Do you guys fully accept yourselves for having very freaky sexual desires, or is there some self-hate lingering?

Do you guys fully accept yourselves for having very freaky sexual desires, or is there some self-hate lingering?

I was into non-traditional shit even before puberty. I knew my parents and others wouldn't accept it, so I stuffed it down and it created a lot of self-hate.
Me and many other people hate ourselves for not having more vanilla sexuality.
Like a feeling that you are not good enough and need to soullessly force yourself to be something else.

This goes way beyond just sexual stuff, but I hope you get it.

So, where are you stand in all of this?

>Do you guys fully accept yourselves for having very freaky sexual desires
Yes

What exactly are we talking about here?
If you do fully accept it, you are comfortable with people knowing and are really chill in general.

IDK man my girl and I just do what we like and we're both very kinky. She posts nudes online, I do a little CD among other things. Live and let live I'd say. However, why the FUCK would your parent's acceptance have anything to do with your sex life? Do they also talk to you about their wild steamy nights?

No, I wanna die.

Ok, I honestly want to know. What the fuck do women get out of being peed on?

I've been with a lot of broads in my day, and I have yet to meet one that wants me to pee on her. So, I see some of these pictures, and even now videos on the porn sites, and I'm like "whaaa?" in my head.

Seriously. How does a girl even tell a guy "oh, hey, by the way, um, I like getting peed on..."

>scratching my head.

You misunderstood, mate.

I'm talking about psychological baggage that we collect throughout our lives.

I've just noticed that I have a lot of self-hate that was created in my early puberty for beliving that my desires are unacceptable and that I need to be fixed.

This shit can really fuck with people.

It also doesn't help that I'm naturally a more feminine guy, but I always played alpha and rough, thinking this is the only way to be a full human being basically.

Sounds fucked, but kids don't know shit. We soak up and assume all kinds of shit and need to let go of it.

I'm posting this to see if people have similar experiences here.
There should be some, since Sup Forums is a place of weirdness.

Still self conscious..I'm a guy that loves butt stuff. Girls mostly think that's gross. My mother found dildos and other kinky stuff in my room, threw them out, and called my family while I was on holiday with them and told them how much of a perverted freak I was..

Feel really self conscious and rarely find an outlet.
I feel nervous telling any new girls about my fetishes.


My first girlfriend fucked me up the ass when I was 17 a few times with a strapon
Shit was CASH
never been happy since hey

I have a lot of self-hate for not screwing your mom when I had the chance. Every day, I think to myself "I could'a fucked dat bitch rotten".

Then I begin to weep quietly while my co-workers tip toe away from my desk to tell the boss I'm at it again.

Guy like me like getting pee'd on too not just girls

I'm sorry to say this Sup Forumsro, but get the fuck over it and live YOUR life for you. If you can't do it alone there's no shame in getting therapy.

>My mother found dildos and other kinky stuff in my room, threw them out, and called my family while I was on holiday with them and told them how much of a perverted freak I was..
Holy shit, that sounds like hell.

I'm a 20yo virgin into feminisation, femdom, worshipping women and stuff like that. I'm also somewhat bisexual.

The sad thing is that I've NEVER even crossdressed in my entire life, even though I love the idea and feminisation in general.

The reason is that I was scared shitless to ever attempt something like that. If someone found out, my life would've been "over"

I've discovered some good self-help shit called "shadow work".
It's great, but I want to share right now. For fun, comfort and even infformation.
This is not a desperation thread, even if it may seem so.

I sometimes want girls to pee in my mouth and drink it, but It's not my fetish exactly, since I rarely think about it.

I know man, just letting you know no one benefits from your misery. I've been there and picked up, so it's the least I could do.

i stuffed it down too, but now i accept it and jut don share it with anyone...kida lonely

I know.
I've actually been wondering should I become open or at least more open about this shit with people I'm close with, even though they will probably judge me.

Real authenticity can be liberating.

>don share it with anyone...kida lonely
This is one of the key problems.
We tend to think we are not good enough to share freely like other people do.
I would say you still hate yourself to an extent.
I may be wrong, of course.

I m into piss, scat and vomit. And some other nasty fetishes. And I am absolutely ok with it and had the chance to experiment these things quite a lot for years now.

A tiny bit of self-hate, but more hatred of society for being so concerned about what I fap to.
If people find out I'm pretty much screwed, just for fapping to the wrong pixels.

nah, i hate the situation and the risks of sharing it

Yeah, im really ok that i want to eat a fresh creampie or cumswap from my best female friend

Me too, but the desire to be myself is strong.
I am sick of lying and self-hate.

I accept myself but i wont share it with people around me

Still bad for you in the long run.

we should try to make a comunity safe for our kind and away from prying eyes

Not really. We need to stop caring. That's the only thing that can solve this.

I'm attracted to underaged girls. I'd love it if it wasn't this way but there's really nothing I can do about it and I'm not hurting anyone so I've just accepted it as a part of myself.

and when people find out and you're tarr and featherd? or if you're into the really naughty and cops catch you, what then?

Lets see some examples of our kinks. Vola r/exy0zh74

I'm not into anything illegal or that would hurt people.
If you're into that, then you're kinda fucked, nothing you can do, except accept that you can never do it. Still should stop hating yourself for someting you didn't choose.

would never harm anyone, ever. but i like to watch weird stuff

Like what?

i don't like scat porn...