About two months ago I broke up with my then bf. He said he had no feelings left, I became boring. Now that I look back he was right. I always lose myself in my partner. His friends become my only friends, his hobbies become my hobbiee while I abandom mine and so on.
Now I met a new guy, almost a month sort of dating. We share a shit ton of interests (stem, cars, vidya). But I fail to start an interesting topic. It only gets fun when we get undressed. And we get sexual very quickly because you know, young, horny and I'm boring.
That makes me feel like shit, knowing I'm just a set of holes with no personality.
I know there is no correct answer but /adv/ please tell me how the fuck do I become more interesting/attractive personality wise? Because there's no reason for him not to find a better girl.
About two months ago I broke up with my then bf. He said he had no feelings left, I became boring...
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do more shit on your own
you'll have something to talk about with him and give him more breathing space
no need to impress them or change yourself for others. Be yourself and eventualy someone who likes the "real" you will come along.
Do anal
Also tits or gtfo
It's cool that you pickup your bf's hobbies and all, but if you're wanting him to find you interesting you should keep your own hobbies and try not to get so caught up and forget who you are as an individual lol. Realistically if he found you interesting personality - wise as you are now I wouldn't bother changing unless he mentions something specific or w/e. If it's meant to be and he cares about you for who you are he'll stick around.
>o tits or gtfo
my man
to old tho
No one gives a fuck OP
>tits or gtfo
Then we will give a fuck
Congrats, you're a worthless whore whose only use is being a fleshlight for neckbeards. I'm sure your parents are proud. Maybe your bf didn't want you because you're a cum guzzler.
People need space.
is this Emily.
I know and it's hard for me to make a change - when I give him space I get worried for his wellbeing, them thinking I don't care and such.
nope sorry
You can't change who you are, just accept this is what you're like. You're the adaptable chameleon type, and that's alright. Even pretty cool
not to mention that this isnt even to anyone with any sort of status so there is zero bragging rights of who you are fucking.
>just a set of holes with no personality.
Sounds like the perfect gf
What was your question again?
no big deal. having nothing in common but sex is normal with a lot of relationships.
just develop yourself. explore your own interests and hobbies. put yourself first. you can't force becoming more interesting. that happens from experiences.
or it could be that you are more simple than you think. i bet there is a guy out there who would appreciate comfortable silence, and meaningful togetherness. not everything has to be exciting at all times.
you only say that here, irl where you fools are virgins, you need a gf who cares for you, talks with you and so on
Odd that I too thought this was a girl named Emily.
Can guarantee - not even an englishfag here so Emily as a name is a nope
Great blog 10/10 would not read again.
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Show us your tits with a timestamp you cock sucking shitpipe
LOL OP your boyfriend called you boring and broke up with you and you're like "Yeah he's right it's all my fault."
Your BF is an asshole and you're a doormat. Stick up for yourself. Nobody respects a doormat. Someone insults you and breaks your heart tell them to fuck off and kick them to the curb.
You must be new here.
tits or gtfo
this doesn't answer your question directly but I think one problem you have is you're very dependent on your partners
you should probably work on your self esteem and being happy alone before being with someone else because that is kind of a pre-req for dating people (that many ignore)
Common girlfriend. My gf hase the same behavior: no friends, no interest, I am the only guy in her life and i HAVE to recreate her all day long. Very fun...
Emily Locko?
Stop dating. Figure out who you are. It's okay to be alone for a while. It'd be really helpful to you if you'd figure out how to make yourself happy, rather than moving from relationship to relationship looking for someone else to do it for you.
Tits or gtfo, stupid thot.
Wasn't intentional at all, kinda happened. Also everything was so quick because I wanted to make my ex jealous. As shitty as this sounds this worked and he has made me forget my ex.
Would you retards stop pandering to this shit thread. There are rules in place for a reason.
just make sure to nag the ever-loving fuck out of him about your insecurities. like, does he really love you? are you too boring for him? does he only keep you for sex? make sure to ask these questions several times every day. guys love that. just look at us, we're dying to read about your insecurities, and i bet he'd love to hear about it as well.
Keep a journal. Yeah it sounds stupid but shit helps, keeps you thinking about what you just did that day. And yeah, somedays you're going to be boring, just like most people here, but it will help you remind you that you're not boring most days. Also if you think of something fun for you two to do besides fooling around, write it down so you don't forget. And yeah, self esteem and fear of losing someone for revealing some part of yourself that you are not comfortable showing anyone else could certainly be a part of it as well. For that, I'd talk to a professional about that. It could help. And no, I don't think medication but just having an outlet to express yourself without being scared of losing something could be valuable.
I agree wholeheartedly. Most people go straight from the safety of their childhood (hiding in your parent's shadow) to the safety of another person (hiding in your partner's shadow). If you want to be your own person you can't depend on your friends and family to create that person for you.
Go out of your way to solve problems on your own. Take on challenges that no one can help you with. Play Dark Souls until you slit your wrists for fucks sake. Anything that will build your character is worth a shot.
I think the newest fags ask for tits. As if Sup Forums isn't plenty of good material already. Gosh I remember when Sup Forums wasn't so full of porn so that tits or gtfo actually mattered.
It's not just about seeing tits. It's about proof that it's an actual femanon and not just some troll.
That is the very definition of what was getting at. Not to be a dick, but you should have gotten over your ex on your own. That is the kind of situation you should take on by yourself. Don't lean on others all the time if you want to build yourself up.
Honestly most girls are like you op Im just surprised youre self aware. Thats rare
There really isn't much you can do to not be boring. Some people are just fucking lame. Focus on yourself and try to seem more mysterious? Try NOT befriending his friends. Keep some distance. Get out of the house more bc obv if you two stay in the house the clothes are coming off and thats just how it goes. Youll know if hes actually into you if he actually wants to leave the house
there was never such a time
also tits or gtfo was implemented to deter attentionwhores not for the sake of tits .
>but /adv/
sounds like you copypastaed the wrong board.
/thread
also, sage goes to all fields
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This
it doesnt really matter in this thread imo let her be
I MESSED UP I KNOW F
dude just look for a guy who like you that way, married for 3 years here and shes pretty much like you describe, and i really like this, it make me feels like im a big part of her.
Sup Forums, random , on Sup Forums the home of anonymous the internet hate machine, aka the asshole of the intnernet, where everybody follows "the rules".
yeah.
Damn op you must be fugly
Fuck you. It matters in all threads, you fucking asstoad. Go back to /r9k/ or whatever faggot board you came from.
It is only rare for babies to be self aware. If you aren't self aware you might as well be dead.
>Calls woman a stupid doormat with no self esteem
>Hurr white knight detected
what he meant is that most girls think everything is ok with them and then go complain about "why are all men...?"
This is a good suggestion. I'm a guy and I have the same problem. Also I go out with women with weak personalities because they won't challenge me. I can be my mediocre self around them and still impress them easily. I decided that is pathetic so I have stopped dating and I am trying to better myself and figure out some shit before I drag others into the shithole. It's only fair.
honestly this.
and this.
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fuck i feel you
That is called narcissism, which is very different from lacking self awareness. In most cases a narcissist is aware of their selfishness and simply doesn't care.
how fucking dumb are you anyway?
Start interest in new things, read articles, view fucking jewtube it`s full with interesting content, start to think and just talk. Don`t give up u can change yoursefl and stop beeing boring.
And Tits or GTFO!
problem is I can't force myself to talk about myself
ITT lonely beta virgins giving out sub par relationship advice to depressed trap.
That has nothing to do with it.
The only reason why things happened is because you both didn't love one another.
How old are you?
Post benis
Why don't you post this in /adv/ people there are kinda gonna give you better advice and won't be saying "tits or gtfo"
Who are you really? Do you even know yourself?
This goddamn site ...