How do I convince my gf to do anal? We've tried it twice with her stopping it each time because it hurts...

How do I convince my gf to do anal? We've tried it twice with her stopping it each time because it hurts. We've used lube and everything. She now seems adamant on us never trying it again. Is there anything I can do or say to convince her to try it again and make it less painful? Thank you in advance

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anal sex is more trouble than it's worth

Rape that tight ass

Start small and work up from there.
One finger, then 2 fingers, twisting and stretching so that a penis will go in easier.

get her drunk

She needs to practice more. Toys feel better than fingers, start small. Encourage her to do it by herself so she's not nervous.

It's like having a dick your ass....anal sex

You may aswell become gay if you're interested in anal sex, faggot

First....it hurts,pull it out. Next, it stinks, put it back in. Anal sex in a nutshell

my girlfriend hates it, we tried it once and soon as I took my cock out she shit all over the bed

slap her, really hard. it will shock her into submission. she will be numb.

source: 30 year marriage. happy as can be.

Buttplugs

Start with a small one and have her work her way up over a period of time. If you just j-j-jam it in immediately it'll hurt like hell. You thrusting like you're trying to get to fucking hyperspace probably didn't help either

Get a boyfriend like the fag you are.

first off, dubs, second, she either likes it or dosen't, tried it with my wife and she loved it, then again she loves me and will do anything with me, find someone like that, good luck

I do anal with Id say 60% of the girls that i fuck, here is how

take her from behind.
really enjoy it and make her like it too
say you love fucking her
spit multiple times on her asshole
slowly go in there with a thumb, do it kinda natural
youre not asking her, you don't try to convince her, it's an assumption
fuck her hard when you do this
Does she resist a little bit? do it anyway
go in with two fingers at some point
and finger her
also do the same with the thumb before
she should get used to anal penetration
the key word is association or conditioning
she is very horny and about to cum? finger in butthole
that way she will slowly combine those two feelings and will be more open minded for it lol

when you can have two fingers inside while fucking her, it should not be a problem to slowly sticking your dick in
and rub her clit while you fuck her anal, shell like it

if...
she really doesnt wanna do it? give her a look of you being disappointed in her, like that you will probably find another girl for this then. don't say anything, just look at her being disappointed of her


however, it also depends heavily on the screening of the girl. do you escalate quickly to sex? or did you date her 5 times before you fuck
are you setting the rhythm? or is she


Keep in mind that you really have to pimp a bitch hard from the beginning
you can't expect a blow job of her being one year in a relationship, no
gotta do all the stuff at the very best first time having sex. first meeting even better
let her litterally suck your fucking asshole the first time you fuck or meet a chick and you will be able to do anything with her without gettin shit lol

don't be a cunt about it and just fuck her normally?

If she loves you she'll do it.
Simple as that.
Get a new girl.

This.

Do you user use drugs? I gave my ex a small dose of hydrocodone so it wouldn't hurt

don't listen to this, has no idea about anything and will fly off the handle at this

yes, this

Start with doggy and rubbing her asshole with your thumb.

You want to do this right then remember it's not a fast process. Unless she's a total fucking whore.

You gotta put some effort in user. You're going straight to cock because you cant wait to nut. Anal feels good if it's done right. Stroke and finger her asshole. Make it feel good. Do it for her. The longer you go the more relaxed it'll be and the hungrier she'll be for your cock.

tl;dr stop being a vrigin

coke

OP here. The thing is, she did it with her previous bf and liked it because his penis wasn't as wide. So i'm thinking of convincing her to try butt plugs to make it easier for her

that might work, get her used to your girth, my wife is the same way, i takes a lot out of her for the same reason

ouch.

News flash: you aren't as good in bed as he was. That's all there is to it.

Move on.

Anal nitrates will loosen her right up

Seconded.

>anal nitrates
stay in school user. It's amyl nitrate

>anal sex is more trouble than it's worth

Agreed, anal is totally overrated. I trained my wife's ass and now she likes it more than I do. I don't find it stimulating any more, not compared to the perfect sensations you get from a wet vagina.

use pussy lube, dude. won't dry up like other lube. slowly work it in and keep dipping back

you called dubs and it came true? damn user

This

How about you respect your girlfriend's boundaries and just pound her pussy like a straight man.

there are so many dubs in here...

Sounds like a bitch. Get her relaxed, massage, lots and lots of lube, 1 finger 2 fingers a dollar, then dick time. No anal no ring. Not playing. No bj no ring.

That's the trouble with it. Half the fun is subjecting her to something she really doesn't like. Once she starts liking it too much it loses half the meaning

A brick to the head when she's not looking should do the trick. She'll just assume that bricks to the head makes her ass really sore lul.

If you love her, you won't insist.
Simple as that.
She should get a better boyfriend.
One that isn't a faggot.

Wow if my gf said that to my face I would ass fuck her use her tears as lube and drop her. When she screams rape I would say we had sex she wanted to try anal and told me to stop so I did. You need to man up and drop her sorry ass and tell her why. You say you let you ex buttfuck you but I'm so bad at it it's a no go fuck you.

>She now seems adamant on us never trying it again.
Then give it up. Anal is nowhere near as good as you think it might be.

Found the sjw. Hey you should watch the new Star Wars it's full of your people.
This dude needs to pound her shit hole and drop her

rim her, if she likes the feeling of your tongue, she'll eventually want to feel a finger, then 2, then your dick,

In the words of my father "Son, never fuck a girl in the ass. You get shit on your dick."

Kind of prolific really.

I trained my girlfriend to be a complete ass and anal whore, she only cums when i fist her asshole and she can prolapse it too

OP here. It really did piss me off to hear her say that. She knows I really want it, but its like she's trying to make me feel bad

You're getting some pretty good advice from the other people here. I'll give you my thoughts.

By the way, I have a pretty big dick and I fucking love anal. My best short advice I can give you is 2 things: 1. get her to like it and 2. go slow and stop if it's not fun. Anal should ALWAYS be fun, not painful.

How do you get her to like it? If you enjoy it and it turns you on, that will rub off on her. She'll start to enjoy it too. So any way you genuinely show her that you're into it will gradually turn her onto it. If you lick her asshole like a sex-deprived maniac, that's good. If you rub her asshole with your finger while you fuck her and tell her how turned on it gets you to think about her sexy asshole, that's good.

Besides that, work up to anal by doing whatever is comfortable. So start with asshole touching then asshole fingering, then ass licking, etc. When you get into more risque territories like full on anal, make sure she's comfortable with it and if she indicates at all that she's not, then go back to non-anal sex.

Talk to her about it too. If she's not into it, then you don't really have much of a chance.

Pretty much this.

You associate the ass with good feelings, if she is reaching orgasm stick your finger up there. lick her ass from the get go. This man knows his shit.

Son I'm over 40 years old been around the block no way I would put up with that shit. Telling you to for it one more time she's a bitch still drop her tell her the truth cause that's BS. Tell her about you ex who loved your dick in her ass even if you got to make it up. Fucking make her hurt. She sounds like a bitch

Probably not...

Pretty sure you went straight up prison method on her, too, didn't you? You gotta work her up to full dick, user, not just stuff it in and go... That's why they make anal training kits and the like...

Oh if you final decide to man up and drop her ass. Before that happens get her to rim you as she's about to make you cum drop her then and there. Telling you it's mean but that was bull shit to say to you

who hurt you? go to bed.
op dont hurt her, shell be as butt hurt as this neck beard and you dont want that

Forgot to add: You've now left an impression on her that anal hurts... Plus, it sounds like she just doesn't like it. Some people don't...

Either break it off and find a sloot who loves anal, or accept that she's not gonna do anal with you again...

Speak for yourself there mate. It gets me crazy hard when my wife wants anal. She acts like and anal whore and my cock explodes

what the fuck is wrong with you? Maybe her ex really had a smaller dick and OPs dick hurts her.

Bunch of fucking virgins ITT. Just work up using your fingers till her ass is stretched.

Listen to this guy

Long ago an ex and I got her back for it. Never let someone do that to you. If they do make them pay. Their relationship is over. She's told him her ex was better and the only man to get her ass. Yeah that's a healthy and living relationship. He should cuck and beg for her anal creampies from ex bf. Man up bitch. You boys today have no balls. Don't hurt her feelings let her hurts yours. Give her what she wants and fuck what you want.

She is literally saying that Op has a wider dick than her ex boyfriend and it hurts her ass. You projecting all this crap on top of it is plain neckbeard autism to the max.

just tell her to imagine an inverse poop and use a galloonish of lube or it wont work properly

literally all you need to do is take more time and not dive in, more fingering ect

OP here. I don't really get why though it would hurt as much as she said it did. We used a lot of lube and went really slow, like at a snails pace. To add insult to injury, she said she didn't use any lube when she did it with her previous bf

if it were that simple there wouldnt be tons of these threads every day.

Lol this is gay. I've finger fucked more pussy than you have seen in your whole life cuck boi. If she can fuck ex 2nd she can fuck him. OP man up stop the fag shit. These guys are all about the cuck and traps.

Op here. She said that's the main issue, that it's too wide. Do you think just working up by doing other anal play is the way to go?

previous bf proabbly had a pencil dick.

Honestly i just use spit as lube. But doing this at a snails pace is a mood killer. stretch her ass with your fingers first. Dominate her.

Anal is not about caring for her its about pounding that ass and her enjoying the pain and pleasure from being subjugated to you.

Conditioning is the best way to do it.

it is that simple people are just retarded and see anal in porn and think its as easy as sticking it in with lube

Get some poppers tell her to inhale them. Fuck her throat. Tell her inhale again. Fuck her ass.

maybe shes lying about it hurting and just doesn't like it

She is being bitch cuck lord. She never should of brought up ex bf could ass fuck me and he did it good but you can't. You cucks just want stop.

She's making it up to cuck you. Man up. Don't let some bitch cuck you. What's next she's going to fuck nignogs and let you clean her up?

SAMEFAG cancer. go to bed

Yes it is if she's not being a bitch. Unless you got the biggest cock ever she's taken a shit bigger than your dick. A finger, butt plug and pound away.

Maybe you just have a bigger dick than her ex. Props m8

this.
do it while playing with her poon/fucking it. my gf started out not having any interest either but giving her orgasms with stuff in her butt helps with association in her head and makes her more comfortable. we don't really do anal outside of shark week, which we call anal week now, but plugs and fingers up there are common the rest of the month. she begs for anal now a few days after starting her period cause she gets so horny during it

Anal isn't that hard. You kiss on her, rub on her, she's wet, lick her a little, lick her fartbox, back to main fun hole, rub fartbox with finger, get out dildo start fucking her, rub cock on fartbox as you are doing it then go for the kill.
Wait for SJW cucks let a real man do it as you fap in the corner.

Yes I'm the same guy you stupid fucking cuck just as you are.

You need to get an anal training kit. These things work really well and will set up her ads nicely for fucking.

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Anyone else find the sex pictures fromwiki hot?

This kit op. If you leave her ass you got them to play with your own asshole. Also they got good lube get a bottle.

OP here. Cheers for the suggestion. Are anal kits good value? Does anyone here have experience with them?

very hot

Well, you should use the Michael Jackson method, very simple. You pour out some cocacola with wine in a glass. You look her deeply in her eyes and tell her to open her asshole. Then if she protests... You use the MJ classic line: If you love me you'll do this. Make sure to sound a bit childish. If you pull it off the way its supposed to be done, you will get your reward, else you're just a fuckin fagget and only male assholes are destined for you.

Yeah they are nice to get. Anal isn't rocket science. Its easy fart hole opens up and go. So but in small plug play a little. Pull out put in little bigger play little more then bigger. Then cock time.

This is a good idea

They're nothing special, but something about the fact they're from Wikipedia does it for me.

King of anal

No, leave her ass alone dude

>How do I convince my gf to do anal?

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>Dub dubs Checked

Just stick it in at first ....don't pump at all just wait for a minute for her to get used to it .... Once Shes good with it .... Then you can start slow pumps ...