Is anyone else's gf boring at sex...

Is anyone else's gf boring at sex? We have been with each other for around 7 months and she hasnt even give me a bj "said she has done it before and it made her feel sick" I'v gone down on her twice. She refuses to go on the pill because it might stop her having a kid in the future so i can't cum in her. I have to pull out before i cum and cum on some tissues:( I always have to be aware that i don't cum in her. she won't let me cum on any part of her body and even makes faces when it has gone on her hand in a hj..she has ruled out ever trying anal.
When she has "orgasmed" she tells me to hurry up and finish.

I'm not sure what to do because she is my first gf..I once had sex a few years ago.
She has had 5 previous boyfriends and said she lost her virginity at 14. So she has much more experiance then me.

"I'm 22 she is 24"

I kind of feel like a cuck but i'm scared of losing her and being on my own again i can already feel my depression kicking i again

Take lots of pictures before you break up.

Life isn't worth living without blowjobs

Thats not sex OP...you will understand once you fucked a girl who enjoys it

break up with her you fucking pussy that isn't a relationship

So what we've learned today

#1 take pics/vids

#2 breakup

Run and never come back

It's important in a healthy relationship, she might be an 8 or a 9 but if she's a 3 in bed then you're always gonna want better. Also why would the pill stop her in future? Get the implant or coil, no excuse.

Truth

Some people are very vanilla in sex. Sex shouldn't be the only reason your with her you knob head

Thanks for replying

She does seem to enjoy sex and spending time with me...I feel like i'm missing out on the experiances that she has previously had..I was shocked when i found out that lost her virginity at 14 and had 5 partners before me. I sometimes think i lost the best of her because she once mentioned that if i was not going to marry her she wouldnt waste her time with me like she has with her other bf

She’s gonna be lesbian. No lie. These are all the warning signs. Get out now.
>source: old fag

Yeah i agree but i'm 22 nearly 23 i want to experiance some things and play around a little i don't ask for much.

Dump her and tell her ti go fuck herself, you'll be better on your own, trust me.

Actual advice for you because you're too pathetic:
> Talk to her you and tell her that the sex isn't great because reasons.
> Ask her what her turn one are.
> Explain your own.
> Be a fucking adult about it because you're fucking 22 and shouldn't need the internet to fix your problems.

Find a new gf at once.

As someone in a loving rationship, I can say sex with someone you love and who loves you is amazing. I know she'll do anything to please me, and I feel the same way. Leave her and patiently work on finding better. No rush.

>Life isn't worth living without blowjobs

preach brother

Bro if it is boring for you then u can try 1 of 3 things 1st is step up and tell her how you feel if she really loves you then she will come negotiate with you to try and make you happier , 2nd you could change your attitude towards her start being more of the dominant guy and you tell her what the go is you never know she might love you taking control and has been waiting for you to do so you know show her who’s boss try pinning her up against a wall by the throat and whisper in her ear I’m the man in this relationship you listen to me not the other way around bitch if she doesn’t take that on bored then the third option is what u should consider , look for someone who is happy doing the same shit you like flowing and want done like are you happy to continue being pushed around be her or do you wanna face fuck another chick who loves the taste of cum and wants you to make sex last as long as fucking possible

Dude, you're 22. from the way you're talking I'd put every cent I have on the fact that you're not gonna end up with this girl. Life goes on man. I can barely even remember the girl I was with when I was 22 and I thought she was "the one" or whatever bullshit. don't worry about it so much.

this user might legit be right too man, I know some lesbians pretty well and it really is hitting a lot of the highlights

Can't cum in her? Use condom or vasectomy

that's abusive af

>break up with her
>tell her she is a frigid bitch and should try pussy.

Dont forget that second part, too many cucks just break up for shit like that then she just acts like that with the next guy.

Alternatively, you can talk to her and explain how shes as sexy as a wet paper bag.

man, leave her, you're not autistic because you had one gf so you'll have another
you can't spend your life like this, with someone who does not care about your pleasure!
your pleasure is important, as much as hers, don't be a cuck user.

Fat chances of this being the truth.

Bro nah, she sounds like a cunt

Dump this retarded fucking cunt.

If this isn't bait, you need to get out now.

I really appreciate the replies guys. I do love her but i know it can't carry on like this..i will speak to her about these problems and judging by her responce i will make a discision

Dis for sure,+according to what you mentioned at first she s planning to cuck you.

you think you love her because "she's the only one"
you'll know what love is when someone will loves you back, when someone will try to make everything to please you like you'll do for this person
you don't love her, you like to be with someone because you feel better about yourself, that's it, you fear loneliness

Lol, a beta faggot that stumbled into a gf. Don't worry loser, she's taking pop shots to the face and getting her asshole prolapsed when you aren't around.

I'd tell her you won't waste your time with her if she isn't going to start giving a lot of BJ's (with swallowing) to you and taking it up the ass on a regular basis.

Seriously. It's not worth wasting time on this chick. She'll either realize she's gotta do more to keep a modern man around or she's gonna be the crazy cat lady.

You'd be best not to be around when she hits that fork in the road.

had gf few years back that was up for anything wanted me to pee on her, hard fuck literally i would put her on her belly and fuck her ass or puss raw deep and hard no foreplay or anything literally borderline rape and she was screaming i love you when i did it....... a lot of dirty talking about age play etc... shit was cash but bitch was crazy so i end it
she grew up in one of this nudist colonies soo yea.....that explain it all

my advice OP is simple. Prepare food yourself. Make a nice table. Flowers and all that. Surprise her with the romantic dinner. Get alcohol drink some wine with the dinner. After mix it with something else she like to drink. Get her drunk. BECAUSE i want you to learn this from me
>DRUNK WOMAN = FUN BED

Here’s what’s happening she’s been quite literally fucked over by guys before,
now she’s getting her own back in her own way on you,
pretty sure most people do shit like that it’s called baggage,
but you might wanna talk to her about how you feel or straight up walk away, my ex dumped 7 or 8 months ago and I already have someone else...you never know who else is out there man

You're basically a sperm donor and child support in waiting. Run, Forrest. Run.

Yeah i just messaged her and asked her
"I was just looking online. Why not get a implant or coil? It don't affect your future birth"

I'v asked her a few times about the pill to what she has always outright refuses because of some birth issues. But never about implant or coil i'm curious what excuse she will make.

this
she will use you like mens used her
you will have some shitty boring life with some shitty kids, you'll run away and pay tons of cash to her for years...

You're going about this all wrong OP.

You've got to realize she isn't going to change until she figures out what she expects is ridiculous. That isn't happening as long as you're in the picture.

Cut and run. No need to be a prick about it, but tell her what's up. Explain that you need more in the bedroom and you're not willing to waste your youth with someone who isn't into the same things as you.

Simple.

Exactly. He'll be married with 2 kids and suddenly after 10 years he stumbles upon her hookup messaging with 3 guys and having hot sex with them and complaining to her girlfriends that OP is soooo boring. BTDT. I'm 50, OP. I've seen this play out dozens of time IRL, including mine.

>She refuses to go on the pill because it might stop her having a kid in the future
>pulling out as a contraceptive method
nigga, you run from that breeding chamber as fast as you can

So you wanted our advice, here's our advice: dump her.
The fear of being alone is whatever. You've gotta own that shit though. You can't live a miserable life because you're scared of the alternative. Live an enjoyable life. You've fucked her, awesome. Remember that. Now move on and find someone you enjoy fucking. Prove you're not some pussy who deserves to be treated like this.

If it was easy, everyone would have perfect sex lives. It's not. But fucking do it anyway cause anything worth doing is worth doing right. And in this case we're talking about sex. Whether or not you choose to tell her why you're breaking up is up to you. Personally I'd recommend not to since she sounds emotionally abusive and you a little pussy. So chances are she'd manipulate you and convince you not to dump her. But whatever, it's your life.

Consider this: when you're on your death bed remembering your youth, do you want to remember how you wasted it having shit sex with a frigid bitch?

And OP will be sleeping in a chair and jerking off in the shower as soon as pregnancy #1 happens. Married cuckold.

She just text back saying "I don't know..let's use condoms seriously"

I hate using condoms i literally don't feel anything..

Your gf is a sane woman your the faggot who has been perverted by porn and now want to do everything you saw on porn, normal sex doesnt do it for you anymore this is the effect of porn, hope your gf leaves your ass before you make her do things that are trielly digusting.

Alpha fucks beta bucks.

>sane
>woman
Pick one

Get outta my Sup Forums churchfag

Thanks for the advice. I guess i am a bit of a pussy but it's a new year i'm cutting out all that is shit. Did i also tell you a lot of times when i touch her around her clothed body she "jokely" says i'm harrassing her and rolls her eyes. A lot of times when i touch her and shes busy she gets pissed off and raises her voice.

Stop negotiating with her. She's very aware that she has pussy power, and she's manipulating you.

Truth spoken here.

If you're not happy because you can't plow her dirty ass and blow a load on her face after a sloppy bj, you're not gonna be happy. End of story. That's a future of sexual frustration no one wants.

I’m 21 and i’ve pulled middle aged women more fun than your girlfriend, she must be really attractive

> i can already feel my depression kicking i again
I'd be depressed being with her user, being single after her would be a weight lifted.

sounds like she does not give a fuck about you, she would probably leave you if anything better wanted her.
get someone new.

I used to consider suicide every night with a bitch like this

She’s not good for you so dump her.

Good, OP. Use that attitude as a springboard. Start doing though. Don't think about it or waffle. Go to the gym. Update your wardrobe. Ask lots of girls out. You'll gain confidence and get laid.

if she admits to 5 then that number is probably closer to 25

Holy shit now I feel better

>I'm 21
>Shes 20
I lost my virginity to her like 2 months ago and shes been banging dudes since 14, she even said shed been a "ho"
>wtf
I'm scared
But she said I'm the best, I make her scream and gasp for air and she shakes like a washing machine while I'm fuvking the shit out of her for sometimes hours so now I feel great because your girlfriend is cucking the shit out of you

You need to find a younger woman to put that old bitch in check. She needs to realize that she is a few years from hitting the wall and if she doesn't start sucking dick now she is going to turn into a lonely cat lady

His girlfriend isn't cucking him...

That would require her to fuck other dudes in front of him.

That's only how it works in fetish porn. You don't have to be there to be a cuckold.

No offense, but you should break up with her.

Pic related I'm sure, because that girl is boring as fuck

Dump and move on if it's at all possible you could get laid again.

if youre anything like me, OP, we dont have time for bitches like that. I have gone through some SHITTY girls, much worse than you could ever imagine, and you need to get out before its too late.

Unless sex is super unimportant to you, break up.
It's hard if it's your first real gf, but being in no relationship is better than being in a bad relationship.

Didn't mean to reply to specifically.

Sounds like she was raped or molested when she was younger. Probably a relative.

You think pulling out is a legit contraceptive??? Wtf

too be honest this sums it up pretty well

Your sex life with her is not going to get any better.
She has some kind of issues and needs therapy, or is just dumb, or a completely unreasonable person. I would bet on a combination of all 3. We already know she is dumb because she thinks pulling out is effective birth control, and cases where being on the pill stops you from being able to have kids in the future are INCREDIBLY rare.

Or she is being dishonest about her reasons.

She doesn't really care if you enjoy sex if she is saying "hurry up" as soon as she cums"

This means that she will likely start being less and less willing to have sex as time goes on. Nearly 100% chance that once she has a kid, sex is done.

She MIGHT be cheating on you. This isn't a certainty because some chicks are just fucked up about sex. (Is she VERY close to an ex? Does she constantly talk about one specific other guy?)

Regardless, you need to get out now. She isn't going to get better, she is going to get worse.

Eat vegetables and fruits and eat less red meat then drink a lot of water and take zinc supplements, your cum will taste creamy and soft like a fruit pudding, once she has tasted it she can't live without it.

I'm guessing she's probably hot to super ultra hot. I have noticed hot women suck at sex more often sadly

I had a girlfriend many years ago, Lorrie, who was sexually insatiable (and ridiculously perverted; she referred to herself as a "pain slut" and enjoyed both voyeurism, forced sex, and humiliation), and who had her own girlfriend on the side. Her girlfriend was a 16 year old Sears catalogue underwear model who had an absolutely perfect 10/10 body. She decided she wanted to "try me out," so she went to bed with me after getting Lorrie's permission.

She was the most boring bed partner I've ever had. She literally just laid in bed like a dead fish, her eyes open and staring like a corpse. She just sprawled there and waited to be pleased. She was terrific to look at, but it was like fucking a corpse. I guess when you look that good you never need to even think about doing anything else.

She doesn't like you user, sorry.

Why would a woman not want to have 'proper' sex with a man? Because she doesn't find him attractive.

If she doesn't even like it on her hands, it's probably more than just the taste.

Hey buddy ik that hurts your self esteem more than people think but don't stress it's to much,it's her nor you. So don't get too depressed about it, maybe she on the asexual side of things

...

Wife is boring at sex.
>start out with a 20-30 minute massage for her. not sexual contact... back, shoulders, neck legs and arms only
>after that I get a 2-minute blow job
>then PiV
>since I've been rock hard for 30 minutes I last about 60 seconds
>she uses a vibe on herself to get off
>repeat a month or two later

Side buddy is a lot better.

My gf is paralysed below the waist and she puts more effort into sex than your gf does. We can't do anal, and she only lets me cum inside her when we have sex in the shower, but she eats my cum every time she gives me a blowjob or handjob.

Ditch her and get someone better.

>lost her virginity at 14

basically a slut, now willing to settle.

also, sounds like you value sex performances more than bitcoins

also, you forgot that sex action degrades over time. In a few years you'll be whining and grumbling again, because body decay, because nothing new to "explore", because not even viagra can make you hard.

tldr: you're both a faggot and a cuck, she's Dem Used Goods obsessed with birthing some baby to show to her parents

Been together 7 months, only went down on her twice.

Atleast she's not the only boring one in the sack...

Details pls

What do you want to know?

he isn't learn to read

What does sh3 do? How do you fuck her? Does she cum? I think its hot, spill the beans

Dude. STOP going down on her, and if she asks, say 'it's because you wont go down on me'.

Watch how fast that shit changes my good man.

How do you deal with chicks like this? I've been with a boring chick, just lies there expecting you to fuck her, doesn't rub herself, or anything, so boring!

The fear of being lonely and the associated feelings are the only leverage the whore has on you, dump her ass today, nothing good will follow, or do you want to continue this bullshit up to her menopause? Just think a year ahead, I would be fed up with this shit after the third time,if I have to
>hurry up
or
> come in a tissue
I might as well rub one out, at least I got as much time as I would like and the outcome isn't any worse or anti-climatic.

>If she's lying down she can't do much other than put a pillow under her hips, but she makes up for that by occasionally giving me a rimjob.
>We can fuck in most normal positions apart from doggy and cowgirl, but her favourite is when she puts her legs on my shoulders and I can thrust really deep.
>She can cum from g-spot stimulation or if she uses her Magic Wand on her clit.

you mean watch how fast she cheats on him or leaves him.

I think you deal with it by not trying to fuck them any more. If they're nice to look at, then you look at them and leave them on the shelf for display.

Which shows she's a whore and doesn't deserve OP.
Lrn2women, fag.

Only a kissless desperate virgin would say something like this

Yes but boring sex is still better than no sex at all, especially if they're cute. Would still like to fuck them, but actually have them moan and want to ride your shit

Dude just move on unless you're really that desperate. I've been wth easily over 100 women and every single one of them have sucked my dick, licked my ass, moaned, wanted slapped abd choked, and 90% will let you in their ass on thr first go. They just have to be attracted to you and want to be slutty abd impress. Not trying to make you feel bad but i guarantee she'd suck my dick. Move on. Next time you get im a relationship, lay out the facts.... she fucks how you say, when you say, and she'll like it or leave. Girls don't want a nice respectable not, they want a animalistic man that will arguably degrade them regardless of permission or if they want to do it.

Not for years on end when its the only sex he gets.

He WILL eventually end up having sex with someone else on the side, he will have no choice. If he gets caught, it could cost him HUGE if they are married or if they are living in a common law state. Even worse if they have kids, because the cheating will be HIS fault even if she caused the situation that ensured it would happen.


He needs to get out now. Sex is not hard to get.

Sex with my wife was amazing at first, it was good , and now, its a means to get off without having to jerk off. NOTHING ABOUT HOW WE HAVE SEX HAS CHANGED, SHE IS STILL "GREAT IN BED" But its now boring after fucking the same person for 20 years. The only thing that keeps me sane is banging some side piece every once in a while, and weekly visits to an asian massage place (I make plenty of money so the cost is no issue and its dirt cheap anyway, I can get a decent massage and a great handjob for $80 total out the door)

I have a neighbor's wife that sucks my dick a couple times a week for the last couple years, she won't fuck because she feels like that is too offical cheating but loves sucking my dick. After a couple years of her sucking my dick, I am starting to get bored of just plain vanilla blowjobs from her, even though she is great at it.
My point is, that even if the sex is great, it eventually gets boring with the same person.

If it starts out bad, it will be absolute torture being chained to that person long term.

I know guys who have been married 10+ years that would FAR rather just jerk off than have to go through the foreplay to fuck a woman they are tired of.


If its already bad for OP, he really REALLY needs to punch out now.

Bruce 5 years, same problem. DON'T BE ME user, SAVE YOURSELF

i feel like the best thing you could do for yourself and her is to cheat on her. i know it sounds counterintuitive, but she'll realize that she needs to suck some dick if she wants to be with a guy. Even if its not your's at least you might prep her for the next bro, and you'll get your dick sucked. Make sure you dump her after she finds out, lol

why is she your gf in the first place???

This reminds me there are real people here.