Why does "normal" femdom not exist?

Why does "normal" femdom not exist?

It's always some kind of faggy men-degrading, BDSM bullshit that I don't care for. I just want to see women who know what they want commanding guys to please them in said ways. There is just something hot about handing out control to what you know is the weaker gender.

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user you're looking for gentle femdom

People have told me this before. But gentle femdom usually involves some kind of weird mom-son-like roleplay. At least, that's all I've been able to find.

I just want chicks to tell me to eat her out and then fuck her like an animal basicly

cause there is a stronger market for that. a girl who has to come up to me and fake rape me takes balls on her end. she has to have the confidence to seem worthy of my looks and general stoicism. so it's easier for them to be all submissive. if a guy has a softer look and personality about him those kinds of girls with dom mentalities become more dominant and this fetish is born.

Actually tell me is wrong. I want them to demand it from me, like I should be listening to her every word

Again, for me it's about some weird power struggle where I give out control to the weaker gender. Maybe it's because I've only had really submissive girlfriends

>if a guy has a softer look and personality about him those kinds of girls with dom mentalities become more dominant and this fetish is born.
This is what bothers me about the gentle femdom fetish. I'm not any kind of softie, I'm just a guy that wants to be used as a fuck toy by a woman who knows what she wants from me

I'm assuming you're referring to porn, not real life. In which case, there's plenty of it, and it's not hard to find. Just stop slamming "femdom" into sites like xvideos or pornhub and clicking the top result

I've searched far and wide, but the results were disappointing to be honest

Could you give me an example

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Just sounds like vanilla porn to me except the girl tells the guy to fuck her before he fucks her. Can be found anywhere and everywhere in anything, but you'll have a hard time searching for specifically that. Just click through videos of regular porn until you find one with a more dominant woman

Because women are socialized from birth to be passive. They have a lifetime of conditioning thats stops them from be open and assertive with their wants. Hopefully feminism will fix this :/

>Just sounds like vanilla porn to me except the girl tells the guy to fuck her before he fucks her.
Basicly, it can go a little further than that though. I'd love for a woman to vocally demand to eat her out for example.

>Can be found anywhere and everywhere in anything, but you'll have a hard time searching for specifically that. Just click through videos of regular porn until you find one with a more dominant woman
You're right, but those usually aren't very vocal or demanding. It doesn't hit the spot

You want a switch, not a domme.

Dominant women are generally bitches. That personality that you think of when you see fat, black woman, at customer service, or a middle aged, white, single mom, with her kids running around and she's just yelling at them "STOP STOP COME HERE BLAH *#@*@&%" that's a typical domme.

Submissive women you clearly know.

A switch woman is just like...not crazy, but also kinky. Or more so, above average intelligence, like a STEM field girl, that is kinky.

Find one of those that is hot and you're set.

I'll never forget I met a girl in a club once who basicly demanded I would fuck her, man that turned me on so much

Too bad I pussied out because I had a gf at the time

I don't mind the other shit. It's the forced gender-bending and cuck shit that bugs the fuck out of me. Why can't I just watch a woman degrade me in chastity without her wanting me to wear panties or felch her lover's cum from her ass?

>Dominant women are generally bitches. That personality that you think of when you see fat, black woman, at customer service, or a middle aged, white, single mom, with her kids running around and she's just yelling at them "STOP STOP COME HERE BLAH *#@*@&%" that's a typical domme.
So accurate, I just want a normal girl that will demand I please her in whatever way she wants. You are pretty much on the money in your description of the type of girl I want

This actually bothers me too, in my search for femdom related porn I've come across too many videos like this as well. Who the fuck actually gets off to this shit? Why can't my niche be recognized?

I don't mind being pegged, but I can't watch other people do it.

Unless it's a pro, it's always clumsy with the chick not knowing what the fuck she's doing while wearing the cheapest harness the producer could find on amazon.

I'm just not trying to see a man getting penetrated.

Why not? You do it.

Aside from most models being gay4pay or the same three fucking dudes in the industry who do it. I see your point.

Just a visual thing, it's not as appealing.

unrelated post but is there a name for when the woman makes the guy rub his dick against her untill he comes

i had a blister from fucking on my dick the other day so instead of normal sex me and my gf did this, was actually quite hot.

The other day my gf and i were watching TV. I wanted to nut and she didnt feel like fucking. So i asked her to get naked so i can jerk off to her. Eventually i was on top her belly and she knew i was about to nut. My normally passive gf sensed this and said “Cum on my belly NOW” and i had an amazing orgasm. Told her i wish she was more assertive like that more often. Wont happen though. Passive girls will always be passive

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