Is anyone else's gf boring at sex? We have been with each other for around 7 months and she hasnt even give me a bj "said she has done it before and it made her feel sick" I'v gone down on her twice. She refuses to go on the pill because it might stop her having a kid in the future so i can't cum in her. I have to pull out before i cum and cum on some tissues:( I always have to be aware that i don't cum in her. she won't let me cum on any part of her body and even makes faces when it has gone on her hand in a hj..she has ruled out ever trying anal. When she has "orgasmed" she tells me to hurry up and finish.
I'm not sure what to do because she is my first gf..I once had sex a few years ago. She has had 5 previous boyfriends and said she lost her virginity at 14. So she has much more experiance then me.
"I'm 22 she is 24"
I kind of feel like a cuck but i'm scared of losing her and being on my own again i can already feel my depression kicking i again
John Walker
Take lots of pictures before you break up.
Life isn't worth living without blowjobs
Jordan Walker
Thats not sex OP...you will understand once you fucked a girl who enjoys it
Asher Myers
break up with her you fucking pussy that isn't a relationship
Jason Harris
So what we've learned today
#1 take pics/vids
#2 breakup
Aiden Smith
Run and never come back
Bentley Martin
It's important in a healthy relationship, she might be an 8 or a 9 but if she's a 3 in bed then you're always gonna want better. Also why would the pill stop her in future? Get the implant or coil, no excuse.
Tyler Perez
Truth
Ethan Murphy
Some people are very vanilla in sex. Sex shouldn't be the only reason your with her you knob head
Daniel Jackson
Thanks for replying
She does seem to enjoy sex and spending time with me...I feel like i'm missing out on the experiances that she has previously had..I was shocked when i found out that lost her virginity at 14 and had 5 partners before me. I sometimes think i lost the best of her because she once mentioned that if i was not going to marry her she wouldnt waste her time with me like she has with her other bf
Landon Butler
She’s gonna be lesbian. No lie. These are all the warning signs. Get out now. >source: old fag
Aiden Nelson
Yeah i agree but i'm 22 nearly 23 i want to experiance some things and play around a little i don't ask for much.
Daniel Bennett
Dump her and tell her ti go fuck herself, you'll be better on your own, trust me.
Matthew Bennett
Actual advice for you because you're too pathetic: > Talk to her you and tell her that the sex isn't great because reasons. > Ask her what her turn one are. > Explain your own. > Be a fucking adult about it because you're fucking 22 and shouldn't need the internet to fix your problems.
Angel Lee
Find a new gf at once.
Aaron Hall
As someone in a loving rationship, I can say sex with someone you love and who loves you is amazing. I know she'll do anything to please me, and I feel the same way. Leave her and patiently work on finding better. No rush.
Luke Collins
>Life isn't worth living without blowjobs
preach brother
Jack Baker
Bro if it is boring for you then u can try 1 of 3 things 1st is step up and tell her how you feel if she really loves you then she will come negotiate with you to try and make you happier , 2nd you could change your attitude towards her start being more of the dominant guy and you tell her what the go is you never know she might love you taking control and has been waiting for you to do so you know show her who’s boss try pinning her up against a wall by the throat and whisper in her ear I’m the man in this relationship you listen to me not the other way around bitch if she doesn’t take that on bored then the third option is what u should consider , look for someone who is happy doing the same shit you like flowing and want done like are you happy to continue being pushed around be her or do you wanna face fuck another chick who loves the taste of cum and wants you to make sex last as long as fucking possible
Asher Perry
Dude, you're 22. from the way you're talking I'd put every cent I have on the fact that you're not gonna end up with this girl. Life goes on man. I can barely even remember the girl I was with when I was 22 and I thought she was "the one" or whatever bullshit. don't worry about it so much.
this user might legit be right too man, I know some lesbians pretty well and it really is hitting a lot of the highlights
James Bennett
Can't cum in her? Use condom or vasectomy
Leo Scott
that's abusive af
Ryan Green
>break up with her >tell her she is a frigid bitch and should try pussy.
Dont forget that second part, too many cucks just break up for shit like that then she just acts like that with the next guy.
Alternatively, you can talk to her and explain how shes as sexy as a wet paper bag.
William Turner
man, leave her, you're not autistic because you had one gf so you'll have another you can't spend your life like this, with someone who does not care about your pleasure! your pleasure is important, as much as hers, don't be a cuck user.
Joshua Foster
Fat chances of this being the truth.
Anthony Taylor
Bro nah, she sounds like a cunt
Benjamin Ross
Dump this retarded fucking cunt.
If this isn't bait, you need to get out now.
Nathan Richardson
I really appreciate the replies guys. I do love her but i know it can't carry on like this..i will speak to her about these problems and judging by her responce i will make a discision
Jordan Cook
Dis for sure,+according to what you mentioned at first she s planning to cuck you.
Jose Hughes
you think you love her because "she's the only one" you'll know what love is when someone will loves you back, when someone will try to make everything to please you like you'll do for this person you don't love her, you like to be with someone because you feel better about yourself, that's it, you fear loneliness
Nicholas James
Lol, a beta faggot that stumbled into a gf. Don't worry loser, she's taking pop shots to the face and getting her asshole prolapsed when you aren't around.
Adam Young
I'd tell her you won't waste your time with her if she isn't going to start giving a lot of BJ's (with swallowing) to you and taking it up the ass on a regular basis.
Seriously. It's not worth wasting time on this chick. She'll either realize she's gotta do more to keep a modern man around or she's gonna be the crazy cat lady.
You'd be best not to be around when she hits that fork in the road.
Tyler Perry
had gf few years back that was up for anything wanted me to pee on her, hard fuck literally i would put her on her belly and fuck her ass or puss raw deep and hard no foreplay or anything literally borderline rape and she was screaming i love you when i did it....... a lot of dirty talking about age play etc... shit was cash but bitch was crazy so i end it she grew up in one of this nudist colonies soo yea.....that explain it all
my advice OP is simple. Prepare food yourself. Make a nice table. Flowers and all that. Surprise her with the romantic dinner. Get alcohol drink some wine with the dinner. After mix it with something else she like to drink. Get her drunk. BECAUSE i want you to learn this from me >DRUNK WOMAN = FUN BED
Caleb Rivera
Here’s what’s happening she’s been quite literally fucked over by guys before, now she’s getting her own back in her own way on you, pretty sure most people do shit like that it’s called baggage, but you might wanna talk to her about how you feel or straight up walk away, my ex dumped 7 or 8 months ago and I already have someone else...you never know who else is out there man
Austin Sanchez
You're basically a sperm donor and child support in waiting. Run, Forrest. Run.
Andrew Flores
Yeah i just messaged her and asked her "I was just looking online. Why not get a implant or coil? It don't affect your future birth"
I'v asked her a few times about the pill to what she has always outright refuses because of some birth issues. But never about implant or coil i'm curious what excuse she will make.
Brayden Mitchell
this she will use you like mens used her you will have some shitty boring life with some shitty kids, you'll run away and pay tons of cash to her for years...
Oliver Evans
You're going about this all wrong OP.
You've got to realize she isn't going to change until she figures out what she expects is ridiculous. That isn't happening as long as you're in the picture.
Cut and run. No need to be a prick about it, but tell her what's up. Explain that you need more in the bedroom and you're not willing to waste your youth with someone who isn't into the same things as you.
Simple.
Jordan Green
Exactly. He'll be married with 2 kids and suddenly after 10 years he stumbles upon her hookup messaging with 3 guys and having hot sex with them and complaining to her girlfriends that OP is soooo boring. BTDT. I'm 50, OP. I've seen this play out dozens of time IRL, including mine.
Luis Wilson
>She refuses to go on the pill because it might stop her having a kid in the future >pulling out as a contraceptive method nigga, you run from that breeding chamber as fast as you can
Christian Cook
So you wanted our advice, here's our advice: dump her. The fear of being alone is whatever. You've gotta own that shit though. You can't live a miserable life because you're scared of the alternative. Live an enjoyable life. You've fucked her, awesome. Remember that. Now move on and find someone you enjoy fucking. Prove you're not some pussy who deserves to be treated like this.
If it was easy, everyone would have perfect sex lives. It's not. But fucking do it anyway cause anything worth doing is worth doing right. And in this case we're talking about sex. Whether or not you choose to tell her why you're breaking up is up to you. Personally I'd recommend not to since she sounds emotionally abusive and you a little pussy. So chances are she'd manipulate you and convince you not to dump her. But whatever, it's your life.
Consider this: when you're on your death bed remembering your youth, do you want to remember how you wasted it having shit sex with a frigid bitch?
Evan Anderson
And OP will be sleeping in a chair and jerking off in the shower as soon as pregnancy #1 happens. Married cuckold.
Joshua Reyes
She just text back saying "I don't know..let's use condoms seriously"
I hate using condoms i literally don't feel anything..
Carter Davis
Your gf is a sane woman your the faggot who has been perverted by porn and now want to do everything you saw on porn, normal sex doesnt do it for you anymore this is the effect of porn, hope your gf leaves your ass before you make her do things that are trielly digusting.
Asher Reed
Alpha fucks beta bucks.
Cooper Barnes
>sane >woman Pick one
Nicholas Gutierrez
Get outta my Sup Forums churchfag
Hunter Martin
Thanks for the advice. I guess i am a bit of a pussy but it's a new year i'm cutting out all that is shit. Did i also tell you a lot of times when i touch her around her clothed body she "jokely" says i'm harrassing her and rolls her eyes. A lot of times when i touch her and shes busy she gets pissed off and raises her voice.
Camden Robinson
Stop negotiating with her. She's very aware that she has pussy power, and she's manipulating you.
Truth spoken here.
If you're not happy because you can't plow her dirty ass and blow a load on her face after a sloppy bj, you're not gonna be happy. End of story. That's a future of sexual frustration no one wants.
Matthew Walker
I’m 21 and i’ve pulled middle aged women more fun than your girlfriend, she must be really attractive
Luis Ross
> i can already feel my depression kicking i again I'd be depressed being with her user, being single after her would be a weight lifted.
Jacob Carter
sounds like she does not give a fuck about you, she would probably leave you if anything better wanted her. get someone new.
Connor Turner
I used to consider suicide every night with a bitch like this
Evan Bailey
She’s not good for you so dump her.
Tyler Brown
Good, OP. Use that attitude as a springboard. Start doing though. Don't think about it or waffle. Go to the gym. Update your wardrobe. Ask lots of girls out. You'll gain confidence and get laid.
Cameron Gutierrez
if she admits to 5 then that number is probably closer to 25
Henry Gray
Holy shit now I feel better
>I'm 21 >Shes 20 I lost my virginity to her like 2 months ago and shes been banging dudes since 14, she even said shed been a "ho" >wtf I'm scared But she said I'm the best, I make her scream and gasp for air and she shakes like a washing machine while I'm fuvking the shit out of her for sometimes hours so now I feel great because your girlfriend is cucking the shit out of you
Jacob Hernandez
You need to find a younger woman to put that old bitch in check. She needs to realize that she is a few years from hitting the wall and if she doesn't start sucking dick now she is going to turn into a lonely cat lady
Zachary Ward
His girlfriend isn't cucking him...
That would require her to fuck other dudes in front of him.
Brayden James
That's only how it works in fetish porn. You don't have to be there to be a cuckold.
Dominic Miller
No offense, but you should break up with her.
Thomas Edwards
Pic related I'm sure, because that girl is boring as fuck
Blake Butler
Dump and move on if it's at all possible you could get laid again.
Hunter Harris
if youre anything like me, OP, we dont have time for bitches like that. I have gone through some SHITTY girls, much worse than you could ever imagine, and you need to get out before its too late.
Sebastian Brown
Unless sex is super unimportant to you, break up. It's hard if it's your first real gf, but being in no relationship is better than being in a bad relationship.
Christian Morris
Didn't mean to reply to specifically.
David Roberts
Sounds like she was raped or molested when she was younger. Probably a relative.
Parker Harris
You think pulling out is a legit contraceptive??? Wtf
Kevin Roberts
too be honest this sums it up pretty well
Jackson Price
Your sex life with her is not going to get any better. She has some kind of issues and needs therapy, or is just dumb, or a completely unreasonable person. I would bet on a combination of all 3. We already know she is dumb because she thinks pulling out is effective birth control, and cases where being on the pill stops you from being able to have kids in the future are INCREDIBLY rare.
Or she is being dishonest about her reasons.
She doesn't really care if you enjoy sex if she is saying "hurry up" as soon as she cums"
This means that she will likely start being less and less willing to have sex as time goes on. Nearly 100% chance that once she has a kid, sex is done.
She MIGHT be cheating on you. This isn't a certainty because some chicks are just fucked up about sex. (Is she VERY close to an ex? Does she constantly talk about one specific other guy?)
Regardless, you need to get out now. She isn't going to get better, she is going to get worse.
Jackson Smith
Eat vegetables and fruits and eat less red meat then drink a lot of water and take zinc supplements, your cum will taste creamy and soft like a fruit pudding, once she has tasted it she can't live without it.
Xavier Johnson
I'm guessing she's probably hot to super ultra hot. I have noticed hot women suck at sex more often sadly
Asher Lopez
I had a girlfriend many years ago, Lorrie, who was sexually insatiable (and ridiculously perverted; she referred to herself as a "pain slut" and enjoyed both voyeurism, forced sex, and humiliation), and who had her own girlfriend on the side. Her girlfriend was a 16 year old Sears catalogue underwear model who had an absolutely perfect 10/10 body. She decided she wanted to "try me out," so she went to bed with me after getting Lorrie's permission.
She was the most boring bed partner I've ever had. She literally just laid in bed like a dead fish, her eyes open and staring like a corpse. She just sprawled there and waited to be pleased. She was terrific to look at, but it was like fucking a corpse. I guess when you look that good you never need to even think about doing anything else.
Asher Flores
She doesn't like you user, sorry.
Why would a woman not want to have 'proper' sex with a man? Because she doesn't find him attractive.
Dominic Ross
If she doesn't even like it on her hands, it's probably more than just the taste.
Dylan Cooper
Hey buddy ik that hurts your self esteem more than people think but don't stress it's to much,it's her nor you. So don't get too depressed about it, maybe she on the asexual side of things
Jordan Bennett
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Asher Torres
Wife is boring at sex. >start out with a 20-30 minute massage for her. not sexual contact... back, shoulders, neck legs and arms only >after that I get a 2-minute blow job >then PiV >since I've been rock hard for 30 minutes I last about 60 seconds >she uses a vibe on herself to get off >repeat a month or two later
Side buddy is a lot better.
Brody Gonzalez
My gf is paralysed below the waist and she puts more effort into sex than your gf does. We can't do anal, and she only lets me cum inside her when we have sex in the shower, but she eats my cum every time she gives me a blowjob or handjob.
Ditch her and get someone better.
Michael Johnson
>lost her virginity at 14
basically a slut, now willing to settle.
also, sounds like you value sex performances more than bitcoins
also, you forgot that sex action degrades over time. In a few years you'll be whining and grumbling again, because body decay, because nothing new to "explore", because not even viagra can make you hard.
tldr: you're both a faggot and a cuck, she's Dem Used Goods obsessed with birthing some baby to show to her parents
Jack Young
Been together 7 months, only went down on her twice.
Atleast she's not the only boring one in the sack...
Joshua Barnes
Details pls
Gavin Long
What do you want to know?
Mason King
he isn't learn to read
Ian Young
What does sh3 do? How do you fuck her? Does she cum? I think its hot, spill the beans
Carson Campbell
Dude. STOP going down on her, and if she asks, say 'it's because you wont go down on me'.
Watch how fast that shit changes my good man.
John Miller
How do you deal with chicks like this? I've been with a boring chick, just lies there expecting you to fuck her, doesn't rub herself, or anything, so boring!
Owen Roberts
The fear of being lonely and the associated feelings are the only leverage the whore has on you, dump her ass today, nothing good will follow, or do you want to continue this bullshit up to her menopause? Just think a year ahead, I would be fed up with this shit after the third time,if I have to >hurry up or > come in a tissue I might as well rub one out, at least I got as much time as I would like and the outcome isn't any worse or anti-climatic.
Jason Robinson
>If she's lying down she can't do much other than put a pillow under her hips, but she makes up for that by occasionally giving me a rimjob. >We can fuck in most normal positions apart from doggy and cowgirl, but her favourite is when she puts her legs on my shoulders and I can thrust really deep. >She can cum from g-spot stimulation or if she uses her Magic Wand on her clit.
Christian Hall
you mean watch how fast she cheats on him or leaves him.
Logan Lopez
I think you deal with it by not trying to fuck them any more. If they're nice to look at, then you look at them and leave them on the shelf for display.
Nathan Wright
Which shows she's a whore and doesn't deserve OP. Lrn2women, fag.
Parker Scott
Only a kissless desperate virgin would say something like this
Landon Phillips
Yes but boring sex is still better than no sex at all, especially if they're cute. Would still like to fuck them, but actually have them moan and want to ride your shit
William Phillips
Dude just move on unless you're really that desperate. I've been wth easily over 100 women and every single one of them have sucked my dick, licked my ass, moaned, wanted slapped abd choked, and 90% will let you in their ass on thr first go. They just have to be attracted to you and want to be slutty abd impress. Not trying to make you feel bad but i guarantee she'd suck my dick. Move on. Next time you get im a relationship, lay out the facts.... she fucks how you say, when you say, and she'll like it or leave. Girls don't want a nice respectable not, they want a animalistic man that will arguably degrade them regardless of permission or if they want to do it.
Christian Torres
Not for years on end when its the only sex he gets.
He WILL eventually end up having sex with someone else on the side, he will have no choice. If he gets caught, it could cost him HUGE if they are married or if they are living in a common law state. Even worse if they have kids, because the cheating will be HIS fault even if she caused the situation that ensured it would happen.
He needs to get out now. Sex is not hard to get.
Jaxon Mitchell
Sex with my wife was amazing at first, it was good , and now, its a means to get off without having to jerk off. NOTHING ABOUT HOW WE HAVE SEX HAS CHANGED, SHE IS STILL "GREAT IN BED" But its now boring after fucking the same person for 20 years. The only thing that keeps me sane is banging some side piece every once in a while, and weekly visits to an asian massage place (I make plenty of money so the cost is no issue and its dirt cheap anyway, I can get a decent massage and a great handjob for $80 total out the door)
I have a neighbor's wife that sucks my dick a couple times a week for the last couple years, she won't fuck because she feels like that is too offical cheating but loves sucking my dick. After a couple years of her sucking my dick, I am starting to get bored of just plain vanilla blowjobs from her, even though she is great at it. My point is, that even if the sex is great, it eventually gets boring with the same person.
If it starts out bad, it will be absolute torture being chained to that person long term.
I know guys who have been married 10+ years that would FAR rather just jerk off than have to go through the foreplay to fuck a woman they are tired of.
If its already bad for OP, he really REALLY needs to punch out now.
Isaiah Ramirez
Bruce 5 years, same problem. DON'T BE ME user, SAVE YOURSELF
Alexander Green
i feel like the best thing you could do for yourself and her is to cheat on her. i know it sounds counterintuitive, but she'll realize that she needs to suck some dick if she wants to be with a guy. Even if its not your's at least you might prep her for the next bro, and you'll get your dick sucked. Make sure you dump her after she finds out, lol