Should I tell my shrink next time I see him that I am addicted to porn...

Should I tell my shrink next time I see him that I am addicted to porn? Do any of you have experience telling a mental health professional about that?

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Haven't told anyone about it tbh. I wish I have. Just commenting bc I remember I had that porn in your OP open on my laptop once.

Back when this happened I was with a crazy gf. One that was insecure as fuck, really dependent, threatened to kill herself weekly and blame me for it. It was horrible, it was my first gf. Anyway, she had this HUUUUGE issue with me watching porn. If I even watched porn she would think she was hideous or compare herself like crazy to the chick in the porn. Well I had to lie to her and tell her I never watched porn, when in reality it made me even more turned on to watch it. I was a mother fucking porn fiend. Well anyway, I went to the bathroom and my gf was in my room and opened my laptop and BAM, Amy Anderssen with her stupidly huge balloon bombs is getting split in half by a monster cock. It was such an insanely over-the-top porn. The absolute worst for my girlfriend to find.

After I got back from the bathroom my gf just stared daggers at me "UHM. DO YOU WATCH PORN...?"

shit man that was a rough day LOL

pic my current gf

>Amy Anderssen with her stupidly huge ballon boobs is getting split in half by a monster cock
That's not even that bad, it's pretty vanilla. I can only get off to anal, dp and shit like that nowadays. I've even fapped to some traps here and there

no shit, the porn was vanilla as fuck, i'm just talking about proportions. And that was the most triggering thing to an insecure teenage girl (this was a few years back)

your gf looks good btw. Does she know you watch porn?

yeah, but she's a bit insecure too. So I don't mention it. I think she's getting better

So do you think you still have normal/ok sex with her? or do you think porn has affected it in how hard you get or how long it takes you to cum?

I'm booking a session with Amy next time she comes to my area. Not too expensive and I think I need to get this out of my system

Prepare to pay 3k or more dollars for an hour of mediocre sex with a woman with plastic tits. You're better off using that money for literally anything

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Sauce on gif OP?

we have good sex. But we are long distance most the year. With visits every 3-5 weeks. that helps. Plus I don't watch porn for 24 hours before seeing her

Google amy andersen step mom. It's not that good though

Half hour for 500
Full hour for 800
Why not? I'm not poor and it'll be the only time in my life I fuck a literal fuckdoll.

Well I guess that's not that bad then. Look at her titties tho, theyre fucked up. Have you fucked her before? Or any other pornstars?

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Damn dude just from her body she looks like at least an 8/10. Nice ass and tits.

Never fucked her and never paid to have sex before. I know her tits are grotesque but that's part of it. One and done and I'll be scarred for life and never do something like it again.

Just trying to figure out if I should do an hour or half. I know I'll nut instantly with this bitch but I can rally. The last thing I want to leave is wanting more. Maybe an hour

HOUR

If you think it would be helpful.
This is a terrible place to ask for advice, they'll just make it seem like a bad idea because they're insecure about their own personal shortcomings.

Thanks dude. I love when other guys check her out.

Yea I think so too. Knowing these pornstars they'd probably start the timer the second you walk through the hotel door.

If I were you, I'd do an hour too. Start out with her giving you a nice blowjob with those fucking botox-injected lips, followed by a titjob, then move on to the fucking, maybe doing anal if she's feeling it, and ending with a handjob and cumming all over her face and tits.

Btw what site do you use to hire her? Are you in the US or Canada?

Is she asian?
If she is holy shit it's hard to find an asian girl a nice rack and ass like hers. holy fucking shit

>OP asks for advice on how to get rid of a porn addiction
>thread turns into a fag dumping pics of his gf and 2 fags discussing how to hire pornstars
Never change Sup Forums. You're doing literally the exact opposite of what OP wanted kek

yeah she's asian. 4 foot 11 so proportions look insane

You should put a secret camera kek

If you want to go to jail then yeah. Or even worse have her pimp beat the shit out of you

I'm 35 and have been sexually active since I was a teenager. I've noticed a direct relationship between porn and my sex life.

The more porn I watch, the shittier the sex is.

The less porn I watch, the better the sex is.

Whenever I'm single, the porn browsing goes up. Once I meet someone, it actually takes a while to "level out" again, if that makes sense. It's not just the content I'm viewing, but the actual act of masturbation that fucks up my sensitivity too.

her pussy looks really, really tight.

>I love when other guys check her out.
this is why you need to quit porn user

what's the longest you've gone without being in a relationship? Did you fap everyday?

does porn cause that?

I deal with my own problems
I dont need to see a "professional"
Just stop jerking it for a moment, think about your problems, like REALLY think about them and find your own solutions rather than just rely on some shrink to do it for you

>watching amy anderssen's porn

Honestly, I don't know. I think it would probably be bad if that was the only way that you found sexual satisfaction.

You lucky fucking faggot. You're fucking a 9/10 asian qt3.14 and you get to watch all the porn you want? How the fuck do I become you?

Longest not being in a sexual relationship? Over the span of my life, it's varied.

I first noticed it when I was in a long distance relationship in my early twenties. I used to fap at least once a day, usually twice (morning/night), occasionally more. The porn content followed the typical trend of always needing something a bit more and more intense. When I'd finally see my girlfriend, I found it difficult to cum for the first couple days, but then would start "leveling out" after a while.

More recently, the longest span has been three or four weeks. I can't say "relationship" as you said because there are so many varying scenarios. After breaking it off with one girl, I may hook up with a ex once or twice, or a fling, or meet someone new altogether which could be a one night stand or grow into a relationship.

I'm just saying I've definitely noticed a correlation there.

it's called being a teen, it's not abnormal

I think you have a point. However, I've tried stopping countless times in the past but I am legit addicted. Longest I've gone is like 3 days.

let's tag team her ;)

I'm closer to 30 than I am to 20.

I can relate to a lot of this actually. I don't buy too much into the nofap bullshit, but I do think fapping and porn is cutting a lot into my motivation and general well being. I fap 1-3 times a day and probably spend at least an hour daily watching porn. That's how it's been for the past 4-5 years

Christ, are those tits made out of paper mache?

cheap silicon implanted by brazilian "surgeons"

My girl likes Hentai so she doesn't give a fuck if I watch porn. We sometimes read some fucked up shit together.

There were times when I thought I was addicted because of how much I looked forward to getting home from work and going on a fap-a-thon in front of my computer. I wanted to stop because I felt guilty and knew it was probably screwing up my sex life, but couldn't. It wasn't until I really started seeing how it was impacting my sex life that I had the motivation to do something.

I did it in stages, though. I first addressed the need for more intense porn, because if I waited a bit, the lighter stuff could still be enough. Further, I heard from a colleague that fapping while wearing two or more condoms helps preserve sensitivity. My work hands out condoms for free so I regularly grab a bunch.

Now I limit myself to the light stuff, double wrap, use lube, and don't grip too tightly. It took a while to get used to, but when I get with the next girl, I can actually function and respond. Started with no more than once a day, then once every other day, now it's once every three days and only still porn, non-hardcore. Has made a HUGE difference. Sex is SO much better than fapping to porn, but only if you let it be.

Yeah, that shit's not good. I agree that nofap is stupid, much like those diets where you're not allowed to eat dessert, then you cave and binge. I can also relate to your time spent, as I'd often waste so much time just fapping and I'd feel so unproductive by the time I went to bed. Although some may think I'm ridiculous, these rules I've set have made a massive difference for me.

I didn't know about fapping with a condom but I might try it. It seems like you've set for yourself some realistic goals that have made an improvement in your life. I think I should try to make a plan like that for myself instead of just going cold turkey right away. Thanks for the pointers user.

post moar of your gf pls

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Yeah, I thought the condom thing was weird at first, but it totally makes sense. It dramatically reduces the stimulation, but you also have to couple it with not gripping the fuck out of your junk. Aim for how much a pussy would grip (or less) and it'll be fine. If you're not successful, wait until next time and it'll be easier. The more time between faps, the more sensitive you'll be and it'll happen.

You'll eventually level out, and I can't say it enough, the sex will improve dramatically.

I went to a shrink once. I was having trouble at work and it was starting to weigh on me pretty hard. Note that im 39 at this time. The shrink told me i had autism. I never went back.

My guy you have the source for that?

Okay, a lot of people give shrinks a hard time... and I can't say I disagree. Not completely.

I was involved in an accident that was pretty traumatic and went to see a shrink. After a few sessions, I knew the guy was bullshit and was just doing his time to collect a paycheck. I fired the asshole then went through and essentially interviewed shrinks until I found one that inspired my confidence.

My red flags were shrinks who were quick to push pills, interrupted me frequently, made inappropriate assertions without me providing enough background detail, etc.

Keep looking. Mental health is a thing but not all shrinks are bad. Most are, yes. But not all.

ADDICTED TO PORN!!!!

YOU FUCKING PUSSY BITCH!

I'm a alcoholic, porn/ meme/ gamer and drug addicted father of one and an owner of small business, and I hold my shit together 6 days a week.

GET A REAL FUCKING ADDICTION YOU CUNT.

>>Seriously can not believe this cunt has the nerve to talk about this shit.

>>FUCKING CUNT

Same.

Highly functional alcoholic here.

I'm starting to gain weight, fast. Getting a bit fucked in the head too, forgetting stuff ect.

Probably gonna go a month without after Christmas.