So I have a problem with a friend suffering depression
I know he has already suffered from depression in the past, before we met, but he managed to get out of that He has helped me a lot in the years, he's really an important person for me, and I really can't stand seeing him like this Without him I might be depressed myself, he was the one that always helped me with this stuff, but now he's the one that needs help and I have no clue on what to do.
Tl;dr: Important friend is depressed and I don't know what to do
You either suffer with him or get your own life you pathetic faggot.
Leo Roberts
diet, exercise, hobby, find people with similar hobby I used to be manically depressive but i got a hold of myself although I still have episodes about once a month. things get better OP
Caleb Adams
Help him do it.
Chase Adams
I actually had no clue of it until it snapped earlier today, he really made me worry Now he just wanted to sleep
Jose Mitchell
No disrespect but you’ve come to the wrong place to ask that question, sorry
Josiah Lewis
Have him see a professional experienced in dealing with depression. You may need to push him into doing it at little because as with most people who are fucked up in one form or another, they aren't completely aware that they have the ability to fix their own fucked-up-ness. They just need guidance.
Justin Davis
Have you tried dressing up in an assless fursuit and putting stuff in his butt? that always snaps me out of my depressive episodes.
Isaac Carter
Do you guys think that talking about it with his parents or gf might be a good idea?
Grayson Wood
pls guys Think about having a friend that cares about you and just wants you to be happy Wouldn't you want one?
so you're just gonna ignore my fursuit suggestion? some friend you are
Jonathan Powell
>diet, exercise, hobby, find people with similar hobby >diet, exercise, hobby, find people with similar hobby >diet, exercise, hobby, find people with similar hobby
dis
I also may be that friend OP is talking about because this is my exact situation right now. Probably not, but synchronicity is neato.
>diet, exercise, hobby, find people with similar hobby Is what worked for me the first time. I just need a few days/hours to get over what caused it and pull my shit together again. Maybe your friend needs the same. Just text the fag and ask to hang out or do hobbies or something. Distractions are nice for the time being.
Lincoln Hill
Show him photo and he will be happy he doesnt look like that
David Scott
It probably wouldn't help as they are both part of his environment and likely contributors to his depression as well, it might even make things worse. Good intentions don't equal good advice, as they say "the road to hell is paved with good intentions". He needs an external support where he can talk about them freely too.
Ayden Jenkins
>part of his environment and likely contributors to his depression as well This is based on a series of assumptions. Not the person who posted this, but that may invalidate the advice if that's not the case. Just my two cents. My parents help/ed me out of my depression
Adam Parker
What do I do if he doesn't want? Lately he doesn't want do anything, not even the things that he liked to do like working out, playing games or drawing Should I just force him?
Thanks, that seems true
Andrew Wright
Nah, dude. He'll pull away if you try to force him into anything. That's what I would do, anyways. Just keep giving him opportunities. Time heals all wounds. Except mortal wounds, I guess.
Mason Gomez
If he's a good dude, you might be able to coax him out of his hole by telling him you need his help to not be bored while you lift or draw or whatever. It's nice to feel wanted when you're depressed. I dunno, man, I feel like I'm suggesting all this advice based on my own views. Seems kinda dubious how useful the advice might be in your situation. I think I'll stop, here. GLHF
Tyler Diaz
So being there as a friend like he has been for me Seems quite obvious hehe
I think I'll keep being super present for him and help him for anything that he needs to
Really sucks to see someone you care about like this
Thomas Clark
It's true user, that's an assumption of mine. I did say likely because it is likely. The people closest to you are usually wrapped up in your depression in one form or another. I'm not saying it's their fault or they can't be helpful - they can be helpful. But relying on part of the environment that may contribute to his depression isn't usually the best idea. There's no guarantee at all that his family or gf will have good advice, even if they think it's in his best interest. He should see a professional who has no conflict of interest.
Luke Johnson
Iktf, bro. Iktf. Sounds like you have a plan; bon chance. Seeing how caring you are for your friend has inspired me to eat for the first time in over 24 hours, m80. Thanks. Have a good one.
Austin Lopez
>The people closest to you are usually wrapped up in your depression in one form or another. I could agree with that. I just wanted the opposite sentiment out there for OP to consider. Peace, Sup Forumsrother.
Julian Sullivan
Don't worry mate, anything helps, that sounds quite nice actually, I might try that
Heh, that's flattering to hear Hope everything turns out fine for you to in the end
Dylan Bailey
Thanks guys, I think I've found some nice advices from all of you, hope they'll work out for him
He used to tell me that good times will eventually come, I'm sure it will be the case, for you guys too
Henry Harris
Be a friend. Keep offering friendship even when he says no but don't let him "no" you 5 out of 5 times. Push a little every now and then, only with the small insignificant things. Do some legwork and research yourself, get a little educated and when he asks for help then you'll have something for him. Ask around and get the number of a respectable local therapist. Hell, call the therapist yourself and ask for some quick free advice on what's the best way to approach it. It doesn't matter if you're a 15 year old kid who doesn't know anything, a respectable therapist will give you 5 free minutes, especially if you seem like you genuinely want to help your friend - just don't mention the word "suicide". Just my 2 cents.