19 years old, kissless, sexless. Barely have any contact with females, when I had a chance it was snatched from me by one of my best friends. it turns out he talked shit about me and it convinced the girl I adored so much. I didn't find out until way longer that he had a hand in what happened, she just started ignoring me very ruthlessly, that happened about a year ago, this had really impacted my already fucked self confidence and the image that I see myself in.
do I kill myself yet?
pic related.
Brody Jenkins
You look like a fat Che Guevara.
Lose some weight and lose your "friend"
Sebastian Rogers
If you look like that just beat the shit out of your friend.
Oliver Robinson
my neck, my back, lick my pussy and my crack
Jackson Roberts
Use tinder
Christopher Sanchez
he's a bit larger than me, in weight and height. we're still close friends but every once in a while this memory/the realization of how much of a faggot I am haunts me and I cry myself to sleep.
Sebastian Stewart
Kill your friend before you kill yourself
Benjamin Davis
Look handsome but you gotta stop eating junk tubby boy
Run, do some pull-ups. First time you want to eat during the day, don't. Drink a coffee and wait 2 hours. Then eat clean.
Zachary Cox
that actually sounds like a good plan, but I wouldn't kill another person.
Adrian Wilson
If he did it once, he's probably doing it again. Fuck him up, he's no friend
Owen Sanders
>we're still close friends you're probably both in school together, so you're just friends by proximity.
if this shit haunts you enough to make you actually cry yourself to sleep about, his friendship is probably not worth it. cut him out of your life and find some new friends, you're worth more than that, user.
Caleb Young
I didn’t do any of that shit til I was 22 and now I’m a weirdly desirable commodity for women. Just keep pushing yourself to try new things and meet new people, go to therapy, etc.
Sebastian Morgan
Beat up your friend, it'll make you feel better
Leo Cruz
I appreciate it but this has been said to me many times.
I'm at a point where I'm thinking fuck it all.
Camden Morgan
Then just fuck him up or get someone to fuck him up
Nathaniel Williams
actually it's because his father and mine's are very very close friends, he's the first person I met when I arrived 5 years ago to Romania.
Owen Reed
Why, you literally got handed a bag of top-tier facial genetics. Even if you didn't lose weight you could probably score a top-tier girl. In HS some fat dude I knew had this legit 10/10 gf that lasted the entire duration of school.
You have gifts OP, don't waste them like a bitch. If you stop being pathetic you can definitely get laid. I managed it, so can you.
Hunter Ward
Take that dick out of your mouth, Omar.
Isaiah Bailey
Hahaha, i knew someone would comment on that.
Easton Peterson
Thank you user, and thank everyone for the support. I know this isn't the place for a shitty sob story but i'm really happy that i got to speak out what's in my heart for a while.
William Moore
>guy talked shit about you >still close friends fucking hell either kill that relation or if he's such a "close friend" talk to him about how much of an ass he is or maybe you enjoy being a cuck?
>19 yo you should soon realise that you shouldn't give a fuck about what others say about you, especially if it's not true
Brody Thomas
I got laid at 19 but I had to work at it. Dating sites, lots of profile, spent weeks talking to a girl that lived 2~ hours away, made plans to meet, followed through. Got laid.
Most important thing is to put in effort. You can't get laid never going anywhere or doing anything. Having people in your life that sabotage you is a big no-no. Just ghost your friend. Ex communicado. Ignore, ignore, ignore. Do not respond. If pappy asks what's going on explain why it's over with friend. He had you so I'm sure he'll understand on some level.
We all exist because of sex.
Daniel Allen
I forgot to mention that she's no longer ''hating me'' or some shit like that. we did speak a couple of times over chat but that was very long ago. I have a painting I made for her on her birthday and she liked it, will post in a moment.
Benjamin Ward
It's rather difficult when your friends are few.
He did me a lot of favors and found me a place for work too, even pulled strings for me when the interviewer didn't like me. (he was working in the same company) this fucking dilemma.
Andrew Phillips
there it is, I'm still a novice when it comes to art. but I really pushed myself to paint this, oh it's digital if it wasn't clear. (ofc it is)
Michael Hernandez
Have you ever confronted him about the time he cockblocked you though?
Either you never mentioned it, and he's not smart enough to pick up on it. Or you did and he just doesn't care. If it's the former, you need to tackle it. Make him realize how he fucked up. I held a grudge against my bro for years for doing the exact same thing. If he did it again, that would be the end.
If it's the latter, he's not your friend. Friends do not fuck over friends. Drop his ass. You owe him no favors.
Luke Bell
It's never too late. If you kill yourself you give all those pieces of shit the satisfaction of beating you.
You don't need that sloppy whore or that fake friend. What you need is confidence in yourself that you can get what you want and deserve it also.
Sebastian Young
I have, but it wasn't direct. the conversation just ventured over there. I think I forced myself to ignore and forget because of how devastated I was at the time of realization when this girl started ignoring me like that and giving me really fucked looks. I didn't escalate the case.
Owen Hill
He's right, this kid is not your friend but maybe you can still keep him as an acquaintance.
You need to slowly (and sometimes painfully) figure out who your real friends are and when someone reveals themselves for who they are treat them as such.
William Turner
Don't reply to this, just consider: did he do all that shit for you after or before you confronted him? Maybe it was his mea culpa.
If it was before, maybe he felt entitled. But if he knew you liked the girl, he's just a malicious asshole.
Bentley White
op.
brown guy is the ''friend'' i speak of.
Hunter Taylor
..................as much as killing yourself is an option,dont do it. Theres nothing about your situation that is so bad you need to end it all.
Just sell your virginity to a prostitute,get your dick wet and be done with it.
Elijah Hill
So a "friend" did you dirty? Suck it up, get up, get on with it!
Nathan Martin
>we're still close friends Wat? Dude, he's not your friend. He's an untrustworthy asshole that deserves a thrashing, however long ago it was.
Carson Hughes
both are brown, nice try ahmed.
Hudson Sanders
me selling my virginity to a prostitute would be the ultimate loser flag that i stab myself with. which means that I cannot get laid by normal means.
Gabriel Bell
user, you dont have to worry, lose some weight and work out a little bit. Let time grow your pubic- hair beard to a man- beard, and you will not be able to save yourselfs from all the Pussy you get. Believe me!
Leo Nguyen
well the browner one. on the left.
Adam Evans
jump your "friend" with a baseball bat or your a nutless waste.
Parker Morgan
Not at all.
You fuck a few whores,actually learn how to talk with women and be around them.......and itll build up your shit tier confidence.
The ultimate loser flag would be to stay in this state,and become a wizard. Is that what you really want to happen?
Jeremiah Sanders
wrong. hitting a ho will take away the mystery and give you confidence. your v-card is not a precious gift.
Brandon Gray
shave your fuckin chinstrap. makes my brother looks like shit with a chinstrap, and looks less like shit without it.
Juan Howard
this thread might just be my turning point in this life. I haven't had so many people talking to me at the same time about this.
i dont take photos of myself so i only have a few when im out smoking a shisha with some friends. (just to prove that OP is speaking here)
Angel Brooks
Ruin your "friend" life first, retard
Cameron Collins
Yeah no fucking is cool and all but pizza is pretty much on the same level dont kys yet man im only not virgin since i hit 18 am a fitboi and have a gf who i dick hard now
Dylan Kelly
waaaahhh I feel so bad for myself :(((
I'm so important, that the world is personally out to get me :((((
why do all that bad things happen to me? poooor me :(
it's all my friends fault! I n-never do anything wrong!
>actual inner monologue of OP
Oliver Ortiz
Beat the living shit out of "friend"
Noah Sanchez
its not about the precious virginity and more so about my dignity as a man, if I have to basically buy a service to get laid that would leave me thinking to myself of how incapable I am.
Other user said that I can take it as a way to get familiar with sex and interacting with women, it might be healthy for me. Ive been actually thinking a little about it.
Jason Roberts
I'm just speaking out my heart in a place I feel comfortable in. what makes you think that I think to myself that I am perfect and its the world's fault? I am in full knowledge of whos fault it is, thats what makes me feel shittier.
Easton Howard
grow dafuq up and take this advice man. fuck a hot ho and decouple yourself from the mind that's holding you back.
i wish i had this advice as a 20yo. took me 15 years to get it together.
Henry Howard
believe it or not op, you'll get over it. keep wrestling with your self-doubts; don't give up. you'll figure it out.
Ryan Morris
I hope so.
I was living happily in Syria, I loved our house there and I loved the neighbors, I would've eventually got engaged at around 20-22 through arranged means (its rather traditional in arabic countries) and live my life just like that. I really wouldn't have minded such a turn of events. But we all know what happened to Syria.
Brandon Gonzalez
Pro tips: 1. Shave. 2. Get a fucking haircut from a BARBER, and nothing douchey or modern. Just get a classic medium fade with 2-3 inches ontop. You can do so much with that cut. 3. Improve your hygiene. No one wants to fuck someone who smells like ass. 4. Get some NORMAL t-shirts and some jeans that actually fit you. Lose all of your faggy ass accessories. Nobody gives a fuck about your weeb bs. 5. Be yourself. Inb4 hurrr durr ur tellin me to change so how can I be myself. What I mean is that you need to take those better angels of your nature and display them. Be kind, be polite, make eye contact, compliment her (sfw) and LISTEN MORE THAN YOU TALK.
Take this seriously. It's okay that you have zero experience. Look at it as a journey, one which will eventually lead to a partnership and expand into a shared journey. Grow. Explore. Be positive. Be confident.
Do what I say and I can almost gaurantee you some pussy.
All of those faggots saying hurr durr white knight this, good guys finish last, etc are fucking neckbeard virgins who don't know shit about the female psyche.
Kevin Butler
Where are you from? You seem like you are Saudi or some other gulf country
Asher Evans
Not related but what flavor of sheesh does OP like?
Adam Harris
tips considered, much appreciated.
but I never wear accessories, not even watches. I, like you. find weeb shit on public equaly cringey.
Nolan Nelson
I'm from Syria.
Henry Phillips
Two Apples all the way from Al-Fakher! or altefahten in arabic.
Isaiah Thompson
Where do you live now?
Brayden Lewis
Tried lots of flavours in Egypt a few years ago, Two Apple was my favourite too.
Connor Johnson
Me again I like op cuz I like Hookah let me give you some small tips.
1. Read this. 2a. If you decide it’s what you like: Read The Mystery Method 2b. If you decide It’s not the life you want to live you still gained excellent information. 3. Read How Win Friends & Influence people 4. Listen to The Art of Charm
All these things helped me duder
Landon Baker
Try reading the thread dude.
Zachary Garcia
Thank you, will try them.
Owen Reyes
Getting laid should be the natural result of lifestyle changes that will pay off in many more ways than just getting your dick wet. Lose some weight (keto worked very well for me), develop your hobbies/interests, and cut toxic people out of your life. All of these will improve your confidence, and women will pick up on that and flock to you. Godspeed buddy.
Juan Allen
Romania. I live as a citizen though, ive been to romania before. my father studied here in his youth. just thought i might clear that.
Brayden Adams
fpbp
Henry Clark
If theres a wedge in your friendship and you give a fuck about maintaining it you gotta talk that shit out. Anandoning friends is a shitty way to live, and wverybody fucks up. We all have a spark of the divine and your feelings are as valid as anyone elses. Dont be an asshole, dont be a whiny faggot, take responsibility for yourself.
Oh and dont listen to that tard who said to skip breakfast, that is terrible weightloss advice
Jack James
I'd also add the book "Models" by Mark Manson. Drastically improved my game.
Hunter Harris
lose weight and get a nicer haircut and you'll look great
Gavin Perez
eh
there's a gazillion girls out there, you're bound to find one that's interested in you. letting one lost girl drive you to suicide is kinda dumb
Hunter Bell
No buddy, you shouldn't. Keep on living and keep on trying.
Brody Sullivan
I think you are fuckable. 21f
Isaiah Bailey
its not the girl that got me this fucked up. its the many works of life that got me depressed, like barely crossing the borders in syria leaving behind a lot, being fat, poor etc. not denying that she played a big part of this gunshot of a hit the self confidence.
Lucas Perez
Get some tinder going my man. If you're apprehensive about getting intimate with a chick due to lack of experience, then honestly just bang an uggo and get it out of the way. "First times" are overrated anyway. The ability to stop putting pussy on a pedestal is crucial in the attraction of a woman.
James Gray
no because men have their prime in their 30's. Get a good job/education and you're golden bro. Also ayy on the hookah.
Logan White
Stop giving a fuck about some ho. He is clearly an Alpha as you are beta, I assume. It's not a big deal as that's just how the world works. Plenty of fish in the sea or goats in the barn as you guys like to call it right?
Logan Bailey
i am currently in a preparatory year for Romanian language and I will be studying automation and applied information next year.
Ayden Edwards
>friend sleeps with gf
I know that feel. Just remember, he was not your friend, and she was not worth your time. Even if you can't get any otherwise, that is disrespectful, and negates any primal urge to fuck. If you want it bad enough, you'll get it. Don't be down about sex. It's not all there is to life. It's more important that you realized where you stand, regarding your relationships.
Leo Jenkins
OP here. >goats in the barn
dude, that was fucking hilarious. thanks
James Taylor
Dude, regardless of anything that's happened since, the experiences you probably had leaving your home would fuck any of us up. The girl could have just brought it on.
David Wood
I thought I made it clear that it isnt sex that I wanted.
I am more in need of the affection, creating memories. sex never has been everything for me.
Kayden Robinson
Because you're a fucking dumb ass faggot who can't comprehend that life is not about pussy. It is all about personifying yourself as another character you adore and building your confidence in that skin. That's what attracts girls.
Jackson Martinez
There you go. I only help Sup Forumsros that are similar to me in personality/experience. We would get along.
Easton Smith
Well thanks, I guess. but i forgot to mention that I have a barely average penis.
Austin Clark
Sup Forumsrofist!
William Murphy
You should learn illusion. That's how I get by
Caleb Anderson
Illusion? some kind of magic/optical trick?
William Peterson
Well I have only been in one relationship and my partner had an average dick size. I have nothing to complain about, the sex was great.