I just lost my virginity to a one night stand(18 years old). When I left, had this huge boost of confidence in my and felt like nothing can stop me.
However the next day, I have a mixed emotions of feeling sad, confused, and a bit of regret. As well wondering if I should have saved for someone truly special, instead of having some meaningless sex with some whore. I honestly feel like my urge to lose my virginity was nothing more but pressure from my peers and society. Would do you think?
It’s normal.
kill yourself faggot
Went through the same thing,it's normal. I kind of wish I waited for someone i cared about but oh well.
It was peer pressure, you could've felt confident without dipping your cheeto in thot cheese, but you didn't, because you care how others see you.
>This sums it up ^
Yes, let us stay virgins until we're 23, being sexually inactive so long while masturbating is really great for self esteem.
To OP:
that huge boost of confidence was your hormones telling you you need to fuck as often as you can (chemical reward in your brain)
That feeling of sad and confused was just withdrawal after that high.
There is nothing truly special about sex, and one whore is just as good as another.
Now GFTOW and prosper.
What a fucking animal. You find someone special early, you put a ring on it, you move on to more important things.
How hard is it to understand?
>stay virgins untill we're 23
Or carelessly fuck anyone and anything that moves and increase the risk of std's spreading around like butter on hot toast and having more accident babies. ;)
>You find someone special early, you put a ring on it, you move on to more important things.
Guise, we have a time traveller from before the war here, quick ask him some questions about the distant past.
The incel is strong in you two.
What is condom?
You're only as good as your first.
who cares, smash as much as you can while you can and then wife up
apparently being a good person and finding a good person to be with you isn't a concept people are familiar with.
The fuck is happening to men? Fuck bitches, stop whining about everything, and be a fucking man.
>implying condoms don't fail or break
>implying people don't lie about being on BC
>implying people don't lie about being clean
and the list goes on
They aren't men, they're soyboys.
Research shows millenials are having less sex than recent previous generations(s).
This is in a world of sex positivity, tinder and general slutdom.
Keep finding excuses to fapping because you can't score.
Society want us to hang so much importance on sex, nothing we do as real human beings can possibly live up to the hype. If you had waited for "the one" I guarantee you, you'd still have regrets.
It's not just the first time ever that's awkward, your first time with *any* new partner is going to be clumsy and weird, until you get the hang of what their buttons are and when to push them. And everyone's different.
TLDR: relax! It's never what it's cracked up to be.
>But mooooooooommmmmmm, I can't go outside. What if a meteor strikes and kills me?
I've had more than a few one night stands, fuckbuddies, and relationships over the years and managed to not get an STD or have any kids.
It's called not being a fucking idiot.
this tbqh famalam
I know that it's hard to not see it as a big deal because of the way our society portrays it, but it's really nothing to worry about. If you put it on a pedestal, you're bound to be disappointed.
Gratz.
Such self-denial, wow.
It's not society that sees it as a big deal, it's evolution.
Literally each and every of your male ancestors all the way to pre-human times had sex and his female bore and raised offspring successfully.
Sex and babies is the only thing that counts in this world, everything else is just a means to perpetuate the species
(except porn and video games - those are in place to keep idiots like you busy and not fucking the future up with your lazy 'I don't want to have sex' attitude)
>However the next day, I have a mixed emotions of feeling sad, confused, and a bit of regret
If you're a girl you should file rape charges
kek'd
But what if OP is fag (as always)?
Can fag file rape charges?
>Can fag file rape charges?
No, men can't be raped and you know this
What if OP is a fag of color? Still no good? Black fags don't matter?
Consider that both views are wrong. Saving your virginity for marriage or losing it to an escort are equally as meaningless.
This is because the person who you first fuck is no more special than you are.
Unless he was raped by a white man he can't claim rape
But there are still people outside!