How do you get over a girl Sup Forums?
I only went on one date with the one I'm getting over.... but I thought it was going really well. We made out at the end of the date, and now I'm thinking I should have invited her in... because the following monday she told me that she recently got out of a serious relationship.
I usually don't get attached this easily, but we had so much in common, and I thought it was going really well....
>How do you get over a girl Sup Forums?
more girls. Stop making every single girl who looks in your direction into some kind of magical unicorn that deserves your attention like this.
And your story doesn't make sense, or it's missing context. My guess is you never made out with her and she told you she's not interested in anything further.
either way, doesn't matter.
MORE GIRLS
give it time, play it cool. if she's interested she'll be back and don't push her for anything. but also don't stop showing interest either
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Get over a girl by getting on top of another
Ignore this beta nigger, this is crying into your pillow at night creeping her social media cuck tier advice
>My guess is you never made out with her
Ugh......... ok. Why would I lie on Sup Forums? I'm telling the truth so that I can get the best advice.
Also I don't usually get attached, but we were clicking, I thought I saw a future.
>I'm telling the truth so that I can get the best advice.
>but I thought it was going really well.
>and I thought it was going really well....
Again, what's missing here? Why was it NOT going really well? So according to your story you took her out, had a good time, kissed at the end of the night.
She contacted you the following Monday to explain that she's vulnerable... and what? WHAT'S THE FUCKING PROBLEM HERE?
You get the next girl.
Bury yourself in pussy.
Women are a drug that we are all addicted to.
You either learn to live without them and obtain the sobriety or you use them like a drug the most important thing you can do is never treat them like a human. Humanity is only for men.
She told me that face to face on monday when we hung out before class. She said she isn't looking or a serious relationship.
>She told me she's dtf but I'm too much of a pussy to figure that out
Fixed
>She said she isn't looking or a serious relationship.
That's her telling you she wants to fuck your goddamn brains out dude.
Let me teach you a little something in life. Pay attention to what a girl DOES, not what she SAYS.
Once you got her alone, she was willing to make out with you? So invite her over to your place next time under the premise of hanging out and fuck her brains out. If she tries to trip you up with questions like "where do we stand" just tell her you like hanging out and want to see where things go.
She will do anything you want her to, you just have to be man enough to lead her. Either you will do this, or another man will.
This means stop taking her out for nights on the town and start inviting her over to your room.
Jesus fucking christ, courting a woman isn't some new concept. You don't need to figure it ALL out for yourself. Read some literature for fucks sake.
Eh, I didn't really get that vibe. I think if I would have invited her in after the date it could have happened. The vibe on monday though was that she just didn't want to see me anymore, and came up with some dumb excuse.
Haha you fell for a rebound
>The vibe on monday though was that she just didn't want to see me anymore
Exactly. You tried to treat it like a first date at the start of a serious relationship. She was looking to get railed and you pussied out. Now, she knows you'll get emotional and weird if you fuck, so she's going to go looking for more cooperative dick.
She just wants a rebound. You can fuck her but she won't be over the other girl for awhile.
Well how the fuck was I supposed to know that? She didn't tell me she got out of a relationship until monday, and it seems by then I had already fucked it up.
Fucking shit, this is why I'm having trouble getting over it.... FUCK
Do me a favor dude. You fucking pussy. Invite her over to your place right now to watch Netflix with you. According to you, she has already rejected you and isn't interested, so unless you want to be her little bitch guy friend who doesn't fuck forever, what is it going to hurt for you to invite her over?
If she rejects you, you lose NOTHING. You get to move on with your life with some fucking dignity knowing you had enough self respect to draw a line for your standards.
You want to fuck this girl? Invite her over right now to do so. Remove your emotions from the situation. Send her a text right now that says 'dtf?' or enjoy living the rest of your life a sexless virgin.
SHE WAS INTO YOU, SHE WANTED YOU TO INVITE HER IN. THIS IS HER WAY OF TELLING YOU THAT. EITHER ACT LIKE A GODDAMN MAN AND INVITE HER OVER FOR SEX, OR FUCK OUT OF HER LIFE. That's what she was telling you Monday.
>Well how the fuck was I supposed to know that?
You weren't supposed to know that. Stop over analyzing the situation. This girl is nothing special, invite her over. Flip the script on her and show her she was wrong about you.
>Eh, I didn't really get that vibe.
Oh my god, he's retarded. If she didn't like you, she wouldn't have kissed you. You have like one more chance to get this right and then she's going to never sleep with you.
She works a fuck ton. I'll see her tomorrow. I'll try to fix it...... but the whole thing has been complicated as fuck.
Originally I just invited her over to smoke weed, she flaked out twice with excuses that actually seemed legitimate. We were both sick with the nasty sniffle throat flem thing the entire time, I change the hang out to a date because it seems like that's what she wanted.
Seriously guys, the entire situation has been fucked... she is hard to read
>She works a fuck ton.
Here's the text you send her:
"Come hang out at my place after work"
Send that now. If she's interested in you, she will make time for you.
And if she doesn't respond, or makes an excuse without giving you a new date to hang out on, move on.
Stop talking to her completely until she comes around. She WOULD fuck you, but you keep giving her everything she wants for free. You are failing to negotiate for yourself in this relationship.
I just texted saying
What I should have said was "I'm not looking for a serious relationship either" Because I'm not.
Sorry guys, it's been the most confusing situation ever...... but that's the best I've got for now.
If it makes any difference, I read tarot cards, and my reading suggested that I could avert making a mistake..... so there is a chance, according to my tarot cards.
>What I should have said was "I'm not looking for a serious relationship either" Because I'm not.
You don't need to say that. Keep it a mystery. If you say it now all it's gonna do is show her you're willing to compromise your standards for her.
After she realizes she can make you do that, she will get everything she wants from you without ever having sex with you.
Invite her over. Be your normal self, whatever it was that made her make out with you. Escalate physically, touch her hand. Wrap your arms around her, poke fun at her. Rub her leg... and then go in for the kiss again.
Put her on her back and tell her to take her clothes off.
The only reason you should be texting her is to arrange a hangout. Do not discuss your entire life story with her or try to justify yourself. Your goal is to get her alone with you in the least amount of words possible.
It's whatever. It's been a retarded situation.
Maybe she really did want to come over and smoke weed, but she really just couldn't two weeks in a row...... or maybe she was just never that interested and only made out because we were a little buzzed.
I'm honestly not that bad with women, I know all of the minimal contact tricks and what not.... this seems like it's already broken, the best bet I have is not trying to fix it.
It's an extremely annoying way for this semester to end is what it is.
How do you show interest, without being too pushy? Also, how do you maintain interest if you're not getting much in return?
>but she really just couldn't two weeks in a row.
How many times has she smoked with you in the past without you trying anything? Honestly it just seems like you missed your window of opportunity and now she's trying to move on.
Either way, the answer has been in this thread the whole time. Go meet new girls, make it your goal to get rejected by a new girl every day. Eventually you won't even think about this girl anymore. Your life should be about you dude.
>How do you show interest, without being too pushy?
There's no such thing as too pushy. Your objective is to find out if she is interested in you, not show interest to her. If she's calling you too pushy, she's not interested.
>how do you maintain interest if you're not getting much in return?
You move on. This one obviously thinks she has you wrapped around her little finger. Move on to bigger and better things and eventually she will backpedal wondering where here little attention fix ran off to. When she's the one contacting you, you will know it worked. Google it, "dread game"
Start treating her like a friend and talking about your interest in other women with her. She needs to see you have value.
Ok here is the entire rundown
>Met her in the library
>Had a short conversation
>It went well
>"Want to come over and smoke weed sometime?"
>SURE!!!! (Seems to like me)
>"can't make it, I'm sick"
>next week "I got called into work :/"
>I ask her out to jazz club thanksgiving weekend
>We listen to jazz, chat, have drinks, makeout
>Seems like it went well.jpg
>Monday rolls around
>I just got out of a relationship, and I'm not looking for anything serious
There is the entire scenerio. I was already planning on letting it go, but it's a bit of a mind boggler.
I'll give it some thought, thanks friend!
>>I just got out of a relationship, and I'm not looking for anything serious
This, combined with...
>"can't make it, I'm sick"
>next week "I got called into work :/"
Would indicate she has multiple suitors, that's all. There are multiple guys after her right now and she's just trying to tell you she's playing the field to see what she wants.
She is telling you up front she doesn't want to be exclusive until she decides you're man enough for her. So did you invite her over? Because one of the other guys are going to if you don't.
Cry, necessity
That's easy. Just text her and say "if you don't go out with me I'll kill myself"
Works 65% of the time
She was supposed to come over 2 days ago.... we were gonna drink champange. That was the plan until monday happened, and I asked "So do you still want to come over on friday?"
she said "I'll text you"
Never texted me..... so really it's probobly over. She is being a faggot you guys, lmao way to hard to read
But also she WAS sick, I know because I got even more sick from kissing her.... and she works a fuck ton, she has two jobs.
I'm telling you man, this is the most confusing shit I've ever dealt with.
So did you tell her to come over after work yet?
Not a good move. Monday didn't end well. I'd say there is a 70% chance that it's over. Maybe I will be able to fix it this week. She's honestly kind of a but-her-face..... I tend to believe what she said about her ex. She might honestly be having gay emotional bullshit feelings about her ex or something
>Not a good move. Monday didn't end well.
We're talking about the day where she told you she wanted a no strings sex relationship with you, right?
> Maybe I will be able to fix it this week.
Honestly you deserve to fuck this up by overthinking it. She's a person, not a rubics cube. Your problem is you keep inviting her out to do all this fancy shit, go on dates, DRINK CHAMPAGNE, and all she really wants to know is where you two stand.
Jesus fuck. If you can't just say "hey come hang out with me tonight" without having to lure her with weed or some fancy shit like champagne, she's not interested.
We have a final tomorrow in bio-lab. There is a chance I'll see her in the library before the lab, but my guess at this point is that she will avoid seeing me in the library, and when I do see her in the lab it will be awkward.
Seriously she just sucks at communicating, I think the whole ex boyfriend thing was a shitty excuse to basically say "I don't want to see you anymore"
It's funny because clearly it's not a good excuse, because all of you think she just wants to fuck.... not the vibe I got.
I'm ready for it to be over, after the final tomorrow I don't ever have to see her ever again.
I don't think you know what you are talking about, honestly.
Say's the guy who's too much of a pussy to be rejected.
I'm out dude, enjoy never actually doing ANYTHING and wondering what could have been FOREVER because you're too busy saying "what if" instead of just communicating your intentions with words and actions.
She wants a guy who knows what he wants, not some faggot who will settle for goodbye hugs after class.
How do you get over a girl that you went on one date with?
Easy. Stop being a pussy.
One date and you're attached? Fuck off. Go slam a bunch of tinder sluts and you'll see how easy it is to get over a chick that you don't know.
Come back when you've been in a deeply committed years long relationship with a chick and she decides to leave. Then we'll feel sorry for you, faggot.
At no point did she ever say that she wanted to have a no strings attached relationship...... the vibe was like she was breaking up with me.
This thread had taking a situation that was already confusing, and made it more confusing.
Yeah enjoy your borderline personality disorder dude... lmao
Remember OP, you are the prize in this situation not her. Just find another one, they are a dime a dozen.
Thank you. There are way hotter girls everywhere, there are like 16,000 girls at my university.
This situation has been extremely confusing, which is why I find it funny that this faggot is so confident that he has the entire thing figured out....
I texted her friday with no response, just texted her since this thread started about how I'm not looking for a serious relationship.... probobly won't get a response.
It's over, monday will be awkward, but I'm glad it's over.
Jesus Christ.
I'm not gonna text "come over after work" after I got no response on friday.
It was an extremely unsavory joke sorry, damn.
>At no point did she ever say that she wanted to have a no strings attached relationship
Yea, and they never will. There's a thing in society called "anti-slut defense", women have a job in life to constantly protect their reputation. You will almost never get a proposition like this from a woman unless she's inebriated.
It's up to you to not be so socially retarded you can't understand what she's trying to communicate to you. It's a thing women do to weed out men who are undeserving of their pussy.
>borderline personality disorder dude
This is your problem right here, you're so busy trying to diagnose everything you are sacrificing the clearest and easiest communication you will ever receive from a woman. That and you're afraid of being rejected.
>Thank you.
>You are the prize in this situation, not her.
You are the prize, that means you don't sacrifice what you want to meet what she wants. But the only thing you have done since this thread started was exactly that.
You've also been told 4 different times to dread game her, ignore her... but all you're doing is insulting the person who insisted you do that in the first place.
And now, you're projecting your autism onto other people.
Man you are obsessed with this idea she was looking for no strings attached sex..... I've already told you if it was happening it would have happened after the date.
You weren't there man, I mean shit I asked her that day if she still wanted to come over..... you think Champagne makes any difference?
You are obsessed with this idea dude, you weren't there.
find a porno doppleganger for your girl who is just barely hotter. fap to that dopple for a few weeks. fap to her over and over. guaranteed to girl your feels for this broad.
You clearly have a mental issue, I don't know what it is.... but it's obvious that it's there.
Don't worry I'll be here with you through all your stages of denial. I suppose your horrible tendency for projection and making medical diagnoses comes easier to you than having to hear a girl tell your fragile little ego "no"
>You weren't there man
How many different women rejected you this weekend?
The reason I think you have a mental illness is because you have ignored most of the information I gave you.
You are completely obsessed with this "come over after work" text...... it's not good advice.
Here is the events of monday again following what she said
>"I just got out of a relationship, I'm not looking for anything serious"
>me-"So do you still want to come over friday?"
>her-"I'll text you"
I text her friday, no response. I texted her today, likely won't get a response.
I'm not gonna text her again, saying "come over after work" Lmao it's retarded advice man.
I think in some weird way, this helped me get over it....... so thanks.
Dont be such a disgustingly weak man. Men are here for purpose of their own unique mission of creation utilizing the resources all around them. NOT for being needy weak boys looking for identity and meaning from the weaker sex. Get a grip man. Find your mission, the woman will find you.
She listens to jazz, and metal. I'll likely end up with someone way hotter with a typical EDM nigg-hop cookie cutter NPC personality.
Those are the types I don't get attached to, and yeah it works out better.
zero, that's the problem. OP too scared to communicate his intentions with a women. Advice won't help because this whole situation is a theoretical exercise where at the end he decides to never do any of it because he's too much of a pussy to hear the words "no"
I've fucked hotter women than everyone here.... that's the truth.
Jesus Christ.
Also stop replying to yourself pretending to be someone else, lmao I thought you were leaving.
Goddamn this was a cluster fuck.
Yeah guys, when a girl stops responding to your texts, text her "Come over after work"
That will change the situation for sure.....
Make a database of chicks you've ever had anything to do with and send it to them so they know they are nothing special and just part of your conquest list or w/e.
ask her over to watch a movie at your place next date , boem logistics to fuck are right there
Look how much time you wasted in this thread by just not saying outright she had already rejected you multiple times. The only answer you need is in the very first reply.
>And your story doesn't make sense, or it's missing context. My guess is you never made out with her and she told you she's not interested in anything further.
Only took 40 minutes for OP to admit this. Must be a serious case of oneitis
you realise that she is controlling your feelings for an ego trip, and someone who would do that doesn't deserve your attention
most girls don't do that, but some do, and give the rest a bad name
defend yourself
Dude but she didn't, lmao. The problem is that people aren't paying close enough attention.
She said "I'll text you" and never did.....
She is making wimpy woman excuses, which is why I think it's funny that people are so convinced she wants to fuck.
I'm not 100% sure it's over yet, but yeah what a fucking thread.
Don't you guys post in fucking Trap and dick rate threads? I'm only here because I'm on a 3 day ban from /pol lmao
Why are you all so convinced that you are master pick up artists?
Solid answer. Ask yourself OP, under what circumstances would you treat a girl how she's treating you? Do you think you would like that person?
She's hanging out with you because you give her free weed, and treat her fancy with champagne and shit. And apparently you put up with all of her shit like some kind of emotional tampon.
Do yourself a favor and move on. What she is or isn't getting over is not your problem.
>She said "I'll text you" and never did.....
That's a pretty solid fuck you. In what universe is this NOT rejection.
>virgins
the thread
OP you underage fuck stop being a retard rebound faggot and see other bitches fucks sake high school faggots are the worst.
Will do buddy
Hah, beta bucks. Gets everything she needs from this dude and doesn't even need to fuck him.
furiously masturbate
You guys are retarded. We never smoked weed, and we never drank champagne. Learn to read.
You give it time, focus on other things, and then after a good couple of weeks go meet other people. just take it one day at a time you fucking faggot. an hero.
full name?? or source
>How do you get over a girl?
Ask out, hit up, talk to, try to lay, as many women as you possibly can.
I did this, and in the end, I ended up finding girls even hotter and emotionally deeper to me than the girl I was trying to get over.
You guys are fucking retarded. This is exactly why I don't ask for advice on Sup Forums anymore.
get yourself a qt3.14 trap gf with a very tight boipussy, like I did. Fuck women they are hormonal retarded pieces of shit. Men are even better at being women than women themselves. Give it a try OP, traps can be so chill and feminine.
By getting under another one
have sex with a different woman. The feels will vanish. Have a good one mate
>This is exactly why I don't ask for advice on Sup Forums anymore.
why would anyone ever ask for advice here to begin with?
This...sorry bro
you grow up and mature. i bet youre still in highschool
And yet people still do on a daily basis
because they're stupid. there's literally an advice board that is actually somewhat decent. but retards love to come to Sup Forums and probably don't realize there are other boards on this site.
girls don't like pussies who don't make the moves
t. virgin
Find something about her that you hate/can't stand. If you can't, quit with the "she's perfect" bullshit and obsess over the fact that you're better off. After a few months, you'll wonder why you ever liked her.
learn to read
First of all you're asking for advice on 4 chan. thats a huge red flag that you have no confidence. quit being a bitch.
Enjoy your dick rate threads
the fuck are you talking about? at least I've been laid, and not asking for help on a containment board for autists, and faggots.
i block that shit.
bitch probably just doesn't like OP. he probably did something really cringy in her mind.
Where did a say I was a virgin? Can anyone here read?
>getting defensive
>on a containment board for autists, and faggots.
They are all fucked in the head. None of their reasoning is going to make any sense to you. Just get your dick wet and keep feelings out of it. At least until one sucks your soul out of your dick then your fucked bud.