(sorry for shitty english) hey guys, i need some advice, real bad.
okay, so where should i start.. me and my gf have been together for about 7 months, she sais she loves me, but that she still loves her ex.. anyhow.. she told me that she had to meet her ex to "end things on a good note" with him, since they fought before she broke up with him. My gf has some mental problems, wich causes her to be very sexual, and it can occur with anyone. She has checked with a doctor, and she has some sort of sexual cravings shit that she cant control. Well, her and her ex met up at her grandmas appartment while i was away from town, (this happened today), and she said they just talked about things, and that she agreed to "never meet him again". well.. my friend went to her grandmas appartment and confronted her, just to check that everything was going alright. He busted her with a pack of condoms on the table.. She swears that she didnt have sex with him, and that the condoms were there before she came.. and i dont fucking know what to do. i really love her, and i dont want to lose her, so im trying to believe her, and shake it off.
She sais that she loves me and wants to be with me.
What should i do? has anyone dealt with this type of situation where your gf "might" have cheated on you.
I need some advice..
pic related.
Nolan King
She cheated on you Bro
Logan Sanchez
Dude, dump her.
If she's doing this type of stuff now, just think about what she'll be doing in the future. You don't need this kind of drama in your life. You'll always be worried, paranoid, suspicious, etc etc...
Do you really want this to be your life?
Owen Barnes
If you really love her and she does you then trust her. If she loves you then she wouldn't lie.
Jayden Lee
checked... also, she cheated on u. Pic related. Get some revenge and share more pics of her
Eli Stewart
That is an absolute crock of shit; nice fairy tale. People fuck over those they love ALL THE TIME.
Bentley Robinson
Dump her. That shit sounds way to complicated, and you don't need that.
Ayden Peterson
>756198655 if you're not comfortable, then move on
Ethan White
im listening guys, thanks for the advice so far.. yeah i might just dump her and move on.. but she is the best girl ive ever been with.. so that would be kinda soul crushing for me to have to do..
Nathaniel Fisher
Your girlfriend is a whore and this wouldn't be the first time she's fucked another guy behind your back.
Angel Brown
Are you encouraging OP to breach her privacy? Or even worse, to post "revenge porn"? That's fucked up, especially for something that is not 100% to be the truth.
Jackson Hall
also getting the feeling that this "disease" of hers is just an excuse to fuck around and be able to justify herself when/if you catch on
Matthew Walker
you're not the only one to suffer heartbreak, you will move on
Samuel Campbell
Maybe he'll feel better afterwards? Who knows.
Kevin Cook
trips of truth
Owen Hughes
If you can't trust what she says it means there is no trust and with no trust there is no real relationship.
Jackson Carter
make her wear a chastity belt
Gabriel Hill
Even worse is that she accuses me of cheating when a fucking girl dms me on instagram that i dont even respond too..
Robert Lewis
That's not really a good reason to do that.
Matthew Powell
op is that you?
Henry Howard
You are a fool if you stay with her OP. I know this is hard to hear, but its the truth. It almost doesnt matter if she cheated or not, shes not over her ex and you can never truly trust her. It will always be in the back of your head.
Really they most likely banged anyway. If you dont end it and move on shell never respect you because she sees you are completely willing to put up with her shitty behavior. Its not easy, and your emotions will tell you its wrong, but fuck her/end it.
Dominic Martinez
Yes
Jaxson Edwards
Yeah, this is most likely gonna happen. op here..
Liam Bennett
Things are always "worse than they seem" when it comes to relationships That's my rule. So if you think "My gf might be a ho" She def is a ho. But.... You still get to smash her. So think of it in that nice way.
Joseph Cruz
Keep the replys coming guys, im reading. Thanks for the input so far..
Jordan James
It sucks man, but just think about the life you'll have with someone like that. It sounds like a bunch of drama that you don't want to deal with. You'll spend your days in paranoia and suspicion and she might be a little crazy already.
It sucks, but sometimes you have to think about yourself. It's okay to be selfish with your OWN life...
Josiah Clark
Yeah.. seems reasonable..
Charles Powell
Do you really want this to be your life? Believe me man, if she's exhibiting this kind of behavior NOW....just think what it'll be like in the future.
Adam Morgan
lol how old are you dude? People fuck over people they love all the time. People are naturally selfish so to protect their best interest (to keep OP) they will say the thing that they think will keep them around.
Landon Clark
I put a keylogger on my ex gfs laptop because I had my doubts. I did not like what I saw. My honest advice to you is that you take this situation and own it. Become a master at deception and start cheating on her. Control your life. You will be the one who has the power from now on. You now can feel comfortable doing some messed up stuff to her because she put a knife in your back first. This mentality will help you in life.
Jordan Sanders
I think you shouldn't do anything to drastic yet OP. If you find out she did fuck him that night, then dump her. The getting jealous from other peoples dms is a huge red flag. When my parents were dating, my dad was a very protective guy. It got worse and worse as they were married. He would constantly question whenever my mom went out and didn't want her to work. Eventually he cheated on my mom and they had a divorce. Long story short OP, jealousy like this can cause heartache and pain down the road, so take of yourself OP.
Jackson Scott
A relationship is built on 3 things: Love, security, and trust
If one or more of those things is broken, then so is the relationship.
If your partner makes you feel insecure about anything, especially deliberately , then that's breaching trust and security.
Sorry buddy, but you can do better.
Camden Murphy
I feel you OP, have a long distance relationship with my girl whos in the US right now studying, she's coming back in about 2 years. She is a bit unstable and very needy which has gotten her in trouble before, she's made out with another guy, sucked his dick but she came clean to me about it feeling really bad. I fully believe that she regrets it all, which yes might be stupid on my part, but consequentially it has made me lose quite a bit of trust in her and I've had my fair share of paranoia and anxiety swings thinking about what shes doing. I made her an ultimatum saying that if anything like this ever happens again she and I are over. She says she wants to be with you so demand of her absolute honesty, tell her to come clean with all shit thats weighing her down once and for all, and if you find out afterwards that she lied then you break up with her. If she can't be absolutely truthful with you her feelings aren't real. Its up to you man, I know its a shitty position to be in but you gotta do whats best for you.
Julian Roberts
Cheat on her. It's "no holds barred" now. She set the standard. Next gf you meet? Cheat on her too. The only time a girl deserves loyalty is when you have known her long enough to know she is treating you well. She has passed the test then. If she steals fizzy lifting drinks she gets nothing. Own your life. Control your destiny.
Robert Torres
Thanks for these words my man.
Gavin Moore
If she had used the condoms, you'd seen some opened packs. this implies, at least she's pretending to using condoms when she is cheating on you. She cares that much about you that she keeps some condoms around for the case you may show up so she can let you "find" them. That level of care is more than some of the less luckier cucks will ever see.
ah, and yes, knowing that she is whoring around and still staying with her makes you a cuck, if not even a faggot.
Tell us, does her pussy smell good after being pumped by another man?
Carter Johnson
She keeps condoms around for him to "find"? Does not make sense. Get her drunk. Find out what happened. If she argues then you have a problem
Jose Hall
ur cuck
David Gonzalez
plenty of others women out there. You're probably still young, and it's only been 7 months. Fuck it man dump that ho