Im trying to score a girl but idk how...

Im trying to score a girl but idk how. Like i always see women checking me out and we can talk and such but i always feel discouraged to get their number cuz i dont have a car im only 18 but still. Any advice?

Just go for it. If you don´t succeed with one girl, just go for the next one. It´s not that hard, for real tho.

How do i get i ignitiate the idea of asking for their number though

You need to break past the barrier of needing context to approach a girl.

That's a question that stops a lot of guys: "what do I have to approach her with?"

Just approach on the basis that she looks cute, and you wanna get to know her. Talk for a few minutes, then if the conversation is good, get her number.

I got a wierd one. This girl that I haven't even talked to since MS hit me up on IG and asked to hang out. I really don't care either way, but how do I ask her if it's a date or if shes just tryna fuck without making it awkward?

I thought she had a bf but the last time I checked her IG all pictures of her she had with this other guy were gone, we might be hanging out this weekend

>Any advice?

MOAR EGG

Hey I gtg, you should put your number in my phone.
Coming from an autistic who couldnt start a convo to save my life in the first place.

She probably wants to bang if not keep it casual and you might get laid down the road

Hell good enough for me

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Lol noice bro

Should I try and throw that out in a convo or some shit or just let it roll? She's pretty fuckable so I don't wanna go full autistic and ruin it

She wants to hang?
> what do you want to do?
Fucking talk to her to figure out what she wants, not some dudes on the internet.

Responding again, I already got her number for when she comes down she gave it to me, I didn't even need to ask

A grill can talk to you without sex being her immediate goal.
Giving you her number isn't akin to a pass to fuck, you haven't earned it via being a fuckable date.

Let it roll dude cuz if you throw it out and it doesnt work itll be quite awkward.
Just tell her she looks good and try to be close to her she will get the idea

well im pretty fuckin' autistic when it comes to this shit so im just askin' Most guys are confused as shit on how to even get a girls number which is usually me. Im tryna find out if this girl is available without asking. Like legit what started this whole thing is I liked some of her pictures on IG then she DMd me and started a conversation, then she was the one who asked to hang out

Probably not good advice, but I just stopped giving a shit. Was with a girl for all four years of high school. She dumped me after graduation. Stopped giving a shit about bitches and focused on me. My confidence shot through the roof. I have a new girl now and she's much better than the last. Patience is a virtue.

How did you focus on boosting yourself? Im currently trying to become more independent. Most of my "friends" barely hit me up these days and ive been quite depressed working 7 days a week, how i do boost my confidence?

not but all advice ive seen is pretty standard.

>lower work sched to 5d a week
>go to gym on weekends
>meet girls there or go out on your own and meet people
>concerts, movies, etc.
>go from there

I agree it sucks to be on your own, I hardly ever go out by myself cause it feels lonely. even though you may be at a concert with thousands of people everyone is there with someone

also what do about this shit?

I mean i have a gym membership but i cant stand being there i workout everyday at my house. Ive been working cuz im triying to pay off fees from going to jail awhile back. What about talking to girls at the grocery store or just cute girls at random stores, etc or is that too autistic?

idk cause i dont do it, im autistic when it comes to females too. best i can do is recycle advice, which is just start a conversation

>"if you cant be confident, act confident"

ask em on a date, and if they're taken just say "ok" and move on to the next one.

It was hard for me because I had invested so much in my then girlfriend. I was fucked. Really depressed. Didn't help that I had moved out right after graduation and lived alone while my family moved away. I just decided what I wanted to do with my life. Focus on me. Go to work, make money. Sleep. Wake up. College. Work. Repeat. It wasn't easy. I made friends with my coworkers but they were all potheads and didn't help with shit, but it got me back around people. The rest was just me doing my thing and not giving a fuck. The girls noticed. It was hard, but even now, I'm with this new girl and I'm invested, but I won't be devastated if shit doesn't work out. No more putting all of my eggs in one basket. Fuck that noise. Focus on me and me alone. So far, it's made for a happy and healthy life. Just do what makes you happy. Find a niche. Find something to do. I produced music. Put emotions into shit like that. And don't ever make girls your immediate priority. This isn't the '50s anymore. Loyalty is hard to find, and it'll only disappoint you more if you have to learn that lesson.
>tl;dr
You do you, Sup Forumsro.

By chance is her name Brianna?

This. Some girls like shy dudes, but only if the shy dude looks like a model. In the words of Tourette's Guy, "you gotta make confidence your bitch."

I can respect that. Not the guy you're replying to but what should I do?


>TL;DR
>Girl i havent talked to since MS hits me up on IG after i liked 2 - 3 posts she put up
>"hey do you still live down in X?"
yeah, whats up?
>"I was just wodering if you wanted to hang out some time if your down for that"
Sure, sounds fun. Just let me know whenever

after that she gave me her number (didnt ask for it or hint at her giving it to me) we texted for a bit and that was it, trying to make plans for sometimes this weekend.

Nah, why?

yeah, pretty much.

Different user here. I know a recently single girl named Brianna.

In BC?

what are the chances that two (three?) random strangers on the internet know the same possibly recently single female on instagram?

Thanks man that was honestly quite heartfelt. Yeah i might as well im good at alot of things i just think whats holding me back is the mentality that i need to act a certain way to fit into my age category. I guess since im not in school and i dont talk to people much i might as well just live my own life i really appreciate that.

it depends on who you're trying to attract.

>just tryna fuck?
be the guy she thinks she wants

>tryna wife a bitch up?
be yourself, if shes not down with it, move on.

Rip tourettes guy

Go for it. Go into it with an open mind. Don't have any expectations. It might be to catch up. Might be to fuck. You don't know what her intentions are. Just meet up, talk, be calm, and enjoy yourself. I've been on many dates where I've been uncomfortable as fuck. Don't force yourself to do something you don't want, and make sure you don't get stuck in a shitty situation. Brush your teeth, comb your hair, dress comfortable and don't fuck without a rubber.

Naw US MN.

Don't do that. We now understand that men are inherent rapists. It is impossible for a woman to honestly consent to a partnership with a man. When she thinks she does so she is simply expressing an indoctrination of the aggressive patriarchy that pervades society.

Don't be a rapist, user.

nah im definitely down cause shes attractive as shiiiittt. I just get nervous if / when it comes down to fuckin for some reason.

Because it's fun to ask, what if it's the same person I'm good friends with irl. I know the chances are low but fuck it this is Sup Forums lots of stupid shit happens here.

I work at a shitty fast food restaurant, but I'm processing with my county Sheriff's Office. I want to be a cop. I talk about it all of the time because it's what I'm passionate about. That's where all of my focus is. Achieving that goal. Set yourself some goals. You don't have to be ripped or handsome. I weighed 285 at the end of last year and that's when I started dating this cute and outgoing 125lb girl. How do you think my fat ass got a girl like that? By being me. Girls love when you have a passion, mayn. Whatever it is. Until you find it, fuck 'em. They're either interested or not.

That's natural. I still get a little nervous and autismo when I fuck my girlfriend, and we fuck a lot. You're not a pornstar, so don't feel like you have to be comfortable like one.

Well i dont think id ever change myself for someone i love my character too much. But thats solid advice im glad everythings working out for you bro. Happy trails

Touche
Meh, like (maybe?) you said is just to not expect anything. IMO the odds she is hitting me up to fuck is slim, but you never know. Guess i gotta go get some rubbers tomorrow.

Good luck, brother. I hope you can be the best you can be, and remember: bitches ain't shit.

Strange because i kind of know a single girl on IG called Brianna

Where from?

You're right. You never know. But you better prep just in case nigga

TBH I dont even know if shes single, just seems odd (in the best way possible) she hits me up on IG after not having any sort of regular communication since middle school and all the sudden the pictures of her ex arent on her page anymore. If shes hittin me up to fuck thats cool but I aint tryna be a shoulder to cry on, I dont know her well enough for that shit.

This is why I sometimes love Sup Forums

Well the girl I'm talking about is a bit chubby?

Dude youre overthinking this wayyyy too much be casual about it youll never get laid with that nervous mindset

Yeah she either wants a shoulder to cry on or wants to fuck. Although the first one might lead to the later

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Yeah not the same Brianna I'm talking about.
She's skinny but got a big ass, red head, kinda goth/emo. She told me she met an old friend on Instagram from her past that she's going to hang out with. I would totally fuck her because i know she would be down but I'm in a relationship rn. If your meeting up with the girl I know I'm sure she would fuck.

yeah, i do. dunno why, but thats just how it be Sup Forumsro
could be buttfuckit, ill cross that bridge when i get there

Underrated advice, thanks user

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tbh i didnt even notice this one earlier. 11/10