Would you date a girl who is very pretty and loves you...

Would you date a girl who is very pretty and loves you, but has serious mental illness such as schizophrenia or bipolar disorder?

Been there done that. No. God NO. DO NOT DO THIS. I would take an emotionally healthy land whale over a mentally ill 10/10 any day. It's even harder because being crazy seems to make girls seem even hotter. It is a trap. the worst kind of trap there is.

Trust me on this. Find a chunky 5/10 who is happy and likes to chill and doesn't cause a lot of drama. You will be happy for the rest of your life.

so fucking true

I am currently. She is bipolar. I'm Major Depressive myself.

Because we mate assortatively you'll find that the mentally ill tend to flock together.

All this does is make you both deal with each others problems. You think it'll half both your problems but it doesn't, it doubles it. Dump the bitch, and you do you until you're healthy and capable.

My ex is diagnosed paranoid schizophrenic and it was tough to deal with, but not impossible. Also not the reason we broke up

The crazier the girl the crazier they fuck. Good for short term relationship. Dont bring home to mama. Pump and dump, ditch her before she kills you.

That does seem to happen often but not always. A few exceptions I've found:

Depressed people do not like to hang with other depressed people. It ends up being a self-pity contest. They prefer to latch on to happier people so they can heighten their contrasting misery.

Psychopaths prefer victims. Psychos may occasionally team up with other psychos, but the backstabbing is glorious. They're probably having the best sex than anybody else but it won't be long before they start suing/stabbing each other.

I had the exact same experience and conclusion.
You don't have to fall in that trap OP

dont they all have mental illness that comes with the fact that they just are women?

No because id shoot that bitch eventually.

No. I would date an average girl who was sane though.

Ditching her might make her kill you

>but has serious mental illness such as schizophrenia or bipolar disorder?

Nope. Being there, done that never again. She had anxiety and schizophrenia, she was a real sweet heart but the world I lived in and the one she did, never really met up.

I was forever bailing her out of financial difficulty and I was forever pulling her out of fantasy land where she had another guy. Final straw was she disappeared for a while, convinced me we had a son, then told me he died. Distraught I told her parents and they filled in the blanks for me, it was just another delusion.

depends on how bad it is honestly

Stay away. Trust. There's no fixing crazy.

I feel strongly enough about avoiding mates with mental illness that I think it should be an essential part of parenting to help their kids recognize the symptoms. Get some books on it, read up, get good at reading others.

eh...

Are mentally ill girls suppose to just be alone forever then ? Pfft, okay.

It takes a real man to take in a damaged woman and hold space for her dysfunctions

kinda

Never stick your dick in crazy. If they get attached to you they become obsessed and make you the object of their madness.

>It takes a real man to take in a damaged woman and hold space for her dysfunctions

No, it takes a real women to hold herself up and try make things better. Stop using guys to prop you up. Take you meds you crazy bitch.

Well if you can get an emotionally healthy 10/10 then obviously do that. I'm just saying if you're stuck between hot-n-crazy vs. average-n-sane, take the latter.

The younger you are the less likely you'll take this advice because you're one giant, throbbing, bag of sex drive, but believe me, when you look back on your life you will see a trail of wasted opportunities for happiness if you choose crazy.

Married to one. First sign of crazy, run for your life. Will probably divorce Doon as she refused to give get help and I can't take the rollercoaster anymore.

hot bitches are a dime a dozen. why settle for a crazy bitch? are you such a fuckin soyboy that you don’t think you can do better? or are you just lazy?

NEver again

The hot ones is always crazy. And the ugly ones too.

Don't do it, I spent 7 years with a girl like this. At the start you can put up with it, and it's great when it's good. After the honeymoon period ends, it really destroys you. Date her but don't get attached.

>Are mentally ill girls suppose to just be alone forever then ?

Are mentally ill girls *my* problem? It takes a real man to commit himself to a real woman who will work towards rather than against creating a happy family.

I been there, crazy pussy aint worth it Sup Forumsros

didnt know this board had so many fucking normies who cant withstand crazy grils, arent we all stuck in the same planet you fuckers?

we all do.

don’t stick your dick in crazy

what if something broke inside me that makes me feel i gotta be god complex with everyone

I'm seeing a lot of anons who jumped on the crazy and realized it was a mistake. That's different than normies. More like wounded Sup Forums veterans.

Kek

yeah Sup Forumseterans, i get your point though hehe

I'm stuck in this trap and she has an eating disorder

Already have, not worth.
she was angry, always angry.
Bipolar moments? even angrier.
Fucked like a porn star in heat though.

well i have bipolar disorder and i've been dumped multiple times because of that

>It takes a real man to commit himself to a real woman who will work towards rather than against creating a happy family.

Maybe their damage make them more capable of creating a happy family, because they know what //didn't// work for them and what fucked them up and what to do instead

I have, I loved her. It's sad to say but it drains you. she was bipolar. and when she had to move away to go to uni and i could not follow her becous of my job i was actually relieved when she started drifting away from me and nn to the arm som someone else. lukaly he is a cuck so i still get to fuck her once on awhile when i travel across the country. she is smoking hot.

>Maybe their damage make them more capable of creating a happy family,

Paranoid delusion isn't a keystone of family life, unfortunately.

>Take your meds
>Undergo CBT
>Learn about adult social interaction
>Lying all the time isn't normal

>be me
>Date a girl with bipolar disorder and depression
>sex was crazy good
>but she was crazier
>break up with her after less than a year
>she decides to do nothing with her life and live with her parents
>never leaves the house, no friends
>2 years later she still obsesses over me, stalks me on social media, has no will to live

Basically, the sex is not worth the mental and emotional struggle of dating someone with this type of disorder

My mom had schizoaffective disorder which is basically a combination of the 2 and all i can say is IT's living hell. It really depends on the severity as it can vary heavily so i'd say it wouldn't be an automatic no, it would dependent on how bad she actually has it. Also much prefer bipolar than schizophrenia, the mood swings are annoying but i can't describe to you how bad a paranoid schizophrenic is.

Every woman is mentally ill. They can't help it. It's like they can't separate the lies they tell themselves from the truth.

You make a great point. You might be right.

(this person is not right. they're probably crazy femanon. just smile and back away)

Already did, they end up cheating on you and mentally ruining you. They are to be treated as fuck toys, for some reason they treat bad guys like kings and good guys like shit.

Would you eat a dinner that is very delicious but gives you the most fucking hurtful diarrhea in the history of diarrheas?

Same.

I would never do it again.

Faked suicide attempts, faked pregnancies, calling the police on me for breaking in, despite me being out of state. Just so she could get back in touch with me.

The screaming, bratty selfishness, uncompassionate nature of those are horrible.

They are weak people who cant handle life. They need to die.

All girls are fucked in the head.

kinda like something i was about to type. my mom has bipolar, cant imagine having schizophrenia aswell. i love my mom but dear god do i feel bad for what my dad went thru, he gave up and divorced her when i was 10 which made her attempt suicide. i hated him and blamed him but now i understand how tough it was to hang in for so long. im never getting in that situation. i love my mom but one crazy woman in my life is enough.

How often do you visit Blacked.com?

Do you like being a cuck?

What does it feel like being a numale?

Yes the sex over 9000

Yup. Don't forget false rape claims, tricking you into real pregnancies, telling white knights that you are abusive so they'll kick your ass, disastrously poor financial discipline.

And they fuck you up in ways you can't even predict. My ex frequently borrowed my car. One day I went to renew my license and it turned out I was suspended due to around $1000 of unpaid parking tickets. Turns out she had been racking them up, never telling me about then, never paying them, and hiding the letters when they came in the mail. If I had gotten pulled over by the police they would have gotten me for driving with a suspended license.

Seriously, you cannot even predict the weird ways a crazy woman will fuck you up.

My stats:

>Generalized anxiety
>Borderline personality disorder (not bi polar)
>Sporatic suicidal ideation

I couldn't really ever maintain a conventional job as I need to take out time as soon as I need it when I need if I'm having an episode, so I work as a camgirl.

I try to manage my mental illness the best I can through a mostly raw vegan diet, exercise, and overall being as deliberate about my day as I can.


Would you date me or not date me?

No. Because her illness loves me. Not her true source mind. I'm a Sad dad now.

yes if you are looking for nothing in return. You will be there for here but she is never there for you to show you love or even have sex.

yes absolutely
many cuddles when she's feeling bad, probably would like drink & drugs too which ticks my boxes
would you OP?

this, but the relationships are usually short and intense

Try 5-htp

No. Telephone.

tits

fo sho my nigga

Agreed.

Yes I would. See, this is the problem men have. We're so fucking horny we'd burn it all just for a chance to hit the vag.

Nope. You typed that post lying through your teeth.

>Nope.

Thats a trick question. .what girl doesnt have a serious mental disorder?

>vegan

NO

i already am mate

Do not do this.

I repeat, do not do this

You’d have to have really low self-esteem to do this. The love they give you will keep you from leaving them. And they probably do love you in their own sick way. But they’ll destroy your life little by little.

Also, they cheat ALL the time. This is actually counterintuitive because they seem super devoted to you. But the fact is that they’re not really devoted to you - they just deeply love the attention you give them, and they love the idea of being in a relationship, so you FEEL like they love you. The problem is they have low self-esteem, and it’s always the low-self esteem girls that cheat. They want attention and validation, and the second you stop giving it to them, even for a minute, they find it at the end of chad’s fat cock (who’s been preying on girls like this since he was a teenager).

You never suspect, because she seems so devoted!

Your family will hate her because they can tell there’s something off about her. This inevitably results in you picking sides between your girl and your family.

Note that this doesn’t apply to all girls with mental illness. I suppose it’s theoretically possible that there are some girls with well-controlled mental illness who have great self-esteem, are highly educated, and have a real life and career (3 absolute prerequisites for dating a girl with a mental illness). I’ve never met one like this though.

Schizophrenia should be an absolute deal breaker, no matter how well controlled she is. In many states, they can have education and careers and judges have still sent men to prison for having sex with them, under the rationale that a girl with schizophrenia can NEVER give consent - it’s always rape.

To be fair, the reverse is true too. Women should avoid men with mental illness. Guys can inflict just as much mental torture on women. And while women can fuck men over institutionally (false rape claims, family court, presumption of innocence in domestic violence cases) me, of course, can beat the crap out of women.

So yeah, guy or girl, don't date crazy.

I would date you.
I bet it would be totally fun, even the parts where you may or may not set my stuff on fire

"depressed people do not like to hang out with other depressed people"
... You're on Sup Forums, m8. the fuck you on about lmao

> Be me
> Was in relationship for 5y with girl in depression and other mental stuff.
> Family problems form childhood
> Was super hot
> First 2y was awesome until all the problems that she was hiding started to come out.
> Then I am there fore here to make her feel good ect.
> Next 2y were starting to go downhill.
> To the point that she sees me as reminder that she is unstable, and if she is ok with no problems, she built up habit to complain about her problems to me even if the day were good.
> It all ended up for me to be there for here and i got nothing in return. Oh and last two years we had sex mybe 10 times or so.
> yeah it was bad.
> In two years after breakup, she wit bottom and came up really good because no one was around to listen to her problems. She is doing really good now, job, friends all good.
> Be me again
> Last year i hook up with 10/10
> Sex was awesome relationship is is good
> Until i started to see that she has the same symptoms and childhood problems as the ex.
> Was forced to end it judging by my experience, it wont last.

I'm not depressed.

>even the parts where you may or may not set my stuff on fire

More like not being able to leave my bed somedays and sometimes threatening to walk away when I don't really mean it just so I can hear you tell me to stay

Stay away from women with mental illness, drug or alcohol problems, bad debt problems and past cheating. They never change.

> threatening to walk away when I don't really mean it just so I can hear you tell me to stay

Oh god, I'm practically getting flashbacks from a previous relationship just hearing this.

Yeah, no ... do not date crazy. Get the sanest girl you can find even if she's not the most attractive. Just bang her with the lights off and then go live your happy lives together.

yeah probably, our 'stats' are pretty similar so can't really say they're much of a red flag. Odds are we'd have an epic disaster of a breakup when it eventually came to that, but would probably be fun along the way. Just try not to leave me in a foreign country with no phone or laptop and a broken-down rental car like the last one lmao

>More like not being able to leave my bed somedays and sometimes threatening to walk away when I don't really mean it just so I can hear you tell me to stay

You are the fucking worst .There is no need for these games, that's how you fuck someones head up. Start taking your meds, keep going to therapy and get better in yourself. Otherwise your dangerous, your the fucking worst kind.

Fuck you.

yeah, I can tell by that dumbass observation lol

Damn straight. I have had two crazy hot but crazy girlfriends and a hot but bat shit wife. Fuck that! Never again. My wife now is a chubby 5/10 but does things like holds a job and doesn't try to stab herself/me with a kitchen knife. Crazies are fun for a few weeks until they call you up saying they eat a bunch of pills, beging you to "save them."

My penixperience here:

- Depressive. Pure shit.
- Borderline. Great sex. Bit annoying with shit, but at least she is married, so the cucold takes most of her shit.

> inb4 all wiminz are crazy

he said
> a girl who is very pretty
this is not

The “all girls have mental illness” responses are glib and should be ignored.

The “girls with mental illness seem like they love you but cheat all the time” is 100% true. They’re also very good at lying about it, and never admit it, unless you present them with the undeniable evidence. Then suddenly they feel guilty.

I would have bet my life my MDD/BPD girl was faithful and the most loyal, loving girl in the world. I thought she was absolutely devoted, and I loved her, though I thought she loved me way more.

Until I got woken up by that 2AM text from Tony Rivera asking her if her pussy was still sore. I looked at her phone and found out she had been fucking over 7 different guys in the 2 years we’d been together.

She’d been using all of us to feed her addiction to attention.

I was just the only one dumb enough to date her.

10/10 post my niqqa

I'd stay in bed with you and cuddle you and bite your butt
and I'd always ask you to stay, I dont like being left
come be with me forever, crazy girl

My now ex g/f who decided today to break up with me over something that happened four months ago has schizophrenia. To make a long story short. Don't, not worth it.

I've done it.
Never again.

>- Borderline. Great sex. Bit annoying with shit, but at least she is married, so the cucold takes most of her shit.

LOL. Well this is certainly a good example of why you don't marry crazy. But if you can have all the crazy sex and let some other cuck take care of the drama, then you've hit the sweet spot.

But I can't help but think you're playing with fire. She's going to tell cuck that you raped her and he'll come after you with a knife, or she's gonna have your baby and divorce him and come after you for support ... or who knows what.

But still, good luck user.

PLEASE take this warning seriously.

It seems like a edgy dream right? Hell no believe me I had a perfect 10/10 hot chick would have died for me until the reality of it sets in and she kept threatening to kill herself everytime I wasnt with her. The amount of emotional stress is not worth it, I promise you its a trap I went through depression as a result of the cancer of being with a girl like that

She's already cringing at you. See how this work? Crazy women don't want supportive loser beta cucks. They want happy sane men they can ruin.

I'm pretty sure there are a lot more men stuck in that exact situation because girls don't give a shit about others. It takes a real woman to take in a damaged man and hold space fom his dysfunctions.

>inb4 women hate thread

Women suck thats a fact but pussy good

But did she an hero whe nyou left her?

I tried, once. Bipolar and depression. Here's the problem: Self diagnosed "I'm depressive and bipolar girl" don't have anything to do with the real thing. Anons around the world believe that bullshit. These girls are only spoiled and immature brats that only cared about her selfishness asses and nothing more. Second, those disorders are NOT self diagnosed, NOT diagnosed for "the school specialist" and NOT diagnosed and much less treated by a psychologist. We are talking here about a psychiatrist, meds and a shit ton of real shit.

First Rule: These girls are doomed and beyond salvation. These disorders are like AIDS: For life and need to be constantly monitored and treated.

Second Rule: If meds and treatment can only keep the shit at bay, YOU CAN NOT SAVE HER. This is not a TV show or a movie, this is the real world.

Third Rule: If she forget to take the meds or you cross the line, run for your fucking life ASAP

Fourth Rule: You can't fight her and much less win a argument. If you are unable to win a argument with normal girl, much less you can with a girl with a disorder. Deal with it

Fifth Rule: She can not only fight against you and win. She can even fight without you and still you will lose. Deal with It.

Sixth Rule: According her condition, you will face several different scenarios, but, all of them will have common elements: Self Pity, She will be always the victim and You will be always the wrong one or the bad guy, no matter what.

Seventh Rule: You can't change anything. The best case scenario you can achieve is suggest stuffs or ideas. Don't even attempt to try to change her opinion or point of view.

Eighth Rule: Follow my advice, user. Don't even attempt it. Yep, a pussy is a pussy and all of us agree with it, but every single pussy is attached to a woman. Chose a better and healthy one.

Truth was spoken here

depends i think. i had a gf and she was mentally fucked. did all sorts of drugs in the past and her brain never fully recovered. so she would wake up in the middle of the night, slap me and shout "i´ll give you your fucking money but go away, go away, get the fuck outta my face" and so forth.
still, i´d probably been together with her to this day if she didn´t end herself 2 years ago

I agree with all of the mental illness warnings, but not the "all women" thing.

I've known some really great women. Know what sucks? Sometimes men get bored of these women and cheat with crazy. They forget the loving woman who is home making lasagna just the way he likes it, and run after the stripper because she has awesome moves when she's been doing coke all night.

Then the dude is out on their ass missing the wonderful little things his wife did that he took for granted, and stripper girl is already full of somebody else's cum.