My ex-gf couldn't cum from penetration alone - no matter how long we had sex

my ex-gf couldn't cum from penetration alone - no matter how long we had sex

so after I while I just stopped giving a shit and fucked her for five to ten minutes and came whenever I liked it

now that we are no longer together I'm kinda afraid that I lost all my stamina, but on the other hand I have no motivation to edge and train it up again, because why? The next one might be the same way.

the statistics about women who can cum from penetration alone are kinda disheartening

inb4
>your dick was just to small for her
This actually might be a valid argument. Who knows. But even if that was true (I'm textbook average) it still doesn't change a thing. I can't really grow a bigger dick, can I?

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I thought the same thing about my girlfriend. She had never had a penetrative orgasm in her life. Recently though, I came a few minutes into sex, then kept going, at which point I had a lot more stamina and I pounded her until she came through penetration. We have been together more than 4 years and this was the first time it happened.

goddammit, that's not what I wanted to hear

Maybe if I stayed with my ex some miracle would have happened, too.

Almost no women can get off from penetration ALONE.

That doesn't mean women can't get off from penetration. The feeling of being penetrated is arousing in its own right and improves sensitivity in other areas.

Some women will rub their clit while being penetrated. Some want a guy balls deep inside of them so his stomach / pelvis can press against her clit. Sometimes with awkward angles you can get the shaft of the dick to stimulate the clit while penetrating.

Then there's more beyond just clitoral stimulation. Women's orgasms are 100% mental. This means that a woman can get off just by thinking about getting off. Clitoral, vaginal, and even nipple stimulation just helps - but isn't 100% necessary. So the more aroused a woman is, the more a woman wants to get off, and the more she practices getting off and gets used to the mental exercise, the better she'll be able to get off during sex

Then because her orgasm is 100% mental, anything that arouses her during sex -- even if not sexual -- can help her to get off. Some girls like to be squeezed tightly. Some like to be kissed or stroked. Some like to have their hair pulled, some like when you whisper in their ear. Every girl is different - mostly because while growing up their notion of what sex is and what sex should be is influenced by a HUGE variety of external factors (their friends, books they read, what they see in porn, how their parents treat them, etc)

As for whether or not you can grow a bigger dick, there ARE ways to increase dick size but they're all dangerous and you risk erectile dysfunction. Not worth it.

It's too late but you could have asked her if she normally had this problem (in other relationships). If so than you can't be too hard on yourself. If not well then maybe it's just a matter of not being sexually compatible. Not the end of the world Sup Forumsro.

Take notes from this user.

>Almost no women can get off from penetration ALONE.
They can when they're raped.

This.

>inb4
>>your dick was just to small for her
not necessarily too small, but the owner was too much of a dumb pussy to make her cum. you are the untalented, selfish kind. no empathy.
it doesn't need a big dick to make your gf cum. for the girl, a huge chunk of the pleasure is in the way you serve the dish. make her feel hot, desirable, irresistable …. and when it comes down to the sex, you keep an eye out on what she enjoys the most. you build the tension slowly, use your hands, alternate the speed ….
you're a failure in bed, that's why she couldn't cum.

I was her first.

Used to think my GF was like that, but a year to the day that I took her virginity she came from penetration alone. I think it had a lot to do with her becoming more comfortable with her body and sexual feelings, and also reading on how to come from penetration. For her she likes me to go slowly at the beginning, and then to go really hard and deep towards the end. God what is up with that granny fingering herself

Most women can't cum from penetration alone.

And a huge dick doesn't help. Despite what the cuck fantasists want to believe, a dick slamming into a woman's cervix isn't something 99% of women enjoy and if they were on the edge of orgasm, will usually push them away from it and probably ruin any chance of it. Anything over about 8" and you are virtually guaranteed to be hitting the cervix pretty hard when slamming balls deep. Actually 6" is enough to touch the cervix on most women although usually with a 6" dick you can slam away without causing pain. 7 or 8" is where you have to start to use at least a little caution when going ham on her pussy. The fantasy that women all want a 10" long, beer can thick black dick is just that, a fantasy.


And its a fantasy that nearly always stems from the mind of a young white male who for whatever reason cannot find a way to get laid, so they fabricate this idea in their head as a way of explaining why women don't want to fuck them. Its an effort to shift the responsibility of them being a social failure over to women, who are obviously the ones with the problem, because why would any woman not be interested in their unattractive, awkward, unable to speak to a female, poorly bathed and limited future prospect asses.

Most women can't get off from penetration alone. My ex wife would cum when I went deep and flexed my kegel. But my girlfriend has only cum twice from me penetrating. And she's tiny. Different women are different.

Congrats you guys

...

Im dating a woman who never came from getting fucked with probably a dozen previous partners. Now sje usually cums 5 to 10 times whenever we fuck.

Work on your technique, you lazy fuck. It's worth it.

None of my ex's could cum from penetration alone
My wife can't cum from penetration alone
My side piece GF cums from penetration like a champ.

Why do you think reverse cowgirl with a vibrator on their clit is like the number one most popular position with women?

aiiight boys

if you want to make a girl come while penetrating rub her cllt/pussy while you are fucking her

she will most likely cum or just fake it but its better both sides u still come too

my gf needs clit stimulation and can only take the tip until she has had an orgasm. she just jumps on top after foreplay and fingers herself with my tip in, cums in like 2-3 minutes and then thrusts her wet pussy down over my cock and gets me off. i barely have to do anything aside from a little fingering before and kissing and licking/pinching her nipples while she gets herself off

Not that just because getting off is mental for women doesn't mean a failure to get off implies she's not aroused enough. To help better explain, let's start with an empathy exercise:

Imagine if you were aroused and staring at porn, but the only way you could jack it is using two wooden blocks. You can rotate, roll, twist, and turn them however you want -- but the only thing that can touch your shaft are these two pieces of wood. Odds are you'd WANT to get off, but try as you might you couldn't quite get the sensation you want. It's not soft enough, it's not flexible enough, it randomly slips or goes at a weird angle, it doesn't grasp the whole shaft just right,...

In this situation, if you really tried and applied yourself and kept at it, you might be able to "learn" how to get off with these wooden blocks -- but it's not a natural way to orgasm and it won't come instinctively. You need to spend some time and practice, and with practice you'll get better.

The same is true for women, but with ALL kinds of orgasms. No matter how much they want to get off, they have to practice. When I first bought my wife a vibrator (back when we were just dating) she told me she couldn't get off from vibration. After a week and two or three sessions, she had figured it out. Later she told me she was incapable of getting off with just her hand. Eventually she found that she could if I was sucking on her breasts simultaneously. Months later she found she could get off with just her hand (and no breasts) if she was sitting down over the toilet bowl, but nowhere else. Now she can do it consistently anywhere.

Women have to keep practicing their orgasm to get it down. A woman who can get off from sex in any position is a woman who has had a LOT of sex.

The concern is when a woman doesn't WANT to get off. This means she isn't TRYING to enjoy sex, and so she'll never enjoy it. A woman like this will gradually lose all interest in sex until she just stops having it.

once you start boning again; assuming the chicks output is worth it to you, you'll build your stamina back up. just tell her to be patient with you for a few weeks and she'll see the talent grow.

If she was a virgin than all bets are off. I'm going to assume that neither of you knew what you were doing. You have much to learn young grasshopper.

>Almost no women can get off from penetration ALONE.
words of wisdom.
>Women's orgasms are 100% mental.
now this is not right. By the arguments you present, every sensorial experience could be produced just by imagery and we know for fact they are not.

>5-10 times
Either you're a virgin who doesnt understand how sex works or you don't realise that she's faking it.

Lol.

Who's the virgin?

It's called jelqing fag look it up. Donno if it works though cuz I have a big dick.

This guy.... lol

I knew those titties looked "new." Good post user.

What size do you have?

You've obviously never given her a proper orgasm. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news.

My wife has never cum from penetration alone but she is also generally hard to get off except by anal stuff. If we are going to do anal I have to be very careful to not over stimulate her while warming her asshole up because if she cums too early she wont want to do anal. All women are different. If you want to build your endurance back up just work at it. Stupid working for nothing.

Unfortunately you have absolutely no idea what you are talking about

6.5 inches long
5 inches around

you sound like a straight faggot, end your life

so, i'm dating for about 6 months but fucked other girls, i can never last more than 20 minutes fucking her meanwhile when i fuck other bitches i do it for hours, what's my fucking problem?

Sorry fella. Truth hurts. When she has a proper one you'll know. And she won't be able to have 9 others in the same session.

who told you that my pic was her?
It's just a random pic I saved off Sup Forums.

Youve never given a woman multiple orgasms? Wow, very sad.

thin dick

Try fucking an actual female, not some dude with a chopped off dick and a fake vag.

Like i say, when you finally have sex with a woman or get good at it with the one you're with, you'll understand how it works.

Not the guy you were responding to, but you do realize that a lot of women can and do have multiple orgasms in one session, right?

she might have "overstretched" hers, bro. No worries.

Lol. Whatever you say professor.

About two thirds of women cannot come from sex alone, any kind, no matter the size. Their G spot is asleep, and unless they work on it, they won't feel much from within their vaginas.

It isn't men's fault. They can't even make themselves come with dildos.

Stfu u fucking virgin

(He doesn't know. Apparently he makes pussies explode when they cum)

no man, the 3 women he fucked in all of his life couldnt have multiple orgasms so all women cant

kek

Dudes why wouldnt you go down and eat that pussy its fun as fuck and while youre down there you can play with her all you want and when she starts cumming dont stop keep it up till she is almost convulsing then you put the dick it and rail her hardcore missile dick style. She will cum again while you missile dick her. Then you finish. Then you become best dick she ever had. Seriously ive mastered it. Donald trump should be calling me rocket man.

You sure, were a trashy boyfiend
Dont blame her for not being able to cum you retard, play with her clit

When ever i fuck my sister ahe doesnt cum. How do i make my sister cum? Should i start calling her mommy? Or is that too incesty?

As a woman I can assure you that is incredibly false lmao

My wife said that she couldn’t orgasm from penetration alone, I have definitely made her orgasm a lot. Two of the girls we have had threesomes with on separate occasions said the same thing, we made them cum for sure. It’s just you op, sorry.

>As a woman

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This. Yes

K

My ex would sometimes come but I bad to fuck her like a bear for and hour or more till she Did, my current girlfriend doesn't cum but I've slept with some other slut before who came like 6 times in 20 minutes some girls cum some don't, I wouldn't trip bout it at least you get your rocks off

tfw my partners have all cum through penetration

Tits or gtfo

does edging actually work though?

>almost no women can get off by penetration

This is true. None of my friends or any women Ive know have actually had an orgasm that way. If anyone’s been with a lot of girls and they seemed to have an orgasm from just penetration every time then they were most likely just pretending it to satisfy you, because it’s awkward to say they didn’t. Guys expect girls to cum from just sex and I don’t get why most of them lie instead of just finding other ways.
It’s literally just physically impossible for most women.
If anyone wants to fail proof get a girl off during penetration just use a vibrator on her and she’ll cum, you might even cum at the same time if you time it right.

She has a fucking clitoris... Should've made your girl cum user

Or you're one of the dumb sluts who can't get off without a vibrator. Grats on ruining your sex life by getting addicted to toys.

Tits or GTFO

How are you sure she wasn’t faking it to not hurt your feelings ?

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The waterfall is usually a clue.
But you'd know that if you weren't a cucked fag.

Agree

You just have to make sex fun. When a woman is able to let her hair down and get into a comfort zone, when it comes to sex, things become easier.

Lmao why have I been hearing so much about guy kegels lately. I didn’t even know that was a thing

What a dipshit. Just eat lick and rub that clit until she either cums or forces your dick in there.

Lmao,
Yup I guess I would

she came every time you idiots - just not from penetration

I'm pretty good with my hands.

3-4 real leg shaking orgasms is the best I've been able to do.

my gf spazzed out for an entire minute, arching her back. feels good meng

Sex is WRONG! Sex is IMMORAL! Sex should be BANNED and made ILLEGAL. Casual sex / hook up culture is to blame! The world needs to be changed into novel '1984', including the creation of 'anti-sex leagues'. Only reproduction through IVF. Sex Ed should be BANNED and made ILLEGAL. If we do not talk about it, it does not happen

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Damn people. Hitachi Magic Wand. Get one, apply liberally, rail like mad.
Stop pretending to be a cave man and embrace technology.

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>If we do not talk about it, it does not happen

They don't talk about casual sex in communist china. Yet they had to restrict the birth rates of their people on a government level.

There's a secret technique.

I will share it with you now.

It's called "Rub her clit while you fuck her."

*ninja vanish*

Doesn't really matter user, you should have just worked on foreplay and oral at first and then by the time its your turn to get off, she'll have already done so.

You all have absolutely no fucking idea how easy it is to fake it.

My boyfriend would leave me if he knew the truth, size matters but love matters more.

OP every girl is different. Two exes came very quick and easy and once I got them going there was no end to it. Man that was the shit. One of them was petite, innocent, pale and as soon as i edged her a few times by stimulating her clit I could just enter my penis, start pounding her and making her shiver from one orgasm to the other without having to stop. Dude it hurts right now thinking about how I will never have this again.

because my actual gf, which I will propably wife because of her awesomeness, only cums from actual penetration of her pussy.
but here is something actually interesting:
before we got together she told me about her awesome sex life with her ex and that this was the best shit ever. as soon as we startet to fuck, I got to notice she never atually really had an orgasm in her life, despite the hard sex she had and that she was into. and boy did I had a very hard time to make her cum. because it didn't work. all the tricks I learned, i used everything that was in my book, nothing happened.

now we're together for almost two years and she developed some really really serious love for me. Now she can actually let go. made her have her first orgasm a few months ago (she's 21) and when we fuck now, I can make her cum one time at least everytime and sometimes a second time more.

tl;dr every girl is different, was impossible to make my current gf cum until she really loved me and could actually enjoy our time and let go

1. do her doggy style, so the rubbing of you penis stimulates the g-spot. Or do her reverse cowgirl style same result

2. Do her like pic related. This position curves the vagina allowing you to hit different pleasure spots in the vagina.

>reverse cowgirl
there speaks the virgin
yeah it looks good for you but its one of the most uncomfortable positions for the girl. waay too much work for her, especially if that's supposed to be a tip for a girl that has problems to get off

faget

You have to do foreplay, women are all about that, even if they say stupid hilarious shit like "i'm daddy's little slut bitch" or something you still gotta do it, it'll get them closer.

>women are all about that

not all of them. once had a bitch that wanted to get used and abused. forcing it down her throat to get some lube on it and immediatly putting it in her pussy to just use her as my cumbucket without caring about what she felt made her cum the most. had to be careful the first 1-2 minutes tho to not injure her not-yet-expanded vagina that needs arousal to stretch

Am I a bad gf for not faking orgasms? After a while I just tell my bpyfriend "sorry but I'm not gonna cum from this" and then finish getting him off

Am I a dick for saying that? Should I just fake an orgasm instead?

If your dick is smaller, then you need to work a lil harder in the bedroom, learn how to really please them.

If you go about putting in minimal effort in sex, it's going to suck, and when a chick isn't that into the sex then what's the point?

Glorified flesh-light masturbation at that point

as a guy in a five year relationship and still having great sex, no, you shouldn't fake it. that way, you encourage the guy to think that he's doing it right, when really he doesn't.

>2.
a favorite

>sorry but I'm not gonna cum from this
holy keks my sides

no you stupid floozie, you should tell him what he needs to do better, what the hell

Girls want to be dominated and forced it's basically the same thing.
No, if you do that, when you get into an argument you'll say it and it'll cut deep.

I’d say honesty is better. Tell him to use a vibe on you at the same time. That way it’s more fun for both of you.

sensing a theme here

Why are people only blaming the guy for bad sex and not the girl?

A lot of women require stimulation outside of physical stimulation. Romantic and intimate stimulation. Does she like her neck kissed? Does she like a deep kiss? Does she like her ear lobes licked? Does he like a dirty or sweet whisper in her ear? Does she like her nipples played with? Does she want you to look at her longingly? Women's orgasms are based more off subtle queues than full on dick ramming. Some women are able to get off from that. They definitely exist, but that's not all of them. Spend some time trying to figure out things you can do that doesn't involve just lasting longer or pounding harder. The majority of women aren't being kept from orgasm because of dick size.