Hey Sup Forums

Hey Sup Forums
Asking you fags this question is probably pointless, but even getting a few keks outta the situation would make it worth it.
I've got a gf who I love like crazy, sex is great, her family is great, getting out together is great. So overall I love our relationship.
Here's the trouble, I've got the urge to fuck other women. I've never cheated on her and (unless she was okay with it) will never if I'm in a right state of mind.
To satisfy this I occasionally get off with strangers on Omegle and such (text version typically) and I never expose my actual name or where I live.
Tell me Sup Forums, should I stop? Am I cheating?

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Your gf if she finds out. she is gonna consider it cheating. let that sink in.

this.

Cut it out. you got a winner and you're not going to appreciate it until you fuck it up.

Thanks for the actual advice. Wasn't expecting to get any.
I can pass omegle and shit up, but I'm even getting dreams of fucking other women. How the fuck do I get rid of that urge?

Just don't let her find out. But no, unless you actually stick your cock in another girl it's not cheating

Just don't let her find out. But no, unless you actually stick your cock in another girl it's not cheating

-azhdown


Lol I forgot to put my name :p

I think the trick would be to talk to your gf and explain that you need a small break. That you have some things going on in your personal life that you need to sort out and you want her to trust you to do it.

Then, God willing, she's on board and has trust/faith in you. Then, you go out and STAY FAITHFUL. But spend some time away. Enough to realize what you have. You'll miss her, and appreciate what you're risking by doing that online shit. Then, when you come back, you won't be as tempted because you know what hell you're going to enter if she's out of your life.

Think of it as #nofap but double it up with #nocommunication. That shit will feel like withdrawal.

I've already had 2 near splitting events with her, one was because she'd pulled some stupid shit where she got angry at me and felt guilty enough to want to split so It didn't happen again.
Second time it was for the reason I'm still dealing with. At this point I've already done that shit twice and I'm well aware of what I'm risking, hence why I asked here. Unfortunately I just can't seem to overcome the urge to do it.

You heartless fuck. Some people would kill for a girlfriend and here you are gloating about being a cheater.

Why not talk to your gf about it and see if you can't make it a kink?

There are plenty of couples who go to the same bar and rp as strangers, hitting on each other for the "first time."

Maybe have her change up her hair and style so it feels like someone else.

That kind of urge tends to die in time. There aren't many things you can do to make it "go away." You just gotta rub it out or w/e until you don't want it anymore. Lay off porn too. It'll put fantasies in your head.

Upgrade your sex. Get so kinky with her no other woman comes close. W/e you gotta do. Counseling. W/e it takes.

lol. this is why you're alone you fucking cuck

>pretending not to be alone on Sup Forums
You're pathetic. Really. Die you slut.

You just need to uphold your willpower, easier said then done

>OP asks how to stop himself from "cheating"
>White knight accuses of gloating

This ain’t a half bad idea OP, also maybe convince her to take on different roles in the bedroom than she’s used to like being more aggressive or submissive, or just change her mannerisms up to where she’s pretending to be a different person than she usually is. Don’t listen to that one user about taking a break though, that’s the worst fucking move any relationship can make.

Fuck, talking about this fag

It's funny, cause I'm the user that suggested both.

I'm just trying to get him to pick ANY angle besides "Let's do it anyway and hope it works out." Some obviously would work better than others, but not everyone is willing to do everything.

Plus, didn't know they split before. Maybe I'll sign my shit from now on. - T

Well fuck, this is a good point. Probably should've mentioned the fact that her and I met while doing a school play.
Makes life a lot easier
- OP

>Whiteknight.

I'm probably more anti-feminazi than you can ever be you little bitch. What I am against is cheating. Seriously, fucking kill yourself you STD producing whore.

Jerk off more. You'll be bored with the idea of variety after. Hormones send chemical signals to tell your brain to look for variety

Any ideas stick with you, OP? Anything sounds like something you'd be willing to do, or might work out? Would help us brainstorm more with you.

Ha well damn, at least we’re half in agreement. I agree about keeping the options open though. Maybe it’d be best for OP to consider eneveything in this thread and then talk to his girl about the issue and see if she has any susggetions of her own to add? Gotta be really careful with that conversation though, make it apparent that this is a struggle for you and you really want to put her feelings first because you’re committed to the relationship.

Amen. You have to pick apart every word that comes out of your mouth BEFORE you say it or you're only going to shoot yourself in the foot.

If you don't have the skill for that, the best you could do is get a trusted 3rd party involved. Someone more on your "side" than hers. Like a best friend, or maybe one of her parents who ADORES you. That sort of setup. You talk to them, figure out what to say and how you want to say it, and almost have them mediate the conversation. Sometimes that can be the difference. It really comes down to your own skills and your gf's personality if you want to go that route, assuming it's available at all.

Idk what else to tell you off the top of my head atm. Just be prepared to ride out that fantasy and never achieve it. That may be the worst case scenario, but it's a billion times better than losing out on a good woman.

-T

Forgot to sign

she a virgin before you OP?

If yes, don't you dare fuck that up cunt, appreciate the shit out of that

However, if no then go ahead a fuck some bitchs. If she wanted loyalty, she shouldn't have whored herself out.

I'm in the 2nd category and justif all fucked up shit I do

Definitely the roleplaying bit. I don't think it'd need much working out. I'm positive that if I were to stop my omegle habit here I could get rid of my desires fairly quickly.
She's a goddamn freak, and as such roleplaying could probably satisfy my urges and make our sex life more interesting.

Good. On top of that, get some toys, some outfits. Go all out. Make it a thing. Not just that, but do some non-sex stuff too. Romance her. Enjoy things like movie nights on the couch, or a nice dinner, picnics. The whole nine. Things like that-- the memories, the love, will go much further for keeping your urges in check that just "she fucks me better than a stranger."

Lastly, get a keepsake. Something physical you can look down at and remind you of her. You'd be surprised how often a wedding ring keeps my friends in check when they're about to go astray. For you, maybe chains, or non-wedding rings, a photo in your wallet ,doesn't matter. Just something you see daily and keep on your person.

-T

Thanks a fuckton dude, I honestly didn't expect to find someone as decent as you on one of the shittier places on the internet. Already on the keepsake shit, I'll make sure I introduce the subject of kinks later on.

are you 12y? every man has desire for other women

My pleasure. Have a going away present.

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Be good to her, bro. Life is full of enough regrets, don't make more of your own.

I don't get it, why do people feel such a need to cheat? Why can't you be loyal dogs and not snakes?

Why do people eat themselves into obesity?

Why do some people beat their spouses?

Why are some people driven to suicide?

Why do some people spend 90% of the time their awake online?

Everyone has their vices. Everyone is fighting their own private war in their heads. It isn't our place to judge. Not really. Just do your best to make each other's lives a little easier and hope you're blessed enough that someone does the same for you sometime.

-T

If you're done with this thread op, NSFW booty dump?

NSFW booty dump, R34. Couldn't really care T, knock yourself out.
- OP

The man has spoken!

Also, you like the albums? I got good taste, right? :)

-T

OP has declared this a NSFW Booty dump. Get in here, fags! Albums here:

They're great T. Nice variety too.
- OP

Do me a favor. You decide you wanna bounce ideas off anyone again, shoot a message to that imgur profile. I got you. I wanna see how this all plays out tbh, and we can all use a hand now and again, right?
Captchas are here so I'm done. Stay cool everyone.
Meantime, MO BOOTY.