Please Sup Forums, cheer me up. Everything in my life is crashing and burning right now and I'm so scared.
Please Sup Forums, cheer me up. Everything in my life is crashing and burning right now and I'm so scared
Sleeping Kitty is sending peaceful dreams your way.
cheer up, your life is meaningless, you'll be dead soon and within three generations no one will remember your name
will i also get peaceful dreams for replying?
It's gonna be fine user, why don't you just explain what's going on and maybe we can give you some advice.
You could be living in China OP.
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The only useful advice I've ever got when I was a kid : "Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it."
What's going on user?
Yes. And all good things too.
OP HERE: Last December my ex-fiance crashed my car. I did everything in my power to help her. Covered her rent and utilities for the months she was recovering and for a few coming months as well. Made sure to help with her hospital/phone bills and whatnot, too. After all that, she decided to move back in with her parents who I so desperately tried to get her away from due to them using her for money/being manipulative. When she left I could no longer afford to live there. Had to move out, and lost my programming job that paid well due to me being down a car. I lost everything I had basically. Since then I can't find steady work because where I live the unemployment rate is awful. She's since recovered and is doing well for herself while I'm over here unable to afford a fucking haircut. I'm pathetic for putting my trust into her and I'm so fucked up over it. Like the only other girlfriend I've ever had, she decided to just never speak to me again. I never got closure from either relationship. The only sign was today she made a new account on social media, which I messaged telling her how I felt. She just blocked me and that was it. Fuck.
You've learned a very valuable and expensive lesson. It's gonna be tough trusting anyone after that. Just do your best to not turn into some incel loser.
I'm trying, man. Thanks.
I've avoided so many crash and burns, so many bullets, fatal indecisive moments, take some of mine
If you need someone to just talk to user, add your SteamID, always willing to lend an ear.
everything will just get worse
fighting and feeling pain is the purpose of life
its the path not the goal that makes us happy
I have a Discord. Jacob#7413
When it rains it pours user
But eventually it stops raining
That's a'okay, user! When you are at the bottom, it can only get better.
Alright well it's midnight on the east coast and I gotta go to the gym in the morning, so I'll add you tomorrow. Goodnight man, keep your chin up.
Thanks.
OP you sound like a loser just kys
It's going to be OK. You're going to be OK. Life never gives you more thsn you can handle,
It's hard because I still love her.
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cheer up, your life is meaningless, you'll be dead soon and within three generations no one will exist and this planet will likely never support the likes of a species quite like humanity ever again.
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Let her be her rotten self. You gelped her and it reflects on who you are. Leave her alone. There is no such thing as closure. Yiur grief will end when yiu realize that her actions tell you who she really is. Find a food bank. Volunteer. Take a shit job and learn humility..,it will serve you well. You control you, not other people. Take care of yourself.
Do you love yourself, user? Because carrying a torch for her is not being nice to yourself. Find someone who puts up with your shit. Start looking now while you are broke and unemployed. She's out there. So are you.
No, I don't. I always put everyone before myself. I love seeing others happy. It just pains me because there's not a lot of people who are the same.
Sometimes, awful shit happens. You came away with a valuable lesson and, while its torturous now, it'll get better.
As someone else in the thread already said: The rain will stop eventually.
Godspeed user.
That sucks dude. I'm sorry. That's why you don't trust women, I suppose. Come on over to /o/. We'll do some Craigslist-ing and get your car problem sorted out.
So you know what your problem is. This is a recipe for unhappiness, and you know because you are living it. You have the power to change this behavior. Make a list of nice, free or low-cost things you can do for yourself that aren't drug related. Do them. Look i to therapy, user. It works.
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