I'm going to sound like an asshole, but how can I motivate my gf to lose weight? I love her...

I'm going to sound like an asshole, but how can I motivate my gf to lose weight? I love her, but I'm not particularly attracted to her anymore.

I was considering having her 'accidentally' find a folder full of naked thin girls on my pc

Show her this post.

Definitely just fucking communicate like a normal human being. It’ll be rough but for the best. Alternatively start working out yourself and maybe seeing you look fuckin good will motivate her to do the same. Also maybe looking back at older pics of her and saying “damn you look good here” or some shit like that. If she asks what you mean just then tell her the truth.

I know that feel user. My gf was a perfect skinny Asian when I met her but she is starting to let herself go. All of her family ridicules her for it, and i'm starting to find myself more attracted to her sisters. She is aware of the problem but isnt stopping her bad habits.

that will just make her insecure you dumbass. Do exercise stuff with her and eat healthy. tell her you want to get in shape and that she has to help you

Not OP, but I've done the old picture technique. It definitely worked and she definitely knew what i was talking about, but she is "comfortable with her weight gain". Kill me

consider doing something together where you get some exercise. like go for a walk or something.

>I was considering having her 'accidentally' find a folder full of naked thin girls on my pc
Yeah, that'll convince her to live a healthier lifestyle...

Oh noes! My bf is looking at porn and the girls are skinny! I must become skinny!

This is you. This is literally you right now. This is what you think will happen.

Oy vey...

OK, since I think you may be legitimately slow, do this: tell her that you're worried that her lifestyle is going to lead to problems for her in the future as she's gaining weight and that shit gets harder to lose the more you gain. Take her to the damn gym or something.

Been through this. The only thing that will save you is to gently communicate how important an active and healthy lifestyle is to you and then literally exercise with her and plan only healthy meals.

I see you like the 12 year old boy look.

RIP dude that sucks. Did anything else work? My gf isn’t exactly letting herself go but like when we met we were both in like peak condition from competitive swim. We’ve both since stopped, and I no longer have like 8 pack abs and shit and she isn’t fat or anything but she’s not toned either anymore. I don’t want her to get fat and I’d rather just prevent it before t can happen. She has shit eating habits, and never works out but has a good metabolism (for now)

Just say "Hey, I'd like to help you lose some weight and be healthier/sexier, let's go to the gym together"

If she flips her shit over that you're better off without her.

post old and recent pics of your gf

Say to her that You've noticed she's put on weight but she's carrying it well so its "surprisingly" not so bad.

Her shame should overwhelm her.

>Also maybe looking back at older pics of her and saying “damn you look good here” or some shit like that.

This. Leaving pictures of girls around for her to find could blow up and make her question loyalty and deflect the issue.

You could also feign concern and say you've noticed she's gained weight and that you're worried about health concerns, and/or that she isn't as motivated as she used to be.

Good luck dealing with the inevitable "you should love me regardless".

Since when do 12yo boys have cunts?

Take your autism somewhere else.

except hes right

Here’s the thing - you actually have to tell her. Don’t apologize. You’re totally in the right to ask her to lose weight - that’s something that people in healthy relationships do - they tell their partner when something is bothering them and ask them to fix it. Just Don’t be an asshole about it.

I was in the same situation. My girlfriend put on a little weight, maybe 10 lbs, but she was already on the cubby side of skinny. I told her “I noticed you’re gaining weight. Don’t get me wrong I love how you look, but I think you should be a little more aware of your weight.” She started running and eating better.

The thing is, if you’re already at the point where you’re not attracted to her, you need to more direct than my example. Something like “I’ve noticed you’ve put on some weight. I love you and I want us to work out, so I’d really like it if you did something about it.”

Also, it’s not a dick move to tell her you’re becoming less attracted to her (as long as you’re not a dick about it). Actually, I’d say that you owe it to her to be honest about what’s going on in your head.

You assume that the GF in question is not over sensitive like many girls are. You say 'don't be an asshole" but even girls who are not very insecure could take something which we logical men see as constructive criticism as a very personal attack and never let it go.

its not her appearance. youre just not attracted to her as a person. being passive aggressive at someone is just faggy. if my girl gained weight, i would be into bbw. if she had a dick, i'd be gay, etc.

I love how the option to "communicate like a normal human being" was almost immediately discarded by the thread.

Just tell her you want to start working out and you really want her to join so your both fit.

That's complete fucking bullshit. You can still love someone enough to die for them, but become unattracted to them sexually. Especially with your average Sup Forumstard exposing themselves to much more attractive women online every day.

My girl has fucking BPD, it doesn’t get more insecure than that. She’s not going to be happy in the moment, mine sure as hell wasn’t. She was a little sad but surprisingly understanding. I was supportive, and showed her that I was telling her this for the good of the relationship, and she appreciated my honesty. I told her (and this is important) that if she had a problem like this, I’d want her to tell me.

Make it a couples activity.
Say you're going to start working out X times a week, ask if she'd like to join you, spend some time together.

If she says no, start doing the workouts, after a few weeks ask again.

I don't know your gf, but girls tend to be kind of sensitive and take criticism personally, even the hint of a hint of criticism.

Take it slow and ease her into it, like anal.

don't beat around the bush, just tell her to stop being a fat fuck. it works everytiem.

Nice comparison there user. So far I've taken the anal virginity of every GF I've had. It's a true art of seduction.

lmao

I asked mine if she wanted to lose weight, she said she liked eating.
We talked about it for a little while and we discovered it was a comfort she found in food due to her low self esteem and other problems(very strict and unloving parents, heavy health problems during a long period of her adolescence etc.).
I convinced her to go and see a psychiatrist instead and that I'd take a rower for both of us.
She's gotten better mentally so she eats a lot less and lost a lot of weight.

TL;DR: give her the Truth

Take it to the vet and let them explain it's too fat support her for her 'health'

Yeah, I bet if your girl took dick you'd be a cuck too. Oh wait she does, and you are.

put this pic on your fridge

This. If she doesn't start working out with you, break up with her. What are you doing with a girl that doesn't work out anyway?

What's a rower?

Do not say you're becoming less attracted to her. That's a mistake.

yeah all you have to do is imagine how you would feel if you were told that.

One of these fuckers

They're what you see inexperienced overweight people using at the gym. And also your select few cardio people.

make her go vegan
she will be slim, smell fresh and feel good

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I was with a vegan girl. She smelled clean but in a strange way, almost lacking pheromones I think. And she looked unhealthy and anemic.

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show her this gif

It's not just "don't eat" if you don't exercise you'll just be skinny fat or just flat and unhealthy looking.

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just be honest with her man. if she love you, and you love her, it will be okay. much better than coming out as a pornadicted creep

Straight up told my ex she should shave her mustache(it was like lip peach fuzz). She was pissed but needed dick so she let it go. I miss her sometimes.

Sauce?

Start going to the gym on your own and start getting in shape. She'll quickly follow suit and go with you because women can't stand their dudes being hotter than they are.

Litterally most thicc (fat) chicks are fucking disgusting

>I was considering having her 'accidentally' find a folder full of naked thin girls on my pc
yeah, that will do the trick, you stupid niggot

i have same problem now with my gf.

but it's a bit like reversed...
I am nearly finished with my study and working from 8a.m. to 4.am. every single day...yesterday i felt sick, cuz i forgot to eat and drink the last days...
i have lost 15 Kilogramms in the past 2 Months and went from 85 to 70 kilogramms...

but my girlfriend seems link after i have seen her yesterday again trough skype that she gained 15 kilograms and i would not be able to nut in cs cuz i think she become disgusting....don't know how to talk to her!

Dont be a sub cuck faggot

Grow a pair, tell thw cow to lose weight or youre going to find a nice thin cutie asian to lay your seed into. Be cold. Be harsh or enjoy dating a stick of butter you inarticulate pussy

Grab your sack and man up

Pretty much same here. GF doesn't want me looking at porn, but won't take the initiative to make herself look a little better.

Ofc

the bad thing is...she was damn hot tough...period gained a bit of weight but always was a damn hottie!
But now...she is the type of girls i found disgusting...i mean i love her and stuff!
also already for about 5 years, but she seen like non attractive to me anymore and the love becomes more like to a sister cuz i know her for so long.

Talk about it from a health perspective and that you want her to work out with you

Assuming OP wants an actual solution:

Lose weight or buff up yourself and have some female friends "swoon" over you. She will get in shape or dig her claws in. If the latter, simply leave. She never was going to get in shape.

Source: female

Yeah, I get that man. I could never leave her, but I don't enjoy anything sexual whatsoever. She doesn't want me watching porn either, so I got no way to channel my sexual needs without going behind her back. Kms

>be me
>random chick "swoons" at me
>gf blames me and gets mad at me

It doesn't help that I'm a solid 8/10 and it happens about once a month...

thats the good thing about my situation right now...booze and smoking is the only needs i have atm because of all the stress i have.
But I'm scared that i have a fat bitch as a gf after i finished next semester...

>Source: female
There are no girls on the Internet.

Or just "hey let's go to the gym together" and she can figure out the implication on her own.

dump the bitch, no way out of it.
>but watch out
after you dump that swine, she will love 5-10 kg in a matter of weeks.

There are in the real world who can givr advices wich can then be written here you dweeb

Ah, good luck man. I'll take a shot for both of us.

thanks mate!

Maybe they just REALLY don't want to risk having your child

she gets mad because she's jealous you philistine. That's the idea. You're supposed to stop being a cuck for 5 minutes and let her stew on it.