relationships, If she pulls the whole crying act on you and starts frantically apologising ignore it and leave right in front of her.
Josiah Fisher
Dude, I have a very similar situation. We booked rooms next to each other for uni and the first week she told me she feels anxious blah blah I knew where it was heading. Turns out it was some guy she met and they really clicked but eventually it stopped. 3 months in and I'm having the greatest time ever, she's starting to regret slowly slowly but honestly you realise you deserve better. Don't message her, don't contact her and try to avoid seeing her as much as possible. The first two weeks are the worst, but in the end you come out a god
Andrew Rodriguez
if you can't kick her out then set the place on fire.
Jack Barnes
She is a piece of shit but at least she told you about it
Leave
Jose Williams
Stale pasta is stale
Brayden Roberts
Move now faggot. Before she gets prego by some fag and you have to pay for that fucking shit tier baby.
Cameron Jenkins
Check the dubs. Also, this is pretty good advice. Fuck this girl, she is an attention whore and as soon as Steven is done with her, she will crawl back to you, but the next time she gets in a situation like this she will act exactly the same.
Thomas Rivera
But where did the oldfags go...
Ethan Martinez
Make sure you scream before you do it
Kayden Roberts
This is the best advice. Absolutely spot on. She will come back crying. Girls like that are just pussy.
Alexander Hill
Been in the same boat aswell , fuck the apartment and fuck her. think of this as a blessing your to Young to settle down, now is the time to get out and have some fun. Fuck the evil bitch ... Your better off without her
Leo Murphy
HI GUIZE CAN I B APART OF UR SPESHUL CLUB?? you guize sound really hip and cool calling yourself oldfagz hehe xdd
Grayson Diaz
If this is actually true, then you need to be sound of mind before you take action.
I'd personally suggest writing her out of the lease. Living with her when you know she's at his place all the time will take a toll on you. And considering how good they go together I'm sure he wouldn't mind housing her.
I'm not quite sure how it works wherever you live but it shouldn't be a problem getting her out if you paid for everything, which I assume you did. If you didn't she might become a pain in your ass if she doesn't want to leave.
Lucas Moore
You pack her stuff and put it in the hall, change the locks. And then you don't cave. You do not let her cuck you and keep you as sone doormat. No matter how much it sucks, you're taking a stand now. Or you will live in misery trying to get her back while she uses you and know she can do whatever, as you're always gonna be there.
David Flores
What you do is you box up her stuff, put it in the hallway, and have your landlord change the locks.
Matthew Hill
Change the locks. Welcome her to the Homeless zone.
Brayden Brooks
Drug him then suck his dick. Fight fire with fire user. She can do him, so can you.
Easton Gutierrez
inb4 that pasta is old as fucking shit nevertheless for newfags if you ever find yourself in similar situation and a slut of a gf after 2 weeks of seeing someone knowing fuckall about the new met person *given that you were in relationship for considerable ammount of time* spreads her legs open or is planing to , don't fucking fool yourself , you dated a bitch since day one root feelings to her out she is straight up basic slut that deserves no sympathy nor respect don't be fooled by nice words once a bitch always a bitch
James Ramirez
I usually don't comment on this kind of cunt thread, but I will for now. Like everyone said, pack her shit and change the lock. Fuck that bitch and get yourself a real woman
Thomas Sanders
is it a joint lease ? are both your signatures on there ?
let her do what she wants to do
then make living with you hell... dont shout at her or scream anything like that just be a dickhead
she will want to move out... however if she moves out she breaks her contract with the landlord and you... then sue her ass into the ground :D
Oliver Harris
There's nothing you can do but move on.
You should tell her that it's completely unfair for you to have to keep sharing an apartment with her.
Steven should take over your part of the lease ASAP.
You should definitely leave ASAP and not pay anymore rent no matter what.
It's over. It's time to move on.
Cooper Davis
Pack things. Hallway. Change locks. Move on. Don't cave
Lincoln Myers
u da mayne
Levi Stewart
Best advice I've seen on this website.
It may hurt, but keeping her in your life is just gonna make you keep hurting. I can't even begin to imagine how you must be feeling.