-I have a problem.
I need advice on my life choices. I have no one to turn to regarding this.
I am currently engaged, and my fiance is somewhat a bitch when she is ready. I work long hours and with my work, i must have all focus on it. My fiance, literally bugs the fuck out of me when working and that distraction throws me off, i'm not talking about just a distraction, i'm talking about 400+ texts, constantly calling me, after i came off the phone 2 minutes ago with her, explained to her i am working and she ignores the fact that i explained to her and just rants on about how i'm not paying attention to her.
I have cheated on her in the past and i came forth and told her. She wanted to see where this goes for us, so she decided to stay in the relationship. Given the fact that i have cheated, and she knows, she was insecure then, now she is even more borderline crazy on insecurities. Sup Forumsros, no, i am not fucking on her head currently, and that's the God honest truth.
Our arguments are always heated. I'm talking about cursing, never fought physically though, but lots of name calling and accusations being tossed around on her part, accusing me with the girl i cheated on her, and threatening to cheat on me. My parents told me that how this relationship i have is a very toxic one and that i need to get out of it. I do not know what to do
-Plot twist : The girl who i cheated on her with, her and i have (Or should i say, had) a very close-nit bond, and i can be myself around her and not worry about what comes out of my mouth, as opposed to my fiance, which is like walking on eggshells. There were times where i was at work, alone, and she came and stayed with me, we hung out, late at night while at work, looked up at the stars and admired how beautiful they were made up. She rest her head on my lap, and we chill out from night straight up to sunrise. We really got super close.
-TLDR Fiance is a bitch, cheated on her. Have strong feelings for the girl i cheated on her with
-I have a problem
Think you answered your own question. It's obvious tbh. Also, 400 texts? What the shit?
I know i shouldn't have cheated on my fiance, plus she was always a mean person towards me. My fiance buys me alot of stuff, but that don't buy my love. She always treats my like shit, always. I'm 24 and she is 32. Everytime i have a view on something, she never considers my view, always calls me a piece of shit and disrespects my family on every occasion
Mirror image of my life.
Left woman, whored around for 2 years, married a girl 17 years you get (trophy wife).
Literally best thing ever.
Yeah. I work as a police officer, and i have some off time, and sometimes i work 36 hour shifts, sometimes 48 hours without no rest (Literally no rest) And she sleeps, gets up at nights, calls me, if i dont answer, it's always accusations, that i'm fucking around on her, or i'm with the other girl. And it's nothing of that nature! I'm literally swarmed with work and i cant sit on my phone day and night tending to her insecurites
Gtfo as fast as you can and don't look back
Bro, i'm engaged 2 years now, going on 3, only because of the way she treats me. If i say "Boo", she curses me and calls me stupid and foolish, and always says that she is gonna cheat on me and everything you can think of mean, to tell your other half, she says it to me. And is like, all this pent up feelings i have, rage. makes me feel like i'm gonna implode
Your fiancé offers no pros, only cons. How is this a hard decision?
if you dont love her, leave her. pursue the girl you cheated with. but leaving someone for another is one of the worst pains. sucks to be your fiance.
Mentioning this. Fiance was a darling, she bought me a PS4, and a laptop, christmas and birthday presents. She was an angel before. And it's like, insecurites built up with my female co workers calling my phone (Which is for work purposes and nothing ontoward) and saw insecurites when she saw my childhood friend, named Anna, who i was very close with (not in a sexual way, friendship way) and that's how insecurities started
why the fuck you gotta post this big titty bitch. im on fucking no-fap
You tie that knot, it's a contract, to get out of it becomes a headache and an embarrassment.
You have the option to walk away, scot free, right now. (Although you probably just lose out on the engagement ring, which is a small price to pay for being happy).
You don't sound happy.
She sounds like a psycho.
The other chick sounds like a true friend of yours (maybe even the so-called best friend?)
Stop torturing yourself, get out.
Also mentioning this. The insecurites are so bad now, i kid you not, EVERY, and i mean EVERY night, she wants me to skype with her, to make sure i dont leave and go out and hang with friends.... I'm not kidding, literally on skype at this very moment, she is sleeping, and because i stayed with her over 2 years and give or take some months, i lost all my friends, she took my phone and removed all the females. Now i have a sausage phone (Basically a good way on putting it) I mean comon, you treat me like shit and always wanna know where i am and with who and always asking if i am cheating on her, of course i'll want to escape this and go hang with my friends for a breather.
It's like i have to report to her, on my day, who i talked to, who talked to me, what women talked to me. She even forced me to put her finger print on my phone so when i sleep, she goes through my phone (even though my phone is clean, i have nothing to hide, but still, matter of privacy)
Why are you still posting? The answer is glaringly obvious
I'm sorry bro, i have no one to talk to, no friends, no social life, no one to turn to in my time of need, but i am a police officer, everyone turns to me when they have a problem...
Who do i turn to? Sorry, pic not related
Dude. Do you not realize how insane that sounds when you just typed it?
I say leave, asap.
But if you want to try and salvage it and give her a chance, tell her how you feel about all this and that you're on the brink of leaving. If you've done that, fuck it, don't get into a bullshit marriage just for posterity or whatever.
I feel like crying, i am stuck in this fucking shit relationship. There were nights that i cried myself to sleep, because of what i did, cheated on her, and missing the other girl.. Just need all the advice i can get from unbiased people on this
So fucking dump her. How hard is that?
I mean, sure there's probably a lot of pain in the ass bullshit that comes along with it, but the decision itself seems fucking easy. Cut that bitch loose.
sorry man i didn't read the OP (and still haven't) if you really are a cop ( suggests otherwise I'm guessing) then suck it the fuck up and soldier on. Rub some dirt on it and ruck on.
Not your blog, nigger
Yes, i am a police officer irl
You gotta come to terms with it buddy, you fucked up by cheating on it, you just have to live with that fact.
But this relationship is fucked, 0 chance, it's done. Get out of it, she'll move on, you'll move on. Learn your lesson, and don't hurt people who care about you in the future.
It'll probably suck, even hurt. But if you tie the knot, you are so fucked. You would be more fucked, than when fuck came to fucked town.
were you ever military?
She also has embarrassing pictures of me, and she threatens to post it and make it viral, pics of me sleeping and of me naked while sleeping (48 hours working straight makes you sleep like a bear) so it's like, i'm trapped in a cosmic way
Nobody wants to see a naked guy sleeping, if she does post it sue her
Also I am going to come right out and saying the relationship will never work if cheating is involved. Women can only put up with that two ways, always with a chip on their shoulder or mind numbingly absent from the relationship (and usually life in general). Cut your ties and follow your heart. You will thank yourself later. Leave the fiance.
You should move on. You obviously don’t see it working long term
All right, now I know you're full of shit.
What are you? Insecure? If she does anything with em, own up to it or claim that revenge porn shit against her.
Yes, i was. I am hardcore on the outside, but a softie for my fiance, gotta deal with that shit
Solid advice in this thread OP.
Stop being a cunt and follow it.
ok i feel ya sort of but I am probably harder than I should be with my wife, good luck.
Cut your ties and deal with the repercussions. You know that the longer you draw this out the worst it will get. Sometimes you just have the face the music and see how the cards play out. You're going to drive yourself crazy if you continue cohabitating with something like that in your life.
I will take the advice and i will leave her. And i will pursue the other girl. I will post an update on Monday 18th December 2017, and will provide and update at 11:55pm, around this time. Thank you all. Screenshotting to make sure i stay on the right course
She wants you to take charge, throw her across your knee, spank that ass hard, and then fuck her from behind hard. That will be the wettest pussy you will ever have.
Gianna I so want to be her sex bitch
Pic, very much related, i'm not kidding, real life shit i just poured out. Thanks all
Lifes too short, be with the one who makes you happiest. Seriously you could drop dead at any time and you have to look at the legacy you'll be leaving behind.
I did... i fucked her hard, banged her, and that's one of the reasons she isnt letting me go, hard fucker and well, job security
lol are you crazy, why are you still with this animal
GTFO ASAP
Yes, i will do that bro. Thank you
The next time we fight (which will be in the morning, i don't even have to cross my fingers, i am sure we are gonna have a falling out for whatever) i will break up with her
Since you are on b, you should hook up with a tranny to see how gay you are
ill be checking back
use a code word so i can filter and/or search for future thread.
***accidentally*** stick it in the wrong hole
Very far from being gay lol
i will be updating on Monday 18th of December 2017 at 11:55pm. Nice dubs btw
Look for the key words "Fiance was a bitch"
Or just "fiance" that could suffice
I did that as well lol
nice dubs my Sup Forumsro
nice dubs my Sup Forumsro
Ur a loser and youre attracted to losers. Try some self awareness.
Thank you. Much love
I admire constructive criticism, i will try self awareness
My fiancee is the shit. Makes me laugh. Would do anything for me. Let's me hang out whoever I want, whenever I want. Sends me nudes. Will let me do whatever I want to her. Whenever I want to.
Works out 5 days a week and has an amazing body. She's my best friend and I can't imagine being married to anyone else. She genuinely loves me for who I am and I love her for who she is.
So it sucks to be you lol. You shouldn't have cheated. Loser.
Gianna has been my favorite for years. Bitch has so much expression and geniunely seems to have a good time.
Yeah i shouldn't have cheated. At the same time she shouldn't have been an insecure brat when my female co-workers called me for work and going off on seeing how close my friend Anna was to me.
On a next note, that story you typed seemed too good to be true. At the end of the day, lying is still a sin
you are dumber than your fiancee
And you're adopted.
> (OP)
>She also has embarrassing pictures of me, and she threatens to post it and make it viral, pics of me sleeping and of me naked while sleeping (48 hours working straight makes you sleep like a bear) so it's like, i'm trapped in a cosmic way
The brotherhood of blue will take care of that shit for you in a hurry bro. I'm no bacon lover, but as a fellow bro, you're not helping you or her atm. She needs to be single until she's lost her paranoia and you need to do whatever you need to do to move on without her. It's only a good thing to split now, if you can't imagine it getting worse it will. I had two years of similar and it takes time to get over but getting over it is well worth it. Be your own man again, beholden to no-one. Walk around naked in your own castle, farting like a trooper and scratching your arse then wiping your finger on a curtain, like a man should. She's got you in a cage and there's no good will come of it.
Captcha: Einfahrt - gotta be a good omen.
Look, dude. You are so anxious about this shit you are trying to get unrelated opinions from "outside third parties" to validate the decision you already want to make.
When you close your eyes and think about your future, what's the fucking answer? And I don't mean, "is she there or not bro?" I mean, take a screenshot of that and look at it for what it is.
Also, given how you worded your post I'd say that you're seeing this entire situation as a dichotomy, but it doesn't have to be. You don't have to predicate leaving your fiance, while thinking about the connection you have with new girl.
If you poison that stream, you will drag baggage filled with pollution into that relationship and it won't feel much better for very long. Aside from that, part of the excitement may be the part where it was cheating, that shouldn't be forgotten.
> If you're gonna leave your fiance, do it on the merits of your relationship with her only.
> If you leik Side Bitch™ then execute the breakup and take things up at a slightly slow pace.
> If you post on internet forums for advice because your anxious mind can't decide, you're really looking to evade the responsibility of making any decision, and trying to figure out which the most "understandable" might be. Most likely you have an impulse desire, and a more rational desire, worse yet, you know what you want to do, but you also know that it's dangerous. Every doubt that gets brought up here will continue this cycle of anxiety.
>> Make a decision, even if that decision is to really consider everything. If you do this.... Set a reasonable deadline and stick to it.
go to hell motherfucker with your blog
I hope she divorces you and takes your money piggy
Yes i understand
Thank you for your advice
the advice has not fallen on deaf ears