Bored BDSM instructor willing to answer you Sup Forumsastards questions about sex and BDSM

Bored BDSM instructor willing to answer you Sup Forumsastards questions about sex and BDSM.

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Hey nice to see you're making a habit for these threads. Ok my GF really want to learn try fistting. Any tips on how to do it right?

like anal you have to train the body before you can actually do it. find her limit in fingers and slowly introduce more fingers. after the third finger you will need to start making a shadow puppet duck shape with your hand. (make sure to tuck your thumb into the concave down space created by your hand. Train with the position until your knuckles are inside.

Congrats you just fisted your GF.

I want to be abused and sexually humiliated but BDSM seems too permission based, I just want a girl to do it and force me to be submissive.

so you want to do consensual nonconsent play. find a girl and tell her what you want and tell her she doesn't need your permission to do it.

Or if you want to really go head first into it. find a play party near you and go to the party dressed up as something that give off the sense innocence. With a message written on you (paper is ok but body paint is better) saying you want a woman to take advantage of you. Now all you need to do is talk to women and go fishing. They will see the message on you and will either take you up on the offer or just continue chatting. I would be careful though. You can easily get involve with some extreme kinks that may put you in a bad head space.

How many fat chicks are there at play parties?

Not as much as you think but enough to see a trend.

what kind of things happen at a play party?

play parties can have a variety of things happening. From the basic sex, shibari, and impact play to the more extreme stuff like hook suspension, blood, and whipping scenes.

Are kinky bitches easy?

bitches: yes
Women: no

Yes, kinky bitches are all whores

How do you find people who are into bdsm?

make a fetlife profile and look through the events that happen in the nearest major city. chances are you will find at least one group to meet up at a munch.

By continuously replying to your own thread when no one else cares

whats the difference

I think I'm a sub, but I don't like obeying. I like the punishment from not obeying and I like being told what to do even though I don't obey it right away. I like to be punished into subbing. Is this normal female sub behavior or am I deep down dom?

I'm fairly vanilla and my girlfriend is into tie-up bond ge and wants to be dominated. How does a normy go about getting into domination as a beginner? Thanks

I love it when you can prove someone wrong so easily.

Up until the sudden influx of posts there were 3 separate posters and 15 replies, you're still a faggot.

bitches are for one night stands and women are for everything else.

All women are bitches to be used for sex

>user admits they were wrong
>still calls OP faggot

apology accepted

your a bratty sub. It's not uncommon at all. I personally like bratty subs because complete submission is kind of boring. I like to see them slowly behave after being punished for being a bratty little sub.

All these posts are from the same person, I've been watching this thread from the start, after that OP reset their IP. You're an autistic faggot.

BDSM instructor? So...typical guy that has imagination? Come on dude, it's roleplay... calling yourself a BDSM instructor is like a hooker calling herself an andrologist.

being dominate is a skill like anything else. It will take time to develop a dominate personality. It's not about exerting dominance but being comfortable having power over someone.

as for getting into tying up your GF I would recommend buying some shibari rope from etsy or online and learn some basic rope skills. nothing fancy just basic double column ties.

surprisingly you can learn a lot about shibari from youtube.

I've been paid to teach classes for about 4 years now. It's not the kind of money you can live off of but only a handful of instructors really can.

I'm a kinky person. I love feet and would love to get dominated by a girl but would also love to dominate the shit out of a whore, make her plead for me to stop. what the fuck can I do? fetlife isn't an option for me as I live in a shithole tiny town in europe. I guess I'll never get a chance to do anything kinky and be forced to have a vanilla life...

yea I can't really help you if you live in the middle of nowhere. You best bet is to either visit a major city to attend to play parties or to move to a major city to attend play parties. You could make your own community in your town but that would mean being open about your desires to everyone.

What are your classes called?

It changes based on the subject but for the basic ones I usually go with bdsm 101: scene negotiation, shibari 202: TK, etc

even if I move to a bigger city I don't know if there would be any good chances of getting to a play party, Italy is backwards as fuck about sex. if I'll ever move to a foreign country I think I would have lots of occasions. the closest parties I found were in Milan and I don't wanna travel through all Italy just to get my rocks off

Hey questions about this stuff. I'm on FetLife, but scared to go to munches, since I'm pretty young (22). What is the average age for munches and play parties. I'm also trying electric play, I like the pain, would you recommend a tens unit or a Nova wand? Also any YouTube channels you would specifically recommend for shibari? I know a few just curious if you have a favorite

give me the nearest major city you live by.

Am I going to die alone as a 30 year old bi male kitten with almost no feminine qualities? There is no real scene for anything besides rope for hundreds of miles and I cant afford the "local" play party, much less even get to it.

the closest would be Ancona. Rome is close too but it costs too fucking much

the average age can vary pretty wildly from group to group. if you're 22 and are looking for people around your age then you should look up TNG groups. They are for people ages 18-35 and are more often or not pretty active in the community.

get a violet wand for electricity. tens unit is too powerful for most beginners.

this is a good channel I like to go to.
youtube.com/user/CrashRestraint/videos

Go to the rope events and get to know the people there. More often than not the people who attend the rope events also go to other kink events so you'll find more opportunities to attend munches and parties.

My gf is always wanting to be in control. I've got as far as bending her over my knee and spanking her but never able to go farther. How can I get her into some bondage? X of mine was a sub and would let me do whatever I wanted (crotch rope, nipple clamps, sprrad eagle tied to the bed, you name it).

wow it's really slim picking in Itally. I couldn't even find your city. hopefully this list of italian events could help you a bit more than I can.

fetlife.com/countries/108/events

So it's like going to the bar to meet women. Because I'll be bored as fuck and not really meet anyone. Awesome.

You be surprise at how welcoming people in the community are. They won't blow you off if you show genuine interests in them outside of wanting to fuck them.

How long can a girl where nipple clamps before serious injury? My gf and I use them often but I never really know when to take them off. Her nipples scab from time to time because of them

talk to your GF and share each other desires. If she's willing to be spanked then I can almost garuntee you that she has some kinks of her own that she wants to do as well.

Find what desires you have in common and explore those together. Also consider trying something that she would like and in return she will do something you will like.

Communication is the key to awesome sex. :)

Follow up question. How much weight is too much for a crotch rope? I lead my gf around the room by her rope often but I want to use some weights on it

Oh no, fucking isnt inportant, meeting people is. I don't let my hormones rule me. What I meant is, it's going to be difficult and unpleasant, like going to the bar just to meet women is for me.

>instructor
Right, cause it's good when everybody fucks the same way as you and nobody thinks for themselves.

They are probably scabbing because you pull the nipple clamps while she's wearing them. If your worrying about circulation then remove them if the nipples start change colors.

Hey op you like 50 shades of gray like the faggit you are?

She's kinda willing. Ends up squirming out of it after no more than 5 soft spanks both times I've spanked her. I do pull in her nipples during sex. Maybe I could try and mention clamps to her

Pulling is half the fun! I've always wanted to tie too around her nipples. How does one do that?

as much as she can handle. The pussy is durable as fuck (watch a woman give birth and you'll see why). like all shibari, It's all about rope placements. I can't really tell you how to do it because shibari instructions are difficult to type out.

Good to know. I'm thinking 10 lbs is a good start

lol you think BDSM has to involve fucking. That's adorable.

Also, I've told her I want her to wear clamps to class under her clothes. Is 50 minutes too long for light clamps like hair pins?

go with something lighter at first like 2 lbs then work your way up to more weight.

2 seems too weak. I'm a cruel dom, she deserves the punishment :)

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Q: How sexy is a picture of a girl biting half her lip
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I like how it made BDSM less taboo but I hate how miss informed the author is about BDSM. Literally all of it is shit.

I want her walking around with it suspended

lmao. fuck off you bitter faggot and go get laid

It can be especially if she is wearing clothes that press the nipples against her clothes.

To share her a little :)

These are what she wears usually

still 10 lbs is a lot for constant pressure. do 5 instead.

You said the pussy is durable!

I could care less about a girl biting her lip. All I want from her is to show some enjoyment from all the fucked up shit I'm about to do to her.

oh those are fine. I was thinking of legit nipple clams. Yea she should be fine wearing those to class. If they get too much for her she can always just take them off pretty easily.

yea but the mind is weak. the mind can make a minor pain turn into a tramatic experience under the right circumstances.

Just trust me on this and escalate things instead of starting off with a bang. at least until you know her limits.

That's true, you may not have an answer for this. But what's the best way to introduce her to bondage in public?

I see your point. I'll start small, she's yet to reach her limit yet tho and I've put her through a lot. Most I'd say so far was had her in this outfit, I'll explain head to toe, panties in her mouth. Ropes around her tits, heavy nipple clamps on, and a crotch rope that pinched her labia minora. I then had her on all 4s crawling around my apartment. Knees all rug burned and pussy got a rope burn. nipples even scabbed up after and not once she complained

check in with her about this stuff but try online exsposure before doing it in public. post photos of her and let her read all the comments. if she enjoys that then chanes are she will enjoy doing public play. start small like not wearing underwear, wear revealing or form fitting clothes, groping in public, masturbate while she's in the passenger seat of a car, flashing in public, road head, fucking in the woods, etc.

moar!

I made a teaser. Should I uss it?
(Pic related)

That's not bondage at all...

right lol sorry I saw public and went with the sexual stuff at first glance.

K so if you're talking about public bonadge then you're most likely going to need to learn about shibari. It's easy to wear and hides well under clothes.

Heres her in pussy clamps

i was thinking more along the lines of people seening her in the bondage. rather it be her clamps, ropes, gagged

I usually just hit her in the face with a bat. bdsm enough for you?

If you want people to see her wear bondage then there really isn't a beginner guide to that. you could make her wear a collar in public or leather cuffs around town. If she wears a gag then people will automatically know she's kinky as fuck and may even call the police on you. (try making her wear a turtle neck or high collar sweater and make her wear a gag??)

how old?

Weird question. Sry not gonna answer

Yeah collar is the safest bet. I'd love her sorority sisters to see her wearing it. Maybe they'd make her walk-around nude in it like I have her do. Goals lol

You must be new

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Main reason for public BDSM is I'd love another girl to see her and help with her. Hence the sorority sister fantasy lol

ok now it's becoming clear. if that's you goal then you just need to be playfully dominant in public with her in front of her sorority sisters.

You'll get weird looks but eventually you'll stumble onto a women who's interested and starts asking questions like. "Why do you like it so much?" That when you answer and ask her if she's interested in it as well. From there you can talk your way into doing a scene with all three of you.

She has a tight body. any chance we can see her ass as well?

what do you do to a girl once you blindfold her

Sounds surreal! Can't even imagine pulling that off. What I'd give to have her punished by another girl in front of me

So i have a baby girl dynamic with my sub and we are both bi (mf btw not that it matters)

We are brining the new year with a bang

Let me know if you want to know more

imagine you're rolling a 100 sided dice and you're wanting to roll a one. It's a pretty slim odd you get it on the first try but if you keep rolling then eventually you'll get that one time it lands on a one.

Just don't convey you're doing it for them. Make it look like you're doing it because you can't keep your hands off your GF.

Time and date please

Does real sadists tend to be pedophile ?

no

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