What worries you about your girlfriend?

What worries you about your girlfriend?

Its so hard to be alright all the time, theres always something to worry, from the smallest things to the biggest problems

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I'm worried she might not tell me about her fears, because I know it's hard to open up about things sometimes

I'm also worried she doesn't love sucking dick as much as OP does

cheating, going behind my back

bump

If I had one, I wouldn't really have to.

My girlfriend went through some embarrassing medical stuff on her vag (cervical tumors, all were removed and it looks like nothing happened) and since then lost all interest in sex. Then she lost all interest in me. Now we barely talk and I hate it. She still loves me and vice versa so its not easy but I hope she will find her libido again.

lol

>I'm also worried she doesn't love sucking dick as much as OP does

My gf has really low libido as well (no operation or anything). She just comes too easily then looses interest in sex... Im worried I might not bear it one day

She loves me.

I'm in a pretty good relationship with gf. She gives me my space and i give her own though so it makes me uneasy sometimes if I think too much about it. Especially if I'm around her and she almost instinctively locks her phone, etc.

That's where you just gotta learn how to trust because if you don't you're gonna end up miserable and ruining whatever good thing you got.

Her family fucking sucks. They're a bunch of idiots. Her younger brother is drug addicted and suicidial and I'm worried he's going to end up moving in with us so she can keep an eye on him because she's the only responsible member of her immediate family. I really don't want to be stuck cleaning up her family's mess.

She's either cheating on you or thinking about it bruh. Dump that bitch before you get hurt.

Is she prude or come from conservative background? My girlfriend is Muslim so I can't tell if it's low libido or her being moody/prude

I broke up with my gf of 5 years because her dad tried to come back into her life, turned out he'd raped her as a kid and she became asexual after he harassed her trying to reconnect. Not putting up with that bullshit, get out while you can user

Dont trusting me enough, its like theres always something there
My previous gf cheated on me, and it wasnt like when I was on my 20s, she was meant to be my wife -at least I discovered everything- so now Im almost constantly worried with my current gf, thinking she doesnt love me enough, why she isnt writing me more frequent or worrying too much with every argument

That's not for sure, but its a possibility. Had an ex-gf that did the same to me a while back.

not sure about that we ve been together for some year and she s always been like that.

Pretty prude imo, she feel ashamed watching porn and comes from a pretty conservative background.

0/10 troll man.
No girl loves a guy and doesn't have sex with them. That's not how things work.

Used to worry that GF was unfaithful.
Worried she would dump me for someone better.
I was not tall, skinny, was sure she could do better.

She ended up dumping me because I was an unconfident loser who worried all the time.

I dunno about that, we re pretty straight forward talking about finding other people attractive but she never really mentioned someone more than once

Do you know that moment when your gf stops texting you like in your best moments together?
You know theres something going on, but she denies it, tells everything is fine and she keeps delaying her replies more and more

Has a lot of guy friends, and is always giving them hugs/getting lunch with them. Also is on birth control, but always wants to fuck with a condom on "to be safe". Not sure if cheatin or not

Not loser bby :)

0/10 bait

if you're serious you're an idiot or a virgin

thats something which happens to me all the time. Im feeling insecure with my current gf too, constantly asking things and she sees that. When you show confidence they always come to you but Im a very depressive person and tend to magnify every issue

As long as she is not naked, like ever, it's all good.

Have you ever sat and talked to her about it? It sounds like a dumb question, but it actually does work

Unless you're rich (and that's really your girlfriend) she's almost certainly fucking other guys.

Could gently suggesting going to a doc m8, could be a hormonal problem or it could be that she'd benefit from a few sessions of cognative behavioural therapy (CBT).

I mean she is when we have sex, but even then she just rides me till she cums and then gives me a half hearted bj/hj till i cum

Talk to her

Mine had premature ovarian failure and is going through early menopause. hot flashes and everything. She used to be the kinkiest BDSM bitch that would get soaking wet and cum just from my talking dirty in her ear or tugging her nipples. Now, I always need lube on hand, and she never ever initiates. Dead fish in bed most of the time, now. She's the best person, but I'm still mourning the loss of all that easy, incredible fun.

In summary, I feel you.

This is true, 100%. Always.

Women want sex just as much as men. The difference is that Men are usually attracted to their girlfriend and want to fuck their girlfriend all the time. If she’s attracted to you, she’ll be fucking you often - end of story. Full fucking stop. If she’s not attracted to you (dating you for the free shit and attention, or because she can’t find anyone better), that’s when she throws you a pity fuck once every 1-2 weeks to keep you around, but sneaks off to fuck Chad, who she’s actually attracted to, but he’ll never date her because he knows he can do better.

The problem is women are really good at faking sincerity and making you feel loved... and always have a good reason why she’s not fucking you tonight. You always feel like your girl is different - she just has a low libido! She’s under a lot of stress! You’ve done something wrong!

No. People don’t work that way, and deep down you fucking know it.

I did actually and she really told me she doesnt need as much sex as I do and apologized for that. She agrees to suck me off or let me masturbate with her but sex twice a week is more than enough for her

My gf barely fucks me unless she's drunk. She's always on her phone too, twitter, fb, snapchat, fucking everything and I hate it. I've no proof she's cheating on me, and thus no reason to leave her. If she wasn't so invested in my family and vice versa, or living with her I'd had left her a while ago.

I've tried, she says she hates blowing me after becuase of the taste of the condom. Also finishes me into a napkin 60% of the time. She's also constantly snapchatting guys

some nigger at her job keeps being extra "friendly" towards her

A little background here. I used to split an apartment with my hot cousin. She had a boyfriend and a lot of guy friends too. Pretty sure they all wanted to fuck her, and I know for a fact at least two of them were because I would overhear her talking to her girl friends about sleeping with the other guys behind her boyfriend's back. Girls tell each other everything and I was in a unique position being able to eavesdrop on her private conversations. Basically, you can't trust hot girls.

Also accidently read her messages early in our relationship, and her friend's were asking about dick size comparisons with me and her ex, and she said that her ex had "the way bigger dick but this one's nicer", apparently he had an 8 incher

my girlfriend is an idiot

i'm afraid that this might happen to her

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You’re the troll, faggot. I’ve got depression that causes my interest in sex to wane at times. My wife and I have amazing communication and are very affectionate with each other. Besides, sex is messy and it stinks.

Any armpit shots?

Some condoms are flavored

Im worried that she will never fulfill my high expectations of responsibility and efficiency and I will always be thinking I should do better.

More details on the hot cousin plz. You ever see her naked?

I want her to suck my cock without one

Guys - I don’t care how much you think your girl loves you.

You NEED to have a high index of suspicion for cheating.

You’re NOT being paranoid. If your gut tells you something’s wrong, IT IS. I don’t care if you have a fucking paranoia disorder - if she’s attracted to you and faithful, you’ll KNOW IT.

Men are evolutionarily programmed to detect cheating in a partner. It’s a subconscious process that’s evolved over millions of years. A subtle smell, a behavior, a facial expression... these things make you feel strange and suspicious for a REASON. A truly faithful woman will rarely make you feel this way.

You don’t need proof to break up.

Half the dudes in this thread are listing behavior that is OBVIOUSLY cheating behavior.

“low libido” + snapchats other dudes/“lots of male friends” + you’re suspicious? COME ON MAN! Do you really need to get the “she’s busy” text before you realize you’re being played?

Tell her it's an airplane going to the hanger.

Apparently she used to always give her ex road head, but when I asked she laughed and said it was "dangerous"

legit feel better hearing that dude. Its hard because a relationship isnt all about sex, but it helps form strong bonds. My gf used to be kinky af and we fucked alot back in the day. Now she makes me depressed and really angry

shhhhh

let them learn the hard way

So how do you tell?

Don't have these problems so I don't know or care.

any more of the girl?

Trips o'truth

having lots of guy friends is likely a sign of cheating but not all girls with many guy friends is fucking them.

If you gf has many male guy friends who are also your friends, you are most likely safe. fucking a lot of side guys who are friends will get her the reputation of a slut and most girls arent into that. If they are, youll have plenty of other signs to confirm this kind of behavior.

Give her head everytime she comes home to sniff anything weird out

>blows you with a condom
>finishes you in a napkin
>you havent left her yet
what a pathetic cuck, lmao. I kekked so hard

Good idea

I guess women aren't built with this because I successfully cheated on my last two girlfriends and they never said shit about it.

Might as well fucking jerk off and be free

Good luck :)

I’ve been trying but I’m not attractive enough to cheat

>give her head to smell weird stuff out
>good idea
you'd be eating the last guy's spunk, you moron

Me and the GF fuck 1-3 times a day, Sup Forumsros am I safe? We hangout everyday and i mean everyday. Go to different highschools amd she prob has a few guy friends but shit doesnt bother me. She doesnt like me having any friends that are girls. I work afterschool then go straight to her place afterwork and thats our daily routine. Both have snapchat, but neither of us have people of the opposite gender added. Same with texting. All in all pretty happy. Had my suspicions at first cuz shit was whacky in the beginning before we were dating. Am I safe?

Finish before her then. Stop fappin everyday

That’s my kink

why would you need to finish off into a napkin if you are wearing a condom. This confuses me

Honestly... the best indicator is how she behaves during sex.

Good signs: initiating sex often, enthusiastic, adventurous, has orgasms, is obviously enjoying your body. You FEEL this. Feeling raw attraction is easy. It is possible that she’s truly attracted to you but is cheating anyway, but this extremely hard to detect and pretty rare.

Bad signs: Never/rarely initiating sex. Sticks to missionary position. Not adventurous. Seems shy/not confident during sex (despite having many previous boyfriends). Never suggests anything new. Doesn’t seem enthusiastic. Again, you feel this - it’s a gut instinct when you feel like your girl would rather be fucking someone else.

She would like you to believe that this behavior is because she’s just shy. This is 500% steaming bullshit if she’s not a high school virgin. She’s had boyfriends before. Sex is not some crazy new adventure. If she’s had a good handful of previous sexual partners before and gives you this “I’m shy” line, I would bet my last penny she’s out sucking dick.

Second best sign is frequency of sex, and how much she initiates. There’s no real cutoff here.

But really, the single best indicator of your girl cheating is when you *really* feel suspicious.

Yea you’re fucked

She was probably fucking somebody else at the beginning of your relationship, but that's totally normal. She had to compare you to him and decide who she liked better. She chose you.

Girls are actually really bad at detecting cheating. The evolutionary pressure is on guys to sniff out cheating - so they don’t expend resources caring for Chad’s children.

Dam how fucked?

Sure, if you're a complete beta. If you aren't a faggot and know how to be in a relationship, you have nothing to worry about. Unless you're with an actual whore in which case, that's your fault.

Actually was other way around, was me and another friend, she didnt do shit with him, I can confirm. She picked me, he ended up in jail and is now on run from cops in who knows where

who hurt you bro

quite a lot actually

Fucking every day is a solid indicator that either (a) she’s afraid to not fuck you because you’re violent and controlling, or (b) she’s extremely faithful.

I’d say solidly safe. I’d bet you’re tall and good looking, and probably under 25.

Oh yeah. I've actually gotten really good at it, but it can be exhausting. Fucking 3 different girls a week without any of them finding out about each other is almost a full time job.

Dam the Gods are speaking to me, relatiinship must be fine.
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Option A is outta the picture lol. I rarely am controlling, only about some things, but shes told me she likes it when im controllng. Lel im one of the least violent peeps you could talk to lol. Funny thing is im like 5"5'-5"6' from what ive been told/heard, im a solid 6-8/10, dick is 6-8 inches it varies from some reason dunno if thats normal. Im 19. Pretty average

everything is too perfect.
the only way it could get better is if she finally agreed to a threesome with a qt.

I really hope nobody believes this.

tl;dr

be a cuck and pretend your not

This. My gfs phone is on lock down. To be fair so is mine but she knows less people than I do and she's been loyal when I haven't. I'm just afraid she's gonna leave me at some point. Been ten years now. Lol.

This is pretty spot on. My wife of 7 years started to act weird, stopped initiating sex and all that. Next thing I know she left me for some old dyke.

Good riddance though, my new gf is prettier and nicer to me.

ITT people who have been cheated on and believe that every girl is just like 'her'

My gf would probably date an Asian guy if they weren't beta w/ small dicks

what a waste of time.

don't you, idk, want to make a career? something you can leave after you die?

It's normal for people to no longer be attracted to each other eventually. This shit happens sometimes.

my current GF is a high school virgin i de-virgined in university. i love training virgins.

i got her to clean the blood out of my sheets. was a good feeling. fuck buddies for 3 months before she gave me the 'ship it or skip it'

your OCD about it will be your downfall. Trust me on this. Relationships need to be fluid and casual. That's where the connection and trust are built. Get a grasp on your mental faculties.

She lacks self confidence, and doesn't think she deserves me, because I don't treat her poorly.
It's sad because she's super nice, and pretty. She's definitely the best girlfriend I've had. And she has a big butt which is a bonus.
But Idk what to do to make her build some self confidence.

Of course it is, it even happens in marriage. all im saying is that these posts are all one sided and simply jump to conclusion that, yes she IS cheating. if you don't have proof, if you haven't caught her, if she hasn't told you, then you really don't know if she is cheating. sure you can ruminate and convince yourself all you want to that she is or she has, but that's destructive to your own well-being and your own relationship. eventually this behavior will rub off onto your partner and it will push her away

She's reluctant to fuck my ass, despite very frequently commenting on how nice my ass is.

sex twice a week is normal in a long term relationship. how old are you, and how long have you been dating

i'm on the flip side of most guys, i'm worried she's never going to cuck me with a well hung older man.

it's probably not her that's making you depressed and angry. you might want to find someone to talk to about that.