I have this girl Ive been with for a year now and ive come to realize i need to decide if i want to settle with someone...

I have this girl Ive been with for a year now and ive come to realize i need to decide if i want to settle with someone that loves me for who i am and i would have a secure relationship with, or should i say fuck it and try to go and do bigger better things.
Shes cute but I feel like im not as into her as she is into me and i also feel like i could find someone much more attractive.
Im not in the biggest city but im not that bad looking. Thoughts?

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First question how old are You?

19 years old. I live in Indiana.

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You're 19 years old bro you still have the whole world a head of you if you're losing the touch with her split now before you drag yourself into it for too long. There's plenty out there. I broke up with my first serious girlfriend of 3 years at your age and I had the best years of life after that... 24 now and just got out of stupid relationship with a single mom now out to do more!

Bumping

Appreciate the reply bro

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She's already too good for you, you selfish fuck.

Probably, I just want someone more mature. She's very dependent but could end up having a stable life ahead of her

Dont settle dude.

Go out and see the goddamn world.
Do some shit.
Do big things.
Do small things.
Just dont get weighed down. I did when i was 19, and 6 years later i regret it more and more each day.

>judging a girl by how attractive she is
Well, you're obviously still in the monkey-wearing-pants phase of spiritual evolution, so I say go for it, what the hell. See how life can become miserable.You don't know any better, so what's the worse that can happen, hm?
For your sake, though, the best thing you could do is get a girl that cares for you more than you do for her. She might make you into something better than you are.

It's much more than just her attractiveness, I just didn't think people would bother to ask. She's fucking obsessed but idk I do care about her

WIth that being said i doubt youve had a girlfriend.

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I get your 19 and all but you will probably never find another of what you have.
Sex is pretty meaningless unless it's with the right person.
If she likes you so much it would seem to me like she would do anything you want anyway.
There really isn't much "bigger and better" you could do without someone who is devoted to you and you'll always have someone there when you inevitably fail.
Talk to her not us.

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How do you tell a girl you're trying to decide shes worthy of you? You don't

I like your taste in pornstars OP, so imma drop my input too.
First things first, if you're looking for advice, usually you wanna go to it's literally a board dedicated to it. Also, at your age, love is important, but not that imperative to your life. Make sure you're not stringing this girl along, but make sure you're caring about your desires first, rather than trying not to hurt hers.

Seems my threads don't attract much attention there but I agree, I've been in a much more serious relationship with a different girl before this so maybe she's just not the one.

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Well. You don't ask her that. You find out how she sees herself, her self esteem, and how she feels about you.
Have a serious talk about your relationship and each other.
Right now your ego is way way high, I can tell by how you talk.
You are definitely a different generation and I'm not that far ahead.
The next 5 years are going to be a rough time in your life take it from me. Your entire world view is going to be decimated. Even if you keep your ego.
I don't know your situation but my advise is to take the next couple weeks finding out if you and her are willing to be together or if you would be better off apart. A sudden decision is something that will leave a mark on both of you and you will have a hard time going back if you should ever have the ability.

move to a bigger city for education and drop that fugly country inbred

Name?

What's her name

Op fuck her mom