I just tried to tell a girl I liked her and I couldn't...

I just tried to tell a girl I liked her and I couldn't. I was literally paralyzed by terror for like 30 minutes while we both talked about how I couldn't say anything. She either doesn't know at all or knows but thinks I'm a fucking idiot. And I am a fucking idiot. What is wrong with me. What the fuck I cannot believe myself I have known her for so long and I know she used to like me a lot but I fucked it up back then too. I don't know if she still likes me or if I'm just that pathetic friend who is already there when she's bored. All I had to do was say "I like you" and I wouldn't be so fucking ashamed right now. What the fuck

please someone reply even if you're just gonna call me a faggot

she is literally my only chance to ever be in a relationship, I can't fucking talk to any other females

Fag.. happy now?

no I still feel worthless

Just got for it. Just think about it this way. If you tell her and she doesn't feel that way anymore, yea it will be awkward at first, but that feeling will fade away. But imagine how much you have to gain from just saying a few simple words. I'm not much on giving advice. Sorry I called you a fag

it's 2:48am and I can't sleep and I don't think I'm gonna be sleeping but I can't for anything else either. I'm just laying in the dark alone with my thoughts

thank you, no worries on the fag thing. I just don't know when the next opportunity is gonna be, do I call her when I wake up? if I can't do it over the phone I certainly can't do it in person so idk. thanks for advice means a lot

How often do you 2 hang out. And is it usually you two, or is it like a group thing.

Like is a pretty neutral term. I don't see the issue saying you like someone. Love is a much more loaded term and probably should not be used unless already in a relationship.

Well it was in a situation where "like" would have made it very clear that I am more than interested in her

How about express your feelings again through letter? If you can't tell her personally then try to write it instead

gay, OP kys

stop being afraid of being rejected. it is the result you must accept and not give a shit about. the more you care about being rejected the less likely you will ever try hard for anything you care for. Grow nuts. Dont give a shit. bad result? Move the fuk on to the next.

OR maybe write a letter and don't send it, and use it as a kinda script. Then when you are around her, just think of the letter and not her. Idk

Fucking queer, s-a-g-e

Are you like 13? Afraid of cookies or something? Saying you like someone is pretty tame. Grow some balls faggot. You blew it with that chick for sure, you'll be friendzoned forever now that she saw you acting like a pussy. She'll never be able to get wet thinking about your complete lack of self confidence. Sorry to bring the bad news. Best to just get that one out of your head, if you keep on acting weird around her she's gonna tell all the other chicks what a fucking loser you were and your potential pool of chicks will dry up in your town. Find a new chick and don't be a fucking weirdo.

Im not entirely certain your plan was even legal.
You know it too, that's why you froze.

Solution,
1) fap to porn
2) play video games
3) not being put in jail = profit

this comment actually helped me the most. it's like you took all of the negative thoughts out of my head and wrote them out. it made me realize how fucking stupid they are. good try on being a fucking shithead though, better luck next time. I'm sure those ideas are manifested somewhere in your mind too, hopefully one day a degenerate like you will be there to make you realize how silly your thoughts are. like you did for me. you don't know anything but what I told you. you don't know who I am or how I act. I hope you rot alone, like you say I will. get fucked

Trust me my dude, you're overthinking the situation. She doesn't hate you or think you're an idiot. Just tell her, worst possible outcome is a slight akwardness that will blow over after an hour. Shooters shoot.

You ask for advice then get all pissy when it's not what you want to hear. More proof you're a fucking pussy

She's probably gonna fuck one of your friends now tbh

If you could fucking read you would see I wrote "this comment actually helped me the most." As for what follows, I'm just returning the fucking bitterness you gave me.

>Literally paralyzed

I did something similar, but turned out the girl liked me and she sent me underwear pics asking if that made me more confident around her. It did. We bang bang skeet skeet

hell yeah

if you’re comfortable with her just tell her that you were paralyzed or some other meta shit. Don’t if you’re still awkward around her.

Kys pussy, life's only gonna get harder after highschool

drink before talking to her, thats my strategy

yeah I like this, she is pretty understanding and knows I'm not too confident. thanks :)

Don't expect that to work for you. You fucked it up already.

OP ignore the mad samefagging guy who keeps shooting down everyone's ideas

if you fuck things up during conversation (or if you both don’t know what to say) the most efficient way out is to just start talking about the situation itself

That's what gets chicks super wet, nervous betas... I'm trying to save you here user

ITT buncha fairytale betas

holy shit dude are you still going? every comment you send is boosting my confidence further knowing I'm less and less like you

ask her how many sharpies she can fit in her pussy

good advice, thanks for the gif, cheered me up a bit :)

You're in no way like me, you are afraid of telling a chick you like her. We couldn't be more different. Grow a pair faggot

Mean

again, learn to fucking read. why don't you give it another go and reply again once you've studied my reply a few more times. absolute chimp.

this must be bait

go to bed child.

You go back and read what you said faggot

other guy is right, I'm getting baited. gj getting me this far I guess

Love you user.

abandoning this thread, ty for advice guys. I'm overreacting and I just need to tell her exactly what's goin on.

Or I'll just kms who knows.

DUDE SAME THING HAPPANED TO ME ON FRIDAY, i was fucking paralyzed and let her go, then i went after her and POOF she was gone

>17
>Go to the movies with a really good female friend I've been crushing on
>After the movie we sit in a park from midnight to 12:40 waiting for her dad to pick her up
>Fun conversation, as it always is with her
>I want to confess my feelings but can't
>She mentions wanting to talk about something
>Her dad calls and she has to leave
>I text her 5 minutes later asking what it was
>"Oh it was nothing"
>"Did you want to talk about something?"
>Still too much of a pussy
>3 years later I'd assume I'd be over it by now
>Still crushes me when I think about it
>She's in another country now too
>Not only that, but I also lost her as a friend because I couldn't deal with this, despite her being one of the rare women I respected

My point is, if youre going to lose her, might as well have it be because you had balls, because you'll lose her either way. I'm not a virgin, and have some experience with women, but as soon as my real emotions, not just pure lust, are mixed into the equation I autism hard. Don't be me OP. This fucked with my confidence and changed many aspects of my life.

ok this is very similar to what we had going on. I will absolutely take this advice seriously. sorry to hear what happened, I don't know if I could handle that. thank you

i agree
i wanted to ask a girl out
i had no balls to do it
i was waiting for like half an hour at school, only for her to say ''hi'' to me
then she went home
i grabbed my stuff as fast as i could ran after her
and i saw her cycling away

is that you drinking the gas ?

Good luck bro. If I could re-live that situation I would confess every time even though it would take me way out of my comfort zone. There is only one correct course of action objectively, only being limited by your own autism.

I fucking wish.

jk but I do like the smell

>May i borrow some of that gass
>mix it with bleach
>and lets drink it both together
>hoping it will grow us some balls

or at least take us somewhere where we don't need balls

there is a magical place called discord
its behind some sandnigger rock

You need to fix yourself right the fuck now, user. I've been through this and honestly it was probably the worst time of my life. Let me tell you a story:

Back in my highschool days, I was some loser anti-social kid with no ambitions in life. A new school year came around, and already I fucking hated it.

Then a girl came along and started talking to me and made school worth it. I barely said anything back because MUH INSECURITIES, but believe me I tried. We fell in love regardless, although we never outright said it. Some time passed and she began to think I just wasn't into her and we talked less and less. I was such a fucking idiot, banging myself over the head because I didn't know what to say to her.

Meanwhile, I've been having problems with the school. I would often skip classes out of depression and have anxiety attacks.

I started to change myself though. I convinced myself that this girl is my new light and that I could be a man of good as long as I kept up with my studies and maybe learn more social skills. But at this point the school had enough of my shit and sent me to some program a city away. I left without saying a word and the girl thought I was a piece of shit and wanted nothing to do with me.

Don't be like me, user. I had one chance to turn my life around but it all went down the drain, all because MUH INSECURITIES. Some years later I became a degenerate and unlikable NEET with no friends. Ironically, I've been building so much anger inside of me that I stopped giving a fuck about everything and i could now talk to people freely.

Just wait for beautiful women to throw themselves at you one after another. Works for me.

Want to know why this works? Because i make it about them not about me. You're focused on your insecurities, ie on yourself, not on her. Take the time to listen to her, get clear on what she thinks and feels about anything. Ask her questions to clarify what she thinks and feels... These questions are easy to ask and won't trigger your fear. Once you really know her and she knows you know there will be no need for your attempts at pompous declarations. You will already be in the relationship you seek or will know it will never happen.

Tell her: fuck me or yur mum gonna die in her slep 2nigt

OP, are you me? I am in literally the same situation. I don't know how to talk to this girl, despite I invited her for prom. I don't know how. I start shaking and my heart beats fast. How to grow balls for it? I need an advice

I knew I saved this for a reason. Good luck, bro.

ITT cucks