I've masturbated probably at least once a day for 12 years with only a few days missing, and I've never had a problem getting an erection. Last week I hooked up with some rando and I had trouble getting it up. Eventually I got it hard enough to fuck for a bit and finish but that shit has had me wondering what happened?
Anyone else experience shit like this? Also nice tits thread.
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You don't have a problem getting hard when watching porn. Because you are always looking for your idea of exactly what you want.
When you fuck bitches, you're in a sense settling.
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Nerves are a thing my man. Don't stress it. I can always, ALWAYS get it up, but when a girl I was fooling around with asked me to prove it infront of a few of her friends, the best I could do was a semi.
Shit had me worried man, she was good looking but I just didn't feel aroused.
Happens to a lot of men, less to do with masturbating and more to do with nervousness (can be subconscious). You'll be fine. If you masturbate furiously you might find it hard to get off with sex since you can't thrust that quickly and there's less friction. If you're really concerned try slowing down and see if you can cum with a slow stroke.
Because you're fapping to 11/10s and your brain and dick is used to getting off to that
It's just performance anxiety. Nothing is wrong with you.
OP here, probably should've mentioned I'm on Lexapro which has sexual side effects. But I always thought since I can get off and get it up I was in the clear.
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Don't let a one time rattle you man. Even the Pros have an off day.
1. You're getting older
2. You watch a lot of porn, which has raised your standards of arousal to much higher levels.
3. You probably grab your dick really hard when you masturbate and the same feeling isn't there when someone else does it.
4. Sounds like you had quite the dry spell, which makes getting back in the saddle a little difficult.
Just don't jack off for a few days. You'll be surprised.
I took Lexapro when I was younger. It definitely fucks with your dick.
If you're hooking up with someone you don't know, it could just be a part of you is wanting to tap the brakes to think about it. Happens more when you get older with women you don't know well.
Older you get, the more the unforeseen complications from random hookups can fuck with you in the moment.
I'm 25, and porn can do that? Should I stop, I never knew.
Thing is, I felt like my whole libido was on cooldown, I didn't feel aroused even when I knew I liked this chick.
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Porn is fun, but it gets difficult to enjoy a 7 when all you do is watch 10s on porn.
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You can try viagra
I never have a problem getting it up.
But when I try viagra, my hardons go from iron to diamond
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Isn't that prescribed by a doctor?
I've always wanted to try it out though.
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More foreplay til you are actually hard af man. You cant fake fuck, you actually have to want to. Get into it, take as long as you want during foreplay, maybe focus on her more.
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I'm actually proud of Sup Forums today. Only helpful comments in this thread.
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GG happened to me when I trying to lose my virginity.
I watched a lot of porn and jacked off everyday. When the day finally came I was nervous af. Mostly because I was a virgin at 22 and I thought she was experienced as well. Could get hard because nervous then I told her my situation and turns on she was a virgin too and I was going to be her first sexual experience, we were just to shy to tell each other.
Next time I saw her. Fucked her. It was dope