I recently started having problems with ED, guys.
Any advice?
>25
>broke up with a girl a couple weeks ago
>started seeing another girl. Absurdly hot.
>Can barely get erections around her. I've always taken a long time to cum but getting hard has never been a problem.
>I think my problem is that I'm so anxious about it that I'm constantly thinking about trying to get my dick hard and not actually paying attention to arousing thoughts/situations
>feels like I have no libido all of the sudden
Lose weight Tubby
I'm 5'7" , 130lbs. I run a mile every single day.
Man the fuck up you little bitch.
>manlet confirmed
abandon thread
Performance anxiety... therapy helps. Main concern is anxiety
yeah I think that's really it.
How get over it tho? techniques? successes?
Your having problems with a horse?
>started seeing another girl. Absurdly hot.
With the new information you've just given us, I'm calling bullshit on this
Oh you
you're evidently intimidated by this highly attractive woman. you probably perceive her to be higher in sexual marketplace value than yourself and as such are anxious about whether or not you're good enough in general. and this anxiety is seeping into your sexual performance and affecting it negatively.
simple solution. stop caring.
she's just a woman. a collection of holes for your use. use her like a piece of meat. because that's all she is, she might look a bit more appetising than a piece of meat on a slab but that's how you need to perceive and treat her.
both of these girls are attractive, yes.
and both are quite short.
Being a Manlet automatically makes you feminine. Embrace your gayness and become a trap.
yeah I think that's it.
this new girl is a stripper and she's barely 21.
I am very feminine. but I don't see what that really has to do with wanting to fuck guys.
Kek, we got ourselves a faglet everyone
It’s a self fufilling prophecy. You worry it will happens so it happens. As long as you fear it occuring it will occur... think to yourself. If this happened. What about this is so bad?
I never said I was straight.
I just said that my current partners are female and that I find them both quite attractive.
wait if what happened, what about (it) is so bad?
How often do you jerk off to porn, OP?
Medication could help create a couple of successful experiences, help you focus on the fun part and show you that you can work as intended.
My doctor prescribed me cialis to try and beat ED as a result of anti depressants.
Get a std test. Faggit
I used to jerk off like 2-5 times a day and then when I got with my ex, we used to fuck 1-3 times a day. But now I don't jerk off very much at all. maybe once every couple days, once every three.
strippers are typically loud and boistrous as well, so you're probably having trouble establishing dominance over her and that's adding to your performance issues. if you feel intimidated by her, then you feel she overpowers you, therefore you feel you cannot hold dominance over her, and that sense of dominance is necessary for natural sexual relations between a man and a woman from a man's perspective.
so you have two choices. stop giving a fuck. about her, or about her opinion. just jump right into the situation and think this, it's a win / win for you. either you do well or don't, you win, you either have a good time or you learn and have an opportunity to better yourself. that's how a man progresses through life.
your other option is to give up and become submissive and rewire your brain gradually to sexualise submission, which will likely end up with you being a typical Sup Forums fag who doesn't think traps are gay and who would rather be someone's bitch than even attempt to be a butch 'cause low self esteem.
Stop watching porn multiple times a day.
Post nudes of her, doubt she's a hot as you say
I see where you're coming from and I'm usually very dominant sexually and I think that has a lot to do with it.
however, I have acted as a sub a few times before and found it to be pleasurable too. The thing problem with this situation tho is that she's not dominant enough for me to get into that mindset. it all just feels kind of awkward.
And I get the erectile problems when I'm by myself too. like I can't just watch porn and get hard.
Does it really matter?
If she's not hot, you'll just talk shit but it won't affect the way I see her.
If she is, you'll just say that I'm lying.
ok so it sounds like overall you're having somewhat of an identity crisis. you're somewhat fluid but you can't keep up with your own fluidity, so I believe to some degree you're trying to force yourself into being fluid and as a result are creating imbalance within yourself.
whatever you're doing, and whatever you've been experimenting with, isn't doing you any good. you're becoming confused on some level and confusing your biology / psychology and causing imbalance as a result. so IMO you need to return to your root of masculinity and get more in touch with that and your inherent natural affinity for dominance.
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